FabSwingers.com forum: lads ffs get some game

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv been here before twice as a couple and once or twice as a single bloke. Now I know single lads have a hard time but Jesus Christ some of the messages and pics that get sent are just brain dead .. The senario I'm in now with my gf is based on guys more so than couples or females, just so the misses never feels left out as she knows my past and I adore her and I want to spoil her for a while anyways and let's face it most girls dream of having 3sums or morsums with a few good looking respectable guys but most are too vanila but Jesus lads some of you make it hard and it ruins it for the good guys because we get sick of going through lame messages.. well I do anyways lol she probably dosent because it's all new to her lol (she does be soaking at the thoughts)

But at the end of the day I'd be picking the guys out that I feel fit the bill and I'm seriously struggling even though there is good guys the amount of cabbages is scary and ends up putting me in a bad mood.. like iv been a single lad on here and for one thing if I didn't get a reply I'd never text back (desperate) one dick pick is ok but a few full pics in nice clothes goes a mile I always thought and now from the other side I definitley think. And By all means be nice but not cringy as fuck

Pic with the top off , a couple of normal pics of you having a laugh dressed smart with the oul mug in it and maybe a cock pic .. 3/4 genuine sentences / no long essays and your golden .. but Jesus we seem to get either a "hi" with 6 nasty dick pics with a big nasty hairy bush attached or a 2 page essay which is most likely copied and pasted to every girl/couple on line , like if I'm wide lads I'm sure the girls are 2.. Like some of the lads I feel like getting a camera and telling them to shave or at least trim and do them selves justice and ill take the pics myself lol. It's like they don't give a fuck and then they winge that nobody replies to them?? Ahh i dunno . Rant over anyways lol.. and ffs read the fuking profile first lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So funny but oh so true lol

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

How refreshing to see this!

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As u posted this I got a really genuine message of a guy with a couple of normal pics and one with his lad hanging out now I don't normally bother reading messages I like to watch her read them and I watch to see her heart beat and her breath skip lol she is completley new to this altogether.. gamey lil minx but a complete novice altogether she is in awe lol.

Anyways this lad read the profile very polite seems sound , looks wise not what we would be after but I can tell ye compared to the gobshite with no face pic who messaged just 2 mins later asking .." do ye wanna share her " I'd imagine in a forest gump voice with the six pack and the 8 inch langer , hands down the nice genuine guy would be in the lead and at least will get a reply .. The other guy I just want to destroy him with words but if I started that I'd be here all day with smoke coming out of my ears , but that's my point exactly that sap has put me in bad form now so there could be a few sound lads now that text and I'll already have a negative attitude towards them .. :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness, your profile does say the guy will be a tool....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad I'm not on my own here lads

Like don't get me wrong it's easy for us couples with beutiful women to let them strike some sexy poses while we throw our cock in the pic lol . I knkw the single lad struggle but if your gonna do it .. do it right .. treat it like your Facebook profile pic if your single and your looking to land a classy bird .. play the fuking game at least

don't just throw the Wang out and say any one fancy breakfast which I was sent a little while ago .. infairness typing it , it actually seems funny to me now but when i received it . the first thing I thought was prick ! And ignore :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True that it does but it also says we are very easy going and you will have a good laugh and lots of fun or somthing to that extent , that's just setting boundaries . We aren't looking for a dildo. We are looking for a sound dude that knows his place and is respectful . But thanks for bringing that to my attention maybe I should alter it a little if that's how it's coming across but I would bet ye a blowjob they never even read that far :/

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

You're not bad at the writing yourselves either ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure listen OP if they are all wrong here expect you maybe take the advice of that great line from Father Ted and just

"Fup off you Grasshole !"

