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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Friend of mine recently married a Brazilian girl after only 3months as her Visa was running out!Really worried for him as he pays for everthing and no she has rights to his assets.Do any fabbers have any experience of this?Seems a lot of South Americans are only after one thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know. Shocking. Imagine some busty amazon wanting stuffs. Disgrace I say. Shouldn't be allowed I say. Down with that sort of ting. Careful now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure let's just tar a nation of people with one brush .. ..

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By *herry blossem2Woman
over a year ago

louth


"Friend of mine recently married a Brazilian girl after only 3months as her Visa was running out!Really worried for him as he pays for everthing and no she has rights to his assets.Do any fabbers have any experience of this?Seems a lot of South Americans are only after one thing

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There is Irish girls involved in the same scam in America.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friend of mine recently married a Brazilian girl after only 3months as her Visa was running out!Really worried for him as he pays for everthing and no she has rights to his assets.Do any fabbers have any experience of this?Seems a lot of South Americans are only after one thing

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He married her , knowing her visa was running out, ah loves young dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens everywhere but my brother in law married a south American girl who is a qualified physio. Three weeks after they got back from the honeymoon she handed in her notice. Hasn't worked a day in 4 years even though they could badly do with the cash.

Personally speaking I've never of an Irish person doing the same although I'm sure it happens. She must be a world beater in bed because even though he funds her rather flamboyant tastes he seems happy enough. Isn't that all that matters ???

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Happens everywhere but my brother in law married a south American girl who is a qualified physio. Three weeks after they got back from the honeymoon she handed in her notice. Hasn't worked a day in 4 years even though they could badly do with the cash.

Personally speaking I've never of an Irish person doing the same although I'm sure it happens. She must be a world beater in bed because even though he funds her rather flamboyant tastes he seems happy enough. Isn't that all that matters ???"

You've never heard if an irish woman getting married and quitting her job?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens everywhere but my brother in law married a south American girl who is a qualified physio. Three weeks after they got back from the honeymoon she handed in her notice. Hasn't worked a day in 4 years even though they could badly do with the cash.

Personally speaking I've never of an Irish person doing the same although I'm sure it happens. She must be a world beater in bed because even though he funds her rather flamboyant tastes he seems happy enough. Isn't that all that matters ???

You've never heard if an irish woman getting married and quitting her job?????

"

I thought you were smarter than posting such a narrow reply/answer. I personally have never heard of a highly qualified Irish woman marry in a different country and give up work weeks after the wedding and living off her husband who is under financial pressure to keep her happy while she has a very high earning capacity if she bothered getting out of bed. Does that make my point clearer. Don't forget I made no mention of the OP's situation or any nation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens everywhere but my brother in law married a south American girl who is a qualified physio. Three weeks after they got back from the honeymoon she handed in her notice. Hasn't worked a day in 4 years even though they could badly do with the cash.

Personally speaking I've never of an Irish person doing the same although I'm sure it happens. She must be a world beater in bed because even though he funds her rather flamboyant tastes he seems happy enough. Isn't that all that matters ???

You've never heard if an irish woman getting married and quitting her job?????

I thought you were smarter than posting such a narrow reply/answer. I personally have never heard of a highly qualified Irish woman marry in a different country and give up work weeks after the wedding and living off her husband who is under financial pressure to keep her happy while she has a very high earning capacity if she bothered getting out of bed. Does that make my point clearer. Don't forget I made no mention of the OP's situation or any nation."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friend of mine recently married a Brazilian girl after only 3months as her Visa was running out!Really worried for him as he pays for everthing and no she has rights to his assets.Do any fabbers have any experience of this?Seems a lot of South Americans are only after one thing

"

The lost treasures of the Maya?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Happens everywhere but my brother in law married a south American girl who is a qualified physio. Three weeks after they got back from the honeymoon she handed in her notice. Hasn't worked a day in 4 years even though they could badly do with the cash.

Personally speaking I've never of an Irish person doing the same although I'm sure it happens. She must be a world beater in bed because even though he funds her rather flamboyant tastes he seems happy enough. Isn't that all that matters ???

You've never heard if an irish woman getting married and quitting her job?????

I thought you were smarter than posting such a narrow reply/answer. I personally have never heard of a highly qualified Irish woman marry in a different country and give up work weeks after the wedding and living off her husband who is under financial pressure to keep her happy while she has a very high earning capacity if she bothered getting out of bed. Does that make my point clearer. Don't forget I made no mention of the OP's situation or any nation."

Sounds like a lot of couples I know. Only difference is she's South American

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Naas

Half

I like your straight talking

OP

Who really gives a shit as they say each to there own

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Naas

Hal

Fecking Smart phones ain't to smart lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens everywhere but my brother in law married a south American girl who is a qualified physio. Three weeks after they got back from the honeymoon she handed in her notice. Hasn't worked a day in 4 years even though they could badly do with the cash.

Personally speaking I've never of an Irish person doing the same although I'm sure it happens. She must be a world beater in bed because even though he funds her rather flamboyant tastes he seems happy enough. Isn't that all that matters ???

You've never heard if an irish woman getting married and quitting her job?????

I thought you were smarter than posting such a narrow reply/answer. I personally have never heard of a highly qualified Irish woman marry in a different country and give up work weeks after the wedding and living off her husband who is under financial pressure to keep her happy while she has a very high earning capacity if she bothered getting out of bed. Does that make my point clearer. Don't forget I made no mention of the OP's situation or any nation.

Sounds like a lot of couples I know. Only difference is she's South American "

Let's not forget two things: not everyone believes that happiness is based on the acquisition of material items, and there are still men who prefer their wives not to work because they feel it a reflection on their masculinity.

