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By *ilg41 OP   Man
over a year ago

schticks

What do you do with someone who simply will not show their veri's - yet keeps mailing you??

I think it's dodgy as fuck! 7 veri's - one public - I get some people may not want to show them all cos they have slep with the whole site and thats fine, but if someone asks you to show them publicly for a few mins so you can have a quick look I dont think it's too much to ask!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on. No good badgering someone.

I wouldn't open my veri's up to anyone I don't know/trust, either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do with someone who simply will not show their veri's - yet keeps mailing you??

I think it's dodgy as fuck! 7 veri's - one public - I get some people may not want to show them all cos they have slep with the whole site and thats fine, but if someone asks you to show them publicly for a few mins so you can have a quick look I dont think it's too much to ask!!"
......there's a woman on here that keeps mailing you? Hide you're pet rabbit's...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect their preference and privacy, I'd say. Just move on if it bothers you, like any other characteristic of a profile that you may not like; like face pic with first message etc

For what it's worth I only have a few of mine on display but haven't slept with the whole site..

I do feel it's beneficial as a single guy to have a few displayed for people to 'check'. However, others prefer to keep their meets between themselves and those they have met; as so long as you know you're having fun, what's it matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be that the other people who have left verifications have left the site since but they will still show up in the verification summary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pete25, spot on as usual.

It is simply none of your business to see their veris. Totally their perogative as to if they display or not.

Also, hardly think with 7 meets they are likely to be dodgy.

If it a bug bearer of yours, then move on. Personally can't understand why they would keep mailing you. I wouldn't...you obviously are not making yourself understood

And on a personal note, I neither display my summary or my veris, doesn't mean I slept with all the site...just means I am kinda humble, private, and don't like the attention either good or bad that comes with displaying them..although I do still like to get them, and have a right chuckle at them

We all have choices, and we should respect others choices whether we agree with them or not

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If she doesn't want to show them and has no reasonable explanation why not, she's playing pussy and mouse, just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop being nosey to see who they've shagged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move on. No good badgering someone.

I wouldn't open my veri's up to anyone I don't know/trust, either.

"

This ^^^

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Move on. No good badgering someone.

I wouldn't open my veri's up to anyone I don't know/trust, either.

This ^^^ "

I wouldn't open up anything to them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move on. No good badgering someone.

I wouldn't open my veri's up to anyone I don't know/trust, either.

This ^^^

I wouldn't open up anything to them... "
......are you opening the closet door mickey?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Move on. No good badgering someone.

I wouldn't open my veri's up to anyone I don't know/trust, either.

This ^^^

I wouldn't open up anything to them... ......are you opening the closet door mickey? "

Did you read that as "would" rather than "wouldn't"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move on. No good badgering someone.

I wouldn't open my veri's up to anyone I don't know/trust, either.

This ^^^

I wouldn't open up anything to them... ......are you opening the closet door mickey?

Did you read that as "would" rather than "wouldn't"? "
.....ah.....old age is definitely catching up.....I wonder is there a Braille app for fab?

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By *ilg41 OP   Man
over a year ago

schticks

Oh. Suprised by the responses tbh. I was just saying it looks a bit iffy. If there is 6 veris there saying run to the hills or whatever!! But points taken. Maybe it just annoyed me the first time and got stuck in my brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. Suprised by the responses tbh. I was just saying it looks a bit iffy. If there is 6 veris there saying run to the hills or whatever!! But points taken. Maybe it just annoyed me the first time and got stuck in my brain "
.....you do realise, the woman in question may also be a forumite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might be that the other people who have left verifications have left the site since but they will still show up in the verification summary "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might be that the other people who have left verifications have left the site since but they will still show up in the verification summary

Exactly this "

Tho if this was the case surely she would have said. I think she's just being private.

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By *ilg41 OP   Man
over a year ago

schticks


"Oh. Suprised by the responses tbh. I was just saying it looks a bit iffy. If there is 6 veris there saying run to the hills or whatever!! But points taken. Maybe it just annoyed me the first time and got stuck in my brain .....you do realise, the woman in question may also be a forumite?"

