FabSwingers.com forum: Obsessed...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to)

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By *twasntme11Woman
over a year ago

dublin

Seeking ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say half of it is nosiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners cost nothing

You can say that again. I think it might be a power trip thing, like they think they can do better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's business is exactly that ...their own business...

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

"I'd say half of it is nosiness "

& the other half research

I often get mails , from "straight" guys asking if we can meet & will my wife join in

Read the f##kin profile! If my wife was into swinging it would be a couples profile.

Some people do ask in a bit more detail about my situation, if it is someone I am planning to, or would like to, meet I will answer their questions within reason, if not they just get told "I'm not here to discuss my private life"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners cost nothing

You can say that again. I think it might be a power trip thing, like they think they can do better "

Better than what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,"

Another one who didn't read what I wrote!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,

Another one who didn't read what I wrote!! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say half of it is nosiness

& the other half research

I often get mails , from "straight" guys asking if we can meet & will my wife join in

Read the f##kin profile! If my wife was into swinging it would be a couples profile.

That's what I usually say too, and yes, if you click with someone and intend on meeting them, you can open up a little bit more, but there are boundaries. Very rude, and it turns me off the site sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least Fussymadam is honest there is a lot to be said for that,there are lot's on here who are not so honest.!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At least Fussymadam is honest there is a lot to be said for that,there are lot's on here who are not so honest.!!!!"

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Your marital status on this site is no one's business it's a taboo subject. You dammed if you mention it and dammed if you don't.... any questions regarding your marriage or relationship is answered on your profile if you choose to be honest any more than then that it's no one's business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter a jot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners cost nothing

You can say that again. I think it might be a power trip thing, like they think they can do better "

I actually think manners do cost us..we just are never aware to what extent tho.. i mean.. a woman could see someone in here she likes and is debating on messaging that person or not.. and then that person says something out of order in a forum and thats it.. the woman decides i lost all interest coz of that.. and then its over and done with qithout the offenting person being none the wiser what a lack of manners or tact just cost them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they do..really ? incomprehensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General nosey folk, poor manners and I imagine some see it as an ego boost ; wanting to be the other person.

A person's business is just that, theirs. As said, at least you're up front about it.

Easier said than done I know but pay them no attention.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Just ask them have they lost anything, cos you found their nose in your buisness

it works for me everytime.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ye are all very wise in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ye are all very wise in here

You better believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ye are all very wise in here

from the popular series "old and busted"

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

"Just ask them have they lost anything, cos you found their nose in your buisness

it works for me everytime.

"
must remember this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Hugo boss smells nicer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think Hugo boss smells nicer

I prefer Lagerfeld

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think Hugo boss smells nicer

Forgot what it smells like think I need reminding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trow your keys in the bowl there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trow your keys in the bowl there

your worse than me lol lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ye are all very wise in here

You better believe it

You being the wisest obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trow your keys in the bowl there

your worse than me lol lol"
never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to)

I just ignore it. I did get one guy a while back actually accused me of lying. Said I was lying about my hubby knowing everything I did and that was why id only reply to his nails in the evening as he was convinced hubby worked nights. I sent him a message saying believe whatever you want, I dont really care and then blocked him. Men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog Hahahahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog Hahahahahahahahaha"

Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog Hahahahahahahahaha

Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too??

We have to create a new one for obsessive stalkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog Hahahahahahahahaha

Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too??

We have to create a new one for obsessive stalkers"

Avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog Hahahahahahahahaha

Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too??

We have to create a new one for obsessive stalkers

Avoid

I find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog Hahahahahahahahaha

Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too??

We have to create a new one for obsessive stalkers

Avoid

I find you

Ooootay.. How about gets Hubert to kick his ass

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I meet alone sometimes as it says on the profile (Mrs) sometimes when iam chatting to someone who has caught my eye it puts me off as they assume if you are married and meeting alone your not getting enough sex at home this attitude is so juvenile It makes me wonder if some men actually ever grow up...sometimes I expect them to suggest a pissing contest with my hubby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well guys it gets better. The man who in particular pushed me to post the thread, because of his mails earlier,has now contacted one of my veries. I blocked him so he set up a new profile and mailed asking about me calling me 'Jen' he thinks I'm someone else that he spoke to a while back. I mean ffs. He can't be that hard up for a ride. Plus is he about 300 miles away. He wanted to know if I was always this hard to break.... Dick head! Luckily my contact is a good friend so he had my back. Some people eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame on your status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well guys it gets better. The man who in particular pushed me to post the thread, because of his mails earlier,has now contacted one of my veries. I blocked him so he set up a new profile and mailed asking about me calling me 'Jen' he thinks I'm someone else that he spoke to a while back. I mean ffs. He can't be that hard up for a ride. Plus is he about 300 miles away. He wanted to know if I was always this hard to break.... Dick head! Luckily my contact is a good friend so he had my back. Some people eh

Jesus.. He needs to get a life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shiver me timbers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should I name and shame? I usually hate those statuses. Maybe just report both profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I name and shame? I usually hate those statuses. Maybe just report both profiles? "

I don't agree with naming and shaming. Report and block him. If any women want to know who he is they can message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I name and shame? I usually hate those statuses. Maybe just report both profiles? "

I think naming the profile(s) may just cause more hassle, he doesn't sound all there in the first place to be fair.

