FabSwingers.com forum: BDSM

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Due to the casual nature of this site, do you think it is a place for BDSM?

Would you meet someone who wanted to hit you, tie you up on first meet?

Would you meet up with a girl that has been tied, gagged, blindfolded and have sex with her just because a "dom" on here said you could?

Do you think it should be limited to a bit of rough hanky panky during sex (ass slaps) etc?

I personally think this place is too casual for proper bdsm. I wouldnt meet someone from here that wanted to beat me or me beat them and think it should be kept light hearted.

You?

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I think the site is here to be used as everyone wishes. Each to their own.

Me personally, I would not let a virtual stranger tie me up or anything like that. For me those particular fantasies are only shared with someone I trust 100%.

Now a good ass slapping..... Bring it on

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the site is here to be used as everyone wishes. Each to their own.

Me personally, I would not let a virtual stranger tie me up or anything like that. For me those particular fantasies are only shared with someone I trust 100%.

Now a good ass slapping..... Bring it on

Miss Mcjoy

Did you just slap my ass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its defo something I will tick of my fuck it list however Jack would have to be there with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own I suppose, don't think that this site is to soft,for use of a better word, for it

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

"I think the site is here to be used as everyone wishes. Each to their own.

Me personally, I would not let a virtual stranger tie me up or anything like that. For me those particular fantasies are only shared with someone I trust 100%.

Now a good ass slapping..... Bring it on

Miss Mcjoy

Did you just slap my ass?

Slapped it and sunk my teeth into it too

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the site is here to be used as everyone wishes. Each to their own.

Me personally, I would not let a virtual stranger tie me up or anything like that. For me those particular fantasies are only shared with someone I trust 100%.

Now a good ass slapping..... Bring it on

Miss Mcjoy

Did you just slap my ass?

Slapped it and sunk my teeth into it too

Miss Mcjoy

Will have to tie you up for that

Mr Machine

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

"I think the site is here to be used as everyone wishes. Each to their own.

Me personally, I would not let a virtual stranger tie me up or anything like that. For me those particular fantasies are only shared with someone I trust 100%.

Now a good ass slapping..... Bring it on

Miss Mcjoy

Did you just slap my ass?

Slapped it and sunk my teeth into it too

Miss Mcjoy

Will have to tie you up for that

Mr Machine"

Haha

Miss Mcjoy

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I've met people that have ended up with me being tied down or held down.. (Mmm flashbacks) But never on a first meet. You need to build up trust and rapport before the control is handed over.

Any young fella that claims to be a "Dom" And wants to take control on first meet hasn't a clue.

Any real Doms... Mail me.. I'm hard work but worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I'm hard work but worth it.

personally I find its no fun unless it's hard work. What fun is there if you get what you want straight away. That's just boring.

And to the OP's point, yes. You can practice bdsm on this site. There are loads of bdsm clubs where you meet and pick up potential Doms and subs on any given night. You just need to talk and make sure everyone is on the same page

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

"I've met people that have ended up with me being tied down or held down.. (Mmm flashbacks) But never on a first meet. You need to build up trust and rapport before the control is handed over.

Any young fella that claims to be a "Dom" And wants to take control on first meet hasn't a clue.

Any real Doms... Mail me.. I'm hard work but worth it.

Well said Ginger can always trust you to be a sensible voice

Mail you well you know where that might lead too

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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago

South

Have done it loads before but not on this site..hard to find anyone on here into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't. But we'd meet to discuss...

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Even on a BDSM site people don't generally allow themselves to be put in a vulnerable position on a first date, so here is no different for that. Having said that I have tried to post some of my pics and have been told they are too rude for here lol so the BDSM can only be soft in pictures. And BDSM often doesn't involve sex and as this is a sex site there may be some confusion. But if everyone is open and honest about what they are looking for then I don't see a problem

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