If a couple is happy with their set-up, then it's nobody else's business.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Happens everywhere but my brother in law married a south American girl who is a qualified physio. Three weeks after they got back from the honeymoon she handed in her notice. Hasn't worked a day in 4 years even though they could badly do with the cash.

Personally speaking I've never of an Irish person doing the same although I'm sure it happens. She must be a world beater in bed because even though he funds her rather flamboyant tastes he seems happy enough. Isn't that all that matters ???

You've never heard if an irish woman getting married and quitting her job?????

I thought you were smarter than posting such a narrow reply/answer. I personally have never heard of a highly qualified Irish woman marry in a different country and give up work weeks after the wedding and living off her husband who is under financial pressure to keep her happy while she has a very high earning capacity if she bothered getting out of bed. Does that make my point clearer. Don't forget I made no mention of the OP's situation or any nation.

Sounds like a lot of couples I know. Only difference is she's South American

Let's not forget two things: not everyone believes that happiness is based on the acquisition of material items, and there are still men who prefer their wives not to work because they feel it a reflection on their masculinity.

If a couple is happy with their set-up, then it's nobody else's business."

True. This would be a common situation in a lot of South American cultures and not all because of male machismo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic"

He's an adult, isn't he? I'm sure he knows the potential consequences of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic"

On their own?!

Is this a thinly veiled attack on "bloody foreigners"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic"

Do you kniw what the term puta refers to in Spanish speaking countries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic

On their own?!

Is this a thinly veiled attack on "bloody foreigners"?"

It's not very thinly veiled really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic

On their own?!

Is this a thinly veiled attack on "bloody foreigners"?

It's not very thinly veiled really "

Any guy who uses the term puta, deserves to be ignored....

His mate needs to griw up and he needs to learn manners

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic"

Between this and the seinfeld thing I think you've had enough internet for the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leeches all I say. Damn and damnation. Enuf of that sorta thing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i am (Mr) of Central America i find your comment (OP) highly ignorant and offensive on so many grounds i can just say Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op is just stirring as usual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As i am (Mr) of Central America i find your comment (OP) highly ignorant and offensive on so many grounds i can just say Wow "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey people never was on this way. Not everyone is like it girl. What will do to be happy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buba u looks very loneliness to xpress in this way.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic"

I wonder does the OP's knuckles still drag on the ground

Your totally offensive and narrow minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Canadian woman once asked me to marry her, I now wish I had of as she was a great friend and is a great woman all she wants to to was stay.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Friend of mine recently married a Brazilian girl after only 3months as her Visa was running out!Really worried for him as he pays for everthing and no she has rights to his assets.Do any fabbers have any experience of this?Seems a lot of South Americans are only after one thing

There is Irish girls involved in the same scam in America."

There are irish involved in tge same sort of thing in Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tough one because my ste here is a very similar situation with my pal he's he was single for like 7 years if not more he met this young lady from Brazil about 7 months ago and is now marrying her next year I could be wrong it could be love but I just can't see it I'm just getting bad vibes about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friend of mine recently married a Brazilian girl after only 3months as her Visa was running out!Really worried for him as he pays for everthing and no she has rights to his assets.Do any fabbers have any experience of this?Seems a lot of South Americans are only after one thing

"

Well id say their not after you, you stick to holding your cock in your hand, you may get used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's old enough to make his decisions whether you or he thinks it's the correct or wrong decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tough one because my ste here is a very similar situation with my pal he's he was single for like 7 years if not more he met this young lady from Brazil about 7 months ago and is now marrying her next year I could be wrong it could be love but I just can't see it I'm just getting bad vibes about it "

ste?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tough one because my ste here is a very similar situation with my pal he's he was single for like 7 years if not more he met this young lady from Brazil about 7 months ago and is now marrying her next year I could be wrong it could be love but I just can't see it I'm just getting bad vibes about it

ste?"
sorry ment ste as in me the male half of this couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tough one because my ste here is a very similar situation with my pal he's he was single for like 7 years if not more he met this young lady from Brazil about 7 months ago and is now marrying her next year I could be wrong it could be love but I just can't see it I'm just getting bad vibes about it

ste? sorry ment ste as in me the male half of this couple "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friend of mine recently married a Brazilian girl after only 3months as her Visa was running out!Really worried for him as he pays for everthing and no she has rights to his assets.Do any fabbers have any experience of this?Seems a lot of South Americans are only after one thing

"
Plus its not so long ago Irish were doing exact same thing in america by the 100s if not 1000s would you pain yourselves with the same brush? Many people from many different countries do similar things but not all bad always takes two to tango!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic

I wonder does the OP's knuckles still drag on the ground

Your totally offensive and narrow minded "

U sound bitter and jealous..

He's a big boy..he knew the risks he was taking.

I hate when others interfere with relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tough one because my ste here is a very similar situation with my pal he's he was single for like 7 years if not more he met this young lady from Brazil about 7 months ago and is now marrying her next year I could be wrong it could be love but I just can't see it I'm just getting bad vibes about it "

I met my ex, got engaged two months later, married the following year..

Marriage lasted over ten years..

It was love..

Not one person got bad vibes about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This should be closed. The opening post is out and out racism and insulting to not only a country but a continent. If it was said about irish people then irish people would be up in arms giving out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This should be closed. The opening post is out and out racism and insulting to not only a country but a continent. If it was said about irish people then irish people would be up in arms giving out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This should be closed. The opening post is out and out racism and insulting to not only a country but a continent. If it was said about irish people then irish people would be up in arms giving out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny thing about the powers to be on fab. They generally have no problem with racist comments .....

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!


"Funny thing about the powers to be on fab. They generally have no problem with racist comments ....."
for once i agree with you.

