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By *kinz87 OP   Man
over a year ago

magherafelt

Why is there little option for the men?

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By *acrohardMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I've had a reasonable amount of meets on fab. And I'm nothing special. Not that hard really.

Just don't look desperate and don't forget to chat to people like they are normal human beings.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody wants the knob head, fancy a fuck idiots that sites like this tend to attract. Why would they?!

However respectful hot single men, who understand swinging will always be in demand. Those guys will always be successful and us ladies love to share guys like that. People on the scene talk and once you have a reputation either way mud sticks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The laws of supply and demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres lots of people that want single men. Us ladies 'problem' is that theres so many men.

I don't think I'm meant to mention your profile unless you ask for help with it - but why don't you have a look at more 'successful' mens profiles and see how you can jazz yours up. Don't copy what others have, write you own stuff but have a look and get an idea of what to write.

Good luck

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Love single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love single guys .. You just gotta have patience here and find the right people

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By *amserMan
over a year ago

tallaght

Think I found the code

"Hot" single guys in demand , what about the shy chubby and small cocked ....... Oh wait never mind lol

Suppose good pics and a good description might help , oh and respect goes a long way

I've got respect I'll work on the other 2 today lol

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"Love single guys .. You just gotta have patience here and find the right people "

Lol, ah there in lies the problem for most single guys patience lol

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

I love single guys, what would we laugh about if they were gone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is there little option for the men?"

Another boo hoo thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if single guys didnt lick so much ass, turn into doormats, throe themselves at womem maybe some of them wouldnt feel unwanted..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow a set, give them a slap,saddle up and get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet and play with single guys.

There are different calibres of single guy from novice to experienced, from fuckwit to fucktastic.

You don't have to be well versed in swinging to get noticed as a single guy.

Attention to profile, decent correspondence, and an obvious respect for the people you are looking to meet will be very beneficial to single guys looking to stand out amongst the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use fake tan like me lol...

Helped me stand out hahaha

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Why is there little option for the men?

Another boo hoo thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if single guys didnt lick so much ass, turn into doormats, throe themselves at womem maybe some of them wouldnt feel unwanted.."
...alternatively. ..if single guys weren't rude after they had been given a polite no...mabye they might have more luck...the fab grapevine is far reaching. ..everyone knows who the abusive people are..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if single guys didnt lick so much ass, turn into doormats, throe themselves at womem maybe some of them wouldnt feel unwanted.."

If that's what some perceive niceness and manners to be then it says more about them.

It's not unheard of for there to just be nice people out there . Believe it or not, fab's full of 'em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is there little option for the men?"

There's plenty of options, here's two, stay on the site and suck it up and stop being a cry baby, or leave...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak for yourself buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im single. Have been knocked back a good few times,but life is too short to be worrying about things like that. Guys and gals for everyone here..

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"

If that's what some perceive niceness and manners to be then it says more about them.

"

...it says they're probably jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd thread for someone who has been here before and would surely know the score.

Jaspers got some good advice this time round tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd thread for someone who has been here before and would surely know the score.

Jaspers got some good advice this time round tho "

It does happen every now and again..

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Just lie true ur teeth tel them u have d

biggest cock ever lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone knows there is a very small percent of women one here, even smaller that might fit ones criteria. look on the bright side, plenty of hot women out in the real world looking for fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just lie true ur teeth tel them u have d

biggest cock ever lol "
......or slag them off, when the get on to hotpics.......wait...

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"Why is there little option for the men?

There's plenty of options, here's two, stay on the site and suck it up and stop being a cry baby, or leave..."

there is a third option - put a dress on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is there little option for the men?

There's plenty of options, here's two, stay on the site and suck it up and stop being a cry baby, or leave...

there is a third option - put a dress on "

See op there's loads of options for ya!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

"

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"The laws of supply and demand."
Ha ha class reply !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners "

Do ya know how many messages newbies get from single guys? Loooooots,so I wouldn't blame them for blocking, it gets quite annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners "

I block single guys only cos there too many of ya, that just the ratio I am afraid. But I find good manners and positive attitude can be demonstrated here on forum or indeed the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always the same.

A married guy joins, complains cant get meets, none of the girls meet married men.

Single guy joins, complains cant get meets, none of the girls meet single guys.

Then how come some single guys and married guys do so well (hint, they complained when they joined too).

Just make yourself available and wait your turn, then it wont matter if you..

1) Bareback on cam/photos/meets.

2) Lie.

3) Tell a girl you're embarassed and don't want veri.

4) Hit a girl on first meet.

5) Cheat on your gf/wife.

6) Lie about what you want to get sex

7) Lie about your sexuality till during sex.

8) Share info about your meet without their permission.

9) act like a bit of a dick

Things you can never do.

1) get nervous and cancel a meet.

I'm not saying be a jerk, Im not saying tell lies, I am not saying bareback or be abusive, or be a tran in the closet, or give each girl the unique snowflake story to get them to like you.

What I am saying is, if you wait your turn, none of it matters. The people you will have sex with dont want to be your best friend, they want sex. They want a guy that can wait his turn, thats all. You can be the "fancy a fuck" guy and do just fine, if you wait your turn.

