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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on Fab for 5 months now and after weeks of chatting with different women I finally arranged a meet! Was really looking forward to it and then she didn't show up Same thing happened again recently Is it always like this or am I just very unlucky? Don't know whether to pack this in or keep plugging on but it is a lot of effort for a single guy to get noticed on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us all I'm afraid just bad luck

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

If you have to ask then yes you should go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep going, part and parcel of swinging unfortunately..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a no show. Are there things you could do to lessen your chances of having one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep going, part and parcel of swinging unfortunately.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's crap when it happens but it always do.. Keep going. You'll find some amazing ladies along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay no go no stay....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go. Go now. At once. Twill make it easier for the rest of us. Tis a war in here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont be mean guys...

Stay, theres a place for us all here.. Dont give up because youv been down on your luck, can only get better go to some meet and greets maybe get yourself out there!! Best of luck OP

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on Fab for 5 months now and after weeks of chatting with different women I finally arranged a meet! Was really looking forward to it and then she didn't show up Same thing happened again recently Is it always like this or am I just very unlucky? Don't know whether to pack this in or keep plugging on but it is a lot of effort for a single guy to get noticed on here "

happens to all of us....... whether u go or not is entirely up to you but I know how u feel....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay, u know u want to

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

The way I see it is if you go you have no chance of meeting someone at all but if you stay you have nothing to lose; and who knows what's around the corner?

Patience is the key buddy. Keep the head up and think positive thoughts. It will work out in the end.

I've had no meets yet after 5 weeks here but have had some good conversations with some great people so I know it will happen eventually. All it takes is to chat with that person with whom you click with.

Keep on going, no one got anywhere by throwing in the towel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay OP, I think I was on a year before my first meet. Get a few social meets. Check with them before you leave to meet to make sure no change of plans.

No matter what u do, there always a risk of no show. But don't give up...cos whilst there are timewasters we are not all like that.

Remember you can't change or control other peeps behaviour or even explain it. So they not worth ur time.

Stay

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Am on the scene a long time and I have been stood up many times too by both girls and couples.

It just happens sometimes and you have to get used to it.

You have nothing to loose in staying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a no show. Are there things you could do to lessen your chances of having one?"

Yes he could have a sex change and get some implants .If you have a pair of boobs and a vagina on here yous chances of a no show go right down .

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Good luck don't let the door hit u on the way out

What!!! I am just cutting the odds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck don't let the door hit u on the way out

What!!! I am just cutting the odds "

Yes!!!!!!

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

It happens to everyone

I know lots of women on here who say they've had lots of no shows

I just don't get that

If you arrange to meet someone at least turn up for a chat

What harm , sure we'd chat with a stranger at a bus stop why not with someone who shares similar interests

Time Wasters button might be needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here a while and only one meet, seems to be the same old people here constantly and if you haven't clicked with any of them the only option seems to be to wait for new members to join.

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