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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

I have posted about a few topics on the forum about issues I have come through, abusive marriage, exs affairs etc and issues that some of my friends are going through. I'm an open person but I haven't always been, I hid my abusive marriage for over 10 years. I was always ashamed of what was going on and didn't want to burden my friends and family. I thought that by sharing different issues on the forum that maybe it could help someone going through the same problems, who are afraid to put it out there. I have received a bit of backlash about my posts so this will be my last topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let them tits bother you, I think you're great.

You will be missed.

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Don't let them tits bother you, I think you're great.

You will be missed. "
Aw thanks sweetie xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using a public forum is always a double-edged sword. Yes you will get flack from those who disagree with you and you will get agreement too, along with assorted advice, often unasked for as well as the sheer lunacy that some folks put forward as 'humour' which can be ibn very poor taste.

You have to take the rough with the smooth - no other way to handle this.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Don't let the bastards grind you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore them .... keep posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww don't go your great Craic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you dare. Nothing wrong with being REAL. Your posts are inclusive and Not everybody can deal with others getting attention on forum.

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"I have posted about a few topics on the forum about issues I have come through, abusive marriage, exs affairs etc and issues that some of my friends are going through. I'm an open person but I haven't always been, I hid my abusive marriage for over 10 years. I was always ashamed of what was going on and didn't want to burden my friends and family. I thought that by sharing different issues on the forum that maybe it could help someone going through the same problems, who are afraid to put it out there. I have received a bit of backlash about my posts so this will be my last topic "

I'm sorry to hear that you feel you should not post here anymore. I think it's very sad that people who are so open minded about certain things can be so small minded about other topics.

I think you are very brave to post about the sensitive topics you speak about. I do understand why you are feeling this way and I wish there was something to be said that might change your mind.

You should be able to post whatever you like on here (within the forum rules) without the fear of the backlash you speak about.

I'll be sorry to see you leave

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The posts have been of interest and have had plenty of humour to boot. Public forums are always going to be a dream for trolls. Keep the conversation flowing. Don't bow down to abuse. Forums will always attract trolls, it's best not to be too sensitive to their opinions

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By *aywhatnowMan
over a year ago

North County


"Don't you dare. Nothing wrong with being REAL. Your posts are inclusive and Not everybody can deal with others getting attention on forum. "

Well said

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

Aw thanks guys. Maybe I was being oversensitive to be honest there are more positive comments than negative but you only ever see the negative when reading through the messages and comments. I love reading all the topics and joining in because you get to see more of everyone's personality and wit. Thanks guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have posted about a few topics on the forum about issues I have come through, abusive marriage, exs affairs etc and issues that some of my friends are going through. I'm an open person but I haven't always been, I hid my abusive marriage for over 10 years. I was always ashamed of what was going on and didn't want to burden my friends and family. I thought that by sharing different issues on the forum that maybe it could help someone going through the same problems, who are afraid to put it out there. I have received a bit of backlash about my posts so this will be my last topic "

Well mrs _oupleuncut i agree with misscar dont you dare go from the form . First of all you have the right to speak here if with in the rules. Secondly you have come through so much in your life and to let these fools who cant or dont like what you speak about is turning you back on the strenth you have found to come to this point in your life. I hope you read this and remember all the support you have here. Dont go. Tj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw thanks guys. Maybe I was being oversensitive to be honest there are more positive comments than negative but you only ever see the negative when reading through the messages and comments. I love reading all the topics and joining in because you get to see more of everyone's personality and wit. Thanks guys xxx"
......stay put...tbh.i only read this thread....you did get a few light hearted pokes....but don't see any real attempt to put you down.....keep posting !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually found your posts to be somewhat interesting and as was said sense of humour...10 times better then the usual why can't I get a meet threads ,keep her lit missus.

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

Stick around your topics are appreciated. I had a similar abusive relationship and was glad to see the topics being raised.

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Actually found your posts to be somewhat interesting and as was said sense of humour...10 times better then the usual why can't I get a meet threads ,keep her lit missus."
Aw thanks...I feel a bit silly now. I've received some lovely private messages. I think I take things too much to heart. I appreciate all your support xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck the haters hun it's your own choice what you put up in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, don't you dare. I love reading them. You're open and honest. Wish there were more like you. Keep em coming. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have posted about a few topics on the forum about issues I have come through, abusive marriage, exs affairs etc and issues that some of my friends are going through. I'm an open person but I haven't always been, I hid my abusive marriage for over 10 years. I was always ashamed of what was going on and didn't want to burden my friends and family. I thought that by sharing different issues on the forum that maybe it could help someone going through the same problems, who are afraid to put it out there. I have received a bit of backlash about my posts so this will be my last topic "

Please don't. We've found your posts open, honest and refreshing. Ignore the trolls. Don't feed them. Think of them as s. Starve em and they fad away. Please stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah and people will reply differently. Alot of people with their tongue planted in thier cheek, but it's nothing personal

Everyone enjoys a good discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post what you like, when you like

Your topics are interesting, genuine and thought provoking and add greatly to the forum.

