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By *aid back OP   Man
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

How many chances do people give.

A friend of mine has been cancelled on by the same guy three times. I told her after the first maybe second one id have blocked him but im told im too harsh so how many chances do people give ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can have to cancel due to unforeseen circumstance - once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many chances do people give.

A friend of mine has been cancelled on by the same guy three times. I told her after the first maybe second one id have blocked him but im told im too harsh so how many chances do people give ?"

You're right - three times!!! That's awful.

Cancel once, shame on you. Cancel twice, shame on me. That's my policy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many chances do people give.

A friend of mine has been cancelled on by the same guy three times. I told her after the first maybe second one id have blocked him but im told im too harsh so how many chances do people give ?

You're right - three times!!! That's awful.

Cancel once, shame on you. Cancel twice, shame on me. That's my policy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your sex ..... But seriously once is more than enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would see it as a sign of disrespect to be cancelled on that many times. Move on in situations like that if you have any respect for yourself. It would have to be a solid gold excuse to go for a fourth rejection

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I've given second chances a few times but I'd not go out of my way the second time, if they want to rearrange then they can work around my schedule (if I'm willing to risk being stood up or cancelled on again)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many chances do people give.

A friend of mine has been cancelled on by the same guy three times. I told her after the first maybe second one id have blocked him but im told im too harsh so how many chances do people give ?

You're right - three times!!! That's awful.

Cancel once, shame on you. Cancel twice, shame on me. That's my policy. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they cancel once my interest dwindles automatically I'm afraid but then again I've had to cancel myself on an occasion or two so I guess it's fair game either way

But 3 times well then they're just looking for a slap of the block button lol

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

My magic number is 3 times after that credibility has suffered most likely too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two chances, no more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 times is ridiculous. I was cancelled on twice by the same guy. Instantly delete and block. 2 strikes you're out! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt "

Not more than twice oh wise one! You should know better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt

Not more than twice oh wise one! You should know better "

Meh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt "

Organise your time, finances and be realistic when you set a date for a meet... I think cancel 3 times you must be doing something wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt

Organise your time, finances and be realistic when you set a date for a meet... I think cancel 3 times you must be doing something wrong. "

Whoah Kaizer never cancelled 3 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt

Not more than twice oh wise one! You should know better "

No way, delete and block. Plenty more out there.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Jayus ye all very harsh

Three times is a tad to much on the trot

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

U give one fuck that too many nice ones to let some prick do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt

Organise your time, finances and be realistic when you set a date for a meet... I think cancel 3 times you must be doing something wrong.

Whoah Kaizer never cancelled 3 times "

Ohhh OK, good to know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I suppose, if someone cancelled on me three times, I'd be like, "yeah, they're just not that into me" and move on, now I've had to cancel a meet. Once. Flights, hotel booked the lot, and I had to cancel, but with plenty of notice, like three weeks or more notice.

Now I've had one or two meets cancel on me, in fairness they did give notice, not much but at least they didn't leave me sitting in the hotel lobby waiting on them, they just left me with the bill for the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a rule, would depend on the meet, if I knew him and what the reason was and if I believed him or not. I've had to cancel laids of times coz of work. Shit happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I suppose, if someone cancelled on me three times, I'd be like, "yeah, they're just not that into me" and move on, now I've had to cancel a meet. Once. Flights, hotel booked the lot, and I had to cancel, but with plenty of notice, like three weeks or more notice.

Now I've had one or two meets cancel on me, in fairness they did give notice, not much but at least they didn't leave me sitting in the hotel lobby waiting on them, they just left me with the bill for the room. "

Ouch!

Once is allowed, as people have said, anything can happen and if it's a valid reason rescheduling shouldn't be a problem. If they fail to turn up the second time, kick them to the kerb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I suppose, if someone cancelled on me three times, I'd be like, "yeah, they're just not that into me" and move on, now I've had to cancel a meet. Once. Flights, hotel booked the lot, and I had to cancel, but with plenty of notice, like three weeks or more notice.

Now I've had one or two meets cancel on me, in fairness they did give notice, not much but at least they didn't leave me sitting in the hotel lobby waiting on them, they just left me with the bill for the room.

Ouch!

Once is allowed, as people have said, anything can happen and if it's a valid reason rescheduling shouldn't be a problem. If they fail to turn up the second time, kick them to the kerb "

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By *anny Boy31Man
over a year ago

Belfast all over the Uk and Ireland


"Anyone can have to cancel due to unforeseen circumstance - once."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 times is ridiculous. I was cancelled on twice by the same guy. Instantly delete and block. 2 strikes you're out! !!"

His loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U can't judge unless u know circumstances. Could have perfect legitimate reason or he might not. Up to him to tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice and no more!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One chance. Although if the excuse is pathetic they don't even get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been cancelled on 5 times so far since I joined here, but not by the same person. I'd give one chance after that I'd say good luck

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

I am mean I only give one chance 99% of the time to a first meeting.

Repeats and FB I am more easy going because I know they are not time wasters.

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