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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can get to meet anyone. Tell them the truth keeps been thrown back in my face. Not like is been a week without. Going on 10yrs.....What can I do.

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By *ewbies201Couple
over a year ago

lisburn


"Can get to meet anyone. Tell them the truth keeps been thrown back in my face. Not like is been a week without. Going on 10yrs.....What can I do."

Already told you, get a divorce. No one feels sorry for you

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Ur not d only one on here I would say . Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer #1. The end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you confront your wife, be open and honest!

Tell her sex is an issue and if she dosent want it then you're going to go elsewhere.

Being cheated on is shit for anyone, better to be open and honest.

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

Ten years in a sexless marriage? You must be a hellufaluva..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously I don't know how you can go through life not being honest with yourself or your wife. If you want sex talk to her. If she doesn't want sex and you do the you need to decide is your marriage worth it if it's that important to you. You're a fully grown man with the ability to speak so use it.

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Maybe she just doesn't want sex with you. She might know that you want to cheat on her with anything that'll have ya and doesn't want you near her.

Or..

Maybe she has a profile out there somewhere and is getting her fill from plenty of other men.

Either talk to her and figure something out or leave her. Cheating on her isn't a good idea. And telling people on the internet that you're cheating on her isn't going to endear you to many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can get to meet anyone. Tell them the truth keeps been thrown back in my face. Not like is been a week without. Going on 10yrs.....What can I do."

Become a woman. Youll have no problems in here then.

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

Yeah, grow sone boobs, that may help. Ask the Lord to let it rain brain so you get equipped to tackle your situation.

If that is to much of an effort, spend a few bugs and fly to Amsterdam . They have beautiful gals sitting half naked in window shops, waiting desperatly for guys like you to offer their service.

Or start fishing at the other side of the river. Some MM play is very reliefing, after 10 years of no sex i guess it does not matter anymore.....ask the local priest how to deal with it...they certainly should have good knowledge for a sexless life

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can get to meet anyone. Tell them the truth keeps been thrown back in my face. Not like is been a week without. Going on 10yrs.....What can I do."

Since ur getting the usual abuse ill give some friendly advice, theres plenty of ladies on here will have fun with a married man and plenty of people in the same boat so ur married situation isnt the problem. Moaning about it is, no one likes people that play the poor me card. Ur in the situation ur in, do something about it or just get on with things. Then once ur not so hung up on poor me ull prob find u will have no problems with meeting someone on here for some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater "

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can get to meet anyone. Tell them the truth keeps been thrown back in my face. Not like is been a week without. Going on 10yrs.....What can I do.

Since ur getting the usual abuse ill give some friendly advice, theres plenty of ladies on here will have fun with a married man and plenty of people in the same boat so ur married situation isnt the problem. Moaning about it is, no one likes people that play the poor me card. Ur in the situation ur in, do something about it or just get on with things. Then once ur not so hung up on poor me ull prob find u will have no problems with meeting someone on here for some fun. "

Just add a little to this good advice....only a very very small % of fabbers use the forums...so you'll only get a very very very very small amount of advice....Most advice has been dished out by the same ones over the years. Use the green arrow on each profile to give you an indication of how they often reply in other posts too.

There are many women on here in the same boat...cheaters as someone else happily called them....but they're looking someone similar because you'll be more discrete than most single men. That then is mutually more acceptable in their eyes.

Keep looking and be patient.... It may take a few weeks or months but that snot long compared to 10 yrs. Chin up.

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon


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Since ur getting the usual abuse ill give some friendly advice, theres plenty of ladies on here will have fun with a married man and plenty of people in the same boat so ur married situation isnt the problem. Moaning about it is, no one likes people that play the poor me card. Ur in the situation ur in, do something about it or just get on with things. Then once ur not so hung up on poor me ull prob find u will have no problems with meeting someone on here for some fun.

Just add a little to this good advice....only a very very small % of fabbers use the forums...so you'll only get a very very very very small amount of advice....Most advice has been dished out by the same ones over the years. Use the green arrow on each profile to give you an indication of how they often reply in other posts too.

There are many women on here in the same boat...cheaters as someone else happily called them....but they're looking someone similar because you'll be more discrete than most single men. That then is mutually more acceptable in their eyes.

Keep looking and be patient.... It may take a few weeks or months but that snot long compared to 10 yrs. Chin up."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel."

I wonder would the poster be so venomous is the OP was a married woman. I suspect not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel.

I wonder would the poster be so venomous is the OP was a married woman. I suspect not"

Very true

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


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Just add a little to this good advice....only a very very small % of fabbers use the forums...so you'll only get a very very very very small amount of advice....Most advice has been dished out by the same ones over the years. Use the green arrow on each profile to give you an indication of how they often reply in other posts too.

There are many women on here in the same boat...cheaters as someone else happily called them....but they're looking someone similar because you'll be more discrete than most single men. That then is mutually more acceptable in their eyes.

Keep looking and be patient.... It may take a few weeks or months but that snot long compared to 10 yrs. Chin up."

