FabSwingers.com forum: delete or freeze

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've met someone not from fab she's totally honest very beautiful so do I delete or freeze been honest I'm thinking delete so I can be honest wats yr thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete...

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Hide account (or as you described it freeze)

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Will she fit in the freezer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hide account (or as you described it freeze)

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delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete if your serious, it removes temptation

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Ask her!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Will she fit in the freezer?

Don't be a dick I'm been honest as fuck with my friends from ere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete. Don't waste your time

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Lol, that's me told!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met someone not from fab she's totally honest very beautiful so do I delete or freeze been honest I'm thinking delete so I can be honest wats yr thoughts

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if you do like this girl and you think you may have feelings for her you should not be asking people on here.if it happened to me I would certainly delete.be honest with yourself and true to her.if you find true love dont let it go so my advice is to delete.if it doesn't work out you can always come back.follow your heart.i wish you all the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've met someone not from fab she's totally honest very beautiful so do I delete or freeze been honest I'm thinking delete so I can be honest wats yr thoughts

if you do like this girl and you think you may have feelings for her you should not be asking people on here.if it happened to me I would certainly delete.be honest with yourself and true to her.if you find true love dont let it go so my advice is to delete.if it doesn't work out you can always come back.follow your heart.i wish you all the best."

Thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met someone not from fab she's totally honest very beautiful so do I delete or freeze been honest I'm thinking delete so I can be honest wats yr thoughts

Thanks mate "
now go and delete yourself asap and I realy do wish you all the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've met someone not from fab she's totally honest very beautiful so do I delete or freeze been honest I'm thinking delete so I can be honest wats yr thoughts

Thanks mate now go and delete yourself asap and I realy do wish you all the best."

Hey it's not that simple I met some really cool people some great people and it's my ex who has the plan will it work maybe but do I wanna start again no... Il think bout things ha ha it's tough wen it feels like your losing a gf deleting fab a reliable gf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol, that's me told!

Back in your box Bosco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol, that's me told!

Back in your box Bosco

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I agree and close the fecking lid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol, that's me told!

Back in your box Bosco

I agree and close the fecking lid"

Ah...I'd not like to see Mikey out in the cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol, that's me told!

Back in your box Bosco

I agree and close the fecking lid

Ah...I'd not like to see Mikey out in the cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete. It's easy to come back if things don't work out.

Good luck, whatever you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete. It's easy to come back if things don't work out.

Good luck, whatever you do

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thats what I said to him.

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

"Will she fit in the freezer?

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pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleting is easy but for guys especially it's difficult to get your veri's back and therefore even more difficult to get meets. I'd advise to hide profile and revisit in 3/4 months and make your decision then. After all, that's a really long time in the real world never mind fabworld.

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

Freeze.

Nothing is guaranteed in life.

Never regret anything, because at one time it was exactly what you wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freeze

Enough deleting and reappearing 20 minutes later posting "was here before , I know it all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will she fit in the freezer?

pmsl

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...she's his ex....of course she fits in the freezer. ...

shure what else would you do with them?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to give it a honest chance delete. If your unsure then freeze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will she fit in the freezer?

I lolled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you "freeze" then your not truly committing to the relationship though? Veris? You can get them back. Deleting cuts all ties and mentally commits to her. Freezing leaves Pandora's box open. (Queue jokes on who's Pandora)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you obviously do not like her enough to hit the delete button , so just freeze (hide) and save yourself the pain of joining again when it all goes tits up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't delete your profile straight away, instead hide your profile for a little while.... see how it goes with her first...... by the sounds of things you only just got together with her.....

Ask yourself a question though first:

Why did you & your ex break up before?? (you don't have to answer in here)

What is different about her now that wasn't there before....

After you answered those 2 questions, you & her should have a proper chinwag as to what you both want, be honest with her. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't delete your profile straight away, instead hide your profile for a little while.... see how it goes with her first...... by the sounds of things you only just got together with her.....

Ask yourself a question though first:

Why did you & your ex break up before?? (you don't have to answer in here)

What is different about her now that wasn't there before....

After you answered those 2 questions, you & her should have a proper chinwag as to what you both want, be honest with her. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you "freeze" then your not truly committing to the relationship though? Veris? You can get them back. Deleting cuts all ties and mentally commits to her. Freezing leaves Pandora's box open. (Queue jokes on who's Pandora) "

Has she got a box like a freezer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has she got a box like a freezer?

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...she opens her legs and a light comes on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has she got a box like a freezer?

...she opens her legs and a light comes on?"

well that looks like a light bulb, or a bumhole!

EUREKA!

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

"Has she got a box like a freezer?

Agreed. If she has one of those boxes in her jeans like a Volkswagen Beetle bonnet, I'd delete, thats a keeper.

If not then keep your options open and freeze, always have a plan A & B.

