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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me being silly or... Does any other ladies feel intimidated by how sexy others are on here? Like on one hand i would be perving pics with himself and be oohhh id love to sink my tongue into her.. But shes abit 'out of my league' and wouldnt message them, her or him because i would feel like an ejit standing beside them and lose my nerve?

Not a problem with self esteem by the way just dont have gods gift syndrome haha does/did anyone feel like this sometimes orr does it settle down after a while??

Bit of an honest one for yal today

Jules x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has insecurities at some level. If the person wants to play with you, then it's safe enough to assume they find you attractive, nobody is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me being silly or... Does any other ladies feel intimidated by how sexy others are on here? Like on one hand i would be perving pics with himself and be oohhh id love to sink my tongue into her.. But shes abit 'out of my league' and wouldnt message them, her or him because i would feel like an ejit standing beside them and lose my nerve?

Not a problem with self esteem by the way just dont have gods gift syndrome haha does/did anyone feel like this sometimes orr does it settle down after a while??

Bit of an honest one for yal today

Jules x"

I get exactly what you're saying. I think the same sometimes too

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

There's no such things as leagues and never be intimidated by a profile, it's just pictures and words that give you some idea about the person behind it.

You've a lovely profile yourself and I see a very sexy young woman there. So give people the chance to make up their own mind and embrace all the opportunities on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say there are sometimes I read some profiles and really love there likes but when I look at there pic's i find myself going i have not a chance! Pedro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jules.... Wise up !!.. Ur in a league of ur own from what I can see!!.... Simply stunning!!!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs OP you could stand beside any of the ladies here. You can stand sit or even lay down beside me any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile seems WOW to me...

Unfortunately sometimes profiles or text may seem off putting but there's a lot of messes on here too and people are putting up walls of defence and then it makes profiles look unapproachable....

You both look amazing and your profile is too best of luck with your naughty journey...

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yep, all the time. Sometimes I don't think I've a snowball's chance in hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with anniemal op your profile is amazingly sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep all the time , stops me messaging a lot of people that I'd love to

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yep all the time , stops me messaging a lot of people that I'd love to "

Don't ever be afraid to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awe up4fun you are one sexylady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep all the time , stops me messaging a lot of people that I'd love to

Don't ever be afraid to message me "

Hahaha you must be sick of me at this stage

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yep all the time , stops me messaging a lot of people that I'd love to

Don't ever be afraid to message me

Hahaha you must be sick of me at this stage "

Never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up4fun you don't read my messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP the only thing wrong with your profile is your age limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing ventured nothing gained OP. I got to know a guy here who was way out of my league, he was drop dead gorgeous, I sent a wink he mailed me and we got on brilliantly.

We all have insecurities but some profiles are worth a wink at least, who knows where it might lead

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I think we all have those fears but once u get in the swing of it they subside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best looking couples are the most insecure....it's a fascinating psychology thesis swing if anyone's studying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By *limboy69Man
over a year ago

Cork

Couldn't agree with you more, not just women feeling intimidated by other people's profiles its much worse for men. You'd be thinking I'm going to make a fool of myself sending a message to that profile because you think just as you said "they are away out of my league ".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep feel that way the whole time

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By *limboy69Man
over a year ago

Cork

If we all got over our insecurities think of how much fun we could all have.

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By *ewguy500Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh Tyrone

Hey jules it happens to me quite alot on here. You have a great profile & looking at your pics you have to reason to feel like you do x

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Why is anyone comparing themselves to others? I can understand having body issues but in general i dont get the "leagues" thing. No one person is above another here and its the arrogant ones that assume this (male,female and couples).youre all equal here looking for the same thing.It takes confidence to even be here in the first place so stop putting yourselves down and enjoy the site and each other.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I felt like that once when I first joined then when I met her she didn't even look anything like her pics so now I just don't give a shite if someone like me the like me if not I won't loose sleep over it

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down


"Why is anyone comparing themselves to others? I can understand having body issues but in general i dont get the "leagues" thing. No one person is above another here and its the arrogant ones that assume this (male,female and couples).youre all equal here looking for the same thing.It takes confidence to even be here in the first place so stop putting yourselves down and enjoy the site and each other. "

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Its better to have tried and failed than carry around the what if for the rest of your life.

Sure really what have you got to loose.

I can't imagine many couples turning you down to be honest, so just put it out there and see what happens.

The worst they can say might be no thanks.

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By *izzie16Woman
over a year ago

mallow

Yes I know exactly what your sating.it can be intimidating but I guess you gotta stick your neck out lol

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By *limboy69Man
over a year ago

Cork

But will your neck get chop chop lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is anyone comparing themselves to others? I can understand having body issues but in general i dont get the "leagues" thing. No one person is above another here and its the arrogant ones that assume this (male,female and couples).youre all equal here looking for the same thing.It takes confidence to even be here in the first place so stop putting yourselves down and enjoy the site and each other. "

Come & sit on my shoulder wise one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say from the couples and ladies profiles I've seen on here and the personalities of some of the people that are apparent in other threads! There are some beautiful, sexy people on this thread. Just me expressing my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm like that when I see some girls and couple profiles but I'd send a wink anyway. Then I think life is too short for inhibitions so I say to hell with it and message them anyway. I've never regretted doing so. And btw OP you're profile is WOW. So ease up on yourself, you're gorgeous.

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

Have to agree with most above kinky. From looking at your profile & pics I can't see why either one of you would feel out of anyones' league.

I have looked at lots of profiles & thought "there's no way they'd be into me" but I wouldn't say I have low self esteem. I'm not Adonis or a super charged porn star but what I am and have I'm comfortable with and if others aren't then that's fine, plenty more on here who will be.

There are times you have to take a chance, but it's only a mail on a website. The worst that can happen is that you are ignored, no one is going to mail back & say "you're not up to our standards" They might mail back & say "not interested" but then it's probably because they feel you are out of their league. There are loads of people on here & you could spend so much time trying to find time to mail people back that you can't find time to meet, & won't have any time to even think about the few who don't want to meet you.

Anyway, waffle over, enjoy the site & have fun whatever you get up to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to ye all for all yer wonderfull messages!! (busy day in work and could only reply now!)

I guess im just struggling abit its the weirdest feeling to be soooo attracted to both sexes equally and yet nope nope they are way beyond mortal mammy i wont mail them I wasnt fishing for compliments or any of that stuff just wondering am i alone. I guess thats why im trying to swing the social few drinks with couples to put our necks out abit for the chop!! I selfishly feel better that im not the only human feeling this lol and maybe i should have a more ahh feck it sure attitude

Jules xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me being silly or... Does any other ladies feel intimidated by how sexy others are on here? Like on one hand i would be perving pics with himself and be oohhh id love to sink my tongue into her.. But shes abit 'out of my league' and wouldnt message them, her or him because i would feel like an ejit standing beside them and lose my nerve?

Not a problem with self esteem by the way just dont have gods gift syndrome haha does/did anyone feel like this sometimes orr does it settle down after a while??

Bit of an honest one for yal today

Jules x"

Jules I've seen your profile & pics (and you went straight on to my hot list) No matter which profile you were looking at, trust me you are 100% defiantly in there league. Your a knockout

If I'm to be totally honest the only reason I haven't messaged you was I felt you were out of mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you mores the pity your not bi, myself and L would prefer to share our victims..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you mores the pity your not bi, myself and L would prefer to share our victims.. "

If anyone was turn me Bi Jules it would be you, but unfortunately for us both I'm as straight as an arrow

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