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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south

Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh grow the fuck up, Jesus Christ, you won't half look like a Muppet, also any abusive shit you send them what's going to stop them forwarding that to your new job to show what a loon ya are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh grow the fuck up, Jesus Christ, you won't half look like a Muppet, also any abusive shit you send them what's going to stop them forwarding that to your new job to show what a loon ya are?"

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Why would u do such a silly thing lowering ur self to their level be professional about it say thanks and good bye u never know where ull meet some of these people again

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Never burn your bridges..

Leave with dignity.

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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago

Dublin or anywhere

Take them all to the pub and buy them lots of beer....tell them your going to miss them forever .

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south

Hold on a fecking min. I didn't ask for advice or permission I just asked what would people like to say. Also u don't know where I work so u don't know the situation, I can guarantee that if u were in my shoes u would just burn the bridge with this company is would blow the fucking thing up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold on a fecking min. I didn't ask for advice or permission I just asked what would people like to say. Also u don't know where I work so u don't know the situation, I can guarantee that if u were in my shoes u would just burn the bridge with this company is would blow the fucking thing up ."

How.bout stand up for yourself instead of hiding behind emails, what's to say this new job isn't going to be the exact same situation...also I'd go out on the piss with the work people that I like and say nothing to those that I don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only say positive things or not say anything. If wasn't happy there, I would just be glad to see the back of it, smile with gritted teeth and 'let it go ' in the words of the Disney song. If I did have something burning I needed to say and get it off my chest, I would say to their faces. Certainly wouldn't put it in writing, on an email. I don't really do negativity, waste of my energy. But hey ho, we are all different

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Me thinks someone is bored.. click bait

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Hold on a fecking min. I didn't ask for advice or permission I just asked what would people like to say. Also u don't know where I work so u don't know the situation, I can guarantee that if u were in my shoes u would just burn the bridge with this company is would blow the fucking thing up .

How.bout stand up for yourself instead of hiding behind emails, what's to say this new job isn't going to be the exact same situation...also I'd go out on the piss with the work people that I like and say nothing to those that I don't..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say anything, I have quit without the right notice before though. Just walked out and not come back.

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"Hold on a fecking min. I didn't ask for advice or permission I just asked what would people like to say. Also u don't know where I work so u don't know the situation, I can guarantee that if u were in my shoes u would just burn the bridge with this company is would blow the fucking thing up .

How.bout stand up for yourself instead of hiding behind emails, what's to say this new job isn't going to be the exact same situation...also I'd go out on the piss with the work people that I like and say nothing to those that I don't..."

I don't hide behind emails, any

Problems I've had I've taken them to the top (managing director) or directly to the person involved. The probelm is that they wouldn't listen until something went wrong and then they would ask "why haven't u done anything about that". Also the digs I mentioned are specific and only the people concerned will understand them.

I will say it again incase u didn't read it. i didn't ask for advice I was just wondering if u had the chance, what would u like to say to prople who made u job shit before u go. FFS it's a hypothetical question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually did that once years ago. My manager was a total bitch and it was only me and her in the office. She treated me like I was 2 and literally felt the need to supervise me out s bloody stamp on an envelope. Anyway she ended up having a hissy fit and resigning thinking they'd beg her to stay but it didn't happen. When it was my time to leave there was 3 other people leaving from different sections so we went for a meal. The big boss asked what my best memory of wirking there was and I said when she went crazy they all knew she was a bitch and how she treated me but no one ever said anything but everyone got uncomfortable and I was like 'I don't give a fuck she was a cow' and left... So worth it felt great after doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best to say nothing and leave with a bit of dignity and class. A bit of professionalism is called for. Your (soon to be) former colleagues may not have had any but you should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax folks he's not asking for approval to do it. He's going do it anyway. His life.

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"Relax folks he's not asking for approval to do it. He's going do it anyway. His life. "

Finally someone who read the full post. Thank u.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold on a fecking min. I didn't ask for advice or permission I just asked what would people like to say. Also u don't know where I work so u don't know the situation, I can guarantee that if u were in my shoes u would just burn the bridge with this company is would blow the fucking thing up .

How.bout stand up for yourself instead of hiding behind emails, what's to say this new job isn't going to be the exact same situation...also I'd go out on the piss with the work people that I like and say nothing to those that I don't...