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

I personally don't think there's anything

racist about it after all most Brazilians

are racist towards dark skinned folks I lived there for 3months im sure they too

would agree with me....it's simply reality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ur an idiot!nothing racist in my comment.mentioning Brazil is not racist u fool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems lots of south Americans are only after one thing "

Hands op a dictionary opened under r for racist ......

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Who the fk said your comment was racist? Get a grip here all I mentioned was my experience out there and has that bothered u.....idiot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blackgrape my comment wasnt directed at u! Its they way this forum shows comments.i totally agree wit u mate.my comment was directed at the idiot who said i was racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny thing about the powers to be on fab. They generally have no problem with racist comments ....."

Tom.have known you both here and on another site years, so a bit taken back at this

Jesus the vast majority of FAB abhor racist comments...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Funny thing about the powers to be on fab. They generally have no problem with racist comments .....

Tom.have known you both here and on another site years, so a bit taken back at this

Jesus the vast majority of FAB abhor racist comments..."

Nothing racist on this post!not one racist term used so grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny thing about the powers to be on fab. They generally have no problem with racist comments .....

Tom.have known you both here and on another site years, so a bit taken back at this

Jesus the vast majority of FAB abhor racist comments...

Nothing racist on this post!not one racist term used so grow up."

I beg to differ, we are all entitled to our views...

Also the term puta is sick and an insult to women of all race and culture..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Funny thing about the powers to be on fab. They generally have no problem with racist comments .....

Tom.have known you both here and on another site years, so a bit taken back at this

Jesus the vast majority of FAB abhor racist comments...

Nothing racist on this post!not one racist term used so grow up.

I beg to differ, we are all entitled to our views...

Also the term puta is sick and an insult to women of all race and culture.."

As u said free speeh but again nothing racist said.my friend is being taken for all he has and i am pointing out a common trend with some and not all Brazilian women taking advantage of Local guys to get Visas.of course Irish women do the same in the states etc but i was concerned for mate.free speech and people should not be censored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny thing about the powers to be on fab. They generally have no problem with racist comments .....

Tom.have known you both here and on another site years, so a bit taken back at this

Jesus the vast majority of FAB abhor racist comments...

Nothing racist on this post!not one racist term used so grow up.

I beg to differ, we are all entitled to our views...

Also the term puta is sick and an insult to women of all race and culture..

As u said free speeh but again nothing racist said.my friend is being taken for all he has and i am pointing out a common trend with some and not all Brazilian women taking advantage of Local guys to get Visas.of course Irish women do the same in the states etc but i was concerned for mate.free speech and people should not be censored "

"My mate will have a nervous breakdown.These putas also get themselves pregnant as a tactic.

Your words, if you own them fine...

However accept that others find them openly sickening and racist

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Naas

Maybe your friend is taking advantage of a vulnerable beautiful woman who normally would give him a second look

Maybe there mutually helping one another

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Being slightly thick I had to goggle this term, I am sure your mate would be glad to hear your views on his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and by the way bubba..

If I was a guy and found out that my so called mate was refering to my wife as a,prostitute, he woukd no longer be my mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being slightly thick I had to goggle this term, I am sure your mate would be glad to hear your views on his wife"

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

I don't think there's anything racist about your post bubbaj6182,a lot of guys and girls look their status in the very way u mentioned,that's the simple truth and nothing racist about. ... Oh pls accept my apology I guess I got caught

up in the crossfire....again....sorry big guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tough one because my ste here is a very similar situation with my pal he's he was single for like 7 years if not more he met this young lady from Brazil about 7 months ago and is now marrying her next year I could be wrong it could be love but I just can't see it I'm just getting bad vibes about it

I met my ex, got engaged two months later, married the following year..

Marriage lasted over ten years..

It was love..

Not one person got bad vibes about it.."
well that's your marrige which is great that it lasted 10 years but I am getting very bad vibes on my mates marrige way too soon for the time there with each other too marrige as I said he struggled in finding a nice girl for years an now he's rushing into marrige like come on. Example we are newly weds we got married last July 31st we accounced it a year before it at a family party but we are with each other since we where 16 big difference in just being with someone 3 months and anoucing a wedding an date at that it has free visa written all over it an good riddens too the husband I could be wrong but that's how I'm seeing it. And yes I have spoken too him about it he seems pretty happy an slightly worried I just said looks it's up too you no one can tell you what too do and follow your gut an heart

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a tough one because my ste here is a very similar situation with my pal he's he was single for like 7 years if not more he met this young lady from Brazil about 7 months ago and is now marrying her next year I could be wrong it could be love but I just can't see it I'm just getting bad vibes about it

I met my ex, got engaged two months later, married the following year..

Marriage lasted over ten years..

It was love..

Not one person got bad vibes about it.. well that's your marrige which is great that it lasted 10 years but I am getting very bad vibes on my mates marrige way too soon for the time there with each other too marrige as I said he struggled in finding a nice girl for years an now he's rushing into marrige like come on. Example we are newly weds we got married last July 31st we accounced it a year before it at a family party but we are with each other since we where 16 big difference in just being with someone 3 months and anoucing a wedding an date at that it has free visa written all over it an good riddens too the husband I could be wrong but that's how I'm seeing it. And yes I have spoken too him about it he seems pretty happy an slightly worried I just said looks it's up too you no one can tell you what too do and follow your gut an heart "
well said!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think there's anything racist about your post bubbaj6182,a lot of guys and girls look their status in the very way u mentioned,that's the simple truth and nothing racist about. ... Oh pls accept my apology I guess I got caught

up in the crossfire....again....sorry big guy"
thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being slightly thick I had to goggle this term, I am sure your mate would be glad to hear your views on his wife "

