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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been to the WWC for a routine check up this morning.

The Doc said STIs are on a serious upsurge in Ireland at the moment and men are especially needed to get checked.

It's so simple.. Just a urine and blood test.

Please go guys, it's vital within our swing community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be done online if guys too embarrassed as,well..

..have just seen another bareback pic go up in local updates in the north...

....some very irresponsible ppl.about on fab!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because people use condoms, it doesn't mean they are safe, many STDs can be transmitted via oral sex or just genital skin contact. Everyone who is sexually active and non-monogamous should get themselves checked regularly.

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By *ortidanMan
over a year ago

Moira

I was checked few wks ago even tho i dont be doing much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How often is regularly

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"How often is regularly "

3-6 months

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

So so important to gave regular check ups!!! Not just for people who swing but in general. It is a shock to see so many people not practicing safe sex especially given how prevalent sti's are.

I have one female friend who is not swinging related who has the busiest sex life I've ever known of and she never uses protection (or birth control for that matter) and refuses to get herself tested frightening stuff!

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So so important to gave regular check ups!!! Not just for people who swing but in general. It is a shock to see so many people not practicing safe sex especially given how prevalent sti's are.

I have one female friend who is not swinging related who has the busiest sex life I've ever known of and she never uses protection (or birth control for that matter) and refuses to get herself tested frightening stuff!

Miss Mcjoy "
that's madness. Would you say alot of pregnancies in young women/teens comes from carelessness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often is regularly

3-6 months "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often is regularly "

That's something you should discuss with the clinic, they can advise how often you should be tested, your risk level depends on your lifestyle - assuming you're being honest with them!!

Tests carried out may also depend on their assessment of your risk, so if you don't disclose everything, you may not get all the appropriate screening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often is regularly

That's something you should discuss with the clinic, they can advise how often you should be tested, your risk level depends on your lifestyle - assuming you're being honest with them!!

Tests carried out may also depend on their assessment of your risk, so if you don't disclose everything, you may not get all the appropriate screening."
you must think I'm like a dog in heat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often is regularly

That's something you should discuss with the clinic, they can advise how often you should be tested, your risk level depends on your lifestyle - assuming you're being honest with them!!

Tests carried out may also depend on their assessment of your risk, so if you don't disclose everything, you may not get all the appropriate screening.you must think I'm like a dog in heat "

The same advice applies to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checked a few weeks ago...and I'm 100% and good to go ladies...form an orderly queue, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checked at least every 6 months and that's even if I don't have a new partner in that time. Having and Sti or worse Is like my worst nightmare!

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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago

Near Carryduff

Yup, all clear here too. There is nothing that surprises the staff there

Anyhow, no condoms = No brains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because people use condoms, it doesn't mean they are safe, many STDs can be transmitted via oral sex or just genital skin contact. Everyone who is sexually active and non-monogamous should get themselves checked regularly."

Oral sex is probably one of the main reasons for transmitting as so many don't actually think. Interesting how many give off about bareback yet in their veris or profile they elaborate about the amazing bjs they can give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get checked regularly !! Being responable is a lot more important than being embarrassed !!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"How often is regularly "

Every time u have a new partner so if ur active and have new partners once a month then once a month is regular, and once u stop possibly every three months for a peroid after u stop and bi annually after that some still don't show up straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get checked regularly !! Being responable is a lot more important than being embarrassed !! "

Well said!!! Plus the staff in the clinics are lovely, they pass no judgement and they hear and talk about sex day in, day out. Nothing shocks them.

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid


"Just because people use condoms, it doesn't mean they are safe, many STDs can be transmitted via oral sex or just genital skin contact. Everyone who is sexually active and non-monogamous should get themselves checked regularly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a vigin I'm waiting for my wedding nite to do anything g so it's not for me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't believe it today, I was chatting away to a woman today and we were just about to arrange a meet when I asked her 'was she clean from sti's?'

She then completely flipped telling me to f##k off! And how she was so offended!

I was completely shocked at her reaction, cause in my eyes safety comes first..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't believe it today, I was chatting away to a woman today and we were just about to arrange a meet when I asked her 'was she clean from sti's?'

She then completely flipped telling me to f##k off! And how she was so offended!

I was completely shocked at her reaction, cause in my eyes safety comes first.."

I'm not surprised she was offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why tho? Do we not have a right to ask a question of whether the person knowingly has an sti?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why tho? Do we not have a right to ask a question of whether the person knowingly has an sti?"

You can ask all you want, what's to stop them lying? Or having one without knowing?

It's up to YOU to get yourself tested if you are sexually active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why tho? Do we not have a right to ask a question of whether the person knowingly has an sti?

You can ask all you want, what's to stop them lying? Or having one without knowing?

