FabSwingers.com forum: Chatted up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As the female half of curvy beauty (I'm curvy and he's the beauty

) I find that I get a lot of lovely flattering messages from men on here....HOWEVER! When I'm out I never get chatted up

and I LOVE a good flirt, himself gets loads of attention (little ride) but all I get are tumble s! So my question is.....do men not chat women up anymore or is it just me......god dammit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way you could be in drinking in the wrong places , Your a good looking lady no reason why men wouldn't want to be burning the ears off you lol tho maybe they see your partner and are afraid to initiate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye know your tbread from the other day,

About thinking people are out of your league??

Id say tbat men get easily intimidated by beautiful girls and dont bother with tbe chatting up thinking, 'way outta my league'.

That makes sense in my head i hope it does in yours to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what pub do yous drink in .......just kidding

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

An honest answer, you're not smiling in any of your pics and if you do that when you're out, guys will read that as leave me alone. You're a beautiful lady and seem funny on text, I'd say a smile would bring everything together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He does be getting chatted up and I'm just sipping me vodka and tapping me toe to the music lol the only chats I get are in the ladies toilets with the girls.

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

I have never in my life been approached and chatting up by a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be body language too oif your looking like your open to someone chatting ya up it should happen you have to do a bit of the work to entice somebody into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol I do smile when I'm out, I promise, that's my blue steel look that I do for me fab photos

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

"Lol I do smile when I'm out, I promise, that's my blue steel look that I do for me fab photos

Lol, you should try the Magnum!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm too shy in real life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm just average looking, I'm friendly, love a bit of banter,maybe my height is intimidating (5ft 11)but unfortunately I can't do anything about that, I can get served quickly at the bar because I pop up over everyone's head

and I can see over high walls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like your look...deep thinker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in spreading abit of flattery and make first move and offer to buy a lad a pint.. Nice for guys to feel 'interest' to not just the girls,.. Works fifty fifty in my opinion, guys can be shy like girls to

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I was out for a few pints last night and noticed all the maired girls sit together while the single ladies engaged in convo with the their spouses now to put this in perspective it was a large group of people that would not nessiarly being in the same class but the same school growing up. While chatting to two rather cracking looking girls aged 32 they told me they had no men when I asked why as they were good looking fit and friendly they said stop if we were we be maired

I guess some can't take a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your height. There aren't too many men that can handle a girl of your height. Especially if you have heels on. They don't have the confidence. You'll have to go get them yourselve tiger!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm just average looking, I'm friendly, love a bit of banter,maybe my height is intimidating (5ft 11)but unfortunately I can't do anything about that, I can get served quickly at the bar because I pop up over everyone's head

and I can see over high walls

I like tall women.

My last gf was the same height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the look of someone, catch their eye and hold it long enough for them to notice. Look quickly away and back again. Body language, always works for me. Be open, keep ur body open and not closed, touch your hair, bite your lips. Don't try this when you are d*unk lol.

Ur a stunning lady, give the sexy guys or sexy ladies the eye...

Now ladies a wee bit more challenging, but I like a challenge

Love flirting off fab...good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I'm lucky that my boyfriend took a chance on me and (fingers crossed) I've managed not to scare him off yet

I don't believe that anyone is out of anyone's league, if you make me smile/laugh ( which himself does on a daily basis) then you've already won me over

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Kilcullen

I'd imagine most men wouldn't if you were out with your hubby

Lovely Pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get chatted up all the time lol but then again there only human lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get chatted up all the time lol but then again there only human lol

I am surprised, they get a word in Hardy lol. A night out with u be gr8 craic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get chatted up all the time lol but then again there only human lol

I am surprised, they get a word in Hardy lol. A night out with u be gr8 craic

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now there's a thought lilred

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

In our case if we are out Amy normally chats the women up. Has produced some interesting nights.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

"As the female half of curvy beauty (I'm curvy and he's the beauty

) I find that I get a lot of lovely flattering messages from men on here....HOWEVER! When I'm out I never get chatted up

and I LOVE a good flirt, himself gets loads of attention (little ride) but all I get are tumble s! So my question is.....do men not chat women up anymore or is it just me......god dammit!"

