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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just for (fun) maybe helpful if everyone posted a useful tip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be Polite.... Manners cost nothing

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

If you feel comfortable walking around naked its a good idea to bring a wrap or long t-shirt to a party or group fun....can be annoying having to get back into clothes between fun sessions

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"If you feel comfortable walking around naked its a good idea to bring a wrap or long t-shirt to a party or group fun....can be annoying having to get back into clothes between fun sessions"

Uncomfortable*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wooooo keep them coming im all ears!!!!

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember that it is supposed to be fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never assume anything! If you get rejected don't take it personally, be polite and thank them for there time it goes along way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep hydrated, drink plenty of fluids. (Excuse the pun) Getting a stitch mid fun is no fun.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Dont fake your pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't drink too much...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone mails to arrange a meet , fgs let them know if you are no longer interested...

It is not easy juggling time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen and read comments about others but ultimately make up your own mind. Just because one person has had a poor experience dosent mean you will.

Be very very wary of people trying to limit who you interact with. It's your body not theirs

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Always wash and dress presentably before a meet (this has happened to me before)

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Are these tips about swinging or using fab??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your instinct..... if something is too good to be true, it probably isn't, bring condoms too!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are these tips about swinging or using fab?? "

Whichever you think will help?

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

Set up your filters! Cuts the messing drastically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont fake your pictures. "

They're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust your instinct..... if something is too good to be true, it probably isn't, bring condoms too!! "

Comdoms, comdoms, comdoms. Do not be like me and spend the 10/15 minutes you allowed yourself by getting to a meet in plenty of time, to have a little drink and generally just relax ones self by running around frantically looking for a spar, chemist, any where that you think might sell comdoms. Word to the wise, stationary shops do not sell comdoms

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Trust your instinct..... if something is too good to be true, it probably isn't, bring condoms too!!

Comdoms, comdoms, comdoms. Do not be like me and spend the 10/15 minutes you allowed yourself by getting to a meet in plenty of time, to have a little drink and generally just relax ones self by running around frantically looking for a spar, chemist, any where that you think might sell comdoms. Word to the wise, stationary shops do not sell comdoms "

Comdoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont send boring messages try and be original and attach pics...

Don't expect everyone to reply ...... The ones with manners do .....

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust your instinct..... if something is too good to be true, it probably isn't, bring condoms too!!

Comdoms, comdoms, comdoms. Do not be like me and spend the 10/15 minutes you allowed yourself by getting to a meet in plenty of time, to have a little drink and generally just relax ones self by running around frantically looking for a spar, chemist, any where that you think might sell comdoms. Word to the wise, stationary shops do not sell comdoms

Comdoms? "

#scarletformyself

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

When at a party always watch your belongings.... Like in life, thieves can be found in swinging too sadly. Too many forget this and leave wallets etc in the open, I know several people that were robbed because of this both at parties I've attended and other parties. But don't let a little caution ruin your fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use basic cop-on, just as you (hopefully) would in any situation when dealing with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't use baby oil with condoms and be prepared bring lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 23/03/16 12:07:03]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't but I'd highly recommend having a trusted friend or what ever, know of your where abouts and planned meets just an extra security measure especially if playing alone.......

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

Never EVER send a cock pic in the first mail. In fact don't send one at all unless asked. But that's more a fab tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read profiles before sending a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet in a public place first for a coffee/drink in a cafe/bar, don't commit to fun then, you can meet another time for that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't but I'd highly recommend having a trusted friend or what ever, know of your where abouts and planned meets just an extra security measure especially if playing alone......."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy. "

Do people actually do that????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you've cut your toe-nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lie lie lie everyone else does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you've cut your toe-nails "

You ruin another pair of stockings Hardy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the girls - don't wax below as it's bloody well sore.... believe me I've been there.... OUCH!!

Just shave & use veet - I have used it & survived it lol!!! but don't go over 10 mins, start off at 8 mins first lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lie lie lie everyone else does "

Did you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.

Do people actually do that???? "

Yes

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

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By *ewbies201Couple
over a year ago

lisburn

Be polite in your messages, especially when mailing a couple.

Could be either reading and answering.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.

Do people actually do that????

Yes "

Don't bad mouth people full stop be better advice it's a small community and it always gets back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and read and reply to as many messages as you can!if you don't fancy someone just delete the message! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the site guidelines, especially the one saying: no reply = not interested

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Pack a robe or light clothing and slippers or flip flops when going to parties. you never know what the house rules regarding smoking are, and you may have to go to the back garden to smoke.

saves you having to get all dressed again if you just want a quick post coitus smoke.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.