It's up to YOU to get yourself tested if you are sexually active."

I know that, just didn't understand why she flipped when it's an obvious subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why tho? Do we not have a right to ask a question of whether the person knowingly has an sti?

You can ask all you want, what's to stop them lying? Or having one without knowing?

It's up to YOU to get yourself tested if you are sexually active.

I know that, just didn't understand why she flipped when it's an obvious subject."

She's not adult enough to discuss STIs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why tho? Do we not have a right to ask a question of whether the person knowingly has an sti?

You can ask all you want, what's to stop them lying? Or having one without knowing?

It's up to YOU to get yourself tested if you are sexually active.

I know that, just didn't understand why she flipped when it's an obvious subject.

She's not adult enough to discuss STIs.

"

Obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why tho? Do we not have a right to ask a question of whether the person knowingly has an sti?

You can ask all you want, what's to stop them lying? Or having one without knowing?

It's up to YOU to get yourself tested if you are sexually active.

I know that, just didn't understand why she flipped when it's an obvious subject."

Unless u had discussed bareback or had seen pics on her profile of bareback, i would never ask...

As caseylee said, its up to you to protect yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why tho? Do we not have a right to ask a question of whether the person knowingly has an sti?

You can ask all you want, what's to stop them lying? Or having one without knowing?

It's up to YOU to get yourself tested if you are sexually active.

I know that, just didn't understand why she flipped when it's an obvious subject.

Unless u had discussed bareback or had seen pics on her profile of bareback, i would never ask...

What about oral?

As caseylee said, its up to you to protect yourself..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about oral?"

What about it?

If u met a woman at a bar and decided to take things further, would u ask her if she was sti free? I doubt it. Just because your on a swinging site i wouldn't assume everyone had an sti

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about oral?

What about it?

If u met a woman at a bar and decided to take things further, would u ask her if she was sti free? I doubt it. Just because your on a swinging site i wouldn't assume everyone had an sti "

Fair point, thank you for you advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about oral?

What about it?

If u met a woman at a bar and decided to take things further, would u ask her if she was sti free? I doubt it. Just because your on a swinging site i wouldn't assume everyone had an sti

Fair point, thank you for you advice "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because people use condoms, it doesn't mean they are safe, many STDs can be transmitted via oral sex or just genital skin contact. Everyone who is sexually active and non-monogamous should get themselves checked regularly.

Oral sex is probably one of the main reasons for transmitting as so many don't actually think. Interesting how many give off about bareback yet in their veris or profile they elaborate about the amazing bjs they can give."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about oral?

What about it?

If u met a woman at a bar and decided to take things further, would u ask her if she was sti free? I doubt it. Just because your on a swinging site i wouldn't assume everyone had an sti "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because people use condoms, it doesn't mean they are safe, many STDs can be transmitted via oral sex or just genital skin contact. Everyone who is sexually active and non-monogamous should get themselves checked regularly.

Oral sex is probably one of the main reasons for transmitting as so many don't actually think. Interesting how many give off about bareback yet in their veris or profile they elaborate about the amazing bjs they can give."

Oral sex isn't one of the main reasons for transmitting as far as I'm aware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because people use condoms, it doesn't mean they are safe, many STDs can be transmitted via oral sex or just genital skin contact. Everyone who is sexually active and non-monogamous should get themselves checked regularly.

Oral sex is probably one of the main reasons for transmitting as so many don't actually think. Interesting how many give off about bareback yet in their veris or profile they elaborate about the amazing bjs they can give.

Oral sex isn't one of the main reasons for transmitting as far as I'm aware "

Guess the local belfast gum clinic have got its recent stats wrong or they're misinformed......sorry I stand corrected. I'll ask again in a few weeks.

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By *ne of fourMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"How often is regularly "

Every three months if very active

Six months if not so active

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"So so important to gave regular check ups!!! Not just for people who swing but in general. It is a shock to see so many people not practicing safe sex especially given how prevalent sti's are.

I have one female friend who is not swinging related who has the busiest sex life I've ever known of and she never uses protection (or birth control for that matter) and refuses to get herself tested frightening stuff!

Miss Mcjoy "

Any chance of her phone number?

.

...just so i can have a word with her about being careful like

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By *ireman sam 1010Man
over a year ago

Dublin city centre

Got one last month and i'm good to go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One for the guys who say they're clear..HPV can not be tested in men..So can anyone really claim to be totally free from STI's ...Get checked regularly but risks are always there protected or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are worried about rolling up to a gum clinic you can get a test done where they post you the test kit you do the sample and you get the results online. Google let's get checked. I've done it and it's very handy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys who say they're clear..HPV can not be tested in men..So can anyone really claim to be totally free from STI's ...Get checked regularly but risks are always there protected or not "

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