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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that's 3 meets now out of 4 that was a last second cancelation. Seriously people why bother with the weeks of chit chat and flirting... Then just not turn up. Rant over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaaaaahhhhh .I traveled to my meet today,no show not even a text to say they were not coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

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By *uscious louWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Unfortunately that's part of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it "

Same as this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Same as this "

Also same as!!! Then comes the flood of shitty excuses and pleads to rearrange

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Same as this

Also same as!!! Then comes the flood of shitty excuses and pleads to rearrange "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's crappy but yep happens to us all unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will treat you all to a coffee at 3fe the next time am down in dublin

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Really?!? I can't believe people wouldn't want to meet you lot

I don't meet very often but thank god I choose wisely ....... Who am I kidding ..... I don't choose lol

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it "

Can't believe someone as sexy as you gets stood up at all, never mind 80% of the time!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

R ye planning them to far in advance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Same as this

Also same as!!! Then comes the flood of shitty excuses and pleads to rearrange "

Ah yea but ya it's not every day their goldfish does now is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"R ye planning them to far in advance? "

really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Same as this

Also same as!!! Then comes the flood of shitty excuses and pleads to rearrange

Ah yea but ya it's not every day their goldfish does now is it "

Lol no that's true. The worst excuse I've had is "you intimidate me" grow a set ffs

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it "

Have u tried tipping your barista?

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Lol Munster!

I've never had a no show..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had many excuses lately tbh. I can be guilty of cancelling myself but usually good reason for it.

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By *ortidanMan
over a year ago

Moira

I just put it down to their loss and move onto the next victim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Have u tried tipping your barista? "

Nope.. Don't drink coffee so they don't really deserve it now do they

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Have u tried tipping your barista?

Nope.. Don't drink coffee so they don't really deserve it now do they "

What!! Coffee is the reason so many of my team are still walking around with some of the nonsense they ask at the morning meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Have u tried tipping your barista?

Nope.. Don't drink coffee so they don't really deserve it now do they

What!! Coffee is the reason so many of my team are still walking around with some of the nonsense they ask at the morning meetings "

I hate the stuff. Hot chocolate or tea

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By *amollieCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

when some body does a no show just post it here on fab about them.Then there gone for good

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Lol Munster!

I've never had a no show.. "

Neither have i Ginger but have been messed around trying to organise one but lose interest once they start putting obstacles in the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's ridiculous... Anyone genuine then please msg us... We will definitely turn up for meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Same as this

Also same as!!! Then comes the flood of shitty excuses and pleads to rearrange

Ah yea but ya it's not every day their goldfish does now is it

Lol no that's true. The worst excuse I've had is "you intimidate me" grow a set ffs "

Got that already, oh my personal favourite- " my dad will go mad if he finds out" : she was 45

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol Munster!

I've never had a no show..

Neither have i Ginger but have been messed around trying to organise one but lose interest once they start putting obstacles in the way "

Lucky girls

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Lol Munster!

I've never had a no show..

Neither have i Ginger but have been messed around trying to organise one but lose interest once they start putting obstacles in the way "

I never had a no show either, but I had to cancel on two occasions myself. It can happen...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Same as this

Also same as!!! Then comes the flood of shitty excuses and pleads to rearrange

Ah yea but ya it's not every day their goldfish does now is it

Lol no that's true. The worst excuse I've had is "you intimidate me" grow a set ffs

Got that already, oh my personal favourite- " my dad will go mad if he finds out" : she was 45"

What!!!!!!!! Someone actually said that!? Jesus that's actually kinda pathetic

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Is it that bad here n some times I find it hard to get a meet . I've met one r 2 messers myself n had no shows but thank god I met a few nice people here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens...all too often I'm afraid....

.cancellations are just part n parcel of fab..even with genuine fabbers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem with excuses are they may be very genuine and yet the receiver feels let down and ego can creep in wither replies or girn'n.....It doesn't help fab to have this topic as a daily post. Sometimes it's good to accept and let it be. Makes people less cynical and their fore more open to coffee meets.