Do people actually do that????

Yes

Don't bad mouth people full stop be better advice it's a small community and it always gets back "

Dont believe everything you hear. Make your own opinion about someone not based on someone elses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.

Do people actually do that????

Yes

Don't bad mouth people full stop be better advice it's a small community and it always gets back

Dont believe everything you hear. Make your own opinion about someone not based on someone elses. "

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Pack a robe or light clothing and slippers or flip flops when going to parties. you never know what the house rules regarding smoking are, and you may have to go to the back garden to smoke.

saves you having to get all dressed again if you just want a quick post coitus smoke. "

Or alternatively quit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't lie about who you are and what situation you are in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't lie about who you are and what situation you are in"

Only at home ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the directions clearly for Veet Put it on to long "down below" and couldn't walk or sit down properly for a few days... Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pack a robe or light clothing and slippers or flip flops when going to parties. you never know what the house rules regarding smoking are, and you may have to go to the back garden to smoke.

saves you having to get all dressed again if you just want a quick post coitus smoke.

Or alternatively quit "

Respect other people's preferences

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Always have respect for others and always always play safe everybody has different boundaries and always remember that so you can feel safe and be comfortable and gave fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.

Do people actually do that????

Yes

Don't bad mouth people full stop be better advice it's a small community and it always gets back

Dont believe everything you hear. Make your own opinion about someone not based on someone elses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont judge or categorise people.

Keep anticipations high but expectations low....

You'll be pleasantly surprised if you're open-minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have up to date pictures on your profile

NOT something that was taken 10 yrs ago.

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

If it's a Ladybird Guide to Swinging then expect to see a lot of pictures.....

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By *ewbies201Couple
over a year ago

lisburn


"Dont judge or categorise people.

Keep anticipations high but expectations low....

You'll be pleasantly surprised if you're open-minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also be SHOCKED by what you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy your condoms online from the likes of Lovehoney or somewhere like it.....

Soooooooo much cheaper buying in bulk

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

Don't do anything you don't want to...

Make conversation..

Enjoy the atmosphere and the attraction...

Go in with a smile and leave with a bigger smile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just for (fun) maybe helpful if everyone posted a useful tip. "
if your not comfortable with yourself how can you expect someone else to be always try relax and enjoy it

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Im gona theow in a wild one... mind what you eat the day before.. dont want an uoset tummy ruining your day.. defo stay off the currys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't lie about your hight or body type , people will notice if you are 5 "5" and not 5"11

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't lie about your hight or body type , people will notice if you are 5 "5" and not 5"11 "

I'm 6'5", 6'6" with my shoes on. That tall enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself, don't try and be someone you're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't lie about your hight or body type , people will notice if you are 5 "5" and not 5"11 "

yep the truth will out when I answer the door in heels you only come up to my nipples

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo


"Don't lie about your hight or body type , people will notice if you are 5 "5" and not 5"11

yep the truth will out when I answer the door in heels you only come up to my nipples "

Nipple height would do nicely ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 6ft 3 and cuddly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When chatting to a couple remember that there is 2 and show respect to both. Even if the meet is going to be a solo one.

And that goes for ladies as well as the gents. I will not meet a lady unless herself likes her and is happy with me playing alone.

And to the gents i dont bite no harm in saying hi even if your not bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you guys are forgetting a very important thing here..

HAVE FUN!!!!!

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down


"Always read profiles before sending a message "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never EVER send a cock pic in the first mail. In fact don't send one at all unless asked. But that's more a fab tip"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't lie about your hight or body type , people will notice if you are 5 "5" and not 5"11

yep the truth will out when I answer the door in heels you only come up to my nipples "

Cuming up to your nipples would nice I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always read profiles before sending a message "

This one i agree on,100%...So many do not read profiles an its actually annoying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't lie about your hight or body type , people will notice if you are 5 "5" and not 5"11

I'm 6'5", 6'6" with my shoes on. That tall enough? "

Most guys here are tall...I finally found where they were all hiding

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Don't wipe ur cock on the curtains it doesn't bode we'll for a repeat

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

If ur sexual active with more than one partner get tested regular

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

Watch out for full moon activities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step 1: Be attractive.

Step 2: Don't be unattractive

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

Be urself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty helpful thread in most part. Some decent tips..

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Naas

Some good tips

ENJOY

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By *unfella 1Man
over a year ago

dublin

Listen!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

respect everyone an relax take things as they come

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By *now_and_SunCouple
over a year ago

North Dublin

Always be prepared on a meet. Last thing you want is to have no supplies or outfits with you if the coffee meet goes really well. No glove no love..

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