It also means bitch and she has behaved like a bitch to me and some of his mates.he feel out with a mate of his he had known over 20yrs as she would let him go to his friends stag incase he looked at another women.she also told her friends that they were engaged after only 2months and my mate knew nothing of this.so SpanishEyes i will call her a puta after her behaviour. I am sick of the racist card being thrown around by narrow minded people like u. I Hate racism of all sorts and never mentioned a racist term or any mention of skin colour etc. So might i suggest u engnage ur brian before saying such stupid things!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being slightly thick I had to goggle this term, I am sure your mate would be glad to hear your views on his wife

It also means bitch and she has behaved like a bitch to me and some of his mates.he feel out with a mate of his he had known over 20yrs as she would let him go to his friends stag incase he looked at another women.she also told her friends that they were engaged after only 2months and my mate knew nothing of this.so SpanishEyes i will call her a puta after her behaviour. I am sick of the racist card being thrown around by narrow minded people like u. I Hate racism of all sorts and never mentioned a racist term or any mention of skin colour etc. So might i suggest u engnage ur brian before saying such stupid things!"

Am concious of my spelling mistakes btw new phone and predictive text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being slightly thick I had to goggle this term, I am sure your mate would be glad to hear your views on his wife

It also means bitch and she has behaved like a bitch to me and some of his mates.he feel out with a mate of his he had known over 20yrs as she would let him go to his friends stag incase he looked at another women.she also told her friends that they were engaged after only 2months and my mate knew nothing of this.so SpanishEyes i will call her a puta after her behaviour. I am sick of the racist card being thrown around by narrow minded people like u. I Hate racism of all sorts and never mentioned a racist term or any mention of skin colour etc. So might i suggest u engnage ur brian before saying such stupid things!"

Did ya google to find the word bitch, or the urban dictionary?..

Bubbs babe am soooo over this , toodle pips....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being slightly thick I had to goggle this term, I am sure your mate would be glad to hear your views on his wife

It also means bitch and she has behaved like a bitch to me and some of his mates.he feel out with a mate of his he had known over 20yrs as she would let him go to his friends stag incase he looked at another women.she also told her friends that they were engaged after only 2months and my mate knew nothing of this.so SpanishEyes i will call her a puta after her behaviour. I am sick of the racist card being thrown around by narrow minded people like u. I Hate racism of all sorts and never mentioned a racist term or any mention of skin colour etc. So might i suggest u engnage ur brian before saying such stupid things!

Did ya google to find the word bitch, or the urban dictionary?..

Bubbs babe am soooo over this , toodle pips.... "

Ditto sham ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone agreeing to a visa marriage should know what he is doing.

The fact that the lady quitted the job- well, looks like taking advantage but in South America, this may is part how woman are brought up. Once they found themselves a "provider" they morph into house wives. Mind you that house keeping is a full time job. Your doubt amd worries are legitimate if she doesn't play this old gender role. Also to be questioned...is your mate consuming the marriage by any means? Now, if your mate is not a fabber you Mostlikely don't have access to the bedroom details and albeit your observation I recommend to apply the rule:"in dubio pro rerum"

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

It's a quid pro quo IMO

She gets provided for and he gets to marry what I presume is a hot Brazilian chicka,at least I hope she's hot

Everyone's happy except bubba

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

Bubba you seem way to concerned about your mates romantic/personal life which from where I type has jot to do with you. I'm now just trying to figure out if you're jealous of him OR her....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here highlights the ugly side of the Fabswingers Ireland Forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puta hardly ever means bitch by context and the way you said it certainly doesnt mean bitch!

The correct translation is whore!

If You wanna argue about i will just have you know Im a A1 spanish student not to mention im a native spanish speaker

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By *ubarufanCouple
over a year ago

Shannon

The more brazillian women mixing with our gene pool the better if you ask me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Puta hardly ever means bitch by context and the way you said it certainly doesnt mean bitch!

The correct translation is whore!

If You wanna argue about i will just have you know Im a A1 spanish student not to mention im a native spanish speaker "

Honestly, am really glad you posted this...

My understanding of the term was whore or promiscuous woman..

Now , I accept that he has his opinions, abd in all honesty I do admire him for standing by them..

However his claiming that he was calling her a bitch was disengenuous...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Puta hardly ever means bitch by context and the way you said it certainly doesnt mean bitch!

The correct translation is whore!

If You wanna argue about i will just have you know Im a A1 spanish student not to mention im a native spanish speaker "

But I thought the Brazilians spoke Portuguese? I don't btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanish or Portugese for prostitute or whore.

A Puta.......

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By *ertwoCouple
over a year ago

omagh

I know a few irish girls that done it here lol Guys keep your head and stay calm when a hot sexy girl of any colour or nationality wants to marry you. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a few irish girls that done it here lol Guys keep your head and stay calm when a hot sexy girl of any colour or nationality wants to marry you. lol "

Lol....Look who popped up, now there is a,naughty blast from my past

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bubba you seem way to concerned about your mates romantic/personal life which from where I type has jot to do with you. I'm now just trying to figure out if you're jealous of him OR her...."

Im just worried for a mate thats all.Not jealous and typical stupid thing that people say when all im concerned for is my mate.If i works out great but in all honesty how the hell can u know someone well enough to marry them when u only know them a few months.The Visa question cant just be ignored.he married her just a wk before her visa expired.Marrying for a Visa is never a good idea.only a month before he tried to dump her as he couldnt handle her crap and i listened to him as a mate.suddenly out of no where hes married and me and his mates are supposed to be concerned?mentioning her looks is shallow and to say im jealous shows that ur a total idiot!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bubba you seem way to concerned about your mates romantic/personal life which from where I type has jot to do with you. I'm now just trying to figure out if you're jealous of him OR her....

