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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it rude to just delete a message without reading it first...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. No one has to read your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, completely off thread but I've just read your status, OP!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha....I'm bad.....couldn't message you as I'm 3 years out....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking if you can delete a message without reading it? Otherwise I fail to see the point of the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm asking ....do you think it's rude to delete a message without reading it first...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm asking ....do you think it's rude to delete a message without reading it first...?"

No,do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not always rude. You can see the first few words of a message without opening it. If those first few words are 'you wanna fuk now' then delete away

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"I'm asking ....do you think it's rude to delete a message without reading it first...?"

Depends on what the message is!!

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Ha, I get so few I always reply !! Be rude not to ! But I can understand why ladies would delete, I'm sure they read the same crap over n over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, I think most - or a lot of people on here go to the profile before reading the message. If that person isn't for them then theres no point reading the message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol"

Nor could I !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just delete, no time for messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !"

Hahahaha.....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !

Hahahaha.....!!!"

I mean it lol. Filters, filters, filters! No moaning about too many messages and having to mass delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just delete, no time for messages."

Sooooo harsh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just delete, no time for messages.

Sooooo harsh!

I agree very harsh.....lol...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !

Hahahaha.....!!!

I mean it lol. Filters, filters, filters! No moaning about too many messages and having to mass delete"

This!!!! And yes I think it's rather rude to delete without reading unless the message is rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to chat you Loncav but im outside your age range ,,your comments here are always worth reading

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Is it rude to just delete a message without reading it first...?"

I prefer if they are read first, then deleted!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !

Hahahaha.....!!!

I mean it lol. Filters, filters, filters! No moaning about too many messages and having to mass delete

This!!!! And yes I think it's rather rude to delete without reading unless the message is rude"

Ahhhh but how do you know if it's rude or not unless you read it first....dilemma.... lol

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !

Hahahaha.....!!!

I mean it lol. Filters, filters, filters! No moaning about too many messages and having to mass delete

This!!!! And yes I think it's rather rude to delete without reading unless the message is rude

Ahhhh but how do you know if it's rude or not unless you read it first....dilemma.... lol"

As others said you can read the first few words. Anyway I always read mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !

Hahahaha.....!!!

I mean it lol. Filters, filters, filters! No moaning about too many messages and having to mass delete

This!!!! And yes I think it's rather rude to delete without reading unless the message is rude

Ahhhh but how do you know if it's rude or not unless you read it first....dilemma.... lol

As others said you can read the first few words. Anyway I always read mine."

I always read mine too. But then often reply - and then get in shit. Because I'm being nice and polite some take it as a sign I'm dying to meet them ;-(

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !

Hahahaha.....!!!

I mean it lol. Filters, filters, filters! No moaning about too many messages and having to mass delete

This!!!! And yes I think it's rather rude to delete without reading unless the message is rude

Ahhhh but how do you know if it's rude or not unless you read it first....dilemma.... lol

As others said you can read the first few words. Anyway I always read mine.

I always read mine too. But then often reply - and then get in shit. Because I'm being nice and polite some take it as a sign I'm dying to meet them ;-("

Ahhhh yes, the wackos.....lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !

Hahahaha.....!!!

I mean it lol. Filters, filters, filters! No moaning about too many messages and having to mass delete

This!!!! And yes I think it's rather rude to delete without reading unless the message is rude

Ahhhh but how do you know if it's rude or not unless you read it first....dilemma.... lol

As others said you can read the first few words. Anyway I always read mine.

I always read mine too. But then often reply - and then get in shit. Because I'm being nice and polite some take it as a sign I'm dying to meet them ;-(

Ahhhh yes, the wackos.....lol"

That's a whole new topic....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !

Hahahaha.....!!!

I mean it lol. Filters, filters, filters! No moaning about too many messages and having to mass delete

This!!!! And yes I think it's rather rude to delete without reading unless the message is rude

Ahhhh but how do you know if it's rude or not unless you read it first....dilemma.... lol

As others said you can read the first few words. Anyway I always read mine.

