FabSwingers.com forum: Age restrictions

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are you like with age restrictions in a relationship? Currently a relative of mine is 19 and shes in a relationship with a 28 yo. 2 much or not a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby is 12 yrs older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated a girl 10 years younger than me... She thought I was very mature.... She was also not a great judge of people

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By *xhibitACouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Once they're adults who cares how old they are. My dad was 17 years older than my mum!

No one cares

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally I see no issue but some do mainly saying he's to old for her.

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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago

Near Carryduff

Had a brief fling with the company sec. She was 15/16 years younger, fantastic experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion."

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

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By *xhibitACouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion."

Your man moralising on a swinging site

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

My ex husband was 10 years older than me and it wasnt the age gap that we divorced or because of sex! It doesnt matter how old you are or the age gap. My marriage lasted 19 years and hes such a great friend and dad to my kids. Right now ,Im gonna find meself a 37 year old Adonis that will rock my world mentally and physically. Ill fill you all in tomorrow when i wake up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion."

I generally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

You're very very naughty, now come sit on my knee and tell me more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it's often said but it's nothing but a number. Age doesn't necessarily dictate maturity, personality, compatibility etc.

Who's to say a person can't "experience life" because they're with someone older/younger than they are. A perfect match is a perfect match, that transcends age. Conversley, two similarly aged peopled could be polar opposites.

I think if you focus too much on that aspect that you'd be asking for problems to arise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

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lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I generally agree with this"

I read that and thought really no I am seeing things it was common place for the male to be 20 yrs older than the fem back in the day but in 2016 who gives a shit there's plenty couples where there is ten, twenty or thirty years between spouses both ways

Some women love their toyboys and men that are willing to be sugar daddies others that are totally in love and as we all know love is blind

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read that and thought really no I am seeing things it was common place for the male to be 20 yrs older than the fem back in the day but in 2016 who gives a shit there's plenty couples where there is ten, twenty or thirty years between spouses both ways "

Back in the day it was common for women to have less rights too, it was a practical and logical solution to be with an older guy.

If you were 30 you simply couldnt find a single 30 year old woman to date.

In 2016 women have too much to go out and experience to be with a 30 year old at 19.

They need to be heading off to uni, they need to be out there making mistakes and learning from life, and they need to go out and build a life for themselves, and there are lots of 30 year olds out there single.

It just makes no sense any more, even if it still does happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

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family friends random erst etc. Of course it would naturally play on ur mind if u were in a scenario of a big or biggesh age gap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

family friends random erst etc. Of course it would naturally play on ur mind if u were in a scenario of a big or biggesh age gap "
naturally play on ur mind that u want people close to u to be ok with it

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

family friends random erst etc. Of course it would naturally play on ur mind if u were in a scenario of a big or biggesh age gap naturally play on ur mind that u want people close to u to be ok with it "

Feck right off.. if 2 people want to be together do you actually think that what people close to them are going to think of them matters? It doesnt matter what people think or say and im basing this on a relationship between 2 people. Nobody will dictate who you fall in love with except for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

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that's the general conception, I agree. "Oh fuck everyone else's opinion" but let's be realistic, people's opinions matter who are close to u and you want fam n friends to approve.like let's be honest. I think it's very rare u see an 18 19 yo woman with a 30 yo man. Maybe I'm wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say age is only a number I have to say lots yough kids this days are very mature for them age. I personally rather someone 27 or older but I dont mind to teach a yough one a thing or two

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

that's the general conception, I agree. "Oh fuck everyone else's opinion" but let's be realistic, people's opinions matter who are close to u and you want fam n friends to approve.like let's be honest. I think it's very rare u see an 18 19 yo woman with a 30 yo man. Maybe I'm wrong "

Youre very wrong so maybe you should open your mind a wee bit and not judge if you see a 19 year old with a 30 year old guy on a date. And in fairness if youre wondering about what family and friends think? She must mean a lot to you think of taking it that far

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Back in the day it was common for women to have less rights too, it was a practical and logical solution to be with an older guy.

If you were 30 you simply couldnt find a single 30 year old woman to date.

In 2016 women have too much to go out and experience to be with a 30 year old at 19.

It just makes no sense any more, even if it still does happen."

Sense has nothing to do with it eyes meet across a room a conversation starts there is chemistry a second date before u know it ur thinking would she like to be buried with my people

Ur way if a twenty years old wants a night out it must not include any one over 24 yrs old for fear they might look at each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

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been honest I'm thinking out loud and in general

It's nobody specific but ye, I have very rarely seen an 18/19 yo woman with a 30 yo man.thats not living in a big city for you maybe haha

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

been honest I'm thinking out loud and in general

It's nobody specific but ye, I have very rarely seen an 18/19 yo woman with a 30 yo man.thats not living in a big city for you maybe haha"

Have u ever seen two women or two guys dating I am sure they did think of those around them but at the end of the day they do what's best for them similar with people in relationships with a large age gap yes they probably thought of those around them but at the end of the day who are they satisfying those around them or them self's

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

been honest I'm thinking out loud and in general

It's nobody specific but ye, I have very rarely seen an 18/19 yo woman with a 30 yo man.thats not living in a big city for you maybe haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I met him when I was 18 and he was 30

lol I could imagine breaking it that I'm dating an 18 yo. I'd get some looks and responses

Looks and responses to what or from whom? If you find it funny that youre worried about what people think..then dont meet an 18 year old or younger and stick to your own age. Problem solved.

been honest I'm thinking out loud and in general

It's nobody specific but ye, I have very rarely seen an 18/19 yo woman with a 30 yo man.thats not living in a big city for you maybe haha"

You don't have to defend your opinion. You're entitled to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 38,recently had a 19 year old chasing after me, I was considering it but my niece is the same age! Think they actually know each other!! Went out with an 18 year old when I was 30,was OK, but her friends thought I was her dad! Embarrassing for both of us,

half your age and add 7 is a good enough equation!!

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.I

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion."

I have to agree with this totally. As you get older it matters less.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.I

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I have to agree with this totally. As you get older it matters less. "
Some truth in that alrite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm 38,recently had a 19 year old chasing after me, I was considering it but my niece is the same age! Think they actually know each other!! Went out with an 18 year old when I was 30,was OK, but her friends thought I was her dad! Embarrassing for both of us,

half your age and add 7 is a good enough equation!! "
i suppose in my situation I'm a bit lucky. I don't look 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me a 19 year old is a teenager so its wrong for an adult to be with them.

The past is the past, when women would be happy to stay at home and be a wife, they often picked older men who had built up a job, and were able to provide.I

But this is 2016, teens should be with other teens out experiencing life not with some aul lad.

For me the age limit gets bigger as you get older

for example, 19 year old should top out dating 24 year olds.

20 year olds shouldnt go higher than 28 year old

22 year old shouldnt go higher than 30

25 year old can go as high as 38

30 year old can go as high as 50 or older if they want.

That's my opinion.

I have to agree with this totally. As you get older it matters less. "

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