Im just worried for a mate thats all.Not jealous and typical stupid thing that people say when all im concerned for is my mate.If i works out great but in all honesty how the hell can u know someone well enough to marry them when u only know them a few months.The Visa question cant just be ignored.he married her just a wk before her visa expired.Marrying for a Visa is never a good idea.only a month before he tried to dump her as he couldnt handle her crap and i listened to him as a mate.suddenly out of no where hes married and me and his mates are supposed to be concerned?mentioning her looks is shallow and to say im jealous shows that ur a total idiot!!!!"

I'd have been worried if one of my friends was doing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bubba you seem way to concerned about your mates romantic/personal life which from where I type has jot to do with you. I'm now just trying to figure out if you're jealous of him OR her....

Im just worried for a mate thats all.Not jealous and typical stupid thing that people say when all im concerned for is my mate.If i works out great but in all honesty how the hell can u know someone well enough to marry them when u only know them a few months.The Visa question cant just be ignored.he married her just a wk before her visa expired.Marrying for a Visa is never a good idea.only a month before he tried to dump her as he couldnt handle her crap and i listened to him as a mate.suddenly out of no where hes married and me and his mates are supposed to be concerned?mentioning her looks is shallow and to say im jealous shows that ur a total idiot!!!!

I'd have been worried if one of my friends was doing it"

Thank you.Exactly where im coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well certainly and without a doubt if it was me I'd want my good and great pal to go onto a swingers website and tell all the swingers about it and describe my bride to be in such glowing terms.

Like that's what real friendship is. Going on a public forum and posting. It's the real definition of looking after a friend. No question whatever. I just wish I had good friends like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well certainly and without a doubt if it was me I'd want my good and great pal to go onto a swingers website and tell all the swingers about it and describe my bride to be in such glowing terms.

Like that's what real friendship is. Going on a public forum and posting. It's the real definition of looking after a friend. No question whatever. I just wish I had good friends like that "

Well it's not really that bad. He hasn't named his friend or his wife. There's been a lot more private info revealed by members on these forums.

Ever so recently there was someone who publicly posted that their new baby had arrived. They even posted the child's name!

I found that to be majorly wrong if not a bit weird.

There's no way I'd ever anounce a birth of my child on a swinger site forum, never mind posting the child's name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to use a "racist term" or mention skin colour to be saying something that is racist. I'm not going to argue that you "ARE a racist", but your original post, and basically the whole premise of this thread, is racist. If it wasn't, you'd have no need to mention that girls nationality. Perfectly ok to mention your discomfort with the scenario, and you could have had just as productive a conversation about it without anyone knowing where she was from. It was blatantly trying to tar a whole people with the same brush, and now you're back-tracking because people aren't lapping it up. It's almost comical, because it's the same pattern that happens anytime someone slays something silly like this and is then challenged on it.

And one last thing, challenging something that someone says is not censorship. Nobody's censoring you, they're simply disagreeing and calling bullshit.

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By *agiceyesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"You don't have to use a "racist term" or mention skin colour to be saying something that is racist. I'm not going to argue that you "ARE a racist", but your original post, and basically the whole premise of this thread, is racist. If it wasn't, you'd have no need to mention that girls nationality. Perfectly ok to mention your discomfort with the scenario, and you could have had just as productive a conversation about it without anyone knowing where she was from. It was blatantly trying to tar a whole people with the same brush, and now you're back-tracking because people aren't lapping it up. It's almost comical, because it's the same pattern that happens anytime someone slays something silly like this and is then challenged on it.

And one last thing, challenging something that someone says is not censorship. Nobody's censoring you, they're simply disagreeing and calling bullshit.

"

I agree....

The partners visa was running out and there is a massive rush to get married and rather plan a wedding iver 6 minths to a year there was a big push on to the registery office amd the OP is simply worried about their friend.

It could be true love and they will be together for 60 years but it's not just Brazilians that do this it happens in many country's.

It's a little to convenient and the matter is if they break up this woman is going nowhere and will be remainjng in ireland forever more and the lad will have no comeback if she was half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off, speaking from experince I've had an ex who was south American & we had only been going out the first 2 months when she popped the question would I marry her to help her with her visa but she offered to pay me. Being a person of high moral standards, I declined (wish I didn't cause I could have used the money), I prefer traditionally let things settle before doing such a big thing.

Don't be naive that Irish women don't go abroad to look for a visa in another country, it's exactly the same for any Irish man that wants to live in Australia , it happens all over the world would you believe ?

My advice is that if this guy wants to help her, let him. Maybe he feels that he will never find another woman to love him again, our time on this earth is precious, so if this woman makes him happy then let it be

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

I don't think there's anything racist about mentioning the origins of this woman ,when applying for a job anywhere within our borders would you

consider the employers racist with the section which requires one to fill in his ethnic background on the application form?I wouldn't think they are,there are

loads of people from all over the world

here doing this marriage for visa thing everyday here so it's not only Brazilians....so there we go there's nothing racist about this post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well certainly and without a doubt if it was me I'd want my good and great pal to go onto a swingers website and tell all the swingers about it and describe my bride to be in such glowing terms.

Like that's what real friendship is. Going on a public forum and posting. It's the real definition of looking after a friend. No question whatever. I just wish I had good friends like that "

Ur an idiot!!!being a swinger has nothing to do with the subject.Ur a total gobshite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't have to use a "racist term" or mention skin colour to be saying something that is racist. I'm not going to argue that you "ARE a racist", but your original post, and basically the whole premise of this thread, is racist. If it wasn't, you'd have no need to mention that girls nationality. Perfectly ok to mention your discomfort with the scenario, and you could have had just as productive a conversation about it without anyone knowing where she was from. It was blatantly trying to tar a whole people with the same brush, and now you're back-tracking because people aren't lapping it up. It's almost comical, because it's the same pattern that happens anytime someone slays something silly like this and is then challenged on it.