I always read mine too. But then often reply - and then get in shit. Because I'm being nice and polite some take it as a sign I'm dying to meet them ;-(

Ahhhh yes, the wackos.....lol

That's a whole new topic....!!"

the wackos get fed up with me cos all I do is talk crap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy just to get some messages

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By *itanium 5Man
over a year ago

Cork

Bold girl. I would really like to mail you but yor filters Don,t allow me. Can you mail me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I agree the statistics between men and women are massive.... I couldn't imagine being bombarded with messages every time I log on...lol

Nor could I !

Hahahaha.....!!!

I mean it lol. Filters, filters, filters! No moaning about too many messages and having to mass delete

This!!!! And yes I think it's rather rude to delete without reading unless the message is rude

Ahhhh but how do you know if it's rude or not unless you read it first....dilemma.... lol

As others said you can read the first few words. Anyway I always read mine.

I always read mine too. But then often reply - and then get in shit. Because I'm being nice and polite some take it as a sign I'm dying to meet them ;-("
........yes d....but some men take..."im dying for cock right now" the wrong way....you should

Probably change you're opening msg....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it rude to just delete a message without reading it first...?"

No. It's not rude to ignore unsolicited mail. If you know you aren't interested then it's a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point replying unless you're interested. What I have found on here is, a no reply doesn't always mean not interested. Sometimes they might not even see ur mail, then u mail again in the future and they reply. If u see ur mail been opened and or deleted with no reply then you're doomed lol. It's hard to get a regular convo going also. I have often mailed women and then still wouldnt have opened your mail 24 hours later. The men to women ratio is huge and won't Change unless more women succumb to their horniness and join the no strings party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think its rude to delete, the amount of msg women get over a few days is crazy cudnt possibly read them all.Then u get the men with no imagination" I'd bury head between ure ass for a wk",like come lads ye can do better than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Is it rude to just delete a message without reading it first...?"

Perhaps they don't realise that you're grrrrrrrrrrreat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I just see "Hi" or a couple of random letters typed as a message headline I delete them automatically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's rude. It's not an obligation. It's a choice.

you choose the level of interaction you have.

I don't know how you are feeling. Your profile is one thing, but we have all had days where sex isn't a priority. It's part of the magic of finding the right people. You need to be at the right place, at the right time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it rude to just delete a message without reading it first...?

Perhaps they don't realise that you're grrrrrrrrrrreat!

Hahahahaha......and there's me thinkin I was....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not always rude. You can see the first few words of a message without opening it. If those first few words are 'you wanna fuk now' then delete away"

I need to work on my opening line I thought that was a classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can see from the first line of a mail that they haven't bothered reading my profile I'm not gonna bother reading their message so I'll just delete it, that not rude, it's only fair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I just see "Hi" or a couple of random letters typed as a message headline I delete them automatically. "

I agree...if there is no effort or or you don't have that intuitive feeling when reading the title then ..bye bye message...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm asking ....do you think it's rude to delete a message without reading it first...?

No,do you?"

Actually I don't no....but others differ.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Theyou could of read the message then deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I can see from the first line of a mail that they haven't bothered reading my profile I'm not gonna bother reading their message so I'll just delete it, that not rude, it's only fair. "

Same as. Usually the "hi" or "hi how are u" messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. No one has to read your message.

I was referring to the topic in general.... not my message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I can see from the first line of a mail that they haven't bothered reading my profile I'm not gonna bother reading their message so I'll just delete it, that not rude, it's only fair.

Same as. Usually the "hi" or "hi how are u" messages "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its not always rude. You can see the first few words of a message without opening it. If those first few words are 'you wanna fuk now' then delete away

I need to work on my opening line I thought that was a classic

Lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm asking ....do you think it's rude to delete a message without reading it first...?

No,do you?"

No I do not

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

It's not rude at all. You can't take it personally when a lady doesn't want to waste her time on someone she has no interest in. It may sound harsh but that's the reality. It happens to us all at some point and we just have to accept it.

There's no place in here if your feelings easily get hurt.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's not rude at all. You can't take it personally when a lady doesn't want to waste her time on someone she has no interest in. It may sound harsh but that's the reality. It happens to us all at some point and we just have to accept it.

There's no place in here if your feelings easily get hurt.

I think it's more accurate to say there's no place in here if your ego is fragile and you can't take rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not rude at all, what I find rude, and a lack of manners, is people you're in conversation with that suddenly stop replying to messages. If they change their minds, fine, but they should just let you know.

Alex

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