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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope I don't annoy any unmarried mothers out there tonight, and if I do I apologise in advance, I went out to an establishment earlier on this evening for food and drinks with a girl. I was shocked to see them d*unk and loudmouthed the crap there kids had to deal with.kids allowed to stay there till nine bored out of there tiny little minds. The limited intelligence co nversation the shit they were saying to each other and the poor kids.i think its awful that kids are allowed stay till that hour in a pub.its all to much to describe in a post here.if it were up to me I would never let kids into a place till that time.and I do have kids myself.sorry for the rant but I had to get that off my chest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you feel better now after getting it off your chest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now after getting it off your chest? "
I just wish I could change things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathe, op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now after getting it off your chest? I just wish I could change things"

I know what u mean but u can't tar all 'unmarried mothers' with the same brush. Did u even stop to think where the 'unmarried fathers' of those children were and why they weren't stepping up. Not excusing those woman in ur description at all btw...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Breathe, op! "
oh I am believe me I am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now after getting it off your chest? I just wish I could change things

I know what u mean but u can't tar all 'unmarried mothers' with the same brush. Did u even stop to think where the 'unmarried fathers' of those children were and why they weren't stepping up. Not excusing those woman in ur description at all btw..."
some fathers were there.im not a snob by any means but I do have four kids for two different women and they are unmarried women but we never did that with our children.to see them bored and tired is awful. Kidw should not ever be allowed into bars till there 18 in my opinion. And im not having a go at all unmarried couples I swear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now after getting it off your chest? I just wish I could change things

I know what u mean but u can't tar all 'unmarried mothers' with the same brush. Did u even stop to think where the 'unmarried fathers' of those children were and why they weren't stepping up. Not excusing those woman in ur description at all btw... some fathers were there.im not a snob by any means but I do have four kids for two different women and they are unmarried women but we never did that with our children.to see them bored and tired is awful. Kidw should not ever be allowed into bars till there 18 in my opinion. And im not having a go at all unmarried couples I swear. "

I'm confused

U started off by saying, i hope i don't annoy any unmarried mothers out there, went on a rant about women in a pub, now ur saying some fathers were there but u didn't rant about them

Goodnight op & happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to know what pub allows kids beyond 7 anymore cause correct me if I'm wrong legally they have to be gone by that stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope I don't annoy any unmarried mothers out there tonight, and if I do I apologise in advance, I went out to an establishment earlier on this evening for food and drinks with a girl. I was shocked to see them d*unk and loudmouthed the crap there kids had to deal with.kids allowed to stay there till nine bored out of there tiny little minds. The limited intelligence co nversation the shit they were saying to each other and the poor kids.i think its awful that kids are allowed stay till that hour in a pub.its all to much to describe in a post here.if it were up to me I would never let kids into a place till that time.and I do have kids myself.sorry for the rant but I had to get that off my chest."

Ya wudnt see that in Galway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now after getting it off your chest? I just wish I could change things

I know what u mean but u can't tar all 'unmarried mothers' with the same brush. Did u even stop to think where the 'unmarried fathers' of those children were and why they weren't stepping up. Not excusing those woman in ur description at all btw... some fathers were there.im not a snob by any means but I do have four kids for two different women and they are unmarried women but we never did that with our children.to see them bored and tired is awful. Kidw should not ever be allowed into bars till there 18 in my opinion. And im not having a go at all unmarried couples I swear.

I'm confused

U started off by saying, i hope i don't annoy any unmarried mothers out there, went on a rant about women in a pub, now ur saying some fathers were there but u didn't rant about them

Goodnight op & happy swinging!"
well im guessing they were the father's how am I to know they were not. I went through hell with one of the mothers of my kids. Had to look for her in bars with my kids in my car to bring her home to mind them so I could go to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to know what pub allows kids beyond 7 anymore cause correct me if I'm wrong legally they have to be gone by that stage "

It's 9pm I think

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

how do you know that they are un-married and what difference does that make?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love to know what pub allows kids beyond 7 anymore cause correct me if I'm wrong legally they have to be gone by that stage "
even 7 in my opinion is far to late. But lots let them stay till 9. Im sorry if I upset anyone over this but its how I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree OP. Pubs arent relly a place for kids especially when the parents are drinking. And no im obviously not as straight laced as that sounds but time n place for everything

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"Hope I don't annoy any unmarried mothers out there tonight, and if I do I apologise in advance, I went out to an establishment earlier on this evening for food and drinks with a girl. I was shocked to see them d*unk and loudmouthed the crap there kids had to deal with.kids allowed to stay there till nine bored out of there tiny little minds. The limited intelligence co nversation the shit they were saying to each other and the poor kids.i think its awful that kids are allowed stay till that hour in a pub.its all to much to describe in a post here.if it were up to me I would never let kids into a place till that time.and I do have kids myself.sorry for the rant but I had to get that off my chest."