I'd say men are intimidated by you, you are seriously gorgeous. And the height thing makes you even more Amazonian goddess like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What pubs do you and youre fella go drinking in? Im going there.Its been years since I was in a pub that had a good 50/50 gender ratio never mind me being chatted up.PM me on the pubs please , Im going !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Elfie you are easily to kind and coming from a beautiful woman such as yourself I am more than flattered

I'm not a huge drinker, just a couple of vodkas, but even us attached women like to be chatted up and I love when himself is chatted up because I feel proud to be with him and it means they're seeing what I'm seeing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your height is not the issue, confident men have no issues chatting up tall girls ect..

It is the fact that guys are less confident chatting up women who are obviously with another guy.

Women do it for fun, and sometimes as a way to show they can pull any man.

Think peacocks

By the way , you are stunning...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Your height is not the issue, confident men have no issues chatting up tall girls ect..

It is the fact that guys are less confident chatting up women who are obviously with another guy.

Women do it for fun, and sometimes as a way to show they can pull any man.

Think peacocks

By the way , you are stunning..."

U mean u want us to fan out our tails and prance around in front of u to draw ur attention

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Your height is not the issue, confident men have no issues chatting up tall girls ect..

It is the fact that guys are less confident chatting up women who are obviously with another guy.

Women do it for fun, and sometimes as a way to show they can pull any man.

Think peacocks

By the way , you are stunning...

U mean u want us to fan out our tails and prance around in front of u to draw ur attention

Ps tall is attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your height is not the issue, confident men have no issues chatting up tall girls ect..

It is the fact that guys are less confident chatting up women who are obviously with another guy.

Women do it for fun, and sometimes as a way to show they can pull any man.

Think peacocks

By the way , you are stunning...

U mean u want us to fan out our tails and prance around in front of u to draw ur attention

Lol...

Would you chat up a woman if she was with her partner? .

We need a mans honest ans lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't look tall when I'm on my knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't look tall when I'm on my knees

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lookin up with them big eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i think its a tricky topic but if you all you want is kinds words then i also think you are a good looking lady and probably wouldnt be intimidated to talk to you! But i also see the other side of of the coin here, it seems to me that you need to work im a little self love and i appreciate all you got whether you are tall, short, big or small just learn to love yourself it sounds like basic thing but can be hard if you dont believe it,

if you feel beautiful you will see how many guys will chat you up smile flirt body language ,body language, speak way more than a thousand words

I hope that help and yes you are a very cute beautiful girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr here btw

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"Your height is not the issue, confident men have no issues chatting up tall girls ect..

It is the fact that guys are less confident chatting up women who are obviously with another guy.

Women do it for fun, and sometimes as a way to show they can pull any man.

Think peacocks

By the way , you are stunning...

U mean u want us to fan out our tails and prance around in front of u to draw ur attention

Lol...

Would you chat up a woman if she was with her partner? .

We need a mans honest ans lol..."

I wouldn't chat up someone's wife/partner in the vanilla world as u never no what does be going on in there relationship and how the other person is going to react, I would however make chit chat if sitting beside the person or if she was looking to get to the bar. In the swing world thou I would have no bother chatting up anyone as it's a completely different atmosphere

Mr crazy

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By *ocko123Man
over a year ago

Derry

Sinead is right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the female half of curvy beauty (I'm curvy and he's the beauty

) I find that I get a lot of lovely flattering messages from men on here....HOWEVER! When I'm out I never get chatted up

and I LOVE a good flirt, himself gets loads of attention (little ride) but all I get are tumble s! So my question is.....do men not chat women up anymore or is it just me......god dammit!"

