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"I liked it - but it is very long. Some might not bother to read it" Fair play Longcav. I got tired just scrolling to the end! | |||
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"I liked it - but it is very long. Some might not bother to read it Fair play Longcav. I got tired just scrolling to the end!" Lol. | |||
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I applaud the effort you put into that though OP, refreshing. Best of luck  | |||
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"Way too long. If I was looking for a single guy right now I'd have been immediately put off by that. I can see what you were trying to do though. Miss Mcjoy "Much appreciated for the feedback, your bum is magnifique too darling | |||
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"Way too long. If I was looking for a single guy right now I'd have been immediately put off by that. I can see what you were trying to do though. Miss Mcjoy "Miss _cjoy any pointers on mine haha probably too short | |||
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""Excessive amounts of terms & conditions"
I applaud the effort you put into that though OP, refreshing. Best of luck "Cheers man, I had a right aul laugh writing that bit | |||
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"Wow, that's lengthy. Your profile, that is." Haha touché I wish I could say the same about my...it's all about the girth hahah | |||
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""In a sea of dicks"
Oh the imagery "Hahah quite apt considering the ratios involved though | |||
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"Tl:dr I jest, I did read but it was bordering on wall of China-esque in length " Can't dispute that | |||
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"Way too long. If I was looking for a single guy right now I'd have been immediately put off by that. I can see what you were trying to do though. Miss Mcjoy
Much appreciated for the feedback, your bum is magnifique too darling "Ah thank you 
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"I read it. Quite proud of myself. You can tell what kinda guy you are for sure " haha thanks | |||
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"Way too long. If I was looking for a single guy right now I'd have been immediately put off by that. I can see what you were trying to do though. Miss Mcjoy
Much appreciated for the feedback, your bum is magnifique too darling
Ah thank you
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"I read it. Quite proud of myself. You can tell what kinda guy you are for sure haha thanks "Bashing other men isn't the way to do it though (even if you are right ) | |||
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"I read it. Quite proud of myself. You can tell what kinda guy you are for sure haha thanks
Bashing other men isn't the way to do it though (even if you are right ) "ah well it wasn't intended as a neo feminist "all men are bastards" type of thing but moreso thinking if I were a woman on here what would be the core body of mails I would receive from lads, not bashing just an observation based on what I had read in the about sections of girls profiles etc, more power to anyone on how they choose to interact on here but I suppose it was just my way of saying I try to take a different approach I guess | |||
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"Jaysus I though mine was long... "haha yours is quite long but informative nonetheless
I guess "word economy" wouldn't be our forte
P.s. Hal is a lucky guy, that bum of yours is delightful | |||
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"Jaysus I though mine was long... haha yours is quite long but informative nonetheless
I guess "word economy" wouldn't be our forte
P.s. Hal is a lucky guy, that bum of yours is delightful"Thank you kindly | |||
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"I read it. Quite proud of myself. You can tell what kinda guy you are for sure haha thanks
Bashing other men isn't the way to do it though (even if you are right ) ah well it wasn't intended as a neo feminist "all men are bastards" type of thing but moreso thinking if I were a woman on here what would be the core body of mails I would receive from lads, not bashing just an observation based on what I had read in the about sections of girls profiles etc, more power to anyone on how they choose to interact on here but I suppose it was just my way of saying I try to take a different approach I guess"Also about stuck up women. That fabs are just from men thirsty for whatever and "to get over yourself" just not the nicest attitude. You can express your point of view without having a dig at anyone else | |||
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"I like a decent amount of detail in a profile (ours is pretty long too) but that's just way too long to keep my interest. There's too much negativity on there too for my liking, for instance calling other men "ignoramuses" and the passive aggressiveness in your list of dislikes. I'm surprised you can't see the irony in your comment about peoples' endless lists of terms and conditions. I also think it's way too rambly. In a lot of cases you've said something in 30 words which you could say in 5 words. I can see what you're trying to do, and I applaud you for putting effort into your profile, I wish there were more like you! But I think you could easily condense it while still portraying your personality and wit. " it wasn't my intention to have it read as being passive aggressive in any sense, it was more so a case of not mincing my words. As for the length & the list like quality to my likes & dislikes I was moreso trying to illustrate my experience of fab & taking into account the factors that make it enjoyable & sometimes irritating. After all this is all supposed to be a bit of fun. In relation to the use of the term ignoramus, I stand over that. If a person can't find it in themselves to treat someone else with the respect & dignity they deserve then to me I feel that they are ignorant in general. I'm quite sure, again based off what I read on some profiles of girls on here that a lot of guys have a confusion in relation to the difference between a girl being sexually open minded & actively seeking fun with that of a girl being a prostitute. Sure we all like to check out & admire a great body or some sexy pics but if you objectify someone & hold little respect towards them on a human level & just see that girl as "something to stick your dick in" then you are & deserve to be called an ignoramus. | |||
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"I read it. Quite proud of myself. You can tell what kinda guy you are for sure haha thanks