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

The idiots used to annoy me too and put me in bad form. But at this stage they are just like background noise, I hardly notice them. There are some really great single guys on here, really great! I know you will find them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hang on mate as I said there are plenty of sound lads , but the mongo that send pics of their cock and six pack with out a face pic probably saying somthing like "fuck you hard lol"ruin it for the sound lads ..but seriously if you seen it from the other side you would get it m8. I'm not trying to have a go .. but put a lil effort in and read the profile ect .. nothing against six packs or well liked after blokes .. like that would be ideal super body decent cock and a bang on personality . Like this isn't for me I'm not gay but I do set a high standard for my misses .. its quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mongo? Wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No doubt we will _lfie .. no rush anyways .. think she has fell in love with the chat rooms for the time being anyways lol

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

"No doubt we will _lfie .. no rush anyways .. think she has fell in love with the chat rooms for the time being anyways lol"

I like chatrooms too, might see you in there again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mongo? Wow"

Are people that sensitive here? If I offended I apologise .. I'd use that a light lighter than most words . As I said I'm not here to offend x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No doubt we will _lfie .. no rush anyways .. think she has fell in love with the chat rooms for the time being anyways lol

I like chatrooms too, might see you in there again.

I'd say that you can gaurentee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mongo? Wow

Are people that sensitive here? If I offended I apologise .. I'd use that a light lighter than most words . As I said I'm not here to offend x"

That sensitive? Looks like the cop-on doesn't extend to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day it's all about RESPECT....

The mind boggles that some people (actually quite a lot) just don't comprehend this and still 'blast away' anyway, regardless of what's written on a profile, only then to post threads with "why no response".

#cringeworthy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mongo? Wow

Are people that sensitive here? If I offended I apologise .. I'd use that a light lighter than most words . As I said I'm not here to offend x

That sensitive? Looks like the cop-on doesn't extend to you.

Good lord here we are on a site full of debauchery and sin lol and people are offended even after a sincere apology because I used the word mongo in a light hearted manner . I'm not going to start getting user about you questioning my intelligence .. again as I said I'm sorry if i offended anybody by using the word .. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read your profile..then decided not to mail, too many parts of it I dont fit into...wayyy over your preferred age range for a start ..

..but..being the sort that very much paddles my own canoe ..why...if your an experienced fabber, dont you use your depth of knowledge and mail guys you like the look of and just block single males...would it not be easier than trawling through the 'dicks'....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read your profile..then decided not to mail, too many parts of it I dont fit into...wayyy over your preferred age range for a start ..

..but..being the sort that very much paddles my own canoe ..why...if your an experienced fabber, dont you use your depth of knowledge and mail guys you like

the look of and just block single males...would it not be easier

than trawling through the 'dicks'...."

I'll be 100% m8 .. I actually have 2 friends that both fit the criteria that I have done mmf with each of them a good few times over the years . We are our go to guys if another lad is required for a mmf . I had intended to give these lads a shout and actually spoke to each one about it . They are close mates but we are not in each others circle so it wouldn't be wierd or uncomfortable and that was the plan to maybe have 2 3sums one with each of the lads . It's actually probably the best option however a week ago we were sitting in chatting and I said do you want to have a look at the swingers site imediatly she was uncomfortable as the word swinger can put people off that are not used to it . But she decided to have a look for the laugh . Within an hour she sold two pair of knickers for 80 quid which we got in trouble for but we only were having a laugh but as she seen how normal the site was she got interested so then I put up the profile of what we are actually looking for . As I said this is for her I get a kick out of seeing the shock and excitement on her face and the attention she is getting and she is most certainly enjoying the chat rooms also .. I didn't want to put an age limit on it as a 40/45 yr old could easily fit the bill if there was a spark but primarily I think we would prefer younger . Having said that we met a few sound guys on the chat rooms that if weren't based in the UK would most likely fit the bill .. I like the fact she is getting plenty of mails it's an amazing confidence builder for her . This tread was more to point out to the lads put a bit of work on to your texts that's all ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll never get this time back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree with you more OP

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kaizer got game

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Op would the best option not be to block single males and do your own search ?

That way these poor lads who are expected to be performing seals for your own gratification can save thier time on being turned down by you ...just a thought

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Getting quite sick of reading how bad single guys are on here when messaging. I would say we are all guilty at somepoint of writing a bad message. You have choices.....filters.....ignore and delete. Those that can't put 2 sentences together it's their problem but does it need to be highlighted every 2 minutes

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I realise as a single guy that I'm a "spare prick" in a threesome. I get that.

