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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies I had a few meets all went well here,any advice on my profile or why it's difficult to get meets? Most don't even read my messages is this due to the amount they receive?

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By *uscious louWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Probably is just getting too many messages nothing wrong with ur profile

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By *ubboyMan
over a year ago

kildare

Same here it's fucked up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably is just getting too many messages nothing wrong with ur profile "

So do I send more messages when they don't open them? Guess I won't be pestering them as they didn't open the previous message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heres the best tip i can give, only message a lady when theyre online. Chances are if theyre off line ur message will get lost in the droves of cock pics. I always attach some sort of decent pic too as they have a better chance of being read as well.

Doesnt always work this but ive noticed that i have def had more read than messaging when not on line.

Put something different in the title too as most of them will all say hi.lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "taken" part might put some people off, op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a look at your profile and it looks good to me, class pics...... I fab'd them!

Hang in there and all will come good

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

You're doing okay in the scheme of things, you have verifications. So it's probably the numbers game that's against you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women won't like your attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you're here 3 months with 4 verifications,

I'd say you're doing well TBH

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"A lot of women won't like your attached."

Won't necessarily agree there...there is someone for everyone here ......however perhaps lay off private messages to individual profiles and stick to witty forum post and status up date ...let you personality show ...Apples

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Profile is fine I think. You have three meet verifications in a month..... That's not bad going at all.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anything id like to ask op for advice.....your doing better than most of the men on here in half the time.whats your secret

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

I like your name. Since you're "taken and honest" may I suggest a couples profile with your missus. I think couples get a fair bit of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of women won't like your attached.

Won't necessarily agree there...there is someone for everyone here ......however perhaps lay off private messages to individual profiles and stick to witty forum post and status up date ...let you personality show ...Apples "

I personally don't care if someone is attached, just saying I know a lot that won't meet with attached men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one thing wrong would you really meet a 99 year old just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you cant complaine..you have got meets and profile looks fine!

Some guys is here like half year and no meets ;D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one thing wrong would you really meet a 99 year old just saying "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one thing wrong would you really meet a 99 year old just saying "

Said 99 year old could be a demon in the sack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one thing wrong would you really meet a 99 year old just saying

Said 99 year old could be a demon in the sack! "

Ya just never know lol

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Naas

Jasus OP based on your profile and Reviews you should be holding lessons and teaching the rest of us how to get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heres the best tip i can give, only message a lady when theyre online. Chances are if theyre off line ur message will get lost in the droves of cock pics. I always attach some sort of decent pic too as they have a better chance of being read as well.

Doesnt always work this but ive noticed that i have def had more read than messaging when not on line.

Put something different in the title too as most of them will all say hi.lol.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair to the OP some of his veris read from a previous occassion he was on here. Although if that is the case then you must have been doing something right at that stage

With regards to messages, you can't be totally sure a message is unread unless you're stalking your sent box; someone could have opened it and marked it unread to reply at a more suitable time. Site supportership is handy for letting you know if and when you've messaged someone and whether they replied or not.

The old adage of "if someone is going to reply they will" is the best advice I think, delete or just ignore your sent messages as fretting over their status is needless.

You have good pics, you are verified and there's nothing wrong with your profile text imo. Just keep being yourself, there's no copy and paste template as you'd rather attract those who are attracted to you and personality and not a generic profile.

Best of luck, not that we think you need it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Heres the best tip i can give, only message a lady when theyre online. Chances are if theyre off line ur message will get lost in the droves of cock pics. I always attach some sort of decent pic too as they have a better chance of being read as well.

Doesnt always work this but ive noticed that i have def had more read than messaging when not on line.

Put something different in the title too as most of them will all say hi.lol.

"

Cheers that's good advice, wouldn't bother me if they weren't interested like but it's annoying that they might be but don't read it ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile is fine I think. You have three meet verifications in a month..... That's not bad going at all.

Miss Mcjoy "

Can never have enough though miss _cjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like your name. Since you're "taken and honest" may I suggest a couples profile with your missus. I think couples get a fair bit of attention "

What is your beef with attached people being on here it's getting tiresome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only one thing wrong would you really meet a 99 year old just saying

Said 99 year old could be a demon in the sack! "

That's it 99 is only a number

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"Only one thing wrong would you really meet a 99 year old just saying

Said 99 year old could be a demon in the sack!

That's it 99 is only a number "

Agreed. ..plus grandpa is in his 90s and pretty good shape...then again I do have a thing for older men...

Apples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "taken" bit would be an instant delete for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like your name. Since you're "taken and honest" may I suggest a couples profile with your missus. I think couples get a fair bit of attention

What is your beef with attached people being on here it's getting tiresome "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to up my game these young bucks are taking over

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I need to up my game these young bucks are taking over "

Eh you had 37 meets think you are doing pretty well haha

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