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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"

Eh no

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?

Eh no"

Well maybe!

But

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont lower your standards ,stick to been what you want ,its better trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose 6 pints will start lowering standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"

Really?? That's what you are asking?? Unbelievable.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

That seems to suggest that ppl who find ppl they would like to meet and put in the effort to do so have lower standers then others....for some maybe but not most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fussy is good it means you know what you want

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Fussy is good it means you know what you want"

...and not fussy is desperate!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a bit of a pattern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone drop their standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why settle for anything less than you believe you're worth? Be it on here or elsewhere.

Certainly on here we're all just here for a bit of fun, there's no minimum or maximium amount required so why "lower your standards"?

Confidence is a trait, an attractive one at that. So no, be confident in your own self worth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why settle for anything less than you believe you're worth? Be it on here or elsewhere.

Certainly on here we're all just here for a bit of fun, there's no minimum or maximium amount required so why "lower your standards"?

Confidence is a trait, an attractive one at that. So no, be confident in your own self worth."

excellent post and ye I'm talking in the no strings sense not a serious relationship

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to lower your standards. If you wouldn't fancy the person in a bar, you shouldn't have to do it here. Plenty of variety to suit all on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...

Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...

Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"what a silly question...

"

Wouldn't be a snickers thread if it wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never lower your standards.

Never settle!!

Demand high standards and when you get them you will be content. If you settle you are always going to be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excellent post and ye I'm talking in the no strings sense not a serious relationship "

You shouldn't limit it to anything.

With all due respect, your "get over yourself" comment would lead anyone to believe this is either a rejection fuelled topic or deliberately provoking one; it's such an inane question.

For the avoidance of drama, I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what a silly question...

Wouldn't be a snickers thread if it wasn't. "

*Sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a bit of a pattern "

Best line yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Excellent post and ye I'm talking in the no strings sense not a serious relationship

You shouldn't limit it to anything.

With all due respect, your "get over yourself" comment would lead anyone to believe this is either a rejection fuelled topic or deliberately provoking one; it's such an inane question.

For the avoidance of drama, I'm out "

so never in ur life have u heard a person say they think they need to lower their standards, that I'm just 2 fussy or hear someone else say it about another person because I have and I'm sure others have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fussy is good. Stick too what you want. It will come along eventually. Don't be one of these men that fuck anything with a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fussy is good. Stick too what you want. It will come along eventually. Don't be one of these men that fuck anything with a pulse. "
lol good comment but u can't really relate fussiness as the same for men and women on this website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what a silly question...

Wouldn't be a snickers thread if it wasn't. "

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...

Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...

Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

lower wat??? Fuck that !!! Fussy ??

Jesus man get with the program !!! Aim for the top !!!! Find someone that tickles yer fancy and message them to see if they'll tickle yer bits for ya !!!

Never ever lower your "standards", just search and chat and you will find someone that's everything you're looking for and then game on

Just be careful in talking about "standards" as some could be upset if they felt you'd dropped your standards just to meet them. Which wouldn't be nice !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...

Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...

Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...

"

everyone has personal choices but as I already said, Me included, some people could be just to fussy for what their looks allow.im also gonna call it as I see it as fussiness is not in the same regard for men and women on here. If I was a woman on here, with the variety of choice I'd be disappointed if I hadn't a meet in one/two weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lower wat??? Fuck that !!! Fussy ??

Jesus man get with the program !!! Aim for the top !!!! Find someone that tickles yer fancy and message them to see if they'll tickle yer bits for ya !!!

Never ever lower your "standards", just search and chat and you will find someone that's everything you're looking for and then game on

Just be careful in talking about "standards" as some could be upset if they felt you'd dropped your standards just to meet them. Which wouldn't be nice !!! "

i won't but there is a chance I might be just to fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should anyone lower their standards just to help the ego of someone else!!! I don't think so!

Yours truly

FUSSY MADAM

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon


"Why should anyone lower their standards just to help the ego of someone else!!! I don't think so!

Yours truly

FUSSY MADAM"

Ahhhh quit being so bloody fussy you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should anyone lower their standards just to help the ego of someone else!!! I don't think so!

Yours truly

FUSSY MADAM

Ahhhh quit being so bloody fussy you "

Sssshhhh you

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

I'm incredibly fussy and would never lower my standards but then they are pretty close to the floor anyway

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon


"Why should anyone lower their standards just to help the ego of someone else!!! I don't think so!

