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By *ave181 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Navan

I'm toying with the idea of having a party in my place next month. Just wondering if any fabbers have any tips or advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set date

Set general location

Set your numbers

Male.Female.Cpl ratios

Ground work on attendees as in veris to ensure correct mix so that guests will mix

Condoms (someone always forgets to bring their own )

Some light food & drinks

Mix of Music

Hotels in the area

Just a few tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Set date

Set general location

Set your numbers

Male.Female.Cpl ratios

Ground work on attendees as in veris to ensure correct mix so that guests will mix

Condoms (someone always forgets to bring their own )

Some light food & drinks

Mix of Music

Hotels in the area

Just a few tips

"

More or less covers it

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By *ave181 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Navan

It's certainly food for thought and thank you.

I was thinking on the lines of 4/5 couples, 2 single females and 2 males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's certainly food for thought and thank you.

I was thinking on the lines of 4/5 couples, 2 single females and 2 males"

Dates location ?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"It's certainly food for thought and thank you.

I was thinking on the lines of 4/5 couples, 2 single females and 2 males

Dates location ? "

His place!

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By *ave181 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Navan

My place isn't far from Navan and it probably be one of the last 2 weekends in May

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite more people than you want to attend. People often don't turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's certainly food for thought and thank you.

I was thinking on the lines of 4/5 couples, 2 single females and 2 males

Dates location ?

His place! "

his place where lol he mite not be from navan as we all know people dont always put correct location on profile

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By *ave181 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Navan

Its about 10 mins from Navan heading towards Dublin

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By *ave181 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Navan


"Invite more people than you want to attend. People often don't turn up"

Your probably right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in! "

Yeah sure count is in too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in!

Yeah sure count is in too... "

As yer man off the telly says "He who dares wins!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I've previously said to others who haven't been to parties/M&Gs or socials - there's a lot to be said for gaining experience before attempting to manage an event yourself.

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I'd highly recommend before attempting to run an event of your own - that you attend several of those well-run events by the long-term organisers - and get to know how/why they are best run by well-verified, established members who are trusted by the party/event going members.

That way you would learn that there are ways to do these things - and putting up a random 'who's interested' post that shows a complete lack of experience - is not going to engender much interest from those who value their safety and discretion.

Marie

Veteran of over 12 years and about 60 events!

Unquote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I've previously said to others who haven't been to parties/M&Gs or socials - there's a lot to be said for gaining experience before attempting to manage an event yourself.

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I'd highly recommend before attempting to run an event of your own - that you attend several of those well-run events by the long-term organisers - and get to know how/why they are best run by well-verified, established members who are trusted by the party/event going members.

That way you would learn that there are ways to do these things - and putting up a random 'who's interested' post that shows a complete lack of experience - is not going to engender much interest from those who value their safety and discretion.

Marie

Veteran of over 12 years and about 60 events!

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That's very presumptuous of you. You don't know he hasn't been to any social events before etc.

Good luck to you OP I hope it all works out well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm toying with the idea of having a party in my place next month. Just wondering if any fabbers have any tips or advice"

Good luck with it if it goes ahead. You're well verified and experienced on fabs so I'm sure it'll be a success. Don't mind the sanctimonious posts from the begrudgers it's a standard copy and paste reply and doesn't seem to apply to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm toying with the idea of having a party in my place next month. Just wondering if any fabbers have any tips or advice

Good luck with it if it goes ahead. You're well verified and experienced on fabs so I'm sure it'll be a success. Don't mind the sanctimonious posts from the begrudgers it's a standard copy and paste reply and doesn't seem to apply to you "

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Best of luck with it OP. As someone who has observed people organising big parties and helped in a small way to organise some smaller ones, I can tell you it's a bit of work.

But the pay off when you have one of the most amazing nights of your life makes it worthwhile.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Your better off attending one before you hold one usually anyone that posts about a party mostly dont ever happen seen a post in galway the keyboard warrior was posting every day about this great party but 2 days before it was to happen he vanished lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your better off attending one before you hold one usually anyone that posts about a party mostly dont ever happen seen a post in galway the keyboard warrior was posting every day about this great party but 2 days before it was to happen he vanished lol"

You're assuming he's never attended a party

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By *ave181 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Navan

Just for the record I have been to M & G's and a small gathering of like minded individuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did this thread not pop up last week ,iv seen it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just for the record I have been to M & G's and a small gathering of like minded individuals"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best of luck and lucky hoors the other two single males.

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By *igboybigtitsCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Invite us and everything else will fall into place lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I lived nearer, I'd go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are CDs or TVs welcome

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By *ave181 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Navan

It's something I hadn't thought of but I don't see why not

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"I'm toying with the idea of having a party in my place next month. Just wondering if any fabbers have any tips or advice"

Balloons, every party needs balloons!

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down


"Did this thread not pop up last week ,iv seen it."

It's a different thread but some of the copy and paste responses are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What day have you in mind?

We might be interested depending on day/ time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I lived nearer, I'd go"

you get us an invite and I 'll drive ,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did this thread not pop up last week ,iv seen it.

It's a different thread but some of the copy and paste responses are the same "

Well spotted! Gotta love the copy and paste responses. It didn't take long for the cynical ones to go silent when they were proven wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always more females than males!

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