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By *iiboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tankardstown

So im chatting to a hot lady near me lastnite, she admits to being a bit tipsy and sends me a pic, where upon i discover i know her , her hubby is away with the army, I didnt say anything, My thinking was I dont want her paranoid about meeting guys she knows daily, needless to say i didnt show my pic, just made my excuses, whats the general concensus, should i have told her ? Her hubby btw has no idea she's on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block & move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she reads this forum she will probably contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder is she a forumite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not have started a forum thread about it anyway

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By *iiboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tankardstown

She dosnt use the forums, just logs on for a bit to chat/arrange meets etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She dosnt use the forums, just logs on for a bit to chat/arrange meets etc "
....and you believe her?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

She seems to have a weakness for army guys, that could back fire one day (no pun intended)

best is to move on and forget about it.

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"She seems to have a weakness for army guys, that could back fire one day... "

It could be totally platoonic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She dosnt use the forums, just logs on for a bit to chat/arrange meets etc "

Just because she doesn't post in the forums, doesn't mean she won't read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not tell her you know her or at least send your pick and let her decide if she wants to take things further

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By *iiboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tankardstown

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By *iiboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tankardstown

lol sure army guys do it rite , tehhhhhhnshun lol

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By *iiboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tankardstown


"She seems to have a weakness for army guys, that could back fire one day (no pun intended)

best is to move on and forget about it. "

Sure army guys do it rite tehhhhhnshun lol

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By *iiboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tankardstown


"Why not tell her you know her or at least send your pick and let her decide if she wants to take things further "

I know hubby, wudnt see him v often but i do know him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say reassure her don't leave her hanging explain wat happend and go from there

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

She sent u a pic and u recognised her,she only logs on to set up meets and chat and u think she probally doesn't read the forum. If it was me I'd sent her a pic and say to her we know each other u may not want to go any further than a chat and that's fine and as we are on a swing site discretion is assured and expected.if she blocks u that's fine move on to the next victim if she charts away u have made a friend and if she wants to go further happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im chatting to a hot lady near me lastnite, she admits to being a bit tipsy and sends me a pic, where upon i discover i know her , her hubby is away with the army, I didnt say anything, My thinking was I dont want her paranoid about meeting guys she knows daily, needless to say i didnt show my pic, just made my excuses, whats the general concensus, should i have told her ? Her hubby btw has no idea she's on fab "

Did she send you the pic, or did you ask her for it? If you asked for it, I think you should send yours and tell her you know her hubby, unless there's a reason you don't want her to know who you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She sent u a pic and u recognised her,she only logs on to set up meets and chat and u think she probally doesn't read the forum. If it was me I'd sent her a pic and say to her we know each other u may not want to go any further than a chat and that's fine and as we are on a swing site discretion is assured and expected.if she blocks u that's fine move on to the next victim if she charts away u have made a friend and if she wants to go further happy days "

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By *iiboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tankardstown


"So im chatting to a hot lady near me lastnite, she admits to being a bit tipsy and sends me a pic, where upon i discover i know her , her hubby is away with the army, I didnt say anything, My thinking was I dont want her paranoid about meeting guys she knows daily, needless to say i didnt show my pic, just made my excuses, whats the general concensus, should i have told her ? Her hubby btw has no idea she's on fab

Did she send you the pic, or did you ask her for it? If you asked for it, I think you should send yours and tell her you know her hubby, unless there's a reason you don't want her to know who you are?"

Didnt ask for the pic, we had commented on pics we both have on view etc, then she sent one , I think il just let her know I know her and her hubby and dont think we shud meet, il send my pic to reassure the discretion aspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im chatting to a hot lady near me lastnite, she admits to being a bit tipsy and sends me a pic, where upon i discover i know her , her hubby is away with the army, I didnt say anything, My thinking was I dont want her paranoid about meeting guys she knows daily, needless to say i didnt show my pic, just made my excuses, whats the general concensus, should i have told her ? Her hubby btw has no idea she's on fab

Did she send you the pic, or did you ask her for it? If you asked for it, I think you should send yours and tell her you know her hubby, unless there's a reason you don't want her to know who you are?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im chatting to a hot lady near me lastnite, she admits to being a bit tipsy and sends me a pic, where upon i discover i know her , her hubby is away with the army, I didnt say anything, My thinking was I dont want her paranoid about meeting guys she knows daily, needless to say i didnt show my pic, just made my excuses, whats the general concensus, should i have told her ? Her hubby btw has no idea she's on fab

Did she send you the pic, or did you ask her for it? If you asked for it, I think you should send yours and tell her you know her hubby, unless there's a reason you don't want her to know who you are?

Didnt ask for the pic, we had commented on pics we both have on view etc, then she sent one , I think il just let her know I know her and her hubby and dont think we shud meet, il send my pic to reassure the discretion aspect "

That should put her mind at ease. It's awful if you know that someone knows you, but you have no clue who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She sent u a pic and u recognised her,she only logs on to set up meets and chat and u think she probally doesn't read the forum. If it was me I'd sent her a pic and say to her we know each other u may not want to go any further than a chat and that's fine and as we are on a swing site discretion is assured and expected.if she blocks u that's fine move on to the next victim if she charts away u have made a friend and if she wants to go further happy days

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...wouldnt call her a victim though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...also could be his profile and nothing to do with her...ye never know on places like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She seems to have a weakness for army guys, that could back fire one day (no pun intended)

best is to move on and forget about it. "
...my ex was only unfaithful twice...once with the milkman. ...and once with the British army. ..

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By *iiboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tankardstown


"So im chatting to a hot lady near me lastnite, she admits to being a bit tipsy and sends me a pic, where upon i discover i know her , her hubby is away with the army, I didnt say anything, My thinking was I dont want her paranoid about meeting guys she knows daily, needless to say i didnt show my pic, just made my excuses, whats the general concensus, should i have told her ? Her hubby btw has no idea she's on fab

Did she send you the pic, or did you ask her for it? If you asked for it, I think you should send yours and tell her you know her hubby, unless there's a reason you don't want her to know who you are?

Didnt ask for the pic, we had commented on pics we both have on view etc, then she sent one , I think il just let her know I know her and her hubby and dont think we shud meet, il send my pic to reassure the discretion aspect

That should put her mind at ease. It's awful if you know that someone knows you, but you have no clue who they are. "

Thats why i didnt say anything, didnt want her constantly lookin at guys she'd meet innocently , thinking is it him etc , that wud be head wrecking stuff, this is sposed to be fun

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By *iiboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tankardstown


"She seems to have a weakness for army guys, that could back fire one day (no pun intended)

best is to move on and forget about it. ...my ex was only unfaithful twice...once with the milkman. ...and once with the British army. .. "

lol

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