But

Having read your profile I wouldn't message you (despite Mrs kink looking lovely) as I'm outside your preferred age range, and I'd resent being used as a "tool" and to "take orders"

That sentence is very disrespectful to us guys and I'd suggest you change it ...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I realise as a single guy that I'm a "spare prick" in a threesome. I get that.

But

Having read your profile I wouldn't message you (despite Mrs kink looking lovely) as I'm outside your preferred age range, and I'd resent being used as a "tool" and to "take orders"

That sentence is very disrespectful to us guys and I'd suggest you change it ..."

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By *own a bitMan
over a year ago

Dublin

op you need to chill, you sound like a control freak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have experience of this rules and regulations lark and it sucks ... Only desperate dicks need apply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tbh you would be the star of the show ,not the spare prick if asked to join us, maybe I should look at the wording again but basically yeah I'd be looking for a train of a bloke lol . And to be honest lads I'm sorry if I only want the best for my misses she is worth it .. Some like to settle fair enough . I'm planning on making this the most amazing experience I can for her .

But that has nothing got to do with the actual subject i highlighted . My issue is lads with one liners ie.hey / wanna fuk / u horny, accompanied by a photo of a messy unshaven cock .. or even if it's a shaven cock . Like what women thinks yeah he seems sound from a "wanna fuck" and a dick pick .. glad yiz are so easily pleased

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And iv been on the other side also were I was used .. even briefed as to what he wanted me to do and what he wanted out of the meet

. I fuking loved it .. just as much as I love making the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I realise as a single guy that I'm a "spare prick" in a threesome. I get that.

But

Having read your profile I wouldn't message you (despite Mrs kink looking lovely) as I'm outside your preferred age range, and I'd resent being used as a "tool" and to "take orders"

That sentence is very disrespectful to us guys and I'd suggest you change it ..."

Read it few days ago and thought the same.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Tbh you would be the star of the show ,not the spare prick if asked to join us, maybe I should look at the wording again but basically yeah I'd be looking for a train of a bloke lol . And to be honest lads I'm sorry if I only want the best for my misses she is worth it .. Some like to settle fair enough . I'm planning on making this the most amazing experience I can for her .

It has everything to do with it.

The idiots who don't read your profile don't see that line and the genuine sound guys who do might be put off by it and don't mail you.

Might be a reason you're getting shit guys sending shit mails.

Just my 2c

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I get exactly what ur saying lads think it's a sex site and fancy a Fuck should bring the masses falling to their feet till they realise they can't get a meet. On the other hand those lads make it easier for the cream to rise and there is a lot of cream here

On ur profile outside of the age limits it's what ye want without being demanding u have outlined the type of guy ur looking for and that works for some as does the roll that u ur self take work for others. Maybe the word tool needs changing to object of her desire or something.

Since ur very clear on what u want it may be easier block males as any standing PRICK is going to look at the pics and say yip I would, and go looking trough the advance search option as in males between 25/29 area and so forth and see can u find a sub for ur other half to use and carry out ur desires to fulfill her fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl. Good rant OP

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

See this is why 80% of communication is non verbal...

Its hard to get the sense of someone from a forum post or profiles.

What one person might mean can be taken totally out of context by someone reading it from another angle.

People need to relax and be nice to each other. If everyone was nice to each other then the world would be a far nicer place....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this thread makes me laugh, you been here before as couple and single, well you know how the site works,

block all single guys, as you said, its you that pick the guys, message the guys that you think will fit the bill,

at the end of the day, you are the one looking for a single guy to fulfil your mrs fantasies..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them

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By *ig al100Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Lmfao tell her I'm available hahaha I must be,I'm on fab ffs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm stunned by the comments over the OP profile text...

Tool...or Toys or whatever!!

Seems to me a female can put what she likes on her profile likes and dislikes and it's completely acceptable, I've seen verifications from guys on this thread from women who's profiles are way more insulting than this OP's profile...

It's funny humours and a laugh...

Some people need to grow up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you still havent blocked single guys, i guarantee you in a week or 2 you'll be back here ranting about the same thing

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm stunned by the comments over the OP profile text...

Tool...or Toys or whatever!!

It's funny humours and a laugh...

Some people need to grow up!"