I don't hide behind emails, any

Problems I've had I've taken them to the top (managing director) or directly to the person involved. The probelm is that they wouldn't listen until something went wrong and then they would ask "why haven't u done anything about that". Also the digs I mentioned are specific and only the people concerned will understand them.

I will say it again incase u didn't read it. i didn't ask for advice I was just wondering if u had the chance, what would u like to say to prople who made u job shit before u go. FFS it's a hypothetical question."

If you just wanted an answer to your question why didn't ya just ask it instead of putting in all the other stuff?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Hey, he had every right to do something stupid ofnhe wants.

And it is stupid....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all in my opinion but to each their own.

Best of luck if you, God forbid, ever need a future job reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh grow the fuck up, Jesus Christ, you won't half look like a Muppet, also any abusive shit you send them what's going to stop them forwarding that to your new job to show what a loon ya are?"

A 'tad' strong, but I have to agree!

Leave with your head held high and with your dignity intact.

Jasper is right, nothing to stop your old job/workmates forwarding your mail to your new job. That won't be a good start no matter what way you try and 'lighten' it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand the urge OP dealing with knobheads. But once it's sent there is no going back! Resist resist resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never burn your bridges..

Leave with dignity. "

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south

Ffs read the post. "My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go" it was a hypothetical question I didn't say I was going to burn any bridge's I just said I was going to give a few people some digs (more funny than malicious) for God sake lighten up. Plus if I was looking for career advice the last place I would ask is an online forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs read the post. "My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go" it was a hypothetical question I didn't say I was going to burn any bridge's I just said I was going to give a few people some digs (more funny than malicious) for God sake lighten up. Plus if I was looking for career advice the last place I would ask is an online forum. "

Your backtracking now, you said sly digs at dickheads..hopefully it doesn't come back and bite ya in the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But they are saying what they would say, nothing, cause they are pussssaaaaaaayssss afraid of burning bridges.

I'm my own boss so I would probably thank myself for being a great employee, promise myself a great reference, then thank myself for being a great boss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But they are saying what they would say, nothing, cause they are pussssaaaaaaayssss afraid of burning bridges.

I'm my own boss so I would probably thank myself for being a great employee, promise myself a great reference, then thank myself for being a great boss."

Ya real pusssaaaaays for not sending an email about how butthurt we are,boohoo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya real pusssaaaaays for not sending an email about how butthurt we are,boohoo... "

There there *pats back* bury it deep down inside and pretend I'm your boss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya real pusssaaaaays for not sending an email about how butthurt we are,boohoo...

There there *pats back* bury it deep down inside and pretend I'm your boss x"

I quit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya real pusssaaaaays for not sending an email about how butthurt we are,boohoo...

There there *pats back* bury it deep down inside and pretend I'm your boss x"

Also its not good to bury things deep down, mental health and all that, did your therapist never tell ya that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answering your question, i wish everyone the best of luck..can't b arsed sending emails wasting my time on people i don't like ..

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry


"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go. "

I'm planning on handing in my notice next week and what I plan to say is " see you up your own hole bitch fuck your job fuck your salon and I'm taking my clients with me !! The more u do for someone the less your thought on ! I feel better rant over !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd most likely just say bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go. "

I know something great you can do,without emailing or saying anything to the staff,im not saying it on here so pm me to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy "
so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go.

I'm planning on handing in my notice next week and what I plan to say is " see you up your own hole bitch fuck your job fuck your salon and I'm taking my clients with me !! The more u do for someone the less your thought on ! I feel better rant over !! "

u have the idea. I know u wouldn't say that but it feels good to vent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go. "

I wouldn't say anything,I'd just do a dump on the bosses desk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses."

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like turtles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go.

I wouldn't say anything,I'd just do a dump on the bosses desk. "

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you feel like that's something you need to do then do it. Some people are fierce grumpy today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like turtles "

I like sharks

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse"

I never said what was in the email but a few sly digs. Obviously our definitions of sly digs are different as mine are more of funny than malicious. Come on ffs that is not the intent of the post, it was just more of a "what if", lighten up ffs and stop being so serious all the time. I thought this was a place to have some harmless fun not to attack people who post a fecking question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like i said earlier i have something great that you can do without emailing or saying anything to anyone,im sure you will love it,im not saying on here,so pm me to find out more.