There are plenty of ladies and couples that prefer a married guy simply because they aren't like a dog in heat trying to get a bit of pussy they can't get elsewhere, and can have a conversation with both partners, aren't afraid to play in front of both partners.

Many couples have met a single guy and all he will do is chat to female if having a drink and some only want to go to room with the female!

Chin up.....be more positive as there are people here who prefer married guys.

Similarly there are those that don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her that you want to fuck mate. Best case scenario she says she dosent want to but you can play away from home with her permission

Worst case scenario she tells you she has been fucking the neighbour For 10 years and is on a site called fabswingers

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

The reason some of us care about the cheating aspect is bc it's dishonest. But sure there's plenty that don't care bc they feel it has no direct effect on themselves personally. You'll get comments on both sides when you post a topic like this....and similar have been posted a lot recently.

You're going to run the risk off people's opinion when you post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can get to meet anyone. Tell them the truth keeps been thrown back in my face. Not like is been a week without. Going on 10yrs.....What can I do."

Move on... it's no good being stuck in a loveless marriage no matter what the reasons are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how the cheating women in here are conspicuous by their absence on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how the cheating women in here are conspicuous by their absence on this thread"

Funny how the condescending people did tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how the cheating women in here are conspicuous by their absence on this thread

Funny how the condescending people did tho. "

Did what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel.

I wonder would the poster be so venomous is the OP was a married woman. I suspect not"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how the cheating women in here are conspicuous by their absence on this thread

Funny how the condescending people did tho.

Did what?"

Show up on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel.

I wonder would the poster be so venomous is the OP was a married woman. I suspect not"

actually Id say the same to a married woman cheating yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel.

I wonder would the poster be so venomous is the OP was a married woman. I suspect not

actually Id say the same to a married woman cheating yep "

Well atleast ur consistent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel."

well this is the kind of advice your likely to get if you join a swingers site with the intention of cheating on your wife . Sure most fellas of this ilk think this IS a brothel , just without the pesky business of having to pay , fellas reading interest lists like they were reading a menu in a whorehouse and enquiring if a girl "will do " everything on her interst list . etc . dunno bout the rest of ye , but im here to enjoy sex with other openminded people , not help some fekker get a sneaky ride and pull the wool over his partners eyes thats not swinging .

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By *aywhatnowMan
over a year ago

North County


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel.

I wonder would the poster be so venomous is the OP was a married woman. I suspect not"

well said, a running theme it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel.

well this is the kind of advice your likely to get if you join a swingers site with the intention of cheating on your wife . Sure most fellas of this ilk think this IS a brothel , just without the pesky business of having to pay , fellas reading interest lists like they were reading a menu in a whorehouse and enquiring if a girl "will do " everything on her interst list . etc . dunno bout the rest of ye , but im here to enjoy sex with other openminded people , not help some fekker get a sneaky ride and pull the wool over his partners eyes thats not swinging . "

You dont seem very open minded yourself giving off about some fecker looking a sneaky ride, and most of us fellas thinking its a brothel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel.

well this is the kind of advice your likely to get if you join a swingers site with the intention of cheating on your wife . Sure most fellas of this ilk think this IS a brothel , just without the pesky business of having to pay , fellas reading interest lists like they were reading a menu in a whorehouse and enquiring if a girl "will do " everything on her interst list . etc . dunno bout the rest of ye , but im here to enjoy sex with other openminded people , not help some fekker get a sneaky ride and pull the wool over his partners eyes thats not swinging .

You dont seem very open minded yourself giving off about some fecker looking a sneaky ride, and most of us fellas thinking its a brothel."

im just giving my opinion based on my observations as a woman on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

p. s , im not married , not cheating and if you read what i wrote properly youd see my comment referring to men of this ilk was aimed at married cheating men ONLY and not to other members of the site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and another married man cheating on his wife discovers that shock horror swingers often have morals and are unwilling to aid and abet him in his pursuit of a bit of skirt . respectfully suggest the services of an escort might be more suited than a site full of swingers , because everyone knows swinger does not automatically equal spineless cheater

Respectfully suggesting the services of an escort???? Seriously like , the chaps looking advice not to be pushed into a brothel.

well this is the kind of advice your likely to get if you join a swingers site with the intention of cheating on your wife . Sure most fellas of this ilk think this IS a brothel , just without the pesky business of having to pay , fellas reading interest lists like they were reading a menu in a whorehouse and enquiring if a girl "will do " everything on her interst list . etc . dunno bout the rest of ye , but im here to enjoy sex with other openminded people , not help some fekker get a sneaky ride and pull the wool over his partners eyes thats not swinging .

You dont seem very open minded yourself giving off about some fecker looking a sneaky ride, and most of us fellas thinking its a brothel.

im just giving my opinion based on my observations as a woman on this site "

Your entitled to ur opinion like everyone else on here , i read ur last post aswell it just wasnt very clear that it was ONLY married men. Do u want to hug this out .lol

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