Bashing other men isn't the way to do it though (even if you are right ) ah well it wasn't intended as a neo feminist "all men are bastards" type of thing but moreso thinking if I were a woman on here what would be the core body of mails I would receive from lads, not bashing just an observation based on what I had read in the about sections of girls profiles etc, more power to anyone on how they choose to interact on here but I suppose it was just my way of saying I try to take a different approach I guess
Also about stuck up women. That fabs are just from men thirsty for whatever and "to get over yourself" just not the nicest attitude. You can express your point of view without having a dig at anyone else "I was intending to be nasty in anyway with that comment. I was just illustrating a point that there really is no need to be stuck up. I understand that for a lot of people getting favs on pics is great to boost confidence & makes them feel sexy & really good about themselves & body image etc but the main point there was to not let it get to your head, be humble about it & if someone is respectful to you & treats you well don't be rude & treat people like they are "beneath you" if that makes sense? | |||
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"Jaysus I though mine was long... haha yours is quite long but informative nonetheless
I guess "word economy" wouldn't be our forte
P.s. Hal is a lucky guy, that bum of yours is delightful
Thank you kindly "you're welcome Red | |||
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"That's one long profile. I read it all this time , I would usually just pass that by because of the length." thanks for taking the time to do so, much appreciated | |||
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"Well you're dismissing any feedback you get so maybe you just posted for attention? Good luck to you anyway! "I am not dismissing feedback or being dismissive just moreso pointing out that I stand over what I said initially. I have taken on board what has been said in the feedback & have made no secrets about the fact that I am a straight up no nonsense kind of guy. I understand that this isn't everyone's cup of tea & that's totally cool. Any of the negatives which may be drawn from reading my post are open to interpretation and can certainly be viewed from a positive perspective of one is to read the overall theme of the message underlined. Treat others with respect, if some acts, talks & behaves like a c**t chances are they are one, and I can only speak for myself when I say that in this day & age there is absolutely no place for being an ignorant prick especially when approaching someone for some "playtime". As for me posting it for attention, perhaps you may be right to some small degree in this. I come from the point of view however that somewhere like fab is a place filled with open minded people & felt that a no bullshti approach would be something that members would appreciate especially considering the amount of spoofers & time wasters we all encounter on here. To you Cremo & indeed everyone who has taken the time to read & interact on this post I say thanks for doing so. If anything my intention was to create a dialogue and discussion about respect & the general act of "not being a dick". | |||
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"Oh god that's tooooooo long to read, so everyone missing the point of the lecture. An "F" for everyone in the thread "Not intended to be a lecture at all fella, just an honest & frank reflection of my experience. I make no apologies for speaking my mind & being open & honest. Perhaps it is too honest for some though, it would seem so. | |||
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"Jaysus Christ you sure do love the aul typing..." haha guilty as charged, hope ye're having a good weekend | |||
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"Okay. We got it. Enough! Sometimes quiet time is good "Haha | |||
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"Jaysus Christ you sure do love the aul typing... haha guilty as charged, hope ye're having a good weekend "Meh, it's alright, bit boring but shur what can ya do... | |||
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"Jaysus Christ you sure do love the aul typing... haha guilty as charged, hope ye're having a good weekend
Meh, it's alright, bit boring but shur what can ya do..."ah shor ya may try to make the best of it like, back to the grindstone Tuesday like | |||
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"Jaysus Christ you sure do love the aul typing... haha guilty as charged, hope ye're having a good weekend
Meh, it's alright, bit boring but shur what can ya do... ah shor ya may try to make the best of it like, back to the grindstone Tuesday like "Bk to the grindstone tomorrow night for me... | |||
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"Oh god that's tooooooo long to read, so everyone missing the point of the lecture. An "F" for everyone in the thread
Not intended to be a lecture at all fella, just an honest & frank reflection of my experience. I make no apologies for speaking my mind & being open & honest.
Perhaps it is too honest for some though, it would seem so."Honesty is good - sometimes you just don't have to mention these things tho | |||
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"Oh god that's tooooooo long to read, so everyone missing the point of the lecture. An "F" for everyone in the thread
Not intended to be a lecture at all fella, just an honest & frank reflection of my experience. I make no apologies for speaking my mind & being open & honest.
Perhaps it is too honest for some though, it would seem so.
Honesty is good - sometimes you just don't have to mention these things tho"Fair point I guess. As I was saying before I understand it's not going to be everyone's cup of tea. | |||
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"Okay. We got it. Enough! Sometimes quiet time is good " | |||
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"Just read it. In my opinion I feel it's still a tad excessive, you repeat yourself a few times. I'd edit down a bit more, although I'm guilty of having a bit of a long profile too, but I try to keep mine concise. " thanks for the feedback John, whittled it down another small bit | |||
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"I have edited it to some degree, it's a lot more positive but wordy nonetheless & still quite long. Still in all I believe in this being an opportunity (the about me section) to let people get a sense of your personality. Thanks to everyone for interacting, giving feedback, advice & for taking the time to read it. "It's fine. If they don't want to read it, they're probably not someone you'd want to meet anyway | |||
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