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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Top of the morning all!! We are a newbie couple (one awesome meet) we had a profile here before and said we vamp it up with a new one

Would love to organise a social meet and greet in the Midland area.. Problem is.. How does it work? Do you hire a function room etc? Would love to hear any tips and advice and also putting out the feelers who would be who would be interested? Thanks

L&J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a baldy!! I suppose, you need to think of what you want and expect from a meet and greet. Then work backwards to see how you can make that happen. You make it what you want it to be. Good luck folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you start small we drinks in a pub somewhere first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't you start small we drinks in a pub somewhere first "

True true, see who turns up kind of thing? We like the social side and alot are in Dublin etc so one closer to home would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been to a couple that were organised around Athlone. Drop us a PM if you want to

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Why don't you start small we drinks in a pub somewhere first "

this , a small get togethers are great , good way to socialise and meet new people without the pressure of a big m&g , and if that goes well, then aim bigger, small steps lol

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't you start small we drinks in a pub somewhere first

this , a small get togethers are great , good way to socialise and meet new people without the pressure of a big m&g , and if that goes well, then aim bigger, small steps lol

Mrs crazy "

Thanks ladies small is a good idea ! Wasnt thinking massive anyway im not a one for huge crowds and at the risk of sounding comepletly thick.. What does OP mean??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you start small we drinks in a pub somewhere first

this , a small get togethers are great , good way to socialise and meet new people without the pressure of a big m&g , and if that goes well, then aim bigger, small steps lol

Mrs crazy

Thanks ladies small is a good idea ! Wasnt thinking massive anyway im not a one for huge crowds and at the risk of sounding comepletly thick.. What does OP mean?? "

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Why don't you start small we drinks in a pub somewhere first

this , a small get togethers are great , good way to socialise and meet new people without the pressure of a big m&g , and if that goes well, then aim bigger, small steps lol

Mrs crazy

Thanks ladies small is a good idea ! Wasnt thinking massive anyway im not a one for huge crowds and at the risk of sounding comepletly thick.. What does OP mean?? "

Op , think it means opening person who started the thread

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now that just makes sence.... I thought it was something to do with not being meet verified Duh hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just start off with a small gathering, doesn't have to be a big event...

Choose a bar of your liking (some music in the background), advertise a date that suits (never give out the name of the location on the public forum).

If you want you could stretch it to some finger food etc (people will chip in).

By the way, I'd be interested in attending! (Depending on dates )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and OP means Original Poster,

It says it beside your name on the thread you open

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

start small.

reserve an area in a bar etc

keep track of invites

keep the location private till the last min

have a great night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh and OP means Original Poster,

It says it beside your name on the thread you open "

Thanks a mill we will keep it small and just see, wed like to gain abit more experience on the social side and meeting people, nearly didnt go through with our first meet from the nerves!! Wed like to try build up our confidence and experiences a little bit little advertising to methinks doesnt go astray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and OP means Original Poster,

It says it beside your name on the thread you open

Thanks a mill we will keep it small and just see, wed like to gain abit more experience on the social side and meeting people, nearly didnt go through with our first meet from the nerves!! Wed like to try build up our confidence and experiences a little bit little advertising to methinks doesnt go astray "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just start off with a small gathering, doesn't have to be a big event...

Choose a bar of your liking (some music in the background), advertise a date that suits (never give out the name of the location on the public forum).

If you want you could stretch it to some finger food etc (people will chip in).

By the way, I'd be interested in attending! (Depending on dates )"

And I'd happily do the fingering.

Seriously, fair play to ye n hope it works out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just start off with a small gathering, doesn't have to be a big event...

Choose a bar of your liking (some music in the background), advertise a date that suits (never give out the name of the location on the public forum).

If you want you could stretch it to some finger food etc (people will chip in).

By the way, I'd be interested in attending! (Depending on dates )

And I'd happily do the fingering.

Seriously, fair play to ye n hope it works out. "

Thanks everyone alot of interest already whoooo delighted

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Just putting it to ye that ye think of opening a party profile as in (midland meets) as ur own profile is very specific to ye. at most meet and greets general cross section of the coumunity like to attend this means u don't have to lift ur filters on this profile

However if u want to keep it to ur preferences that's fine to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just putting it to ye that ye think of opening a party profile as in (midland meets) as ur own profile is very specific to ye. at most meet and greets general cross section of the coumunity like to attend this means u don't have to lift ur filters on this profile

However if u want to keep it to ur preferences that's fine to "

We are just putting feelers out there for people in the midlands.. If people would like to travel as a few of our friendly couples are thats perfect. We are not trying to exclude anyone at all, we are a very friendly genuine couple interested in putting face to name and getting ourselves out there. Perhaps we lack a smidge of finesse as we are new and learning as we go along so pointers and guidance are definatly welcomed

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Just putting it to ye that ye think of opening a party profile as in (midland meets) as ur own profile is very specific to ye. at most meet and greets general cross section of the coumunity like to attend this means u don't have to lift ur filters on this profile

However if u want to keep it to ur preferences that's fine to

We are just putting feelers out there for people in the midlands.. If people would like to travel as a few of our friendly couples are thats perfect. We are not trying to exclude anyone at all, we are a very friendly genuine couple interested in putting face to name and getting ourselves out there. Perhaps we lack a smidge of finesse as we are new and learning as we go along so pointers and guidance are definatly welcomed "

Please don't read into my suggestion any thing wrong just read ur profile and taking into account that ye are willing to try pull a social off thought an open access account would be of benefit to both ye and others without having to lift filters on ur own account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just putting it to ye that ye think of opening a party profile as in (midland meets) as ur own profile is very specific to ye. at most meet and greets general cross section of the coumunity like to attend this means u don't have to lift ur filters on this profile

However if u want to keep it to ur preferences that's fine to

We are just putting feelers out there for people in the midlands.. If people would like to travel as a few of our friendly couples are thats perfect. We are not trying to exclude anyone at all, we are a very friendly genuine couple interested in putting face to name and getting ourselves out there. Perhaps we lack a smidge of finesse as we are new and learning as we go along so pointers and guidance are definatly welcomed

Please don't read into my suggestion any thing wrong just read ur profile and taking into account that ye are willing to try pull a social off thought an open access account would be of benefit to both ye and others without having to lift filters on ur own account "

I see where your coming from CJ, but I think that would be more suited to people who organise large socials or events

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Setting up another account just seems like an awful pain, have to go thru the newbie status and all that shite again lol tho saying that we see how this pans out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would advise that firstly, you attend a few socials [big and small] and chat to the folks who organise them.

Very few will attend a social that is not well-run and secure - due to the TWONK-factor and the gutter press who would love to get their hands [and cameras] into another event to splash all over the media!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it might be a good idea to get verified first at another social seeing as you are only on the site 1 week and want to start running a social .Better if people know you are genuine first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it might be a good idea to get verified first at another social seeing as you are only on the site 1 week and want to start running a social .Better if people know you are genuine first "

Completly get what your saying we were just thinking of a few friendly sociables.. Not trying to take over Fab meet and greets just putting ourselves forward. I understand about the verifications, thankfully the only fake thing about us is our strap on

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By *tretch4lifeMan
over a year ago

Back of the beyonds

I think it's a good idea. If anything was being organised, I be up for attending.

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