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over a year ago


"I like turtles

I like sharks "

We should start an aquarium

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry

I like rainbows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like rainbows "

I like leprechauns

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over a year ago


"I like turtles

I like sharks

We should start an aquarium "

My shark would eat your turtle

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Im all for vengeance but do it in person its more satisfying.

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"Like i said earlier i have something great that you can do without emailing or saying anything to anyone,im sure you will love it,im not saying on here,so pm me to find out more."
I work in IT if I want to do anything I don't even have to be in the same country. But I wouldn't do that because as I said I am not burning any bridge's I'm just giving a few people who where difficult (dickheads for short) a few Funny (for everyone else) digs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go. "

If I were you I wouldn't put it in writing.

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"OP if you feel like that's something you need to do then do it. Some people are fierce grumpy today "
Ffs ur telling me, everyone is so serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like turtles

I like sharks

We should start an aquarium

My shark would eat your turtle "

My turtle's a badass and isn't going down without a fight.

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"I like turtles

I like sharks

We should start an aquarium

My shark would eat your turtle

My turtle's a badass and isn't going down without a fight. "

lol at least someone is having some fun with this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like turtles

I like sharks

We should start an aquarium

My shark would eat your turtle

My turtle's a badass and isn't going down without a fight. lol at least someone is having some fun with this post.

"

Btw I'm a software engineer so I feel your pain bro

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Probably best to say nothing and leave with a bit of dignity and class. A bit of professionalism is called for. Your (soon to be) former colleagues may not have had any but you should."

I agree with this, plus they 'may' decide not to do s reference if you are overtly rude (I'm in HR) I'd walk away with dignity

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go.

If I were you I wouldn't put it in writing. "

look i have no problem going to the boss and telling them if there is a problem. That's what ur paid to do (not very well I'm my case), to improve the company and how it operates but if that is being ignored until something goes wrong then it gets to a waste of time. Also sometimes it can be an advantage to the people left behind because it can shine a light on issues being ignored. For example one of the reasons I'm leaving is because they wouldn't hire enough people to do the job (I was doing the job of 2 pepole.), now that I'm leaving my manager has been able to use that as a way to not only replace me but to get the extra staff needed. So you can help a company by being frank when u leave that way they can make changes to prevent further loss and improve morale. Man u would sware that I said that i was going to tell them to go f themselves, I just said a few sly digs that would be funny to everyone except a few (3 or 4 out of 300) people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse I never said what was in the email but a few sly digs. Obviously our definitions of sly digs are different as mine are more of funny than malicious. Come on ffs that is not the intent of the post, it was just more of a "what if", lighten up ffs and stop being so serious all the time. I thought this was a place to have some harmless fun not to attack people who post a fecking question."

Your first two posts had nothing humourous in them., what with the dickheads, plebs and blowing the fucking thing up...

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse I never said what was in the email but a few sly digs. Obviously our definitions of sly digs are different as mine are more of funny than malicious. Come on ffs that is not the intent of the post, it was just more of a "what if", lighten up ffs and stop being so serious all the time. I thought this was a place to have some harmless fun not to attack people who post a fecking question.

Your first two posts had nothing humourous in them., what with the dickheads, plebs and blowing the fucking thing up..."

yes because u don't know my situation and the post was taken out of context. I didn't think that people would take "sly dig" as being malicious, where I come from it means a harmless comment not murder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse I never said what was in the email but a few sly digs. Obviously our definitions of sly digs are different as mine are more of funny than malicious. Come on ffs that is not the intent of the post, it was just more of a "what if", lighten up ffs and stop being so serious all the time. I thought this was a place to have some harmless fun not to attack people who post a fecking question.

Your first two posts had nothing humourous in them., what with the dickheads, plebs and blowing the fucking thing up... yes because u don't know my situation and the post was taken out of context. I didn't think that people would take "sly dig" as being malicious, where I come from it means a harmless comment not murder."

Maybe it was the part in your post that said sly digs for the dickheads that made it sound malicious

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

south


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse I never said what was in the email but a few sly digs. Obviously our definitions of sly digs are different as mine are more of funny than malicious. Come on ffs that is not the intent of the post, it was just more of a "what if", lighten up ffs and stop being so serious all the time. I thought this was a place to have some harmless fun not to attack people who post a fecking question.

Your first two posts had nothing humourous in them., what with the dickheads, plebs and blowing the fucking thing up... yes because u don't know my situation and the post was taken out of context. I didn't think that people would take "sly dig" as being malicious, where I come from it means a harmless comment not murder.