Regarding the fridge light coming on when you open the door.

Ask yourself this, how do you know its not when you close the door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DELETE. and best of luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think delete, if you're committed to this new relationship. Freezing only keeps the temptation at your fingertips.

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By *umwhore1Woman
over a year ago

Limerick/Tipperary

Delete. Best of luck with the relationship.

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By *iss SadisticWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere

You could just keep your account and not use it to find people to meet. Temptation is one thing abd giving into it is another .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From reading his posts I got the impression he's not in a relationship with the ex..... he obviously got together very recently & so he's trying to decide if he should continue dating her.....

..... I feel he should see how the dating thing goes with the ex for a few weeks first before deleting his account.....

..... I, in the opinion, feel that everybody is too quick to tell him to delete his account....

If he truly likes this person he won't be with anyone else but her so relax people!!

He's not being dishonest by not deleting his profile but if this girl asked him directly if he's on an adult site & he said no then that would be a lie.

That's my 2 cents worth!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From reading his posts I got the impression he's not in a relationship with the ex..... he obviously got together very recently & so he's trying to decide if he should continue dating her.....

..... I feel he should see how the dating thing goes with the ex for a few weeks first before deleting his account.....

..... I, in the opinion, feel that everybody is too quick to tell him to delete his account....

If he truly likes this person he won't be with anyone else but her so relax people!!

He's not being dishonest by not deleting his profile but if this girl asked him directly if he's on an adult site & he said no then that would be a lie.

That's my 2 cents worth!!

Meant to say in my opinion!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.

By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.

I'm speaking from some recent experience...and I still regret it but cannot turn back the clock. She was not only amazing person but she'd put anyone on fab second place with her looks smile and figure. I'd confided the same thing with some here on fab and they saw her and I didn't heed their advice. DELETE....she maybe a one off...we're all commoners on here

, I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's not being dishonest by not deleting his profile but if this girl asked him directly if he's on an adult site & he said no then that would be a lie.

Sorry but not being dishonest about having a profile because she never asked about it doesn't really cut it in my book (why would it even occur to her?) If you're honest about giving a relationship your best chance, you don't keep a back-up plan of which the other person is utterly unaware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.

By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.

, I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump

You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.

By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.

, I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump

You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best

Ah, not "second best", more that he wouldn't dream of having a relationship but you're good enough to fuck - different leagues altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete. Serious relationships shouldn't start with a plan B or a 'what if' mentality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.

By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.

, I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump

You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best

Ah, not "second best", more that he wouldn't dream of having a relationship but you're good enough to fuck - different leagues altogether

My mistake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.

By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.

, I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump

You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best

Nope....I haven't met everyone on fab, so without sounding condescending I think most would acknowledge that and not take a hump on that....as all women on here keep telling all the men....'there's someone on here for everyone ' and then the block delete or ignore or maybe meet for a few fucks.....then they'll go to someone else or fuck a few in between. They could be accused of doing that every day by their actions.

I don't think we need to be trying to get all moral and high horsed and nit picking on such a serious post. I do note though you had a similar go at me about another post.

I think anyone who has met me and actually knows me would know that there was no intent in how you've interpreted a few of my comments here and elsewhere.

Back to OP....go and get her and make sure she knows you're serious and don't have anything that a jealous fabber or non fabber ( they can view everything said on here remember) can use to mess it up for you deliberateor non deliberate. It's amazing what can be said over some innocent drinks with friends that can cause embarrassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute No Brainer - Delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.

By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.

, I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump

You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best

Ah, not "second best", more that he wouldn't dream of having a relationship but you're good enough to fuck - different leagues altogether

My mistake lol"

It's ok... I didn't see this till I'd posted my reply. Hope I haven't heaped fuel on the ambers....peace x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.

By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.

, I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump

You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best

I don't think we need to be trying to get all moral and high horsed and nit picking on such a serious post. I do note though you had a similar go at me about another post.

I think anyone who has met me and actually knows me would know that there was no intent in how you've interpreted a few of my comments here and elsewhere.

I had a go at you on another post? I don't remember but at least I'm consistant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.

By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.

, I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump

You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best

I don't think we need to be trying to get all moral and high horsed and nit picking on such a serious post. I do note though you had a similar go at me about another post.

I think anyone who has met me and actually knows me would know that there was no intent in how you've interpreted a few of my comments here and elsewhere.

I had a go at you on another post? I don't remember but at least I'm consistant"

...its an admirable trait.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

If you don't wanna delete your account why not get her to join and turn your profile into a couples profile and then you can have your cake and eat it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this relationship has only started in the last couple of days then show her your profile.

Say it was the way you were before meeting her and you are ready to shut it down and have a relationship with her giving full attention to her. Better to be fully honest now rather them bumping into someone in future

You have some very nice messages there on profile and you seem a really nice guy wish you all the best whatever you decide

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