And one last thing, challenging something that someone says is not censorship. Nobody's censoring you, they're simply disagreeing and calling bullshit.

What a prat u are.I state again nothing racist in what I said!

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think there's anything racist about mentioning the origins of this woman ,when applying for a job anywhere within our borders would you

consider the employers racist with the section which requires one to fill in his ethnic background on the application form?I wouldn't think they are,there are

loads of people from all over the world

here doing this marriage for visa thing everyday here so it's not only Brazilians....so there we go there's nothing racist about this post. "

Thanks mate! Good to see a common sense comment on this.Way to many bullys on these forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullies you say? So far you have called me an idiot and a gobshite. You have cried bitterly because you were pulled up by me and several others for opening your mouth and proving beyond any doubt you are a racist.

I haven't seen fit to call you abusive names. That's your own way of working. Good for you.

But dear Lord don't start crying bully because people call you out for what you are and what you wrote and not for what you thought you said or what you meant to say.

And no free speech dosent mean you can say what you liked and not get pulled up on it.

Least I know the Donald would get one vote in Ireland.

Now you still want to scream abuse at me or would you like to explain yourself instead?

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"Sure let's just tar a nation of people with one brush .. .."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married to a man whom i met only after 4 wks . His visa was running out we married and lasted 16 yrs alot longer then most irish marraiges last . So how do u know it wont last . Alot of marraiges are arranged in these countries so why not . Even tho were not married any more were best of friends again better then alot of irish who sum wouldnt even look at there exs so point is leave them they may turn out to be the best married cpl and live happily ever after . Anyway how many irish marraiges fail u can see this on fab so i rest my case

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was married to a man whom i met only after 4 wks . His visa was running out we married and lasted 16 yrs alot longer then most irish marraiges last . So how do u know it wont last . Alot of marraiges are arranged in these countries so why not . Even tho were not married any more were best of friends again better then alot of irish who sum wouldnt even look at there exs so point is leave them they may turn out to be the best married cpl and live happily ever after . Anyway how many irish marraiges fail u can see this on fab so i rest my case "

Of course it cud last but if u cud read i also mentioned that he tried to dump her and he had to get mental help for a while then out of no where he is married.Am i not to be worried as a friend? Ur example is the same as saying i know someone who smoked all their life and lived til 100! So therefore people shouldnt lable smoking as bad!Come on my dear,be sensible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bullies you say? So far you have called me an idiot and a gobshite. You have cried bitterly because you were pulled up by me and several others for opening your mouth and proving beyond any doubt you are a racist.

I haven't seen fit to call you abusive names. That's your own way of working. Good for you.

But dear Lord don't start crying bully because people call you out for what you are and what you wrote and not for what you thought you said or what you meant to say.

And no free speech dosent mean you can say what you liked and not get pulled up on it.

Least I know the Donald would get one vote in Ireland.

Now you still want to scream abuse at me or would you like to explain yourself instead?"

Im all for debate pal but u cant just throw the racist card and then pretend like ur being the reasonable one! U sound like the Israeli government when they steal Arab land and when the Arabs in gaza react they call them "terrorists".u really need to grow up pal.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Bullies you say? So far you have called me an idiot and a gobshite. You have cried bitterly because you were pulled up by me and several others for opening your mouth and proving beyond any doubt you are a racist.

I haven't seen fit to call you abusive names. That's your own way of working. Good for you.

But dear Lord don't start crying bully because people call you out for what you are and what you wrote and not for what you thought you said or what you meant to say.

And no free speech dosent mean you can say what you liked and not get pulled up on it.

Least I know the Donald would get one vote in Ireland.

Now you still want to scream abuse at me or would you like to explain yourself instead?

Im all for debate pal but u cant just throw the racist card and then pretend like ur being the reasonable one! U sound like the Israeli government when they steal Arab land and when the Arabs in gaza react they call them "terrorists".u really need to grow up pal."

Stop deflecting.

you've been pulled up on your behaviour and you're now backtracking and doubling down because the majority don't agree with you.

"Free speech" doesn't shield you from criticism or consequences of what you say. It just means you're allowed to say it.

No one is bullying you, what they are doing is pulling you up on shitty behaviour.

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Can someone explain what is racist about bubbaj6182's post here?has he used any derogatory term or language?being a victim of all forms of racism u can imagine my question to all you labeling him as racist,what racist term has he used here?....what?there's already loads of real racists on this site,if you consider him to be racist then whenever you fill a Job application form you might as well consider your potential employer to be racist by having you to fill in the section which requires your ethnic background.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can someone explain what is racist about bubbaj6182's post here?has he used any derogatory term or language?being a victim of all forms of racism u can imagine my question to all you labeling him as racist,what racist term has he used here?....what?there's already loads of real racists on this site,if you consider him to be racist then whenever you fill a Job application form you might as well consider your potential employer to be racist by having you to fill in the section which requires your ethnic background."

Thank you! I will defend myself against the racist card always. As ive stated before I hate racism and will always fight against it but by using the racist card,certain idiots on here debase the term racism.thanks for ur support and at least unlike the majority of times on here,a certain group of regulars must now understand they cant mock and shout down anyone with a counter narrative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can someone explain what is racist about bubbaj6182's post here?has he used any derogatory term or language?being a victim of all forms of racism u can imagine my question to all you labeling him as racist,what racist term has he used here?....what?there's already loads of real racists on this site,if you consider him to be racist then whenever you fill a Job application form you might as well consider your potential employer to be racist by having you to fill in the section which requires your ethnic background."