If there's something I don't like on a profile, it means i'm less likely to contact them, it doesnt matter if it's a man woman or couple.

Anyone can put what they like on a profile....doesn't mean it's a good idea or if it will work for them. It doesn't even mean it will be read (and for the vast majority it won't)

The OP started this thread which brought their profile under the spotlight, which prompted opinions on the text.

So stunned or not, here's something shocking:

men dislike being treated as a piece of meat just as much as women do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I realise as a single guy that I'm a "spare prick" in a threesome. I get that.

But

Having read your profile I wouldn't message you (despite Mrs kink looking lovely) as I'm outside your preferred age range, and I'd resent being used as a "tool" and to "take orders"

That sentence is very disrespectful to us guys and I'd suggest you change it ..."

Completely agree.

If a guy had that on his profile about a woman he would be slated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm stunned by the comments over the OP profile text...

Tool...or Toys or whatever!!

It's funny humours and a laugh...

Some people need to grow up!

If there's something I don't like on a profile, it means i'm less likely to contact them, it doesnt matter if it's a man woman or couple.

Anyone can put what they like on a profile....doesn't mean it's a good idea or if it will work for them. It doesn't even mean it will be read (and for the vast majority it won't)

The OP started this thread which brought their profile under the spotlight, which prompted opinions on the text.

So stunned or not, here's something shocking:

men dislike being treated as a piece of meat just as much as women do. "

OMG! Do they....Really!

I don't treat people as pieces of meat.....or do I think it's the OP intention either...

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm stunned by the comments over the OP profile text...

Tool...or Toys or whatever!!

It's funny humours and a laugh...

Some people need to grow up!

If there's something I don't like on a profile, it means i'm less likely to contact them, it doesnt matter if it's a man woman or couple.

Anyone can put what they like on a profile....doesn't mean it's a good idea or if it will work for them. It doesn't even mean it will be read (and for the vast majority it won't)

The OP started this thread which brought their profile under the spotlight, which prompted opinions on the text.

So stunned or not, here's something shocking:

men dislike being treated as a piece of meat just as much as women do.

OMG! Do they....Really!

I don't treat people as pieces of meat.....or do I think it's the OP intention either...

No one is accusing you of treating anyone like meat, so I don't know why you're making that statement.

The OP however has admitted to looking for a guy to "take orders" so what he needs is someone into that, i.e. a sub.

Which means the OP should edit their profile accordingly.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"I'm stunned by the comments over the OP profile text...

Tool...or Toys or whatever!!

It's funny humours and a laugh...

Some people need to grow up!

If there's something I don't like on a profile, it means i'm less likely to contact them, it doesnt matter if it's a man woman or couple.

Anyone can put what they like on a profile....doesn't mean it's a good idea or if it will work for them. It doesn't even mean it will be read (and for the vast majority it won't)

The OP started this thread which brought their profile under the spotlight, which prompted opinions on the text.

So stunned or not, here's something shocking:

men dislike being treated as a piece of meat just as much as women do.

OMG! Do they....Really!

I don't treat people as pieces of meat.....or do I think it's the OP intention either...

D'ya think your all taking this a wee bit too serious..swinging should be a giggle and fun, ...

Just delete any messages you don't like and block...or have a little cruel fun if it amuses you...

Except you Annie, ...feel free to objectify me any time...

Ollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a mongo?

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"What is a mongo?"

A loosely used word that means mongolian or downs syndrome. Not the best word in the world to use but seems to get bandied about a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a mongo?

A loosely used word that means mongolian or downs syndrome. Not the best word in the world to use but seems to get bandied about a lot."

Thanks , unusual word to be used given it does cause offense...

Hmmmmm..

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"What is a mongo?

A loosely used word that means mongolian or downs syndrome. Not the best word in the world to use but seems to get bandied about a lot.

Thanks , unusual word to be used given it does cause offense...

Hmmmmm.."

Yes but in the context the Op used it in means idiotic or stupid. Heres where mine and your age will show ,as we d deem it wrong to call anyone a name like that no matter what context it was used.Younger folk on here throw names out like this without thinking first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a mongo?

A loosely used word that means mongolian or downs syndrome. Not the best word in the world to use but seems to get bandied about a lot.

