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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dr Brendan Zietsch is a psychologist from the University of Queensland

Reviewed available evidence on how long penetration lasts during sex

Found condom use or whether a man is circumcised makes no difference

Studies show coitus is shorter for older men - contrary to their claims

Sometimes a particularly steamy lovemaking session can seem to last forever.

At other times, coitus can be over in a flash.

After such an encounter, many of us wonder 'how long does sex normally last'?

Now, Dr Brendan Zietsch, a psychologist from the University of Queensland, has sought to answer this pressing question.

In an article for The Conversation, he draws all the latest research - and found penetration can last from 33 seconds to 44 minutes long when an average is taken of all the times each couple has sex.

The average time across different couples was 5.4 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the research was self-reported by men, you can reduce that average by 50%

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

33 seconds! WTF!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford


"If the research was self-reported by men, you can reduce that average by 50% "

Lol at least 50%

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

Id say sex lasts until the woman's had enough..punches you firmly in the cock and says "get that THING away from me!!"

Discuss too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"33 seconds! WTF!"

Proof if you needed it that some spend more time talking about it than doing it

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"33 seconds! WTF!

Proof if you needed it that some spend more time talking about it than doing it"

Lol, that's true, 2 pumps and a squirt is a joke but 33 seconds isn't far off that, and that's no joke! I can hold my breath longer than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"33 seconds! WTF!

Proof if you needed it that some spend more time talking about it than doing it

Lol, that's true, 2 pumps and a squirt is a joke but 33 seconds isn't far off that, and that's no joke! I can hold my breath longer than that! "

Apparently evolution is to blame, premature ejaculators had a competitive advantage in prehistoric times.

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By *rDarcy37Man
over a year ago

lucan


"33 seconds! WTF!

Proof if you needed it that some spend more time talking about it than doing it"

Lol lol lol

Tell me about it

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"33 seconds! WTF!

Proof if you needed it that some spend more time talking about it than doing it

Lol, that's true, 2 pumps and a squirt is a joke but 33 seconds isn't far off that, and that's no joke! I can hold my breath longer than that!

Apparently evolution is to blame, premature ejaculators had a competitive advantage in prehistoric times."

So I heard, my guess is that we're talking about the descendants of Beta males who stole in, impregnated and left before the Alpha killed them, good strategy for the Betas back in the day, not so useful in todays world! It's mad the way our bodies and minds till think and work like caveman's did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"33 seconds! WTF!

Proof if you needed it that some spend more time talking about it than doing it

Lol, that's true, 2 pumps and a squirt is a joke but 33 seconds isn't far off that, and that's no joke! I can hold my breath longer than that!

Apparently evolution is to blame, premature ejaculators had a competitive advantage in prehistoric times.

So I heard, my guess is that we're talking about the descendants of Beta males who stole in, impregnated and left before the Alpha killed them, good strategy for the Betas back in the day, not so useful in todays world! It's mad the way our bodies and minds till think and work like caveman's did"

Oh, IDK, while the Alphas are busy preening and beating their chests, the Betas still seem to be breeding away quietly

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"33 seconds! WTF!

Proof if you needed it that some spend more time talking about it than doing it

Lol, that's true, 2 pumps and a squirt is a joke but 33 seconds isn't far off that, and that's no joke! I can hold my breath longer than that!

Apparently evolution is to blame, premature ejaculators had a competitive advantage in prehistoric times.

So I heard, my guess is that we're talking about the descendants of Beta males who stole in, impregnated and left before the Alpha killed them, good strategy for the Betas back in the day, not so useful in todays world! It's mad the way our bodies and minds till think and work like caveman's did

Oh, IDK, while the Alphas are busy preening and beating their chests, the Betas still seem to be breeding away quietly "

Natures way of hedging her bets, diversifying the gene pool! It's a numbers game too, only one Alpha but many Betas per group, he can't cover them all at the same time and beat his chest! Geezs, sounds like horse breeding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When is premature ejaculation a problem?

When it comes between "Hello" and "Whats your name".....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days it takes me 5.4 minutes to get a bra off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These days it takes me 5.4 minutes to get a bra off "

That's the foreplay done and dusted then..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere between 30-40 mins, any longer and I'd die of dehydration lol

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Ignoring the 33 seconds, 5.4 minutes isn't much either!!! I would not even get warm!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Ignoring the 33 seconds, 5.4 minutes isn't much either!!! I would not even get warm! "
lol add the two together you could get near to the 6 mark

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

how long is a piece of string)

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I am not going to talk about this

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

Just tried and without falling on your face trying to get yer legs out of your trousers it's not possible to get your kit off in that quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just tried and without falling on your face trying to get yer legs out of your trousers it's not possible to get your kit off in that quick "

Not sure you're meant to include the time it takes to get your clothes off, that would make geriatrics the longest stayers

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork


"Ignoring the 33 seconds, 5.4 minutes isn't much either!!! I would not even get warm! lol add the two together you could get near to the 6 mark "
6 is better than 5 !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33 secs Feck I can't even reach that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 minutes. Took me longer to get out of bed this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about normal weekdays here?