Children are allowed to stay till 10pm during May to September due to the longer evenings. There are allowances to stay longer if you are the proprieters child. Sorry to hear your date was compromised by the little people. We were all children once, and I have fond memories of hanging out on a nice day with other kids in a new environment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have to agree OP. Pubs arent relly a place for kids especially when the parents are drinking. And no im obviously not as straight laced as that sounds but time n place for everything "
well thank you so much for saying that ditto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now after getting it off your chest? I just wish I could change things

I know what u mean but u can't tar all 'unmarried mothers' with the same brush. Did u even stop to think where the 'unmarried fathers' of those children were and why they weren't stepping up. Not excusing those woman in ur description at all btw... some fathers were there.im not a snob by any means but I do have four kids for two different women and they are unmarried women but we never did that with our children.to see them bored and tired is awful. Kidw should not ever be allowed into bars till there 18 in my opinion. And im not having a go at all unmarried couples I swear.

I'm confused

U started off by saying, i hope i don't annoy any unmarried mothers out there, went on a rant about women in a pub, now ur saying some fathers were there but u didn't rant about them

Goodnight op & happy swinging! well im guessing they were the father's how am I to know they were not. I went through hell with one of the mothers of my kids. Had to look for her in bars with my kids in my car to bring her home to mind them so I could go to work"

Curiouser & curiouser

Hope u got custody

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now after getting it off your chest? I just wish I could change things

I know what u mean but u can't tar all 'unmarried mothers' with the same brush. Did u even stop to think where the 'unmarried fathers' of those children were and why they weren't stepping up. Not excusing those woman in ur description at all btw... some fathers were there.im not a snob by any means but I do have four kids for two different women and they are unmarried women but we never did that with our children.to see them bored and tired is awful. Kidw should not ever be allowed into bars till there 18 in my opinion. And im not having a go at all unmarried couples I swear.

I'm confused

U started off by saying, i hope i don't annoy any unmarried mothers out there, went on a rant about women in a pub, now ur saying some fathers were there but u didn't rant about them

Goodnight op & happy swinging! well im guessing they were the father's how am I to know they were not. I went through hell with one of the mothers of my kids. Had to look for her in bars with my kids in my car to bring her home to mind them so I could go to work

Curiouser & curiouser

Hope u got custody "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how exactly do you know these women were not married , sounds to me like you have a pre conceived notion that women who have children and sit in a pub must be parenting alone ? I am a liflong non drinker , as was my husband , so our children never sat in pubs whilst we got twisted , but I do have fond memories of being in the local with my parents on a sunday having lemonade and crisps while my father had a hard earned pint . I hope no one viewed my dear mother as some unmarried alcoholic , just because she was there .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know that they weren't on a couple of nights away? Like a mini break. I'm sure we were all in the pubs a little longer than we should have on holidays.

Judgie eyes everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they were single mothers anyway?? Just because the kids were with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they were even women? ..some tv's are very convincing !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unmarried mothers eh, scum of the earth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that they weren't on a couple of nights away? Like a mini break. I'm sure we were all in the pubs a little longer than we should have on holidays.

Judgie eyes everywhere "

Exactly this...

If I was away for a night or two I'd definitely be out with my kids obviously I'd be sure they were supervised but it's a very unfair assumption op...

I never go to the local with my kids but then again have been to my local where I've seen exactly this!

Everyone is different and it's unfair to make such comments on overall...

Plus they are mothers their marriage status is unimportant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope I don't annoy any unmarried mothers out there tonight, and if I do I apologise in advance, I went out to an establishment earlier on this evening for food and drinks with a girl. I was shocked to see them d*unk and loudmouthed the crap there kids had to deal with.kids allowed to stay there till nine bored out of there tiny little minds. The limited intelligence co nversation the shit they were saying to each other and the poor kids.i think its awful that kids are allowed stay till that hour in a pub.its all to much to describe in a post here.if it were up to me I would never let kids into a place till that time.and I do have kids myself.sorry for the rant but I had to get that off my chest."

