FabSwingers.com forum: Couples and guys!!

By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago

Munster

I posted something similar when i first joined in the lounge.

I am just wondering are there any Irish couples out there who meet single guys?

I am just struggling at the moment lol!!

Private message me or post here which ever suits!!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are mate ... loads actually but hey like all good things it takes time to "prove yourself".

Cpls are with each other for a reason .... to be invited (as a stranger) into that relationship is a real privilage and something that sould be treated with the utmost discreetion.

It's VERY important to just make the introduction and leave the "ball" in their court.

On a final note .... remember there are TWO people to please in that set-up, so share your time equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said greenie

also,pay attention to what couples are lookin gfor on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

greenie u are a wise man lol,u cant expect so say hi fancy a shag and get a result use the chat rooms try and develop relationships with people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well put.

"Yes there are mate ... loads actually but hey like all good things it takes time to "prove yourself".

Cpls are with each other for a reason .... to be invited (as a stranger) into that relationship is a real privilage and something that sould be treated with the utmost discreetion.

It's VERY important to just make the introduction and leave the "ball" in their court.

On a final note .... remember there are TWO people to please in that set-up, so share your time equally."

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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago

Munster

Must agree with the other posters that was very well put grennie, Some sound advice mate. It is most definetly a privalage i would agree..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't forget respect for the couple being a couple. That's a biggie! And i wouldn't do any stupid crass mails i.e. Just read a profile from a couple saying they got mails saying just i'd fuck her! Em yeah bet all that guy was getting was palm and the five sisters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A large part of the problem here is that lots of guys seeing couples as a way of getting sex with women, as opposed to realising its a different thing completely, and its nearly always a couple fantasy where the guy is very much the invited guest.

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By *picyMan
over a year ago

dublin/kildare

think its best wen every 1 in da 3sum can get along an al hav fun 2gether like 50 /50 split on play 2 lol..

best not 2 b pushy an respect ppl's wishes an boundary's.

hav fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound advice indeed though have sent several polite mails many without as much as a polite 'thanks but no thanks'

I shall persevere though, a threesome with a sexy couple is very much on my sexual bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we only meet single guys and have to say there's some great words of advice above from single guys. Its all about getting to know people and building up a connection with them.

If you are looking for a faceless fuck -I'm sure there's couples out there that want that - but generally its more about having fun together, and getting to know people first.

Posting in here and going into chat then become hugely significant, because personally I wouldn't meet someone till we've build up some element of trust and understanding - and obviously attraction.

I'm conscious not to generalise here for all couples - can only speak for our preferences - but it takes time, and effort, I've got mails from guys that are clearly copy and pasted to every couples profile in their country, and I try to reply to all mails as does Usee but its obvious whose put the effort and thought in (and read the profile) and whose just mailed everyone and hoped for the best.

So in short - pop into chat, get involved in forums - and as you get to know people things will come from that, rather than trying to get laid this weekend.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"As a couple we only meet single guys and have to say there's some great words of advice above from single guys. Its all about getting to know people and building up a connection with them.

If you are looking for a faceless fuck -I'm sure there's couples out there that want that - but generally its more about having fun together, and getting to know people first.

Posting in here and going into chat then become hugely significant, because personally I wouldn't meet someone till we've build up some element of trust and understanding - and obviously attraction.

So in short - pop into chat, get involved in forums - and as you get to know people things will come from that, rather than trying to get laid this weekend.

concur with wot ur saying .... we havnt done the "single male" yet .... have toyed with the idea and keep changing my mind ... sometimes its the message we get that puts me off but saying that i can be fickle at times

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

p.s

have missed u guys in chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"p.s

have missed u guys in chat

Ah thanks, just loads going on and Usee hasn't been well - we'll be back soon hopefully xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I know what you mean, the few dickhead put you off, hence needing to get to know people - but don't tar all single men with the same brush, some of them are really respectful, considerate and honest. Oh and Usee would probably add pretty talented - in fairness - I've learned a few tricks

We haven't had a bad meet yet, touch wood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with what has been said above, respect, patience and trust are the keys to a good meet, work on building them up and you won't go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and maybe, just maybe ... you'll even be invited to the parties .. LOL see you all soon

Isn't nice to see from the above comments that "it's nice to be nice" really does go a longgggggg way in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree on that but there is a quite a few people on the site here either cannot read or don't brother to read profiles as ours states ** bisexual guys only **

Yet we get messages from straight guys saying Oh i'm really bi and asking for a meet so it's simple we bin them.

"well said greenie

also,pay attention to what couples are lookin gfor on their profiles"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv met lots of cpls from here and other sites so i can only speak for myself if you are what they want thaey will find you and its happy days

for the single guy no need saying your bi and when ye meet say oh by the way im not really bi you are or your not

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