Thanks , unusual word to be used given it does cause offense...

Hmmmmm..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow this esculated lol... Jesus some seriously touchy lads here. to be to be brutally honest any one who gets their knickers in their about knot about being a tool in a a night of debauchery dosent fit the bill anyways as we are looking for a man not an emotional fragile school girl

so ill leave it as it is as it helps the above out as we dont necessarily want a sub. The right guys will get what they need from this profile I think.

Jesus Christ the word mongo can be used as lightly as I did .. There is a race of people with the same name who are quite the strange bunch..If it's your perception that I still caused offence after apologising pirfusley at this stage I dont really care it was used as banter not as a medical term for someone .

And ill still stand by the fact lads who send one pic or their mangled hairy manhood with a stupid :what's up sexy" and a profile that says nothing and just shows a blank profile pic should be shot with their own balls of shite .. just my opinion, I know if it was me I'd be mortified to do it , It must be a pride thing :/ having said that there is nothing I enjoy more than been used as a piece of meat

Different folks / different strokes I suppose lol (oops I said stroke sorry lol)

By the way as said before we get some excellent guys on , the good ones are very good that take the time and make the effort . I explained why I had not blocked single guys yet earlier .. but I'm sure it will be done sooner rather than later anyways .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The idiots used to annoy me too and put me in bad form. But at this stage they are just like background noise, I hardly notice them. There are some really great single guys on here, really great! I know you will find them.

Thanks Elfie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I've an Australian mate who uses a phrase which I'm quite fond of using myself

"Fuck'm"

In other words if they don't like they can go and get f%#ked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP I've an Australian mate who uses a phrase which I'm quite fond of using myself

"Fuck'm"

In other words if they don't like they can go and get f%#ked"

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Mongo is short for mongoloid which is a very derogatory term for a mentally retarded person.

Mongolians are an old nation of people from Mongolia.

There is a difference.

It's not acceptable to use the word, ever, but you did apologise so fair play. Hopefully you will think before using it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only replying to this OP, as I only posed a question , what is a mongo having never heard the term before..

Missdirty kindly explained it was a term used to described people downs people..

The rest of your thread, I made no comment on, why? It was directed at guys, secondly it bores me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm stunned by the comments over the OP profile text...

Tool...or Toys or whatever!!

It's funny humours and a laugh...

Some people need to grow up!

If there's something I don't like on a profile, it means i'm less likely to contact them, it doesnt matter if it's a man woman or couple.

Anyone can put what they like on a profile....doesn't mean it's a good idea or if it will work for them. It doesn't even mean it will be read (and for the vast majority it won't)

The OP started this thread which brought their profile under the spotlight, which prompted opinions on the text.

So stunned or not, here's something shocking:

men dislike being treated as a piece of meat just as much as women do.

OMG! Do they....Really!

I don't treat people as pieces of meat.....or do I think it's the OP intention either...

D'ya think your all taking this a wee bit too serious..swinging should be a giggle and fun, ...

Just delete any messages you don't like and block...or have a little cruel fun if it amuses you...

Except you Annie, ...feel free to objectify me any time...

Ollie

Ohhhhh....Ollie it's impossible not to love you!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mongo is short for mongoloid which is a very derogatory term for a mentally retarded person.

Mongolians are an old nation of people from Mongolia.

There is a difference.

It's not acceptable to use the word, ever, but you did apologise so fair play. Hopefully you will think before using it again. "

Would you believe I honestly grew up thinking it was a term for the race

I will however take heed using it in future tho hun as I honestly would hate to be seen in such light by anyone, just a little hard not to go on the defensive somtimes

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over a year ago

"Jesus Christ the word mongo can be used as lightly as I did .. There is a race of people with the same name who are quite the strange bunch..If it's your perception that I still caused offence after apologising pirfusley at this stage I dont really care it was used as banter not as a medical term for someone .

Only replying to this OP, as I only posed a question , what is a mongo having never heard the term before..

Missdirty kindly explained it was a term used to described people downs people..

The rest of your thread, I made no comment on, why? It was directed at guys, secondly it bores me

My comment wasn't directed at you , it has been magnified by many . Sorry for the confusion

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over a year ago

Only replying to this OP, as I only posed a question , what is a mongo having never heard the term before..