Anyway, don't be too down about it, and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners

I block single guys only cos there too many of ya, that just the ratio I am afraid. But I find good manners and positive attitude can be demonstrated here on forum or indeed the opposite "

okay.. I can live with that

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Something i follow here and life in general is a quote once read .. " being successful is not about the destination but the road am traveling..... To focus on the journey not the destination"!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners

Do ya know how many messages newbies get from single guys? Loooooots,so I wouldn't blame them for blocking, it gets quite annoying"

I can understand that couples want to meet only couples and single block guys..but it makes no sense to me when single woman block single guys ...but as said before each can use Fab as he want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners

Do ya know how many messages newbies get from single guys? Loooooots,so I wouldn't blame them for blocking, it gets quite annoying

I can understand that couples want to meet only couples and single block guys..but it makes no sense to me when single woman block single guys ...but as said before each can use Fab as he want "

The ladies block single men so they can go look for the ones they want themselves. Saves any hassle with the ones they don't want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners

Do ya know how many messages newbies get from single guys? Loooooots,so I wouldn't blame them for blocking, it gets quite annoying

I can understand that couples want to meet only couples and single block guys..but it makes no sense to me when single woman block single guys ...but as said before each can use Fab as he want "

Can you not understand that some single women only want to meet couples, or other women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners

Do ya know how many messages newbies get from single guys? Loooooots,so I wouldn't blame them for blocking, it gets quite annoying

I can understand that couples want to meet only couples and single block guys..but it makes no sense to me when single woman block single guys ...but as said before each can use Fab as he want "

Because they get hundreds of messages, they can go pick and choose who they want without having to sift through all the messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody wants the knob head, fancy a fuck idiots that sites like this tend to attract. Why would they?!

However respectful hot single men, who understand swinging will always be in demand. Those guys will always be successful and us ladies love to share guys like that. People on the scene talk and once you have a reputation either way mud sticks.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners

I block single guys only cos there too many of ya, that just the ratio I am afraid. But I find good manners and positive attitude can be demonstrated here on forum or indeed the opposite "

Exactly.. both here and in the chat rooms single guys get the chance to make a name for themselfs and get noticed.. its at that stage then make a good or bad impression.. people say it costs nothing to be polite and respectfull and on that i completely disagree.. not being respectfull could cost you the offer you were about to get of a silgle lady or couple untill ya open your mouth and bollox it all up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get into the clique here and you'll make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners

Do ya know how many messages newbies get from single guys? Loooooots,so I wouldn't blame them for blocking, it gets quite annoying

I can understand that couples want to meet only couples and single block guys..but it makes no sense to me when single woman block single guys ...but as said before each can use Fab as he want "

1) Women can use it as a filter to message who they wish. Avoiding the drama that can come with not replying etc.

2) As much as a single guy may like to meet couples and women, the same obviously goes for other single women. Why wouldn't it?

3) Not every woman is sexually attracted to men

Thank God for the filters as without them I imagine most of the women would have run a mile by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of options for men,just some men know and appreciate how the site works and have better options than others.

some newcomers are blocking single guys straight away... so no chance to prove good manners

Do ya know how many messages newbies get from single guys? Loooooots,so I wouldn't blame them for blocking, it gets quite annoying

I can understand that couples want to meet only couples and single block guys..but it makes no sense to me when single woman block single guys ...but as said before each can use Fab as he want

Because they get hundreds of messages, they can go pick and choose who they want without having to sift through all the messages..."

I understand your point of view .. of course it is the ratio to blame,but how shall a single guy contact a girl ? Women have the free choice, unfortunately, has the medal two sides,so be and stay fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have the free choice, unfortunately, has the medal two sides,so be and stay fair.

What does that mean?

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By *lassyFabulousCouple
over a year ago

Las Swings

Single guys are much less complicated than couples, no hidden agendas, and always happy to please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have the free choice, unfortunately, has the medal two sides,so be and stay fair.

What does that mean?"

On a woman well over 10 men come here, so they have a wide range of choices. 10 men want the attention of a woman so they write messages and overload their mailboxes ..the other side of the medal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have the free choice, unfortunately, has the medal two sides,so be and stay fair.

What does that mean?

On a woman well over 10 men come here, so they have a wide range of choices. 10 men want the attention of a woman so they write messages and overload their mailboxes ..the other side of the medal."

ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any idea on how to do that.. lol any help is greatly appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what you say but at same time being courtious and having manners doesnt always get you anywere or even a reply on this. I occassionally have a moan but alot of people i try chatting with wont give the time of day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys are much less complicated than couples, no hidden agendas, and always happy to please."
???,we have hidden agendas...news to us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im single,and loving life and having a great time here,i cant and never will complain,maybe im just lucky,stay happy,be nice to everyone,im alway's happy.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

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By *ale4fun2Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

Same here lol

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By *lassyFabulousCouple
over a year ago

Las Swings


"Single guys are much less complicated than couples, no hidden agendas, and always happy to please.???,we have hidden agendas...news to us?"

If you are looking for conflict look elsewhere. If the hat fits wear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys are much less complicated than couples, no hidden agendas, and always happy to please.???,we have hidden agendas...news to us?

If you are looking for conflict look elsewhere. If the hat fits wear it "

That's you told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys get a big thumbs up from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah well put in our place....nothing like good intelligent comments

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