Yours truly

FUSSY MADAM

Ahhhh quit being so bloody fussy you

Sssshhhh you "

Hahahaha okie dokie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fussy is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fussy is the way forward. Why would anyone lower their standards, on fab or otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if you lower your standards it means you only meet those less desirable, meaning the ones worth meeting don't want to meet you. Says more about you than them really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...

Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...

Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...

everyone has personal choices but as I already said, Me included, some people could be just to fussy for what their looks allow.im also gonna call it as I see it as fussiness is not in the same regard for men and women on here. If I was a woman on here, with the variety of choice I'd be disappointed if I hadn't a meet in one/two weeks "

I haven't had one in 3 months from here, imagine how I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any potential meets might not like to be considered sub standard, just my thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the swing world fussy is the total opposite of desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should I lower my standards here? I know exactly what I want and will not lower them regardless of if its in swing/fet or vanilla situations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a bit of a pattern "
.....willow ok.....or are you into more modern design?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing more unattractive than someone with no standards or low standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your head as well as your standards high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sympathy fucks...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about being fussy it's about having standards .. sympathy fucks or feeling like you have to fuck someone is stupid.. "Hi let's fuck".. We ain't got no time for that shit lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ever look at someone your interested in and say to yourself "no point, they're outta my league"?

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

A person who creates a "league" in their mind is showing a lack of confidence and doubt in themselves. Saying someone is out of your league is basically saying youre not equal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A person who creates a "league" in their mind is showing a lack of confidence and doubt in themselves. Saying someone is out of your league is basically saying youre not equal. "
in fairness looks wise missdirty I don't think everyone is! I'd be confident enough and I approach women but there is certain ones I'd like at and think, no point o havnt a hope

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"A person who creates a "league" in their mind is showing a lack of confidence and doubt in themselves. Saying someone is out of your league is basically saying youre not equal. in fairness looks wise missdirty I don't think everyone is! I'd be confident enough and I approach women but there is certain ones I'd like at and think, no point o havnt a hope "

Certain ones like who? Are they different to women youd normally approach or would you not try for fear of being knocked back? Im trying to understand what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A person who creates a "league" in their mind is showing a lack of confidence and doubt in themselves. Saying someone is out of your league is basically saying youre not equal. in fairness looks wise missdirty I don't think everyone is! I'd be confident enough and I approach women but there is certain ones I'd like at and think, no point o havnt a hope

Certain ones like who? Are they different to women youd normally approach or would you not try for fear of being knocked back? Im trying to understand what you mean."

ones who I think I havnt a hope of succeeding with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person who creates a "league" in their mind is showing a lack of confidence and doubt in themselves. Saying someone is out of your league is basically saying youre not equal. in fairness looks wise missdirty I don't think everyone is! I'd be confident enough and I approach women but there is certain ones I'd like at and think, no point o havnt a hope

Certain ones like who? Are they different to women youd normally approach or would you not try for fear of being knocked back? Im trying to understand what you mean.ones who I think I havnt a hope of succeeding with."

Chance your arm with anyone ya want, all they can say is no

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"

Sometimes both my standards and boxers lower with alcohol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't put a league in your head.

A lot of really good looking women are desperate and needy, and you can score them just by being confident.

That's if you're into casual.

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By *rDarcy37Man
over a year ago

lucan


"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"

I don't think it's being fussy I think it's about giving people a chance.. Some people have delusions of grand ure but you might be passing on the best see ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...

Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...

Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...

everyone has personal choices but as I already said, Me included, some people could be just to fussy for what their looks allow.im also gonna call it as I see it as fussiness is not in the same regard for men and women on here. If I was a woman on here, with the variety of choice I'd be disappointed if I hadn't a meet in one/two weeks I haven't had one in 3 months from here, imagine how I feel "

is that with effort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't put a league in your head.

A lot of really good looking women are desperate and needy, and you can score them just by being confident.

That's if you're into casual."

....score?.....as in..any hole is a goal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"

Absolutely nothing wrong with being fussy. As long as ur not up ur own ass pardon my language

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"

I'll never lower my standards... never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much aware of what I'm looking for and I am happy with my high expectations and standards.

However, I like to be open minded and not to loose on a good adventure and fantasy realization, so sometimes other factors are important enough to change my priorities temporarily.

It's nobody's business really if I do change them or not. I have one life and I want to make sure I experience as much as I want and am comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very much aware of what I'm looking for and I am happy with my high expectations and standards.

However, I like to be open minded and not to loose on a good adventure and fantasy realization, so sometimes other factors are important enough to change my priorities temporarily.

It's nobody's business really if I do change them or not. I have one life and I want to make sure I experience as much as I want and am comfortable with. "

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