Yes there are some that are not genuine...I have more sympathy for those who struggle to get a meet...can be months for some and then it doesn't happen.....some spout about 10 or 15 meets planned and only 1 turns up.....nice if you can get 15 meets then really what's the problem, there are another 20 round the corner.

The forums are becoming more a place to just gripe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it

Same as this

Also same as!!! Then comes the flood of shitty excuses and pleads to rearrange

Ah yea but ya it's not every day their goldfish does now is it "
.....goldfish are family members too you know. ...they just forget every 3 seconds...thats all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say - always trust ur gut feeling. But real life does kick in and plans do have to get cancelled but as long as you give as much notice as possible genuine peeps do understand

But what's a coffee peeps - come on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that's 3 meets now out of 4 that was a last second cancelation. Seriously people why bother with the weeks of chit chat and flirting... Then just not turn up. Rant over!

"

I've never had a meet cancel yet,well so far,but anyone I've met so far are pure gents,, but I've had to cancel one or two myself but always in good reason, I'd never mess anyone around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that's 3 meets now out of 4 that was a last second cancelation. Seriously people why bother with the weeks of chit chat and flirting... Then just not turn up. Rant over!

I've never had a meet cancel yet,well so far,but anyone I've met so far are pure gents,, but I've had to cancel one or two myself but always in good reason, I'd never mess anyone around "

see...i knew this girl was a good un....

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"Well that's 3 meets now out of 4 that was a last second cancelation. Seriously people why bother with the weeks of chit chat and flirting... Then just not turn up. Rant over!

"

Something's not right there! Makes no sense.

I've never not shown up, and I've never had a no show.

Best wishes for your next attempt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol Munster!

I've never had a no show..

Neither have i Ginger but have been messed around trying to organise one but lose interest once they start putting obstacles in the way "

Me either but 2 cancellations at the last minute. That's a bye bye from me.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

I dont get it.. you ladies are stunning..sexy.. and i think yours chats and comments in the forums rock .. how someone stands you guys up is beyond me..i'd donate 1 of my brothers kidneys for coffe with yiz..

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I lost count of the no shows I've had over the years not to mention the ones that do show then insult me to my face and leave again as fast and some men wonder why it's difficult to get women to meet them you move on get over it yes but it can make you wary again on who you will meet or not in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be devastated if anything happened to the turtles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost count of the no shows I've had over the years not to mention the ones that do show then insult me to my face and leave again as fast and some men wonder why it's difficult to get women to meet them you move on get over it yes but it can make you wary again on who you will meet or not in future"

I'm speechless at that... I'm very sorry to hear that and understand why some become weary....I'm a bit gobsmacked that given the chance to meet you for coffee they turn nasty.

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

This is why I never travel far for meets. At least if your only a few miles from home and it's a no show you haven't wasted much time. This place is full of timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is why I never travel far for meets. At least if your only a few miles from home and it's a no show you haven't wasted much time. This place is full of timewasters. "

Well funny you mention it we're heading to Belfast soon lol

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"This is why I never travel far for meets. At least if your only a few miles from home and it's a no show you haven't wasted much time. This place is full of timewasters.

Well funny you mention it we're heading to Belfast soon lol"

Enjoy, there's lots to do here. X

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast


"This is why I never travel far for meets. At least if your only a few miles from home and it's a no show you haven't wasted much time. This place is full of timewasters.

Well funny you mention it we're heading to Belfast soon lol

Enjoy, there's lots to do here. X"

Do you mean lots of things or lots of people?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that's 3 meets now out of 4 that was a last second cancelation. Seriously people why bother with the weeks of chit chat and flirting... Then just not turn up. Rant over!

I've never had a meet cancel yet,well so far,but anyone I've met so far are pure gents,, but I've had to cancel one or two myself but always in good reason, I'd never mess anyone around

see...i knew this girl was a good un...."

Aaaw spank u

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"This is why I never travel far for meets. At least if your only a few miles from home and it's a no show you haven't wasted much time. This place is full of timewasters.