Thank you! I will defend myself against the racist card always. As ive stated before I hate racism and will always fight against it but by using the racist card,certain idiots on here debase the term racism.thanks for ur support and at least unlike the majority of times on here,a certain group of regulars must now understand they cant mock and shout down anyone with a counter narrative.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Can someone explain what is racist about bubbaj6182's post here?has he used any derogatory term or language?being a victim of all forms of racism u can imagine my question to all you labeling him as racist,what racist term has he used here?....what?there's already loads of real racists on this site,if you consider him to be racist then whenever you fill a Job application form you might as well consider your potential employer to be racist by having you to fill in the section which requires your ethnic background."

In the context of the OP's post, you see nothing wrong with "Seems a lot of South Americans are only after one thing" ?

how about these examples:

"seems a lot of nigerians are genital mutilators"

"seems a lot of mexicans are lazy"

"seems a lot of irish are d*unks"

"seems a lot of arabs are terrorists"

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

So lets spell it out OP

What has where the girl is from got to do with her behaviour?

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

And English?.....slave drivers?Americans...kkk?....I could easily go on,at 47 iv been around long enough and lived in the America's,Windies,and Africa im as tuff as granite x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So lets spell it out OP

What has where the girl is from got to do with her behaviour?"

Because of the culture not here skin colour.I went out with a girl from Brazil who did tried the same crap with me and admitted to me that in her country it is the "man" that should provide and keep her a kept woman.thats fine but i explained that in my country where she chose to come,its equal rights and women should not assume its up to the man to provide everything.might i suggest u do some research.also many of her friends where "married" to Irish guys but went out on the pull looking for other rich guys.My ex told me that this is part of her culture.So i cab speak from experience and again I couldnt give a shite about skin colour etc but im commenting on MY experience.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"And English?.....slave drivers?Americans...kkk?....I could easily go on,at 47 iv been around long enough and lived in the America's,Windies,and Africa im as tuff as granite x"

How is your age, where you've lived and your toughness relevant to the current discussion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And English?.....slave drivers?Americans...kkk?....I could easily go on,at 47 iv been around long enough and lived in the America's,Windies,and Africa im as tuff as granite x

How is your age, where you've lived and your toughness relevant to the current discussion?"

Ur making no sense pal!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So lets spell it out OP

What has where the girl is from got to do with her behaviour?

Because of the culture not here skin colour.I went out with a girl from Brazil who did tried the same crap with me and admitted to me that in her country it is the "man" that should provide and keep her a kept woman.thats fine but i explained that in my country where she chose to come,its equal rights and women should not assume its up to the man to provide everything.might i suggest u do some research.also many of her friends where "married" to Irish guys but went out on the pull looking for other rich guys.My ex told me that this is part of her culture.So i cab speak from experience and again I couldnt give a shite about skin colour etc but im commenting on MY experience."

So based on your experience, and yours alone you're stating that brazilian women are cheating gold diggers?

I don't think that's culture, I think you just know bad people.

By your logic then, brazilian women who don't do this are going against their culture by being good people.

anecdotal evidence is not enough to generalise the behaviour of an entire section of a population.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"And English?.....slave drivers?Americans...kkk?....I could easily go on,at 47 iv been around long enough and lived in the America's,Windies,and Africa im as tuff as granite x

How is your age, where you've lived and your toughness relevant to the current discussion?

Ur making no sense pal!"

I think my question is very simple. what is it you're not understanding?

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Yes John Mongo all your examples may hold some truth,since you've used all these groups as an example why don't you go ahead with the rest?the Germans?English?Americans?.....remember the good ol no blacks no Irish no dogs?to label someone as racist is horrible....so come on y'all bubbaj6182 ain't no racist,if he is then it only takes one to know one.

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

John Mingo....sorry not Mongo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"John Mingo....sorry not Mongo"

Good one!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yes John Mongo all your examples may hold some truth,since you've used all these groups as an example why don't you go ahead with the rest?the Germans?English?Americans?.....remember the good ol no blacks no Irish no dogs?to label someone as racist is horrible....so come on y'all bubbaj6182 ain't no racist,if he is then it only takes one to know one."

are you seriously suggesting that to call someone out on racism is to be racist themselves? I'm gonna pretend you didn't say that, and give you chance to apologise.

The problem I think most people have had with the OP's post, is that he's generalised the behaviour of a certain group of people under the banner of "culture"

That's cultural racism. That's bad behaviour.

there is nothing at all wrong with a women wanting to give up work and become a housewife (or the opposite, and a man become a house husband) but there is a problem if they're gold diggers. that we can all agree on.

that's bad behaviour.

If he omitted where his mates fiance was from, and didnt make generalisations, we wouldn't be having this discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like the saying u can't tar everybody with the one brush! That applies In alot of cases

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes John Mongo all your examples may hold some truth,since you've used all these groups as an example why don't you go ahead with the rest?the Germans?English?Americans?.....remember the good ol no blacks no Irish no dogs?to label someone as racist is horrible....so come on y'all bubbaj6182 ain't no racist,if he is then it only takes one to know one.

are you seriously suggesting that to call someone out on racism is to be racist themselves? I'm gonna pretend you didn't say that, and give you chance to apologise.

The problem I think most people have had with the OP's post, is that he's generalised the behaviour of a certain group of people under the banner of "culture"

That's cultural racism. That's bad behaviour.

there is nothing at all wrong with a women wanting to give up work and become a housewife (or the opposite, and a man become a house husband) but there is a problem if they're gold diggers. that we can all agree on.

that's bad behaviour.

If he omitted where his mates fiance was from, and didnt make generalisations, we wouldn't be having this discussion.

My god u really talk rubbish!!!

