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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

I am not going to name names, but a good while ago I chatted to a young woman on a dating site. She was nice enough but the connection just wasn't there, no spark so no dates.

Today she walked into my fucking work, told me she had tried several different leisure centres but had finally managed to track me down!

I have a whole new appreciation for the absolute nightmares people face using online dating sites. This must be what it feels like to be attractive, and worth stalking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow that's a new kind of scary.

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Why post this? Sure everyone knows what you work at now.

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

...and he's worth stalking!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why post this? Sure everyone knows what you work at now."

starting a new job next week...any nuts wanting to stalk me will have to act quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why post this? Sure everyone knows what you work at now."

Yea but not everyone is going to go from leisure centre to leisure centre looking for him

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

That was handy having a new job lined up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was handy having a new job lined up!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That was handy having a new job lined up!"

new job has been months of work paying off brilliantly...timing couldn't have been better though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was handy having a new job lined up!

new job has been months of work paying off brilliantly...timing couldn't have been better though"

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

she was a very low tech or dare i say backward stalker what with the power of the Internet these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman on another dating site went around every leisure centre just to find you even though there wasn't a connection! Are you that, and please don't take offence, stupid that you expect us to believe this? Absolute bullshit mate. Get a grip you're a grown man ffs

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By *iss SadisticWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere


"A woman on another dating site went around every leisure centre just to find you even though there wasn't a connection! Are you that, and please don't take offence, stupid that you expect us to believe this? Absolute bullshit mate. Get a grip you're a grown man ffs "

I can believe a women would do this. Us womens, we're all bat shit crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman on another dating site went around every leisure centre just to find you even though there wasn't a connection! Are you that, and please don't take offence, stupid that you expect us to believe this? Absolute bullshit mate. Get a grip you're a grown man ffs

I can believe a women would do this. Us womens, we're all bat shit crazy. "

I believe you, nice lady

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"A woman on another dating site went around every leisure centre just to find you even though there wasn't a connection! Are you that, and please don't take offence, stupid that you expect us to believe this? Absolute bullshit mate. Get a grip you're a grown man ffs "

Yep. I call bullshit too.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Two questions:

Did you fuck her even though there was no spark?

What did she want from you when she walked into your work place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful. I hope you gave out shit to her and made it clear that you do not want to see her again and to never come near you again.

If a guy did this to a girl and they posted it on the forums the replies would be completely different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's awful. I hope you gave out shit to her and made it clear that you do not want to see her again and to never come near you again.

If a guy did this to a girl and they posted it on the forums the replies would be completely different.

"

plenty of psycho women out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's awful. I hope you gave out shit to her and made it clear that you do not want to see her again and to never come near you again.

If a guy did this to a girl and they posted it on the forums the replies would be completely different.

plenty of psycho women out there"

And plenty of psycho men too but the reaction to it is terrible. I'd freak out if a guy turned up at my work and I'd be straight to the Garda. It's not acceptable behaviour and being told to grow a pair is stupid. She did something wrong and he's every right to be freaked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people just have zero common sense or cop on and cannot take a hint . I hope you frog marched her off the premises and told her never to contact you again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's awful. I hope you gave out shit to her and made it clear that you do not want to see her again and to never come near you again.

If a guy did this to a girl and they posted it on the forums the replies would be completely different.

plenty of psycho women out there

And plenty of psycho men too but the reaction to it is terrible. I'd freak out if a guy turned up at my work and I'd be straight to the Garda. It's not acceptable behaviour and being told to grow a pair is stupid. She did something wrong and he's every right to be freaked. "

I agree wholeheartedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitches be craaaayyyy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two questions:

Did you fuck her even though there was no spark?

What did she want from you when she walked into your work place? "

Maybe she just wanted her pants back?

(Her 'special' pair)

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Two questions:

Did you fuck her even though there was no spark?

What did she want from you when she walked into your work place?

Maybe she just wanted her pants back?

(Her 'special' pair) "

Exactly, one needs to know the circumstances to get a clear picture of the case. There are always 3 sides to a story.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

crazy women are known to be freaks in bed op you missed out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two questions:

Did you fuck her even though there was no spark?