You've annoyed me a bit by the tone of your post. Whether the mothers were married or not is irrelevant. It does sound a bit like your own past has coloured your view of these things.

I actually agree that parents drinking with underage children is a no no, particularly if it's all day and there's no sober person in the company. I like a drink now and then, but rarely drank alcohol in the presence of my children when they were young. They're old enough now that I can have a drink with them, but they still won't see me d*unk.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"How do you know they were single mothers anyway?? Just because the kids were with them?"

That's what I was wondering already last night when he ranted but he conveniently overlooked my post. Plus I want to know what difference it makes if they're married or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they were even kids?

Some very convincing midgets these days

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

How do you know they were unmarried mothers ? Surely the point is that there were mothers with kids in the pub... The dad's cud be at home...

I'm a single parent. ..work... and never had my son in a pub... jus sayin

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"How do you know they were even kids?

Some very convincing midgets these days "

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"How do you know they were single mothers anyway?? Just because the kids were with them?

That's what I was wondering already last night when he ranted but he conveniently overlooked my post. Plus I want to know what difference it makes if they're married or not? "

I don't get that bit either. .

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"Hope I don't annoy any unmarried mothers out there tonight, and if I do I apologise in advance, I went out to an establishment earlier on this evening for food and drinks with a girl. I was shocked to see them d*unk and loudmouthed the crap there kids had to deal with.kids allowed to stay there till nine bored out of there tiny little minds. The limited intelligence co nversation the shit they were saying to each other and the poor kids.i think its awful that kids are allowed stay till that hour in a pub.its all to much to describe in a post here.if it were up to me I would never let kids into a place till that time.and I do have kids myself.sorry for the rant but I had to get that off my chest.

You've annoyed me a bit by the tone of your post. Whether the mothers were married or not is irrelevant. It does sound a bit like your own past has coloured your view of these things.

I actually agree that parents drinking with underage children is a no no, particularly if it's all day and there's no sober person in the company. I like a drink now and then, but rarely drank alcohol in the presence of my children when they were young. They're old enough now that I can have a drink with them, but they still won't see me d*unk. "

Yep exactly. .. Their marital status is irrelevant

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

I have 4 kids myself and my opinion is kids shouldn't be in a pub.

Yes, OK, if there's a family event (party, christening etc) fair enough but they should be gone home by 6.

I've seen it many times, people having kids in pubs, and not just single parents, but married cpls. Not something I agree with at all

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know they were even kids?

Some very convincing midgets these days "
...aah...that would explain the "kids" getting tossed up in the air......

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't even see a problem having a civilised pint or two in the pub bringing the kids with you. It all depends which pub you're going to, that one adult has no drink to drive safely home should you go by car.

Once it gets out of hands of course that's another story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He'd wouldn't want to go abroad on holiday then...

Every night here kids all over the place running riot....

Can't say I've asked or noticed if the mums are "unmarried" or "married" tho...

But the men seem to hang about the bar oblivious to it and it's only the mums trying to keep an eye on them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that they weren't on a couple of nights away? Like a mini break. I'm sure we were all in the pubs a little longer than we should have on holidays.

Judgie eyes everywhere

Exactly this...

If I was away for a night or two I'd definitely be out with my kids obviously I'd be sure they were supervised but it's a very unfair assumption op...

I never go to the local with my kids but then again have been to my local where I've seen exactly this!

Everyone is different and it's unfair to make such comments on overall...

Plus they are mothers their marriage status is unimportant..."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on holiday is completely different. There is nothing as bad as been in a pub having a nice pint, out to watch a game or something like that and u have kids screaming running amuck up and down the pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there only one pub in your town?

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

all children should be locked in the coal house when their parents are in the pub - it never did me any harm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all children should be locked in the coal house when their parents are in the pub - it never did me any harm"
......so the face tic and bed wetting has finally stopped?

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Maybe they were having a bite to eat too, and finishing up before they headed home. It can be quite lonely and isolating being home with small children alone. Maybe they don't get out very often and were making the most of a bit of time out.

You not only judged them as lower class because they're 'unmarried mothers' (so what?) but you also judged them on their, according to you, unintelligent conversation.

What business is it of yours what other people do?

You only judged the women as bad, but didn't mention the men who were drinking with the kids there too until asked.