I'm going with actual intercourse for around 15-25 mins (per sesh) With a downtime of 50-90 mins.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"33 seconds! WTF!

Proof if you needed it that some spend more time talking about it than doing it

Lol, that's true, 2 pumps and a squirt is a joke but 33 seconds isn't far off that, and that's no joke! I can hold my breath longer than that!

Apparently evolution is to blame, premature ejaculators had a competitive advantage in prehistoric times.

So I heard, my guess is that we're talking about the descendants of Beta males who stole in, impregnated and left before the Alpha killed them, good strategy for the Betas back in the day, not so useful in todays world! It's mad the way our bodies and minds till think and work like caveman's did

Oh, IDK, while the Alphas are busy preening and beating their chests, the Betas still seem to be breeding away quietly

Natures way of hedging her bets, diversifying the gene pool! It's a numbers game too, only one Alpha but many Betas per group, he can't cover them all at the same time and beat his chest! Geezs, sounds like horse breeding! "

Why is the fast cuming the Beta? You could argue the Alpha is the fast cuming and quick recoverer to keep the girls breeding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"33 seconds! WTF!

Proof if you needed it that some spend more time talking about it than doing it

Lol, that's true, 2 pumps and a squirt is a joke but 33 seconds isn't far off that, and that's no joke! I can hold my breath longer than that!

Apparently evolution is to blame, premature ejaculators had a competitive advantage in prehistoric times.

So I heard, my guess is that we're talking about the descendants of Beta males who stole in, impregnated and left before the Alpha killed them, good strategy for the Betas back in the day, not so useful in todays world! It's mad the way our bodies and minds till think and work like caveman's did

Oh, IDK, while the Alphas are busy preening and beating their chests, the Betas still seem to be breeding away quietly

Natures way of hedging her bets, diversifying the gene pool! It's a numbers game too, only one Alpha but many Betas per group, he can't cover them all at the same time and beat his chest! Geezs, sounds like horse breeding!

Why is the fast cuming the Beta? You could argue the Alpha is the fast cuming and quick recoverer to keep the girls breeding. "

Because the theory is they had to cum quickly in order to avoid being killed by someone or something while in the act - hit and run lol

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon


"Just tried and without falling on your face trying to get yer legs out of your trousers it's not possible to get your kit off in that quick

Not sure you're meant to include the time it takes to get your clothes off, that would make geriatrics the longest stayers"

Quote from the OP

"Studies show coitus is shorter for older men - contrary to their claims"

This is now why they can make the claim See my research had some success ... Other than me landing on my face

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Ok I reflected over these two times (33sec and 5.4min) now for a while. If every man were like this, I'd go for 33 seconds just to get over with it. Thankfully I came across some Gamma males that can go for a long time and aim to please a woman

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Weeks!!

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By *aftdave1Man
over a year ago

limerick

All depends on how quick I can get my shoes and socks off

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon


"Ok I reflected over these two times (33sec and 5.4min) now for a while. If every man were like this, I'd go for 33 seconds just to get over with it. Thankfully I came across some Gamma males that can go for a long time and aim to please a woman "

What about the delta ones

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Ok I reflected over these two times (33sec and 5.4min) now for a while. If every man were like this, I'd go for 33 seconds just to get over with it. Thankfully I came across some Gamma males that can go for a long time and aim to please a woman

What about the delta ones "

Na, defo not my thing the delta ones.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Weeks!! "
let's go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long is a piece of string?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sure once round one is out of the way it's trying to finish is the problem for me

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"Id say sex lasts until the woman's had enough..punches you firmly in the cock and says "get that THING away from me!!"

Discuss too "

Does that happen often on you?

Apples

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford


"Id say sex lasts until the woman's had enough..punches you firmly in the cock and says "get that THING away from me!!"

Discuss too

Does that happen often on you?

Apples "

Lol just a few times..less than a dozen definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's totally different every time with me. I've had bad days where it just didn't happen and others where it's gone on for hours and I just couldn't cum but was so knackered I had to stop.

If the other involved party is getting enjoyment out of it, that seems to do something in my brain to keep me going.

I don't think any of us have a set time. It's a lot like a cowboy movie, if you get a good one it can finish with the male lead riding off into the sunset with a grin on his face

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

This sex thing is getting way too complicated...so now we have to introduce a stop watch to the bedroom...whatever happened to just enjoying it

Mrs Davie t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's totally different every time with me. I've had bad days where it just didn't happen and others where it's gone on for hours and I just couldn't cum but was so knackered I had to stop.

