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When you know it's a lie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone ever been in a position where you know a person lie through their teeth to ya but you just can't go that extra little push to tell em goodbye, all the best an all that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to have it out with them.

I'd like to think though that of someone was in any way decent they'd have the good grace to be honest about things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I was. I had concrete evidence of a lie but didn't want to say it. Let him lie to my face. I never felt the same for him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how damaging the lie is, as to my approach. If a lie that is pointless and I can't understand the need to lie, but it not damaging, then I probably just distance myself as it won't be the only lie they will tell. I wouldn't waste my energy on them anymore. Now if I felt hurt because of lie, I would let them know that I knew they lied, say I was disappointed in them, distance myself and move on..again try not to waste energy or time. Plenty of genuine people I'd rather use my energy on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all trip themselves up eventually, in the meantime I'd be gone .

No time for such an attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone ever been in a position where you know a person lie through their teeth to ya but you just can't go that extra little push to tell em goodbye, all the best an all that?"

You can't respect or be friends with someone you don't trust

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By *anny Boy31Man
over a year ago

Belfast all over the Uk and Ireland


"Anyone ever been in a position where you know a person lie through their teeth to ya but you just can't go that extra little push to tell em goodbye, all the best an all that?"

Sit tight and say nothing until u catch them hook line and sinker cause no doubt they will trip up with another lie. Once a liar and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone ever been in a position where you know a person lie through their teeth to ya but you just can't go that extra little push to tell em goodbye, all the best an all that?

Sit tight and say nothing until u catch them hook line and sinker cause no doubt they will trip up with another lie. Once a liar and all that "

I couldn't wait that long though I'd be ripping

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree with all the above comments. You lose some of the respect for em sure enough. Was gonna set a nice little trap, but thought against it in the end. Be too nasty i thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just distance myself from people like that, it may not be immediate but lasting. You live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with all the above comments. You lose some of the respect for em sure enough. Was gonna set a nice little trap, but thought against it in the end. Be too nasty i thought. "

A trap could go wrong making things worse for yourself....

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D


"It depends how damaging the lie is, as to my approach. If a lie that is pointless and I can't understand the need to lie, but it not damaging, then I probably just distance myself as it won't be the only lie they will tell. I wouldn't waste my energy on them anymore. Now if I felt hurt because of lie, I would let them know that I knew they lied, say I was disappointed in them, distance myself and move on..again try not to waste energy or time. Plenty of genuine people I'd rather use my energy on "

Exactly what I'd do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with all the above comments. You lose some of the respect for em sure enough. Was gonna set a nice little trap, but thought against it in the end. Be too nasty i thought. "

A trap just reduces you to their level. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people lie to stir things up, if you have proof of that lie, the question you have to ask yourself, if by showing the proof of that lie, will it change things for the better or will the person you're showing the proof of the lie, think you're trying to stir things.....

Will you be satisfied when the truth is out there.... sometimes you're better off leaving things & hold your head up high.... You know what the truth is & as somebody else said on this thread..... the truth will come out eventually, there's better satisfaction when the other person finds the truth out themselves rather than you producing evidence of the truth....

At the end of the day people will believe what they want to believe to get out of something....

I hope this makes sense & helps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone ever been in a position where you know a person lie through their teeth to ya but you just can't go that extra little push to tell em goodbye, all the best an all that?"

Get ur evidence first. Once u know n have full facts..U can decide nxt move.

Hope al works out 4 u

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