We're all guilty of taking things to heart sometimes and I'm in a way glad you posted this thread; Much rather someone vent, seek assurance than bottle it up and possibly retire altogether!

We're a wee community after all, keep being you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally don't post much but have found your comments honest, open and interesting. Would be a shame to let abusive people get their way! Good luck what ever you choose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always enjoy reading your posts, it's nice to read something articulate! Keep posting

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Post what you like, when you like

Your topics are interesting, genuine and thought provoking and add greatly to the forum.

We're all guilty of taking things to heart sometimes and I'm in a way glad you posted this thread; Much rather someone vent, seek assurance than bottle it up and possibly retire altogether!

We're a wee community after all, keep being you "
I love all you fabbers...I'm scarlet now for being so dramatic...I'm not retiring...just taking a vacation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont stopped by bad comment my dear bla bla bla does not kill anyone. Keep going on forum!! Give always the better on you!!

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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago

Near Carryduff

Fk them, you know who your real friends are on here, once you find them the nice people, kik and pm them. They are the people that make your life better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have posted about a few topics on the forum about issues I have come through, abusive marriage, exs affairs etc and issues that some of my friends are going through. I'm an open person but I haven't always been, I hid my abusive marriage for over 10 years. I was always ashamed of what was going on and didn't want to burden my friends and family. I thought that by sharing different issues on the forum that maybe it could help someone going through the same problems, who are afraid to put it out there. I have received a bit of backlash about my posts so this will be my last topic "

Ah i liked reading your posts...cant say i agreed with everything you said but fuck the backlashers...say what you want here...im sure your posts probably did help others and help you get stuff off your chest too...the forums are great but only with the likes of yourself who speak with some cop on...the only thing i dont like abaout them is theres a bit too much tarring with the one brush and a bit many people fond of putting people down...dont retire forever..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haters gonna hate just be you if they dont like you so be on block and move on doll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you dare. Nothing wrong with being REAL. Your posts are inclusive and Not everybody can deal with others getting attention on forum. "

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Fook the bergrudges keep posting your topics have been interesting. Dont let them grind you down.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Dont let other people get you down and you post what you want to thats what its for and can be a great help to sum people will send a pm as well like i did the other day chat soon x

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

If a guy posted this he be hacked to death by now look at me I tried to be interesting and open and all just got was shit

See this is an open forum and opinions will differ some will challenge ur opinion and others will agree others even delving into the formation of that opinion . Once u can accept others opinion will differ and at times u may even change an opinion ull be fine once it doesn't get personal that's where it goes to pot.

At no stage is it acceptable to get abuse in private mail over an opinion

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre


"Post what you like, when you like

Your topics are interesting, genuine and thought provoking and add greatly to the forum.

We're all guilty of taking things to heart sometimes and I'm in a way glad you posted this thread; Much rather someone vent, seek assurance than bottle it up and possibly retire altogether!

We're a wee community after all, keep being you I love all you fabbers...I'm scarlet now for being so dramatic...I'm not retiring...just taking a vacation "

You may check out but it's too hard to leave this place...

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By *andyrackkyMan
over a year ago

South

A certain East 17 song springs to mind......

Seriously, don't go anywhere!ur posts are interesting and if nothing else get people talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go i found your Post's interesting and open not something you get alot on here! Just tell the Hater's to talk to the hand!

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Haters are gonna hate..

You will always get people who going to try to abuse you no matter what it's for.

It's how you deal with it that's important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads....Please. ..put away the hysteria. ..nobody is hating...The op got a few messages that didn't go exactly to her liking. ...she has since said shes embarrassed over her reaction. .. so disband the lynch mob...thw hanging has been cancelled. ..due to lack of interest. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are they staying after all? Ah thats nice...mission accomplished so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy posted this he be hacked to death by now look at me I tried to be interesting and open and all just got was shit

See this is an open forum and opinions will differ some will challenge ur opinion and others will agree others even delving into the formation of that opinion . Once u can accept others opinion will differ and at times u may even change an opinion ull be fine once it doesn't get personal that's where it goes to pot.

At no stage is it acceptable to get abuse in private mail over an opinion "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy posted this he be hacked to death by now look at me I tried to be interesting and open and all just got was shit

See this is an open forum and opinions will differ some will challenge ur opinion and others will agree others even delving into the formation of that opinion . Once u can accept others opinion will differ and at times u may even change an opinion ull be fine once it doesn't get personal that's where it goes to pot.