Report to admin and break the block button if you have to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I name and shame? I usually hate those statuses. Maybe just report both profiles?

I don't agree with naming and shaming. Report and block him. If any women want to know who he is they can message you. "

What Snowflake said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe best. Thankfully there are more sane people here than not, kinda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe best. Thankfully there are more sane people here than not, kinda

There are some people here who need serious psychiatric help if u ask me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe best. Thankfully there are more sane people here than not, kinda

There are some people here who need serious psychiatric help if u ask me

most definitely

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By *amdublinMan
over a year ago

Paris

"Maybe best. Thankfully there are more sane people here than not, kinda

There are some people here who need serious psychiatric help if u ask me

"
Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe best. Thankfully there are more sane people here than not, kinda

There are some people here who need serious psychiatric help if u ask me

most definitely "

It's so hard finding someone with that normal but with a slightly good crazy side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,

Another one who didn't read what I wrote!! "

It's an open forum, you can't control it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,

Another one who didn't read what I wrote!!

It's an open forum, you can't control it

But yet people try by reporting every thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,

Another one who didn't read what I wrote!!

It's an open forum, you can't control it

Out of the whole thread... Thats what you picked up on! Christ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,

Another one who didn't read what I wrote!!

It's an open forum, you can't control it

But yet people try by reporting every thread "

Get over it Jasper, it's getting boring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,

Another one who didn't read what I wrote!!

It's an open forum, you can't control it

But yet people try by reporting every thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally..i think the whole...fab ud full of assholes...is overplayed...mostly I find ppl in here fairly sound...

..put an effort into the convo and it usually takes off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally..i think the whole...fab ud full of assholes...is overplayed...mostly I find ppl in here fairly sound...

..put an effort into the convo and it usually takes off..

You obviously don't talk to as many men as us women do

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Plenty of men here, no need to get hung up on self righteous nosy peeps, just move on to the next.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally..i think the whole...fab ud full of assholes...is overplayed...mostly I find ppl in here fairly sound...

..put an effort into the convo and it usually takes off..

You obviously don't talk to as many men as us women do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a swinging site,it shouldn't matter if a person is married/attached or not!!

It's not a dating site or looking for love site! And people are entitled to their views but I'm tired of the moral police and their righteous views!

I hate this label of cheaters some people use and it's nobody's business only your own!

So tell them fck off!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally..i think the whole...fab ud full of assholes...is overplayed...mostly I find ppl in here fairly sound...

..put an effort into the convo and it usually takes off..

You obviously don't talk to as many men as us women do

..think you answered the question rather nicely there..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is a swinging site,it shouldn't matter if a person is married/attached or not!!

It's not a dating site or looking for love site! And people are entitled to their views but I'm tired of the moral police and their righteous views!

I hate this label of cheaters some people use and it's nobody's business only your own!

So tell them fck off!!!!

you go girl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe best. Thankfully there are more sane people here than not, kinda

There are some people here who need serious psychiatric help if u ask me

"
....they said I was OK to rejoin society....

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

"It is a swinging site,it shouldn't matter if a person is married/attached or not!!

It's not a dating site or looking for love site! And people are entitled to their views but I'm tired of the moral police and their righteous views!

I hate this label of cheaters some people use and it's nobody's business only your own!

So tell them fck off!!!!

you go girl!! "

As for the naming & shaming, why lower yourself to someones elses' level? They'd probably just see themselves as the victim anyway.

However, if you happen to mention their profile name in a mail to friends who might be open to similar abuse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some questions about marital status can be smart and life preserving . Finding out post meet that great verification you have is from the spouse of a very possessive ,unstable gun owning violent criminal can ruin your post meet buzz.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some questions about marital status can be smart and life preserving . Finding out post meet that great verification you have is from the spouse of a very possessive ,unstable gun owning violent criminal can ruin your post meet buzz."

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

It's just the way some people are!!

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

I take exception to that remark. My spouse does not own a gun...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I take exception to that remark. My spouse does not own a gun...

Does a chain saw count?

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

Have one here, but don't worry about it. She can't start it....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have one here, but don't worry about it. She can't start it....

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

im a dangerous psychopath and I have a range of guns but iv no spouse

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