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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Made it sense, is it trustable ? We know they are no guarantee, verifications are often faked or awarded from sympathy as favor.

What's what you get when you can be contacted only by supporters ?

..how you think folks ?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Begorrah I don't know....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Begorrah I don't know...."

That makes two of us mate ..thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Begorrah I don't know....

That makes two of us mate ..thanks "

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

It's no harm, put it that way. There are so many time-wasters here, especially new profiles that come and go so quickly. Plus, let's face, it, you don't know who you're meeting (this is probably more a problem for women than men).

If you can see that this person is confirmed as not a time-waster and not an axe-murderer, that's a start. Someone confirming that they look like their pics, are good company and good in bed is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's no harm, put it that way. There are so many time-wasters here, especially new profiles that come and go so quickly. Plus, let's face, it, you don't know who you're meeting (this is probably more a problem for women than men).

If you can see that this person is confirmed as not a time-waster and not an axe-murderer, that's a start. Someone confirming that they look like their pics, are good company and good in bed is a bonus."

I agree so far, but, how can someone start without verification to get a verification when everybody fears a creature from hell behind every new profile..and why I must be an site supporter to contact some members ?

Don't get me wrong I was here before and now back and wondering

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry

Soneone could meet ted bunny for a coffee and verify him ! Say how sexy and nice and down to earth he is then he meets a couple and turns crazy pycho ?? No verifications can't really be trusted ! I always look at who's verified them and who has verified them and so on ! Verify by web cam is a joke also !! Have a nice Thursday xxx

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry

Meant ted bundy

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Meant ted bundy"

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Meant ted bundy"

Lolita, Ted bunny could be much more interesting to meet

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Meant ted bundy

Lolita, Ted bunny could be much more interesting to meet "

Gone UNLOS!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Soneone could meet ted bunny for a coffee and verify him ! Say how sexy and nice and down to earth he is then he meets a couple and turns crazy pycho ?? No verifications can't really be trusted ! I always look at who's verified them and who has verified them and so on ! Verify by web cam is a joke also !! Have a nice Thursday xxx"

Thats it, so in my opinion, give the people a chance, have first an phone call (use a PAG No. as proof of gender maybe first sympathy over voice) meet first on an public place ( to check pic fits person and chemistry fits )

An nice Thursday also for you xoxoxo


"Meant ted bundy"

Of course

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Soneone could meet ted bunny for a coffee and verify him ! Say how sexy and nice and down to earth he is then he meets a couple and turns crazy pycho ?? No verifications can't really be trusted ! I always look at who's verified them and who has verified them and so on ! Verify by web cam is a joke also !! Have a nice Thursday xxx"

Well, I did say it's a start, not the be-all and end-al!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's no harm, put it that way. There are so many time-wasters here, especially new profiles that come and go so quickly. Plus, let's face, it, you don't know who you're meeting (this is probably more a problem for women than men).

If you can see that this person is confirmed as not a time-waster and not an axe-murderer, that's a start. Someone confirming that they look like their pics, are good company and good in bed is a bonus.

I agree so far, but, how can someone start without verification to get a verification when everybody fears a creature from hell behind every new profile..and why I must be an site supporter to contact some members ?

Don't get me wrong I was here before and now back and wondering "

Just like age, height, body type etc choosing to only allow site supporters to contact you is just a person's preference.

Time spent questioning it is time that could be spent getting to know someone else.

That's why the forums are good. A person may be unverified and seeing that on a profile will put some people off right away. Whereas on here you're able to express yourself and your qualities, more so than solely on your profile, in a place where preferences aren't strictly adhered to; anyone will chat to anyone on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Soneone could meet ted bunny for a coffee and verify him ! Say how sexy and nice and down to earth he is then he meets a couple and turns crazy pycho ?? No verifications can't really be trusted ! I always look at who's verified them and who has verified them and so on ! Verify by web cam is a joke also !! Have a nice Thursday xxx

Well, I did say it's a start, not the be-all and end-al! "

But on the end of the day .. newcomer must given a chance to proof they are okay or you can close this here because verified people will just meet verified people, means no new faces boobs and balls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's no harm, put it that way. There are so many time-wasters here, especially new profiles that come and go so quickly. Plus, let's face, it, you don't know who you're meeting (this is probably more a problem for women than men).