At no stage is it acceptable to get abuse in private mail over an opinion "

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

When you put a topic out there it will be discussed, some will agree with you, others won't, it's a forum after all. It would be rather boring if everyone has the same opinion. So don't take comments too personally, toughen up a bit and keep enjoying the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you put a topic out there it will be discussed, some will agree with you, others won't, it's a forum after all. It would be rather boring if everyone has the same opinion. So don't take comments too personally, toughen up a bit and keep enjoying the forum. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I remember, you were fairly up front and prominent on the forums the last time you were here...

Nothing fased you then, so what's changed?

You have to remember, this is a public forum and not everyone will agree with your opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy posted this he be hacked to death by now look at me I tried to be interesting and open and all just got was shit

See this is an open forum and opinions will differ some will challenge ur opinion and others will agree others even delving into the formation of that opinion . Once u can accept others opinion will differ and at times u may even change an opinion ull be fine once it doesn't get personal that's where it goes to pot.

At no stage is it acceptable to get abuse in private mail over an opinion

"

Mostly hacked by guys.... (Unless it's a female issue then it's by most groups)...the good thing about the forums is that it only represents about 1 or 2% of fabbers...the rest don't use it according to fab stats. So its a very small group who troll as well....unfortunately you don't get to hear from that large group who read but don't comment for one reason or another. They benefit from the god stuff said...so keep it up OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you put a topic out there it will be discussed, some will agree with you, others won't, it's a forum after all. It would be rather boring if everyone has the same opinion. So don't take comments too personally, toughen up a bit and keep enjoying the forum. "

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So are they staying after all? Ah thats nice...mission accomplished so. "

Morning, mister agreeable. Since safey no longer posts rounds these parts I'm gonna christen you the new chuckles. Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads....Please. ..put away the hysteria. ..nobody is hating...The op got a few messages that didn't go exactly to her liking. ...she has since said shes embarrassed over her reaction. .. so disband the lynch mob...thw hanging has been cancelled. ..due to lack of interest. .. "

Telegram received loud and clear (dot) Lynch mob officially disbanded (dot). New organisation of grammer Nazi's in development (dot)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads....Please. ..put away the hysteria. ..nobody is hating...The op got a few messages that didn't go exactly to her liking. ...she has since said shes embarrassed over her reaction. .. so disband the lynch mob...thw hanging has been cancelled. ..due to lack of interest. ..

Telegram received loud and clear (dot) Lynch mob officially disbanded (dot). New organisation of grammer Nazi's in development (dot)

"

That's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads....Please. ..put away the hysteria. ..nobody is hating...The op got a few messages that didn't go exactly to her liking. ...she has since said shes embarrassed over her reaction. .. so disband the lynch mob...thw hanging has been cancelled. ..due to lack of interest. ..

Telegram received loud and clear (dot) Lynch mob officially disbanded (dot). New organisation of grammer Nazi's in development (dot)

"

Grammer Nazi's now also disbanded due to poor spelling of grammar. Feel free to stick your ellipsis wherever you please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So are they staying after all? Ah thats nice...mission accomplished so.

Morning, mister agreeable. Since safey no longer posts rounds these parts I'm gonna christen you the new chuckles. Congratulations "

To be fair, he was kinda stating the obvious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So are they staying after all? Ah thats nice...mission accomplished so.

Morning, mister agreeable. Since safey no longer posts rounds these parts I'm gonna christen you the new chuckles. Congratulations

To be fair, he was kinda stating the obvious! "

Great pic missy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads....Please. ..put away the hysteria. ..nobody is hating...The op got a few messages that didn't go exactly to her liking. ...she has since said shes embarrassed over her reaction. .. so disband the lynch mob...thw hanging has been cancelled. ..due to lack of interest. ..

Telegram received loud and clear (dot) Lynch mob officially disbanded (dot). New organisation of grammer Nazi's in development (dot)

Grammer Nazi's now also disbanded due to poor spelling of grammar. Feel free to stick your ellipsis wherever you please "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads....Please. ..put away the hysteria. ..nobody is hating...The op got a few messages that didn't go exactly to her liking. ...she has since said shes embarrassed over her reaction. .. so disband the lynch mob...thw hanging has been cancelled. ..due to lack of interest. ..

Telegram received loud and clear (dot) Lynch mob officially disbanded (dot). New organisation of grammer Nazi's in development (dot)

Grammer Nazi's now also disbanded due to poor spelling of grammar. Feel free to stick your ellipsis wherever you please "
.....would you like me to do a quick synopsis of your "spelling of grammar"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention seeking much

Im going... No no please baby dont go .... No no im going ... No you are so nice dont go .... Aww thanks guys you are all so sweet ill stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attention seeking much

Im going... No no please baby dont go .... No no im going ... No you are so nice dont go .... Aww thanks guys you are all so sweet ill stay "

I have to agree....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will miss the Dear Frankie posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attention seeking much

Im going... No no please baby dont go .... No no im going ... No you are so nice dont go .... Aww thanks guys you are all so sweet ill stay "

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