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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Living my nightmare of a sexless marraige. I am not talking about not having sex for the last couple of monthsbut years. I have tried eeverything and no interest. I must sound like a right scum bag, outside this the marraige is a normal one and we have all the worries everyone else has. I am just missing sex so badly, the excitement, trill, touch,smell and the personnel closeness you feel when two people really what to make to make each other happy. I am having no luck on the sites. I tell the truth and people call me the most horrible names and if i lie about my situation then I am only fooling myself. I am So frustrate , Horny,Feed up ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not a scumbag, some people can go without sex, others find it hard.

I don't find it a problem, I have gone years without it and not cared at all. In fact it might be a year or more since I last had sex anyway.

I stopped having sex with a gf of mine before too. We ended up splitting up over it.

anyway good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Living my nightmare of a sexless marraige. I am not talking about not having sex for the last couple of monthsbut years. I have tried eeverything and no interest. I must sound like a right scum bag, outside this the marraige is a normal one and we have all the worries everyone else has. I am just missing sex so badly, the excitement, trill, touch,smell and the personnel closeness you feel when two people really what to make to make each other happy. I am having no luck on the sites. I tell the truth and people call me the most horrible names and if i lie about my situation then I am only fooling myself. I am So frustrate , Horny,Feed up ........"

Have you tried counselling? Maybe the two of you should think about it. It can be a huge help to some people. Something is obviously not right somewhere in your marriage, and counselling has a way of getting into the dark corners and throwing everything out for discussion. It can be hard work, but it can also be well worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your not happy then why not leave her? Maybe she's not happy either and ye are both just sticking it out for the sake of it? If you meet someone off these sites and feelings developed then you will more than likely leave her anyway, so why not do it now and have a clean break...of course there's other factors involved but if your not happy then something needs to change, are ya prepared for the guilt that will be brought on by cheating?

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"Living my nightmare of a sexless marraige. I am not talking about not having sex for the last couple of monthsbut years. I have tried eeverything and no interest. I must sound like a right scum bag, outside this the marraige is a normal one and we have all the worries everyone else has. I am just missing sex so badly, the excitement, trill, touch,smell and the personnel closeness you feel when two people really what to make to make each other happy. I am having no luck on the sites. I tell the truth and people call me the most horrible names and if i lie about my situation then I am only fooling myself. I am So frustrate , Horny,Feed up ........

Have you tried counselling? Maybe the two of you should think about it. It can be a huge help to some people. Something is obviously not right somewhere in your marriage, and counselling has a way of getting into the dark corners and throwing everything out for discussion. It can be hard work, but it can also be well worth it. "

It can also aid in a dignified ending of your relationship without hurting or anger..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your help you said you went without sex for a year.......try 10yrs. Not joking wish I was.

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