"

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Well you gave some examples in the first place which I did say hold some truth so why should I owe you an apology?what for? The subject here is bubbaj6182 so im not going to get dragged into anything other than this.....he's been labeled a racist which I don't think he is......so lets rather stick to this coz that apology ain't coming your way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes John Mongo all your examples may hold some truth,since you've used all these groups as an example why don't you go ahead with the rest?the Germans?English?Americans?.....remember the good ol no blacks no Irish no dogs?to label someone as racist is horrible....so come on y'all bubbaj6182 ain't no racist,if he is then it only takes one to know one.

are you seriously suggesting that to call someone out on racism is to be racist themselves? I'm gonna pretend you didn't say that, and give you chance to apologise.

The problem I think most people have had with the OP's post, is that he's generalised the behaviour of a certain group of people under the banner of "culture"

That's cultural racism. That's bad behaviour.

there is nothing at all wrong with a women wanting to give up work and become a housewife (or the opposite, and a man become a house husband) but there is a problem if they're gold diggers. that we can all agree on.

that's bad behaviour.

If he omitted where his mates fiance was from, and didnt make generalisations, we wouldn't be having this discussion.

I know its hard for certain regulars on here to have people finally stand up to them.i am not a rscist and u should apologies for ur stupid narrow minded comments John.It might be hard for u to see that some people defend my right to express myself.this is not Nazi Germany after all and different opinions are allowed pal

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

You're both completely missing my point.

I'm done.

Anyone else wanna try?

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

There is still nothing racist about mentioning the country she originates,it just happens to be a country on this planet it could easily have been any other countet but it so happened to be Brazil....if my memory serves my right there was an MP who had an undocumented Brazilian toyboy he would access into restricted areas within

the parliament,this toyboy went on to clear this MP off a couple thousand quid

, so it's something that happens probably it's just more common in other cultures or backgrounds just as is people's prefferance right here on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What he said

"Seems a lot of South Americans are only after one thing"

The definition of racism (I suggested he look it up. Instead he roared at me I was a bully a gobshite and an idiot )

"The belief that members of each race possess characteristics, abilities, or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races"

Now if you stop crying and shouting abuse and actualy read the words and the definition maybe the fog will lift.

Like John Mingo I'm done here. As a wise man once said the problem with arguing with a fool in public is the public trying to figure out who is the fool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He works....Mrs raises the kids.....kids grow up....mrs goes back to work......and join fab and start living it up........Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was married to a man whom i met only after 4 wks . His visa was running out we married and lasted 16 yrs alot longer then most irish marraiges last . So how do u know it wont last . Alot of marraiges are arranged in these countries so why not . Even tho were not married any more were best of friends again better then alot of irish who sum wouldnt even look at there exs so point is leave them they may turn out to be the best married cpl and live happily ever after . Anyway how many irish marraiges fail u can see this on fab so i rest my case

Of course it cud last but if u cud read i also mentioned that he tried to dump her and he had to get mental help for a while then out of no where he is married.Am i not to be worried as a friend? Ur example is the same as saying i know someone who smoked all their life and lived til 100! So therefore people shouldnt lable smoking as bad!Come on my dear,be sensible"
Well then maybe u should question your friend not the poor girl . Why did he run back to her did she have a gun to his bloody head i think not .

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"Bubba you seem way to concerned about your mates romantic/personal life which from where I type has jot to do with you. I'm now just trying to figure out if you're jealous of him OR her....

Im just worried for a mate thats all.Not jealous and typical stupid thing that people say when all im concerned for is my mate.If i works out great but in all honesty how the hell can u know someone well enough to marry them when u only know them a few months.The Visa question cant just be ignored.he married her just a wk before her visa expired.Marrying for a Visa is never a good idea.only a month before he tried to dump her as he couldnt handle her crap and i listened to him as a mate.suddenly out of no where hes married and me and his mates are supposed to be concerned?mentioning her looks is shallow and to say im jealous shows that ur a total idiot!!!!"

Clearly you didn't read my comment. I said nothing about what anyone looked like. I questioned which party you were jealous over. And clearly you are very jealous of one or both of them for you to reduce yourself to name calling but sure why not when you have no legitimate response to being called out. Your level of immaturity in your original post and you're name calling to me says volumes about you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bubba you seem way to concerned about your mates romantic/personal life which from where I type has jot to do with you. I'm now just trying to figure out if you're jealous of him OR her....

Im just worried for a mate thats all.Not jealous and typical stupid thing that people say when all im concerned for is my mate.If i works out great but in all honesty how the hell can u know someone well enough to marry them when u only know them a few months.The Visa question cant just be ignored.he married her just a wk before her visa expired.Marrying for a Visa is never a good idea.only a month before he tried to dump her as he couldnt handle her crap and i listened to him as a mate.suddenly out of no where hes married and me and his mates are supposed to be concerned?mentioning her looks is shallow and to say im jealous shows that ur a total idiot!!!!

Clearly you didn't read my comment. I said nothing about what anyone looked like. I questioned which party you were jealous over. And clearly you are very jealous of one or both of them for you to reduce yourself to name calling but sure why not when you have no legitimate response to being called out. Your level of immaturity in your original post and you're name calling to me says volumes about you. "

U really dont get it do u pal!!

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

Don't get confused. I'm not your "pal". My standards are much higher

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't get confused. I'm not your "pal". My standards are much higher "

Ur just an idiot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get confused. I'm not your "pal". My standards are much higher

Ur just an idiot!"

Jaysus that blew up pretty quick on ya bubbs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't get confused. I'm not your "pal". My standards are much higher

Ur just an idiot!

Jaysus that blew up pretty quick on ya bubbs"

Dont think so bullyboy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't get confused. I'm not your "pal". My standards are much higher

Ur just an idiot!

Jaysus that blew up pretty quick on ya bubbs

Dont think so bullyboy!"

So no more comments on this vital topic shams????

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Oh for goodness sake grow up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t really matter which nationality your always going to have an element of people wanting to better themselves. My wife is Brazilian and it be impossible to meet a better person. Drop dead stunning too

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