What did she want from you when she walked into your work place?

Maybe she just wanted her pants back?

(Her 'special' pair)

Exactly, one needs to know the circumstances to get a clear picture of the case. There are always 3 sides to a story. "

Do you have a special pair?.......

Or will I give you mine

#freebie

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Two questions:

Did you fuck her even though there was no spark?

What did she want from you when she walked into your work place?

Maybe she just wanted her pants back?

(Her 'special' pair)

Exactly, one needs to know the circumstances to get a clear picture of the case. There are always 3 sides to a story.

Do you have a special pair?.......

Or will I give you mine

#freebie "

Can I have a look at yours and then decide?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

That's awful....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two questions:

Did you fuck her even though there was no spark?

What did she want from you when she walked into your work place?

Maybe she just wanted her pants back?

(Her 'special' pair)

Exactly, one needs to know the circumstances to get a clear picture of the case. There are always 3 sides to a story.

Do you have a special pair?.......

Or will I give you mine

#freebie

Can I have a look at yours and then decide? "

Ok, I'm wearing them now.....

Oh and I'm outside your workplace!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Two questions:

Did you fuck her even though there was no spark?

What did she want from you when she walked into your work place?

Maybe she just wanted her pants back?

(Her 'special' pair)

Exactly, one needs to know the circumstances to get a clear picture of the case. There are always 3 sides to a story.

Do you have a special pair?.......

Or will I give you mine

#freebie

Can I have a look at yours and then decide?

Ok, I'm wearing them now.....

Oh and I'm outside your workplace!

"

Cum into my gingerbread house, Fooey! The door is open....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two questions:

Did you fuck her even though there was no spark?

What did she want from you when she walked into your work place?

Maybe she just wanted her pants back?

(Her 'special' pair)

Exactly, one needs to know the circumstances to get a clear picture of the case. There are always 3 sides to a story.

Do you have a special pair?.......

Or will I give you mine

#freebie

Can I have a look at yours and then decide?

Ok, I'm wearing them now.....

Oh and I'm outside your workplace!

Cum into my gingerbread house, Fooey! The door is open.... "

Nom Nom Nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two questions:

Did you fuck her even though there was no spark?

What did she want from you when she walked into your work place?

Maybe she just wanted her pants back?

(Her 'special' pair)

Exactly, one needs to know the circumstances to get a clear picture of the case. There are always 3 sides to a story. "

Then there's the bystanders too lol.... salted or sugared?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's awful. I hope you gave out shit to her and made it clear that you do not want to see her again and to never come near you again.

If a guy did this to a girl and they posted it on the forums the replies would be completely different.

plenty of psycho women out there

And plenty of psycho men too but the reaction to it is terrible. I'd freak out if a guy turned up at my work and I'd be straight to the Garda. It's not acceptable behaviour and being told to grow a pair is stupid. She did something wrong and he's every right to be freaked. "

All this ^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alright, here's the full story. Frankly I have to say the responses would be a lot different if a woman had experienced the same thing from a man.

I chatted to her on pof where I told her I worked at a local leisure centre. She was attractive and friendly enough but the chat just sort of fizzled out and we didn't really click so we did not meet at all for a date. In fact I deleted my pof account as the site is shit.

10 days later (i.e. yesterday) she walks into my place of work, asks to see me. I take her to one side, explained I was not interested and that she was acting very strange by turning up at my place of work.

She apologised, I asked her to leave and hopefully that's the last I will see of her. Oh, and I am telling no one online where I work ever again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have watched some of my lovely normal funny girl friends turn full on bat shit crazy on that pof.

"Whys he online ????" Eh probably the same reason your on line Hun!!

He said he wants a relationship- which is interpreted as he wants to marry me within 6 months and have babies.

I've tried the pof thing but my conclusion is fab is just more straight forward. There is no need to tell fibs to get a girl into bed as that's her only objective. Much simpler!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have watched some of my lovely normal funny girl friends turn full on bat shit crazy on that pof.

"Whys he online ????" Eh probably the same reason your on line Hun!!

He said he wants a relationship- which is interpreted as he wants to marry me within 6 months and have babies.

