FabSwingers.com forum: What is it about?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I've always struggled with being bisexual thinking I have to fit into either one catogery or another however I've come to realise that I don't like either catogery and have accepted I swing both ways!

I'm a guy and really don't behave in anyway like a queen, don't pop cocks in my bum either, not that I have a problem with queens or anything and I totally accept them for who they are.

So why do bi ladies have a problem with bi guys?

Why do straight guys have a problem with bi guys? No we won't touch ur ass if you don't like that!

The final part of my rant, swinging is very much an alternative life choice, surely there should be more understanding!

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

I didn't think there was a problem with bi guys

we as a couple wouldn't mind being with a bi guy, like straight guys, or other couples we would discuss our likes and dislikes beforehand to save any misunderstanding. As a bi woman myself I've never had any issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get that and I understand there are a lot of Messers on here but being a bi guy here is a bit like being American in Syria ATM.

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

"I get that and I understand there are a lot of Messers on here but being a bi guy here is a bit like being American in Syria ATM. "
lol your probably right. I think it is a lot more easier for a bi woman and I think there are a lot of bi curious men who would love to experiment but wouldn't admit to it. I think it is a turn on watching two men play, I wouldn't mind watching and then joining in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Completely agree, the amount of "straight" guys that have contacted me looking for a meet. Swinging is a closet FFS, so now they want to go into a closet inside a closet. It's not right.

Other thing is, when guys see ur really large tool they then feel inferior. Just don't get it TBH

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"Hi, I've always struggled with being bisexual thinking I have to fit into either one catogery or another however I've come to realise that I don't like either catogery and have accepted I swing both ways!

I'm a guy and really don't behave in anyway like a queen, don't pop cocks in my bum either, not that I have a problem with queens or anything and I totally accept them for who they are.

So why do bi ladies have a problem with bi guys?

Why do straight guys have a problem with bi guys? No we won't touch ur ass if you don't like that!

The final part of my rant, swinging is very much an alternative life choice, surely there should be more understanding! "

I've no problem with bi guys ... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say the reception on the forums to bi guys has always been positive, in my opinion.

I don't doubt there are men, women and couples who do attach a stigma to it but that ignorance should be it's own filter. Like anything else, there's someone and something for everyone on here.

Honesty is sadly a refreshing attribute to have on here and more people should try it. They'd probably be amazed at the response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have to say the reception on the forums to bi guys has always been positive, in my opinion.

I don't doubt there are men, women and couples who do attach a stigma to it but that ignorance should be it's own filter. Like anything else, there's someone and something for everyone on here.

Honesty is sadly a refreshing attribute to have on here and more people should try it. They'd probably be amazed at the response."

Is that why your profile says ur straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men have built their ego around a particular vision of their own sexuality. They have grown up in a culture where being gay is a terrible thing. Shameful.

As kids we use gay slurs as the ultimate insult.

That sort of conditioning cannot easily be put aside. "What if he gays me up !!!!"

To become the thing you fear most is a horrifying thought to lots of straight guys.

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By *amdublinMan
over a year ago

Paris

not everyone on d site have problem with bi guys,,and people have their preferences too,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Homophobia may still be a topic, though Ireland has novadays one of the most liberal legislation to emancipate gays. However most men grew up before the public opinion turned to a more liberal approach and those norms beaten in at childhood are not easily to be shrugged off

We actually are curious to experiment with a bi guy or girl. Unfortunately the status of being hetero flexible does not exist at FAB, hence we stated straight as we wouldn't consider us as bisexual either. Threesomes require the acceptance if close proximity with the same sex anyways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Homophobia may still be a topic, though Ireland has novadays one of the most liberal legislation to emancipate gays. However most men grew up before the public opinion turned to a more liberal approach and those norms beaten in at childhood are not easily to be shrugged off

Well I think sexuality is so complex that you shouldn't be asked to sum it up within three different categories.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"I get that and I understand there are a lot of Messers on here but being a bi guy here is a bit like being American in Syria ATM. lol your probably right. I think it is a lot more easier for a bi woman and I think there are a lot of bi curious men who would love to experiment but wouldn't admit to it. I think it is a turn on watching two men play, I wouldn't mind watching and then joining in

It is hot watch 2 men play , its get me soooooo wet

But i just love it mmmmm

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody has a problem with bi people in places like these.....i can understand people saying no bi guys on their profile though...but thats not having a problem with them, its just not the type of meet they want...i do hate when these sites ask me to state what i am though, i dont like to pigeon hole myself that much....even outside here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There needs to be several more categories for people's sexuality.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We would prefer to call ourselfs bi-playfull , as himself would only play in the heat of the moment , as he wouldnt be attracted to guys at all

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We would prefer to call ourselfs bi-playfull , as himself would only play in the heat of the moment , as he wouldnt be attracted to guys at all

Mrs crazy

That's a level below curious!

We could call this category "every hole is a goal"

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"We would prefer to call ourselfs bi-playfull , as himself would only play in the heat of the moment , as he wouldnt be attracted to guys at all

Mrs crazy

That's a level below curious!

We could call this category "every hole is a goal" "

Lol he would never do anal , give or take , so no hole wouldnt be his goal

he is just orally bi-playfull

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We would prefer to call ourselfs bi-playfull , as himself would only play in the heat of the moment , as he wouldnt be attracted to guys at all

Mrs crazy

That's a level below curious!

We could call this category "every hole is a goal"

Lol he would never do anal , give or take , so no hole wouldnt be his goal

he is just orally bi-playfull

Mrs crazy

Even better again, he would be a class 1 bisexual, which a lot of guys are scared to admit they are.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"We would prefer to call ourselfs bi-playfull , as himself would only play in the heat of the moment , as he wouldnt be attracted to guys at all

Mrs crazy

That's a level below curious!

We could call this category "every hole is a goal"

Lol he would never do anal , give or take , so no hole wouldnt be his goal

he is just orally bi-playfull

Mrs crazy

Even better again, he would be a class 1 bisexual, which a lot of guys are scared to admit they are.

They have classes now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well it's better than stages because people will assume you phase through stages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would prefer to call ourselfs bi-playfull , as himself would only play in the heat of the moment , as he wouldnt be attracted to guys at all

Mrs crazy

That's a level below curious!

We could call this category "every hole is a goal"

Lol he would never do anal , give or take , so no hole wouldnt be his goal

he is just orally bi-playfull

Mrs crazy

Even better again, he would be a class 1 bisexual, which a lot of guys are scared to admit they are.

They have classes now?

At all good local colleges....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

orally bi but never talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to play with bi guys and some people's views on the subject are nothing but ignorant..

Remember..

Ignorance breeds contempt...

Contempt breeds pessimistic activity....

Replace fear with knowledge and dare to be different!!!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Well it's better than stages because people will assume you phase through stages. "

What class are you if you don't mind a bit of mutual wanking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well it's better than stages because people will assume you phase through stages.

What class are you if you don't mind a bit of mutual wanking?"

Horny!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Well it's better than stages because people will assume you phase through stages.

What class are you if you don't mind a bit of mutual wanking?

Horny!"

Grand, I can keep straight on my profile so, and I won't be lying to myself or anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nearly warrants terms and conditions to be attached to what class you go into.

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