If the other involved party is getting enjoyment out of it, that seems to do something in my brain to keep me going.

I don't think any of us have a set time. It's a lot like a cowboy movie, if you get a good one it can finish with the male lead riding off into the sunset with a grin on his face "

Fully agree!

Although too long and you'll get saddle sore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's totally different every time with me. I've had bad days where it just didn't happen and others where it's gone on for hours and I just couldn't cum but was so knackered I had to stop.

If the other involved party is getting enjoyment out of it, that seems to do something in my brain to keep me going.

I don't think any of us have a set time. It's a lot like a cowboy movie, if you get a good one it can finish with the male lead riding off into the sunset with a grin on his face

Fully agree!

Although too long and you'll get saddle sore! "

Funny you should say that. I went for a 55k cycle Sunday and was in the saddlebag another sort when I got home my erm manhood was totally numb but fully functional. Learn something new every day. That was a first for me

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford


"This sex thing is getting way too complicated...so now we have to introduce a stop watch to the bedroom...whatever happened to just enjoying it

Mrs Davie t"

I agree 100%

Every encounter.. even with the same person is different.. enjoy that moment..do what feels right at that moment in time.. don't plan it or expect it to be a certain way or judge the performance.. just enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sex thing is getting way too complicated...so now we have to introduce a stop watch to the bedroom...whatever happened to just enjoying it

Mrs Davie t

I agree 100%

Every encounter.. even with the same person is different.. enjoy that moment..do what feels right at that moment in time.. don't plan it or expect it to be a certain way or judge the performance.. just enjoy "

agreed! Every encounter is an experience to be enjoyed

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Weeks!! let's go"
! Sure thing might be months though so be prepared!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's totally different every time with me. I've had bad days where it just didn't happen and others where it's gone on for hours and I just couldn't cum but was so knackered I had to stop.

If the other involved party is getting enjoyment out of it, that seems to do something in my brain to keep me going.

I don't think any of us have a set time. It's a lot like a cowboy movie, if you get a good one it can finish with the male lead riding off into the sunset with a grin on his face

Fully agree!

Although too long and you'll get saddle sore!

Funny you should say that. I went for a 55k cycle Sunday and was in the saddlebag another sort when I got home my erm manhood was totally numb but fully functional. Learn something new every day. That was a first for me"

Cycling can cause ED, you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's totally different every time with me. I've had bad days where it just didn't happen and others where it's gone on for hours and I just couldn't cum but was so knackered I had to stop.

If the other involved party is getting enjoyment out of it, that seems to do something in my brain to keep me going.

I don't think any of us have a set time. It's a lot like a cowboy movie, if you get a good one it can finish with the male lead riding off into the sunset with a grin on his face

Fully agree!

Although too long and you'll get saddle sore!

Funny you should say that. I went for a 55k cycle Sunday and was in the saddlebag another sort when I got home my erm manhood was totally numb but fully functional. Learn something new every day. That was a first for me

Cycling can cause ED, you know "

lawd. I need a better saddle and more padding. I've read that before in a cycling forum but it's in a miniscule amount of cases. The chances are booze and smokes will affect a guy more. I'll take my chances on the bike

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I can last into double figures, 30, 40, sometimes even as long as 50 seconds but she'd have to be fierce ugly for me to last that long

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's totally different every time with me. I've had bad days where it just didn't happen and others where it's gone on for hours and I just couldn't cum but was so knackered I had to stop.

If the other involved party is getting enjoyment out of it, that seems to do something in my brain to keep me going.

I don't think any of us have a set time. It's a lot like a cowboy movie, if you get a good one it can finish with the male lead riding off into the sunset with a grin on his face

Fully agree!

Although too long and you'll get saddle sore!

Funny you should say that. I went for a 55k cycle Sunday and was in the saddlebag another sort when I got home my erm manhood was totally numb but fully functional. Learn something new every day. That was a first for me

Cycling can cause ED, you know

lawd. I need a better saddle and more padding. I've read that before in a cycling forum but it's in a miniscule amount of cases. The chances are booze and smokes will affect a guy more. I'll take my chances on the bike "

You better get that saddle soon, it will make a big difference. Believe me I know things about saddles and rides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If Carlsberg did that survey, it's would be the best 33 secs of your life!

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon


"Ok I reflected over these two times (33sec and 5.4min) now for a while. If every man were like this, I'd go for 33 seconds just to get over with it. Thankfully I came across some Gamma males that can go for a long time and aim to please a woman

What about the delta ones

Na, defo not my thing the delta ones. "

Phew good job I'm not one of them then

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