Missdirty kindly explained it was a term used to described people downs people..

The rest of your thread, I made no comment on, why? It was directed at guys, secondly it bores me

My comment wasn't directed at you , it has been magnified by many . Sorry for the confusion

No need to apologise

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By *reatusernameMan
over a year ago

naas

"Wow this esculated lol... Jesus some seriously touchy lads here. to be to be brutally honest any one who gets their knickers in their about knot about being a tool in a a night of debauchery dosent fit the bill anyways as we are looking for a man not an emotional fragile school girl

so ill leave it as it is as it helps the above out as we dont necessarily want a sub. The right guys will get what they need from this profile I think.

Different folks / different strokes I suppose lol (oops I said stroke sorry lol)

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I'm amazed how any open minded person reading your post could fail to laugh. It's brilliantly written with humour and angst. You can almost feel his frustration! Haha. All of it was light-hearted in my opinion and He makes a fair point. I've spoken with loads of ladies here who complain that they get ignorant messages every day with no effort beyond a couple of crude words and no effort to look good! And no one wants to see a mangled sausage sat in a pile of hair! If you want to get into someone's underwear and bed,it requires effort. I think that's all he's saying. And he can want whatever he likes, that's what this site is for isn't it. I enjoyed reading the OP rants.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

So no one fancies a Fuck then

I thought it was a great rant

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over a year ago

I'm amazed how any open minded person reading your post could fail to laugh. It's brilliantly written with humour and angst. You can almost feel his frustration! Haha. All of it was light-hearted in my opinion and He makes a fair point. I've spoken with loads of ladies here who complain that they get ignorant messages every day with no effort beyond a couple of crude words and no effort to look good! And no one wants to see a mangled sausage sat in a pile of hair! If you want to get into someone's underwear and bed,it requires effort. I think that's all he's saying. And he can want whatever he likes, that's what this site is for isn't it. I enjoyed reading the OP rants. "

^^^^^This^^^^

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Mongo is short for mongoloid which is a very derogatory term for a mentally retarded person.

Mongolians are an old nation of people from Mongolia.

There is a difference.

It's not acceptable to use the word, ever, but you did apologise so fair play. Hopefully you will think before using it again.

Would you believe I honestly grew up thinking it was a term for the race

I will however take heed using it in future tho hun as I honestly would hate to be seen in such light by anyone, just a little hard not to go on the defensive somtimes

I knew what you meant. And like I said, fair play to you. Grown ups can admit to an error and learn from them. Good on ya.

Hope you find what you're looking for here. It can be hard work sometimes.

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over a year ago

Only replying to this OP, as I only posed a question , what is a mongo having never heard the term before..

Missdirty kindly explained it was a term used to described people downs people..

The rest of your thread, I made no comment on, why? It was directed at guys, secondly it bores me

Be careful there as taking the Lords name in vain may be frowned upon by the sensative souls on here today...

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

so ill leave it as it is as it helps the above out as we dont necessarily want a sub. The right guys will get what they need from this profile I think.

There's a lot wrong with this paragraph, but I feel it's futile to get into it.

Cheers folks.

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over a year ago

On shaggin swinger site none the less .. how ironic lol

You should see a hate mail I got earlier , it was one of the funniest things iv ever read lol

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over a year ago

so ill leave it as it is as it helps the above out as we dont necessarily want a sub. The right guys will get what they need from this profile I think.

There's a lot wrong with this paragraph, but I feel it's futile to get into it.

Cheers folks."

I agree the puntuation is awful. I only noticed after I posted

It is all in good heart tho m8

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"On shaggin swinger site none the less .. how ironic lol

You should see a hate mail I got earlier , it was one of the funniest things iv ever read lol"

There in it self is another rant for another thread u post a reasonable thread and the haters send mail rather than post on the thread

Cowards

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

so ill leave it as it is as it helps the above out as we dont necessarily want a sub. The right guys will get what they need from this profile I think.

There's a lot wrong with this paragraph, but I feel it's futile to get into it.

Cheers folks.