I've tried the pof thing but my conclusion is fab is just more straight forward. There is no need to tell fibs to get a girl into bed as that's her only objective. Much simpler! "

..like your thinking...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Alright, here's the full story. Frankly I have to say the responses would be a lot different if a woman had experienced the same thing from a man.

I chatted to her on pof where I told her I worked at a local leisure centre. She was attractive and friendly enough but the chat just sort of fizzled out and we didn't really click so we did not meet at all for a date. In fact I deleted my pof account as the site is shit.

10 days later (i.e. yesterday) she walks into my place of work, asks to see me. I take her to one side, explained I was not interested and that she was acting very strange by turning up at my place of work.

She apologised, I asked her to leave and hopefully that's the last I will see of her. Oh, and I am telling no one online where I work ever again lol"

Now we get a clearer picture. I agree with you that if you were a woman the responses might have been different. However had you outlined the whole story a bit more from the beginning the responses might have been different altogether too. Being long enough on fab, I heard all sorts of things and many stories took a u-turn when digging a bit deeper.

It's certainly not on to stalk someone and it's not a topic to joke about. I hope it ends there and now for you. And I'm glad to read that you learned a lesson yourself. Never give out personal information to a person you have never met in your life.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

Awe ....come here to the Apples boy ......make it all better....there ..there.....don't be telling fruit loops too much about ya .....you' ll be fine ......cuddle cuddle cuddle. ...blah blah blah......

Feel better ?

Apples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The craziness of some people is just....

Crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being more careful with personal security might also apply - nice, gender neutral approach - be aware with whom and when you share contact info.

as a married bloke playing away I've always been super discreet with my data, for the obvious reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a women really wants to know something they would find it out.

Discreet or not, its in our dna lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a women really wants to know something they would find it out.

Discreet or not, its in our dna lol "

Ain't that the fecking truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a women really wants to know something they would find it out.

Discreet or not, its in our dna lol

Ain't that the fecking truth "

Its too easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a women really wants to know something they would find it out.

Discreet or not, its in our dna lol

Ain't that the fecking truth

Its too easy "

Some people just make it too easy tbh. If you can't keep up with your lies don't lie. If you lie you have to remember every single lie you told and make lies to cover other lies. If you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing happened to me, op. It's absolutely awful, not to mention freaky and scary! Only good thing is it will teach you a valuable life lesson for the future. There's some bat shit crazies alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi hun fancy meeting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi hun fancy meeting xx"
I think the op only wants to meet girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi hun fancy meeting xxI think the op only wants to meet girls "

Ya never know with all the 'straight' fellas here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi hun fancy meeting xxI think the op only wants to meet girls

Ya never know with all the 'straight' fellas here "
This is very true lol

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Great to see responses relate to op statement & move away from the initial 'jump on this & bitch' that it initially started with.

(& for d guy who's asking 'if u want to meet up Hun' please stop posting this on other ppls forums, 3times now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great to see responses relate to op statement & move away from the initial 'jump on this & bitch' that it initially started with.

(& for d guy who's asking 'if u want to meet up Hun' please stop posting this on other ppls forums, 3times now) "

Ahhhh poor chap just wants the roide

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D


"

Ahhhh poor chap just wants the roide "

Lol he's def goin about it the right way so, randomly throwing out the line & hoping he'll catch a fish

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

Never be surprised how motivated crazy people can be !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never be surprised how motivated crazy people can be !!!"

I prefer to be called high maintenance

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk


"Never be surprised how motivated crazy people can be !!!

I prefer to be called high maintenance "

You do kick-boxing right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never be surprised how motivated crazy people can be !!!

I prefer to be called high maintenance

You do kick-boxing right?"

Whats that got to do with anything ??

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk


"Never be surprised how motivated crazy people can be !!!

I prefer to be called high maintenance

You do kick-boxing right?

Whats that got to do with anything ?? "

Martial arts skills + High maintenance

plus great tits !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol alot more to me than that but ye, thats a start

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

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"Lol alot more to me than that but ye, thats a start "

Im a fan of all three. Tell me more

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