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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee or a drink first, just to see if there's attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel fuck! But that is rare, so drink I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home? "

Surely the best is for the people involved to decide. There is no one answer fits all.

Some people like social meets first, some don't. Some people accommodate, some don't. Some people avoid alcohol on meets, some people don't like coffee

etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've meet for coffee ( which I don't drink) first purely for safety and to see if there's an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

Surely the best is for the people involved to decide. There is no one answer fits all.

Some people like social meets first, some don't. Some people accommodate, some don't. Some people avoid alcohol on meets, some people don't like coffee

etc. "

Or work it out yourself!! Do people just want their hand held around Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home? "

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home? "

At a Lolli and Laid social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do women meet on here!!!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"do women meet on here!!!"

I dont..i meet for coffee in a coffee shop or for a drink in a pub.... sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

Back seat of the car so is it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

Surely the best is for the people involved to decide. There is no one answer fits all.

Some people like social meets first, some don't. Some people accommodate, some don't. Some people avoid alcohol on meets, some people don't like coffee

etc.

Or work it out yourself!! Do people just want their hand held around Fab? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

I've done it numerous times. Always worked out great. Maybe I'm just lucky. Different strokes for different folks and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

Back seat of the car so is it..."

Not even in your dreams...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

Back seat of the car so is it...

Not even in your dreams... "

I believe those are actually referred to as nightmares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

Back seat of the car so is it...

Not even in your dreams...

I believe those are actually referred to as nightmares"

With you in them they would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

I've done it numerous times. Always worked out great. Maybe I'm just lucky. Different strokes for different folks and all that

I'm coming to Galway

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

I normally go for a coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

At a Lolli and Laid social

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

Back seat of the car so is it...

Not even in your dreams...

I believe those are actually referred to as nightmares"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coffee or a drink first, just to see if there's attraction.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

I've done it numerous times. Always worked out great. Maybe I'm just lucky. Different strokes for different folks and all that

Me too, always go straight for the kill and drink the coffee after the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

I've done it numerous times. Always worked out great. Maybe I'm just lucky. Different strokes for different folks and all that

Me too, always go straight for the kill and drink the coffee after the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what I was just about to ask! Has anybody actually got it on through a first meet or is that a no go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

Surely the best is for the people involved to decide. There is no one answer fits all.

Some people like social meets first, some don't. Some people accommodate, some don't. Some people avoid alcohol on meets, some people don't like coffee

etc.

Or work it out yourself!! Do people just want their hand held around Fab? "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home?

I'd never agree to a hotel meet on a first meet...

That's just asking for trouble...

I've done it numerous times. Always worked out great. Maybe I'm just lucky. Different strokes for different folks and all that

Me too, always go straight for the kill and drink the coffee after the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no way I'd meet a random guy in a hotel or my home, not a hope! Coffee or drink for me is a must, always.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Coffee/beverage meet first.

I made the mistake very very early on meeting a guy in a hotel room without one and never EVER again.

Worst experience ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats the best "first meet" scenario. Coffee, drinks, hotel, home? "

Sometimes people do a mixture of all of the above.

Do what suits you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coffee/beverage meet first.

I made the mistake very very early on meeting a guy in a hotel room without one and never EVER again.

Worst experience ever.

"
...oh dear. ..hope you managed to escape with you're honour intact. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coffee/beverage meet first.

I made the mistake very very early on meeting a guy in a hotel room without one and never EVER again.

Worst experience ever. "

Now I'm really curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coffee/beverage meet first.

I made the mistake very very early on meeting a guy in a hotel room without one and never EVER again.

Worst experience ever.

Haha share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a coffee meet with a guy here and clicked and played and a great time made the mistake of meeting him at hotel when he was drinking ( completely different person ) LUCKY ESCAPE never can tell

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Me too, always go straight for the kill and drink the coffee after the meet.

.... while it is still hot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat on the phone before meeting so you get body language from their voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met guys - including Lee - for a hotel meet without meeting first, never had a bad experience, but couldn't be bothered now tbh

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By *hris For Long NightsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

First meet should defo be pre agrees between both parties. So really your first meet is totally up to u n the other. The usual is a coffee / tea or a pub for few social ones, then again ive had my fare share of meets that have been straight to business. From hotels to homes to car meets.

Really its all up to you and the other person / people participating. Should be mutually agreed and should always be safe.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience, green tea meets are the best

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