I agree the puntuation is awful. I only noticed after I posted

It is all in good heart tho m8 "

Fair enough, but if seeking a bit of respect makes me a fragile little girl then I'll just put my hair in pigtails now.

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over a year ago

"On shaggin swinger site none the less .. how ironic lol

You should see a hate mail I got earlier , it was one of the funniest things iv ever read lol

There in it self is another rant for another thread u post a reasonable thread and the haters send mail rather than post on the thread

Cowards

Iv a neck like a jockeys boxxox , it's water off a ducks back I actually enjoyed the banter with him however he may have smashed his phone off tge floor in anger .. If I posted the conversation here would I get in trouble even if I removed names ect?

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over a year ago

so ill leave it as it is as it helps the above out as we dont necessarily want a sub. The right guys will get what they need from this profile I think.

There's a lot wrong with this paragraph, but I feel it's futile to get into it.

Cheers folks.

I agree the puntuation is awful. I only noticed after I posted

It is all in good heart tho m8

Fair enough, but if seeking a bit of respect makes me a fragile little girl then I'll just put my hair in pigtails now.

ye got me there .. you just hit my weak spot I'm bald since early 20s.. right in the feels :,(. We are even now pal

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

so ill leave it as it is as it helps the above out as we dont necessarily want a sub. The right guys will get what they need from this profile I think.

There's a lot wrong with this paragraph, but I feel it's futile to get into it.

Cheers folks.

I agree the puntuation is awful. I only noticed after I posted

It is all in good heart tho m8

Fair enough, but if seeking a bit of respect makes me a fragile little girl then I'll just put my hair in pigtails now.

ye got me there .. you just hit my weak spot I'm bald since early 20s.. right in the feels :,(. We are even now pal

Heading there myself.

No hard feelings, cept my feelings for your missus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw dabs eyes , lovin the bromance

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over a year ago

so ill leave it as it is as it helps the above out as we dont necessarily want a sub. The right guys will get what they need from this profile I think.

There's a lot wrong with this paragraph, but I feel it's futile to get into it.

Cheers folks.

I agree the puntuation is awful. I only noticed after I posted

It is all in good heart tho m8

Fair enough, but if seeking a bit of respect makes me a fragile little girl then I'll just put my hair in pigtails now.

ye got me there .. you just hit my weak spot I'm bald since early 20s.. right in the feels :,(. We are even now pal

Heading there myself.

No hard feelings, cept my feelings for your missus!

I knew you would come around lol .. I'll get the restraints and your gimp mask ready , see ye at about 9 yeah

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

so ill leave it as it is as it helps the above out as we dont necessarily want a sub. The right guys will get what they need from this profile I think.

There's a lot wrong with this paragraph, but I feel it's futile to get into it.

Cheers folks.

I agree the puntuation is awful. I only noticed after I posted

It is all in good heart tho m8

Fair enough, but if seeking a bit of respect makes me a fragile little girl then I'll just put my hair in pigtails now.

ye got me there .. you just hit my weak spot I'm bald since early 20s.. right in the feels :,(. We are even now pal

Heading there myself.

No hard feelings, cept my feelings for your missus!

I knew you would come around lol .. I'll get the restraints and your gimp mask ready , see ye at about 9 yeah

They should look good on you.

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over a year ago

Haha good man

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Haha good man

Mingo in a gimp mask restrained I'd pay to see that

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over a year ago

"Haha good man

Mingo in a gimp mask restrained I'd pay to see that

Haha...for a change..something that would be worthy of popcorn!!

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By *aywhatnowMan
over a year ago

North County

"Mongo? Wow

Are people that sensitive here? If I offended I apologise .. I'd use that a light lighter than most words . As I said I'm not here to offend x

That sensitive? Looks like the cop-on doesn't extend to you."

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over a year ago

"Haha good man

Mingo in a gimp mask restrained I'd pay to see that

Haha...for a change..something that would be worthy of popcorn!!"

Shhhssssh....

You will wake the popcorn giant

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over a year ago

"Haha good man

Mingo in a gimp mask restrained I'd pay to see that

Haha...for a change..something that would be worthy of popcorn!!

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I would like to see those flowing locks in pigtails before the mask goes on please

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Just call me pippi gimpstockings.

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