I couldnt give a monkeys tbh.

On another note it took me a minute to figure out what forumite was i thought it was a person with a fear of something haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do with someone who simply will not show their veri's - yet keeps mailing you??

I think it's dodgy as fuck! 7 veri's - one public - I get some people may not want to show them all cos they have slep with the whole site and thats fine, but if someone asks you to show them publicly for a few mins so you can have a quick look I dont think it's too much to ask!!"

Why do you want to see them? Surely the summary is enough. It shows she turns up whether or not she gets on with the people she has met. In my experience people that have had bad meets just don't give a veri - they know it won't be shown even by people that display theirs.

If you like her - meet her and make up your own mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they keep mailing you and your not interested and you think they're dodgy then block.

I doubt many women would be harassing a man who wasn't interested so maybe your right.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Oh. Suprised by the responses tbh. I was just saying it looks a bit iffy. If there is 6 veris there saying run to the hills or whatever!! But points taken. Maybe it just annoyed me the first time and got stuck in my brain .....you do realise, the woman in question may also be a forumite?

I couldnt give a monkeys tbh.

On another note it took me a minute to figure out what forumite was i thought it was a person with a fear of something haha!!"

Im really sorry but im in stitches at this crying laughing doesnt cover it..thank you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what are veri?

truth we met you are human.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Pete25, spot on as usual.

It is simply none of your business to see their veris. Totally their perogative as to if they display or not.

Also, hardly think with 7 meets they are likely to be dodgy.

If it a bug bearer of yours, then move on. Personally can't understand why they would keep mailing you. I wouldn't...you obviously are not making yourself understood

And on a personal note, I neither display my summary or my veris, doesn't mean I slept with all the site...just means I am kinda humble, private, and don't like the attention either good or bad that comes with displaying them..although I do still like to get them, and have a right chuckle at them

We all have choices, and we should respect others choices whether we agree with them or not "

Could not agree more. I've been around a while I've a good few veris from both social and play meets, but I think it's more relevant to show a few of your more recent ones, to let people know that your still active (unless your profile states otherwise)

Who I've met or how many is my business, for the most part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pete25, spot on as usual.

It is simply none of your business to see their veris. Totally their perogative as to if they display or not.

Also, hardly think with 7 meets they are likely to be dodgy.

If it a bug bearer of yours, then move on. Personally can't understand why they would keep mailing you. I wouldn't...you obviously are not making yourself understood

And on a personal note, I neither display my summary or my veris, doesn't mean I slept with all the site...just means I am kinda humble, private, and don't like the attention either good or bad that comes with displaying them..although I do still like to get them, and have a right chuckle at them

We all have choices, and we should respect others choices whether we agree with them or not "

^^^ this.

I'm displaying a few at the minute (for a specific reason), but I usually don't, for some of the same reasons mentioned above.

It's really her business why she doesn't and I wouldn't say she's suspect because of it. If it bothers you, cut contact and move on to someone who does display them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. Suprised by the responses tbh. I was just saying it looks a bit iffy. If there is 6 veris there saying run to the hills or whatever!! But points taken. Maybe it just annoyed me the first time and got stuck in my brain .....you do realise, the woman in question may also be a forumite?

I couldnt give a monkeys tbh.

On another note it took me a minute to figure out what forumite was i thought it was a person with a fear of something haha!!"
....you gave a monkeys enough to start a thread about it. ....

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By *ilg41 OP   Man
over a year ago

schticks


"you gave a monkeys enough to start a thread about it. .... "

I meant whether shes on the forum or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do with someone who simply will not show their veri's - yet keeps mailing you??

I think it's dodgy as fuck! 7 veri's - one public - I get some people may not want to show them all cos they have slep with the whole site and thats fine, but if someone asks you to show them publicly for a few mins so you can have a quick look I dont think it's too much to ask!!"
it's like when i was here before, had a veri displayed from a woman and she was hounded by other women asking what I was like so I hid it

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