Its the same for me, never get approached and when I tell guys on here they're like well I'd chat you up etc etc....I wouldn't even want to get them (all) into bed, like you say a flirt is enough now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They still do, but thing is some men on here are keyboard warriors, stuff that they say to women on here (either good or bad) they wouldnt have the courage to say it face 2 face

Key words: some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and I can see over high walls

Having met you you are far from average looking , you are a stunning looking lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup I get that too, or rather I don't. Seemingly I've been told "I don't give out the vibes" (whatever that means). I think it's the culture of my age group now too though, people are too engrossed in their phones to notice what's going on around them. I just love banter, it's not really about feeling wanted per say but just to have a laugh with someone. You have nothing to worry about you're far from average looking xx.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Your height is not the issue, confident men have no issues chatting up tall girls ect..

It is the fact that guys are less confident chatting up women who are obviously with another guy.

Women do it for fun, and sometimes as a way to show they can pull any man.

Think peacocks

By the way , you are stunning...

U mean u want us to fan out our tails and prance around in front of u to draw ur attention

Lol...

Would you chat up a woman if she was with her partner? .

We need a mans honest ans lol..."

Honestly I an a shy kind of guy takes me a bit to get going if she was to flirt with me well she's shown that she's open to the idea of flirting and I would reciprocate

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

and I can see over high walls

Having met you you are far from average looking , you are a stunning looking lady "

Very much so stunning, and I love your look. Amazing pictures on your profile too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes this crazy ball of dust makes no sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree you are beautiful but maybe you don't give off the vibes. Just looking at your pics op you don't smile in them. I smile goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love having a flirt with the ladies too! and there are some beautiful sexy women on fab. I was lucky enough to meet some of them in the (ahem) flesh on Friday

next time I'm out come over and say hi, I don't bite (well maybe a nibble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your height is not the issue, confident men have no issues chatting up tall girls ect..

It is the fact that guys are less confident chatting up women who are obviously with another guy.

Women do it for fun, and sometimes as a way to show they can pull any man.

Think peacocks

By the way , you are stunning...

U mean u want us to fan out our tails and prance around in front of u to draw ur attention

Lol...

Would you chat up a woman if she was with her partner? .

We need a mans honest ans lol...

Mr crazy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well i think its a tricky topic but if you all you want is kinds words then i also think you are a good looking lady and probably wouldnt be intimidated to talk to you! But i also see the other side of of the coin here, it seems to me that you need to work im a little self love and i appreciate all you got whether you are tall, short, big or small just learn to love yourself it sounds like basic thing but can be hard if you dont believe it,

if you feel beautiful you will see how many guys will chat you up smile flirt body language ,body language, speak way more than a thousand words

I hope that help and yes you are a very cute beautiful girl

Curvy this poster is spot on you are stunning and you just need to believe it...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"I don't look tall when I'm on my knees

Maybe you should kneel when drinking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think even I was getting chatted up I wouldn't know... I just always assume people are being friendly... can't read signals...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He does be getting chatted up and I'm just sipping me vodka and tapping me toe to the music lol the only chats I get are in the ladies toilets with the girls."

Lol when he is beside you would put me off now if you where with a few girls or on your own I'm sure it would be different sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that when i go out in my home town I don't get chatted up as much as I do when I'm out n about elsewhere.

I find women are more confident and able to chat men up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find when I'm

Out I usually get stalkers that follow me about all night ( creepy) if I meet it's usually on the dance floor I'd be out enjoying myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So who is buying me a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So who is buying me a drink"

Get yourself to Dublin for the social and we all get a closer look at ye

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

"So who is buying me a drink

Get yourself to Dublin for the social and we all get a closer look at ye

So will you buy me a drink miscar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say I think I've been chatted up in pubs twice in my life. One lad (God love him) wasn't all there, and the other time he sat beside me and then bent down and took off my shoe and asked me could he smell my foot. So yeah! Definitely something wrong with men lol

I would assume your not getting chatted up as your out with your other half, no one wants to risk a possible black eye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So who is buying me a drink

Get yourself to Dublin for the social and we all get a closer look at ye

So will you buy me a drink miscar "

Jaysus is that your chat up line lol

maybe

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

"So who is buying me a drink

Get yourself to Dublin for the social and we all get a closer look at ye

So will you buy me a drink miscar

Jaysus is that your chat up line lol

maybe

Oh I'll definitely have a better ones on the night lol

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