Very arrogant of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there only one pub in your town? "
I'd assume everybody has a local and I'd also assume most people would agree that kids shouldn't be let run amuck in a pub

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

He said the kids were sitting there looking bored.

Hardly running amok and disturbing the whole place. He has a big problem with 'unmarried mothers' not the men or kids apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you are very quiet all of a sudden!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He said the kids were sitting there looking bored.

Hardly running amok and disturbing the whole place. He has a big problem with 'unmarried mothers' not the men or kids apparently."
I'm talking about another situation with kids in a pub. I doubt though in a normal everyday setting kids would like to be in a pub past 9 o clock while their parents drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all agree with the op that kids shouldn't be allowed to run amok in a pub...

But the assumption that they were "unmarried" mothers it makes no difference and it was a pretty unfair...that "married" mothers would be different or better!

They are mothers....

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I think we all agree with the op that kids shouldn't be allowed to run amok in a pub...

But the assumption that they were "unmarried" mothers it makes no difference and it was a pretty unfair...that "married" mothers would be different or better!

They are mothers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss the good old days...when bars were exclusively for men...except of course for the busty barmaid who "pulled" their pints. ..and women knew their place, and sat in the lounge, sipping their babycham...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they were having a bite to eat too, and finishing up before they headed home. It can be quite lonely and isolating being home with small children alone. Maybe they don't get out very often and were making the most of a bit of time out.

You not only judged them as lower class because they're 'unmarried mothers' (so what?) but you also judged them on their, according to you, unintelligent conversation.

What business is it of yours what other people do?

You only judged the women as bad, but didn't mention the men who were drinking with the kids there too until asked.

Very arrogant of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss the good old days...when bars were exclusively for men...except of course for the busty barmaid who "pulled" their pints. ..and women knew their place, and sat in the lounge, sipping their babycham... "

Some old pubs still have the snugg with the little hatch, the ladies got their drinks served through through them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss the good old days...when bars were exclusively for men...except of course for the busty barmaid who "pulled" their pints. ..and women knew their place, and sat in the lounge, sipping their babycham...

Some old pubs still have the snugg with the little hatch, the ladies got their drinks served through through them..."
.....do you want ice in you're babycham?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss the good old days...when bars were exclusively for men...except of course for the busty barmaid who "pulled" their pints. ..and women knew their place, and sat in the lounge, sipping their babycham...

Some old pubs still have the snugg with the little hatch, the ladies got their drinks served through through them........do you want ice in you're babycham? "

Ah...do they even make them anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss the good old days...when bars were exclusively for men...except of course for the busty barmaid who "pulled" their pints. ..and women knew their place, and sat in the lounge, sipping their babycham...

Some old pubs still have the snugg with the little hatch, the ladies got their drinks served through through them........do you want ice in you're babycham?

Ah...do they even make them anymore "
...dunno. ..I remember tasting it when I was little. ....awful stuff......women drank that or advocat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss the good old days...when bars were exclusively for men...except of course for the busty barmaid who "pulled" their pints. ..and women knew their place, and sat in the lounge, sipping their babycham...

Some old pubs still have the snugg with the little hatch, the ladies got their drinks served through through them........do you want ice in you're babycham?

Ah...do they even make them anymore ...dunno. ..I remember tasting it when I was little. ....awful stuff......women drank that or advocat..."

I remember it had like a creamy top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss the good old days...when bars were exclusively for men...except of course for the busty barmaid who "pulled" their pints. ..and women knew their place, and sat in the lounge, sipping their babycham...

Some old pubs still have the snugg with the little hatch, the ladies got their drinks served through through them........do you want ice in you're babycham?

Ah...do they even make them anymore ...dunno. ..I remember tasting it when I was little. ....awful stuff......women drank that or advocat...

I remember it had like a creamy top "

Oh...hang on that was snowballs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss the good old days...when bars were exclusively for men...except of course for the busty barmaid who "pulled" their pints. ..and women knew their place, and sat in the lounge, sipping their babycham...

Some old pubs still have the snugg with the little hatch, the ladies got their drinks served through through them........do you want ice in you're babycham?

Ah...do they even make them anymore ...dunno. ..I remember tasting it when I was little. ....awful stuff......women drank that or advocat...

I remember it had like a creamy top

Oh...hang on that was snowballs "
.....ye ...no wonder women didn't drink. ...it all tasted like shite...

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