Maybe it was the part in your post that said sly digs for the dickheads that made it sound malicious"

sorry but if u had to deal with them u would understand. Like I said I wasn't expecting everyone to get a bee in their bonnet over something that doesn't affect them. I thought that people may see the funny side but obviously allot of people dont have a sense of humour today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse I never said what was in the email but a few sly digs. Obviously our definitions of sly digs are different as mine are more of funny than malicious. Come on ffs that is not the intent of the post, it was just more of a "what if", lighten up ffs and stop being so serious all the time. I thought this was a place to have some harmless fun not to attack people who post a fecking question.

Your first two posts had nothing humourous in them., what with the dickheads, plebs and blowing the fucking thing up... yes because u don't know my situation and the post was taken out of context. I didn't think that people would take "sly dig" as being malicious, where I come from it means a harmless comment not murder.

Maybe it was the part in your post that said sly digs for the dickheads that made it sound malicious sorry but if u had to deal with them u would understand. Like I said I wasn't expecting everyone to get a bee in their bonnet over something that doesn't affect them. I thought that people may see the funny side but obviously allot of people dont have a sense of humour today."

There was nothing humourous about it, you made yourself out to be bitter and vengeful, maybe its your own sense of humour which is lost on everyone...and again you just .made out that you are bitter against them by say "of you had to deal with them you would understand"

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over a year ago

OP stop explaining yourself. You don't need to. It doesn't matter what anyone's opinion of what you want to do is. That wasn't what your thread was about.

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over a year ago

The written word is both powerful and dangerous: as this thread has proved, it is wayyy too open to misinterpretation and misunderstanding. Tread lightly .. .. ..

NB: unasked for advice is given in good faith, even if it is not what was sought

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over a year ago


"OP stop explaining yourself. You don't need to. It doesn't matter what anyone's opinion of what you want to do is. That wasn't what your thread was about. "

I answered his question long ago, and I'm not telling him what he should or should.not do, I'm trying to explain how his message doesn't come across humourous...

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over a year ago


"OP stop explaining yourself. You don't need to. It doesn't matter what anyone's opinion of what you want to do is. That wasn't what your thread was about.

I answered his question long ago, and I'm not telling him what he should or should.not do, I'm trying to explain how his message doesn't come across humourous..."

And he needs to stop trying to explain his situation to you. I found it humourous so it did come across that way to some people.

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over a year ago

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"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse I never said what was in the email but a few sly digs. Obviously our definitions of sly digs are different as mine are more of funny than malicious. Come on ffs that is not the intent of the post, it was just more of a "what if", lighten up ffs and stop being so serious all the time. I thought this was a place to have some harmless fun not to attack people who post a fecking question.

Your first two posts had nothing humourous in them., what with the dickheads, plebs and blowing the fucking thing up... yes because u don't know my situation and the post was taken out of context. I didn't think that people would take "sly dig" as being malicious, where I come from it means a harmless comment not murder.

Maybe it was the part in your post that said sly digs for the dickheads that made it sound malicious sorry but if u had to deal with them u would understand. Like I said I wasn't expecting everyone to get a bee in their bonnet over something that doesn't affect them. I thought that people may see the funny side but obviously allot of people dont have a sense of humour today.

There was nothing humourous about it, you made yourself out to be bitter and vengeful, maybe its your own sense of humour which is lost on everyone...and again you just .made out that you are bitter against them by say "of you had to deal with them you would understand""

I didn't say that i was doing it in a malicious way it was others that implied that, all I fucking asked was a hypothetical question that if ur going to leave ur job what u would like to say. FFS can nobody have an imagination without the fucking PC police getting on ur back.

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"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go.

If I were you I wouldn't put it in writing. look i have no problem going to the boss and telling them if there is a problem. That's what ur paid to do (not very well I'm my case), to improve the company and how it operates but if that is being ignored until something goes wrong then it gets to a waste of time. Also sometimes it can be an advantage to the people left behind because it can shine a light on issues being ignored. For example one of the reasons I'm leaving is because they wouldn't hire enough people to do the job (I was doing the job of 2 pepole.), now that I'm leaving my manager has been able to use that as a way to not only replace me but to get the extra staff needed. So you can help a company by being frank when u leave that way they can make changes to prevent further loss and improve morale. Man u would sware that I said that i was going to tell them to go f themselves, I just said a few sly digs that would be funny to everyone except a few (3 or 4 out of 300) people."