Well funny you mention it we're heading to Belfast soon lol

Enjoy, there's lots to do here. X

Do you mean lots of things or lots of people?! "

Both

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Reading trough this there's those that have had calculations those that don't and those that had to cancel them selves with good reason, real life does get in the way at times and while the reason may sound ridiculous to u it may be serious for the other person just move on and find the next victim

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"This is why I never travel far for meets. At least if your only a few miles from home and it's a no show you haven't wasted much time. This place is full of timewasters. "

Seems absolutely ridiculous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 posts about timewasters...and not one about pic collectors.. .this place has gone to the dogs..... (flounces out)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading trough this there's those that have had calculations those that don't and those that had to cancel them selves with good reason, real life does get in the way at times and while the reason may sound ridiculous to u it may be serious for the other person just move on and find the next victim "

Agree.

Judging by the regularity of some in the forums on this topic they can't move on or don't want to. It's a shame tbh as so much of the fab fun is then overlooked and lost for many members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50 posts about timewasters...and not one about pic collectors.. .this place has gone to the dogs..... (flounces out)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good job the forums only represent about 2% of the actual members.

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By *itrocoolMan
over a year ago

Cavan/Dublin

I had a limerick meet cancel on me not even a text or anything then at about 1am I get all the hot and heavy text and pictures so try to meet again and I get told my parents are home lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol Munster!

I've never had a no show.. "

Me either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good job the forums only represent about 2% of the actual members. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol Munster!

I've never had a no show.. "

I've never had one either.

That's pretty shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd nearly take a no show as opposed to no one talking at this stage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a no show either i have to say but i have had to cancel due to my kids been sick once r twice which is unfort but i did cancel as soon i knew and my kids always come first but really sorry to hear some of u guys r getting let down and messed about i how hard it is sometimes to get child minders etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing new unfortunately.. I'd say for every 10 coffees I arrange only 2 show up. Ya get used to it "
Yeah thats Fab. crappy childish excuses following 3days later. Next evergreen ..female part of couples is not available surprise surprise ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a no show either i have to say but i have had to cancel due to my kids been sick once r twice which is unfort but i did cancel as soon i knew and my kids always come first but really sorry to hear some of u guys r getting let down and messed about i how hard it is sometimes to get child minders etc"

Same here I have had to cancel occasionally one guy in particular still gives me plenty of stick about cancelling,blocked me and is often sarcastic when I comment here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical man hun probaly has no kids has no idea whats it like been a busy mum rise above him u put the kids first and there for u r a great mum xxx

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Same here I have had to cancel occasionally one guy in particular still gives me plenty of stick about cancelling,blocked me and is often sarcastic when I comment here.. "

He's sulking.... just Block him back!!

Yes it is terrible if one has to cancel but at least letting them know in time isn't unreasonable!

His loss.... you might have made it up to him at a subsequent meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a no show either i have to say but i have had to cancel due to my kids been sick once r twice which is unfort but i did cancel as soon i knew and my kids always come first but really sorry to hear some of u guys r getting let down and messed about i how hard it is sometimes to get child minders etc

Same here I have had to cancel occasionally one guy in particular still gives me plenty of stick about cancelling,blocked me and is often sarcastic when I comment here.. "

I have no shows or the not replying to texts efforts right before all the time I must be turning them off

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


" I have no shows or the not replying to texts efforts right before all the time I must be turning them off "

...or scaring them away??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have no shows or the not replying to texts efforts right before all the time I must be turning them off

...or scaring them away?? "

Probably I'll have to get the paper bag out again

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


" I have no shows or the not replying to texts efforts right before all the time I must be turning them off

...or scaring them away??

Probably I'll have to get the paper bag out again "

It's a shame that guys mess around organizing coffee meets etc with ladies and don't show!!

Probably busy wanking off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a no show either i have to say but i have had to cancel due to my kids been sick once r twice which is unfort but i did cancel as soon i knew and my kids always come first but really sorry to hear some of u guys r getting let down and messed about i how hard it is sometimes to get child minders etc

Same here I have had to cancel occasionally one guy in particular still gives me plenty of stick about cancelling,blocked me and is often sarcastic when I comment here..

I have no shows or the not replying to texts efforts right before all the time I must be turning them off "

That's mad, why bother going to the effort only to bottle it at the last minute? If it's nerves just show up and tell the truth, that's the best thing to do I think.

Their loss

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