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Breaking the Golden Rule.

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By *vpamela OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

We all have them, some unwritten, some very explicitly written on our profiles. Today I was messaging a blank photo profile and broke their golden rule by asking for a pic (any pic really would do). My brain functions better with some kind of visual. End of conversation she said

Does anyone else enter into long chats with blank pics? (feel kinda good now knowing I'm a rule breaker )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time and usually click with them and then I start panicking about what do they look like?, do I know them? Etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I don't know why people get bent out of shape about fakes etc.

I have talked to people with no pic, even added them on kik and chatted for like a week or two on there before seeing them. I will only ask to see one when a meet is on the cards for sure, cause I need to be able to recognise them.

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By *vpamela OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"All the time and usually click with them and then I start panicking about what do they look like?, do I know them? Etc"

And did you ever get a surprise ?

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

I like to see the goods before I buy

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I rarely talk to anons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time and usually click with them and then I start panicking about what do they look like?, do I know them? Etc

And did you ever get a surprise ? "

Got a nice surprise lately but now he's taken to putting up an avatar

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By *vpamela OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"I like to see the goods before I buy "

I think I like to see the goods even if only window shopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the fakes start getting very indignant when you ask for a pic or more than one if the pic they do send on looks very fake or unreal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally we wouldn't bother chatting to people who wont share face pics, why would we... I mean what a waste of time it is chattng to someone for a week or two then before a meet get a picture and they are not your type etc...what a let down it is :/ everyone has their own standards which is cool but i reckon people who dont mind not seeing a picture but want to meet for play have no standards and would basically fuck anything with a pulse... and if they have no standards regarding looks then whats the chances they have respect for themselves/others and hygiene etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try reading the original post it's having no pics up on display doesn't mean they don't share them before they meet. That's the sort of judgemental shite I hate tbh. Cast dispersions on people because they've no pic on display some people value discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The folk that don't have Any pics, and then state no pic no reply! Fuk them right in shitter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in chatting to blank profile pics as long as they have some type of picture to send you after a while

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre


"No harm in chatting to blank profile pics as long as they have some type of picture to send you after a while"

How long is a while for you? I just plain forgot her rule and got burned..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No harm in chatting to blank profile pics as long as they have some type of picture to send you after a while

How long is a while for you? I just plain forgot her rule and got burned.."

within the next week, cant leave it too long really lol, could be wasting time then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try reading the original post it's having no pics up on display doesn't mean they don't share them before they meet. That's the sort of judgemental shite I hate tbh. Cast dispersions on people because they've no pic on display some people value discretion"

Original post basically says the profile had no picture and dont ask for a picture or end of convo (which happened)....and my point was just that, perhaps they do send a picture before they meet but when...? 1 week into talking... 2 weeks? Weve been chatting to people who dont send face pics and after lengthy convos and trust building they turned out to not be our cup of tea or fakes which is just a waste of time in any case, fair enough if you dont have pics up for any tom dick or harry to see thats quite reasonable actually but to not send any pictures and saying not to ask for pictures or there will be no conversation is just stupid, everyone wants discretion but if your that worried about it dont come onto a site for casual sex group sex or gangbangs etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're terrified in case we break anyone's golden rules....so messages from blank profiles. ..we delete without opening. ...wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings. ..or appear rude....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try reading the original post it's having no pics up on display doesn't mean they don't share them before they meet. That's the sort of judgemental shite I hate tbh. Cast dispersions on people because they've no pic on display some people value discretion

Original post basically says the profile had no picture and dont ask for a picture or end of convo (which happened)....and my point was just that, perhaps they do send a picture before they meet but when...? 1 week into talking... 2 weeks? Weve been chatting to people who dont send face pics and after lengthy convos and trust building they turned out to not be our cup of tea or fakes which is just a waste of time in any case, fair enough if you dont have pics up for any tom dick or harry to see thats quite reasonable actually but to not send any pictures and saying not to ask for pictures or there will be no conversation is just stupid, everyone wants discretion but if your that worried about it dont come onto a site for casual sex group sex or gangbangs etc... "

Wasn't that part of your arguement that annoyed me was that it jumped from not being attracted which happens and it's shit to people not caring about who they fuck or personnal hygeine as if they are related. That's all. I give most people a chance here doesn't mean I'd fuck most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try reading the original post it's having no pics up on display doesn't mean they don't share them before they meet. That's the sort of judgemental shite I hate tbh. Cast dispersions on people because they've no pic on display some people value discretion

Original post basically says the profile had no picture and dont ask for a picture or end of convo (which happened)....and my point was just that, perhaps they do send a picture before they meet but when...? 1 week into talking... 2 weeks? Weve been chatting to people who dont send face pics and after lengthy convos and trust building they turned out to not be our cup of tea or fakes which is just a waste of time in any case, fair enough if you dont have pics up for any tom dick or harry to see thats quite reasonable actually but to not send any pictures and saying not to ask for pictures or there will be no conversation is just stupid, everyone wants discretion but if your that worried about it dont come onto a site for casual sex group sex or gangbangs etc...

Wasn't that part of your arguement that annoyed me was that it jumped from not being attracted which happens and it's shit to people not caring about who they fuck or personnal hygeine as if they are related. That's all. I give most people a chance here doesn't mean I'd fuck most. "

Yeah i did kinda get distracted thinking bout 2 situations there TBH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a brave move to share face pics tho. There's been several posts here about blackmail. How do you know you can trust someone enough to share ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a brave move to share face pics tho. There's been several posts here about blackmail. How do you know you can trust someone enough to share ?"

think you have to trust your gut instinct, those who use the forums been here a while safe to send face pics no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it would b sleeping with an attached man..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being asked for pics and would never demand them either. Things will either move forward with ease or it won't..

I do like to give people the benefit of the doubt but I have a one strike rule (Only on Wednesday though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a message from a woman who clearly says Not meeting single guy in her profile or has single guys blocked from messaging. It's a a no no straight away....the negativity it gives off means I wouldn't be interested.....as Sapiosexual the vibes start in the mind ......negative first and it's over before it starts. If it's all on their terms then it's too negative to go anywhere. The joys of Sapiophiles but the pleasures are immense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate being asked for pics and would never demand them either. Things will either move forward with ease or it won't..

I do like to give people the benefit of the doubt but I have a one strike rule (Only on Wednesday though) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pic just delete them putting up a pic shows a little commitment I think

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