Fire ahead so if won't effect your reference etc.

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By *ardallNight OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go.

If I were you I wouldn't put it in writing. look i have no problem going to the boss and telling them if there is a problem. That's what ur paid to do (not very well I'm my case), to improve the company and how it operates but if that is being ignored until something goes wrong then it gets to a waste of time. Also sometimes it can be an advantage to the people left behind because it can shine a light on issues being ignored. For example one of the reasons I'm leaving is because they wouldn't hire enough people to do the job (I was doing the job of 2 pepole.), now that I'm leaving my manager has been able to use that as a way to not only replace me but to get the extra staff needed. So you can help a company by being frank when u leave that way they can make changes to prevent further loss and improve morale. Man u would sware that I said that i was going to tell them to go f themselves, I just said a few sly digs that would be funny to everyone except a few (3 or 4 out of 300) people.

Fire ahead so if won't effect your reference etc. "

and what the fucking has that to do with u?

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over a year ago


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse I never said what was in the email but a few sly digs. Obviously our definitions of sly digs are different as mine are more of funny than malicious. Come on ffs that is not the intent of the post, it was just more of a "what if", lighten up ffs and stop being so serious all the time. I thought this was a place to have some harmless fun not to attack people who post a fecking question.

Your first two posts had nothing humourous in them., what with the dickheads, plebs and blowing the fucking thing up... yes because u don't know my situation and the post was taken out of context. I didn't think that people would take "sly dig" as being malicious, where I come from it means a harmless comment not murder.

Maybe it was the part in your post that said sly digs for the dickheads that made it sound malicious sorry but if u had to deal with them u would understand. Like I said I wasn't expecting everyone to get a bee in their bonnet over something that doesn't affect them. I thought that people may see the funny side but obviously allot of people dont have a sense of humour today.

There was nothing humourous about it, you made yourself out to be bitter and vengeful, maybe its your own sense of humour which is lost on everyone...and again you just .made out that you are bitter against them by say "of you had to deal with them you would understand"

I didn't say that i was doing it in a malicious way it was others that implied that, all I fucking asked was a hypothetical question that if ur going to leave ur job what u would like to say. FFS can nobody have an imagination without the fucking PC police getting on ur back. "

When ya put up a thread on an open forum you have to be prepared for people to view.it in a different way to yourself, no need to be.getting stressed out its only a discussion, not like I'll be sending ya an email with a few sly digs in it

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over a year ago


"Hi everyone. I am currently leaving a job for a new one. Monday is my last day and I am going to send an email with a few sly digs in it for some of the dickheads I had to deal with (I'm the IT guy so I have to deal with plebs).

My question is if u were leaving ur job what would u like to say to everyone before u go.

If I were you I wouldn't put it in writing. look i have no problem going to the boss and telling them if there is a problem. That's what ur paid to do (not very well I'm my case), to improve the company and how it operates but if that is being ignored until something goes wrong then it gets to a waste of time. Also sometimes it can be an advantage to the people left behind because it can shine a light on issues being ignored. For example one of the reasons I'm leaving is because they wouldn't hire enough people to do the job (I was doing the job of 2 pepole.), now that I'm leaving my manager has been able to use that as a way to not only replace me but to get the extra staff needed. So you can help a company by being frank when u leave that way they can make changes to prevent further loss and improve morale. Man u would sware that I said that i was going to tell them to go f themselves, I just said a few sly digs that would be funny to everyone except a few (3 or 4 out of 300) people.

Fire ahead so if won't effect your reference etc.

and what the fucking has that to do with u?"

And breathe

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"OP stop explaining yourself. You don't need to. It doesn't matter what anyone's opinion of what you want to do is. That wasn't what your thread was about.

I answered his question long ago, and I'm not telling him what he should or should.not do, I'm trying to explain how his message doesn't come across humourous...

And he needs to stop trying to explain his situation to you. I found it humourous so it did come across that way to some people. "

Who are you,his ma? He's a grown man and can have a discussion if he wants, did I say it came across the same way to everyone? Nooooooooo

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"OP stop explaining yourself. You don't need to. It doesn't matter what anyone's opinion of what you want to do is. That wasn't what your thread was about.