If you can see that this person is confirmed as not a time-waster and not an axe-murderer, that's a start. Someone confirming that they look like their pics, are good company and good in bed is a bonus.

I agree so far, but, how can someone start without verification to get a verification when everybody fears a creature from hell behind every new profile..and why I must be an site supporter to contact some members ?

Don't get me wrong I was here before and now back and wondering

Just like age, height, body type etc choosing to only allow site supporters to contact you is just a person's preference.

Time spent questioning it is time that could be spent getting to know someone else.

That's why the forums are good. A person may be unverified and seeing that on a profile will put some people off right away. Whereas on here you're able to express yourself and your qualities, more so than solely on your profile, in a place where preferences aren't strictly adhered to; anyone will chat to anyone on the forums "

..good point so far but choosing that only site supporters is it allowed to contact me as a "personal preference" sound a wee bit....funny to me,or ?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

site supporters only is just a filter and a way to cut down on messages and time waster. I don't think many use that one though.

Coffee meet/ social Verifications are a proof that a person exists and turned up.

Meet verifications give you a certain guarantee that a person behaves behind closed doors, that they do play and not only tease and eventually there's often some additional info about the person if you can read between the lines or if you're good in processing infos. However what might be good for one person might not appeal to another, there's no guarantee (I learned that one ) Also the peeps and their profiles who verified a person can sometimes give you further clues about someone.

There are several ways of getting your first verification: coffee meet, social, party but also there are fabbers that do meet non verified

Surely op you understand that no woman on here wants to walk into something nasty so the verifications are helpful to a certain degree. I guess the same applies to blokes: no one wants to meet a bunny boiler

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"site supporters only is just a filter and a way to cut down on messages and time waster. I don't think many use that one though."

..does not sound very convincing. I do not think that's the thing, make contacts, useful.But okay.


"Coffee meet/ social Verifications are a proof that a person exists and turned up.

Meet verifications give you a certain guarantee that a person behaves behind closed doors, that they do play and not only tease and eventually there's often some additional info about the person if you can read between the lines or if you're good in processing infos. However what might be good for one person might not appeal to another, there's no guarantee (I learned that one ) Also the peeps and their profiles who verified a person can sometimes give you further clues about someone.

There are several ways of getting your first verification: coffee meet, social, party but also there are fabbers that do meet non verified

Surely op you understand that no woman on here wants to walk into something nasty so the verifications are helpful to a certain degree. I guess the same applies to blokes: no one wants to meet a bunny boiler "

But how can somebody get a meet,if he get treated as an time waster or mass murder just because he is new here ? You understand what I mean ..

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry


"Soneone could meet ted bunny for a coffee and verify him ! Say how sexy and nice and down to earth he is then he meets a couple and turns crazy pycho ?? No verifications can't really be trusted ! I always look at who's verified them and who has verified them and so on ! Verify by web cam is a joke also !! Have a nice Thursday xxx

Well, I did say it's a start, not the be-all and end-al!

But on the end of the day .. newcomer must given a chance to proof they are okay or you can close this here because verified people will just meet verified people, means no new faces boobs and balls "

This I agree with xx

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"site supporters only is just a filter and a way to cut down on messages and time waster. I don't think many use that one though.

..does not sound very convincing. I do not think that's the thing, make contacts, useful.But okay.

Coffee meet/ social Verifications are a proof that a person exists and turned up.

Meet verifications give you a certain guarantee that a person behaves behind closed doors, that they do play and not only tease and eventually there's often some additional info about the person if you can read between the lines or if you're good in processing infos. However what might be good for one person might not appeal to another, there's no guarantee (I learned that one ) Also the peeps and their profiles who verified a person can sometimes give you further clues about someone.

There are several ways of getting your first verification: coffee meet, social, party but also there are fabbers that do meet non verified

Surely op you understand that no woman on here wants to walk into something nasty so the verifications are helpful to a certain degree. I guess the same applies to blokes: no one wants to meet a bunny boiler

But how can somebody get a meet,if he get treated as an time waster or mass murder just because he is new here ? You understand what I mean .. "

Others got there too. So I can only repeat myself go to a m&g or occasionally there's a group coffee meet for newbies and unverified ones, or you might be just lucky and someone fancies you without a veri.

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