I answered his question long ago, and I'm not telling him what he should or should.not do, I'm trying to explain how his message doesn't come across humourous...

And he needs to stop trying to explain his situation to you. I found it humourous so it did come across that way to some people.

Who are you,his ma? He's a grown man and can have a discussion if he wants, did I say it came across the same way to everyone? Nooooooooo"

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over a year ago


"Plebs ?? Sums you up in one buddy so much for being a friendly community.ffs is everyone that serious that they can't have a laugh at what they would like to say on their way out the door. I didn't say I was going to use any of it. It was more of a way of venting. FFS get off ur high horses.

Read your own post lad, you said "I am going to send" so don't be backtracking because your post hasn't gone the way you wanted it to, maybe in future you'll choose what you say carefully to protect ya from this unfriendly place, yeeeeehaw giddy up high horse I never said what was in the email but a few sly digs. Obviously our definitions of sly digs are different as mine are more of funny than malicious. Come on ffs that is not the intent of the post, it was just more of a "what if", lighten up ffs and stop being so serious all the time. I thought this was a place to have some harmless fun not to attack people who post a fecking question.

Your first two posts had nothing humourous in them., what with the dickheads, plebs and blowing the fucking thing up... yes because u don't know my situation and the post was taken out of context. I didn't think that people would take "sly dig" as being malicious, where I come from it means a harmless comment not murder.

Maybe it was the part in your post that said sly digs for the dickheads that made it sound malicious sorry but if u had to deal with them u would understand. Like I said I wasn't expecting everyone to get a bee in their bonnet over something that doesn't affect them. I thought that people may see the funny side but obviously allot of people dont have a sense of humour today.

There was nothing humourous about it, you made yourself out to be bitter and vengeful, maybe its your own sense of humour which is lost on everyone...and again you just .made out that you are bitter against them by say "of you had to deal with them you would understand"

I didn't say that i was doing it in a malicious way it was others that implied that, all I fucking asked was a hypothetical question that if ur going to leave ur job what u would like to say. FFS can nobody have an imagination without the fucking PC police getting on ur back. "

This is Constable Kinder Bueno of the PC police, we're going to have to take you in for questioning

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over a year ago


"OP stop explaining yourself. You don't need to. It doesn't matter what anyone's opinion of what you want to do is. That wasn't what your thread was about.

I answered his question long ago, and I'm not telling him what he should or should.not do, I'm trying to explain how his message doesn't come across humourous...

And he needs to stop trying to explain his situation to you. I found it humourous so it did come across that way to some people.

Who are you,his ma? He's a grown man and can have a discussion if he wants, did I say it came across the same way to everyone? Nooooooooo"

You said it didn't come across humourous I said it did. Get you knickers out of your ass jasper. Stop looking for arguments and chill out. It's getting boring

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"OP stop explaining yourself. You don't need to. It doesn't matter what anyone's opinion of what you want to do is. That wasn't what your thread was about.

I answered his question long ago, and I'm not telling him what he should or should.not do, I'm trying to explain how his message doesn't come across humourous...

And he needs to stop trying to explain his situation to you. I found it humourous so it did come across that way to some people.

Who are you,his ma? He's a grown man and can have a discussion if he wants, did I say it came across the same way to everyone? Nooooooooo

You said it didn't come across humourous I said it did. Get you knickers out of your ass jasper. Stop looking for arguments and chill out. It's getting boring "

sorry now slutty but your the one that jumped in when me and the op were having a discussion so if ya didn't like it why not go shag,kiss,avoid someone on another thread

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"OP stop explaining yourself. You don't need to. It doesn't matter what anyone's opinion of what you want to do is. That wasn't what your thread was about.

I answered his question long ago, and I'm not telling him what he should or should.not do, I'm trying to explain how his message doesn't come across humourous...

And he needs to stop trying to explain his situation to you. I found it humourous so it did come across that way to some people.

Who are you,his ma? He's a grown man and can have a discussion if he wants, did I say it came across the same way to everyone? Nooooooooo

You said it didn't come across humourous I said it did. Get you knickers out of your ass jasper. Stop looking for arguments and chill out. It's getting boring sorry now slutty but your the one that jumped in when me and the op were having a discussion so if ya didn't like it why not go shag,kiss,avoid someone on another thread"

Oh I'm sorry.. I could have sworn you said it's a open forum and people can post a different opinion to yours whether you like it or not. Different rules for you huh?

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