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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose " Summed up perfectly! And the repetition of course... which reminds me I must post on the good morning thread | |||
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"The Irish forum doesn't exactly excell itself. Most interesting Irish post recently was in the 'stories and fantasies' section.... Far too much good morning and that type of shit in here .... Imo " Youre right too... theres times where we re an embarassment to others who view the irish forum.Pretty sickening really as we re supposed to be a friendly nation. Whoever said that waa wrong | |||
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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose " | |||
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"It's been mentioned many times lately about how repetitive it is in here and what's worse it's been mentioned in other rooms how snarky the Irish are in their own forum. Half the problem is the the regular posters, well those who are left, hammer the newbies just for the fun of it. Those new member who given a chance might add far more than those already here. It won't change, its just not in some people to chill the beans and let things flow in a positive way. So what if a question has been asked before. Face pic Friday has been done, good morning has been done and so on. From 6 months ago compared to the past few weeks it's not only unpleasant but tedious listening to the same people moan. I thought that's what your real life was for. *waits for the *" BOOM think I will start a thread about biscuits !!! Biscuits are good !!! | |||
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"Not so many people are posting on the forums... it seems to have taken a drastic downhill in a bad way. " It is definitely a dry spell Letme, lack of content for me, there's not many interesting threads going up. | |||
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"It's been mentioned many times lately about how repetitive it is in here and what's worse it's been mentioned in other rooms how snarky the Irish are in their own forum. Half the problem is the the regular posters, well those who are left, hammer the newbies just for the fun of it. Those new member who given a chance might add far more than those already here. It won't change, its just not in some people to chill the beans and let things flow in a positive way. So what if a question has been asked before. Face pic Friday has been done, good morning has been done and so on. From 6 months ago compared to the past few weeks it's not only unpleasant but tedious listening to the same people moan. I thought that's what your real life was for. *waits for the * BOOM think I will start a thread about biscuits !!! Biscuits are good !!!" Would they be chocolate biscuits in quite partial to a chocolate biscuit with my tea | |||
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"It's been mentioned many times lately about how repetitive it is in here and what's worse it's been mentioned in other rooms how snarky the Irish are in their own forum. Half the problem is the the regular posters, well those who are left, hammer the newbies just for the fun of it. Those new member who given a chance might add far more than those already here. It won't change, its just not in some people to chill the beans and let things flow in a positive way. So what if a question has been asked before. Face pic Friday has been done, good morning has been done and so on. From 6 months ago compared to the past few weeks it's not only unpleasant but tedious listening to the same people moan. I thought that's what your real life was for. *waits for the * BOOM think I will start a thread about biscuits !!! Biscuits are good !!! Would they be chocolate biscuits in quite partial to a chocolate biscuit with my tea " Hmmmm me too | |||
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"Not too long in the forums here, but yes I've noticed the repetiveness aswell. Especially if ya post something. Even had people pm me with snide comments but couldn't be bothered to stoop as low as em. Ignore it & drive on. " Have had those mails and they are usually from cowards who are afraid to engage on a thread having said that I try reply to them in public as that's were I express my opinion | |||
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"Not so many people are posting on the forums... it seems to have taken a drastic downhill in a bad way. " I think its normal for it to quieten for a while. Seems to be the cycle of things. But im sure it will pick up again | |||
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"Totally disagree with the regulars hammering newbies on the whole newbies are welcomed. On this thread alone there's 4 infrequent posters none of which have being hammered but I will agree there has being a few newbies resently posting for a reaction " We can agree to disagree but on a post like this the more established membersince tend to stay a little calmer. I mean the certainly don't want to re enforce the point at their own cost. Doesn't it pretty much come down to two things. Repetitive posts which personally I don't mind to much but you most certainly cannot deny that the purely sarcastic comments are getting way out hand. Regardless of own opinion on how often it happens, do you think it's necessary and would you let it slide if it was a long standing member ? Lot of arses firmly on the fence when it comes to taking people on here | |||
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"Totally disagree with the regulars hammering newbies on the whole newbies are welcomed. On this thread alone there's 4 infrequent posters none of which have being hammered but I will agree there has being a few newbies resently posting for a reaction We can agree to disagree but on a post like this the more established membersince tend to stay a little calmer. I mean the certainly don't want to re enforce the point at their own cost. Doesn't it pretty much come down to two things. Repetitive posts which personally I don't mind to much but you most certainly cannot deny that the purely sarcastic comments are getting way out hand. Regardless of own opinion on how often it happens, do you think it's necessary and would you let it slide if it was a long standing member ? Lot of arses firmly on the fence when it comes to taking people on here" But the fence is so comfy! | |||
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"Totally disagree with the regulars hammering newbies on the whole newbies are welcomed. On this thread alone there's 4 infrequent posters none of which have being hammered but I will agree there has being a few newbies resently posting for a reaction We can agree to disagree but on a post like this the more established membersince tend to stay a little calmer. I mean the certainly don't want to re enforce the point at their own cost. Doesn't it pretty much come down to two things. Repetitive posts which personally I don't mind to much but you most certainly cannot deny that the purely sarcastic comments are getting way out hand. Regardless of own opinion on how often it happens, do you think it's necessary and would you let it slide if it was a long standing member ? Lot of arses firmly on the fence when it comes to taking people on here But the fence is so comfy! " It's how ur arse fits on it | |||
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" Lot of arses firmly on the fence when it comes to taking people on here But the fence is so comfy! It's how ur arse fits on it " When you have as much padding as I have, anything is comfy. | |||
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"The Irish forum doesn't exactly excell itself. Most interesting Irish post recently was in the 'stories and fantasies' section.... Far too much good morning and that type of shit in here .... Imo Youre right too... theres times where we re an embarassment to others who view the irish forum.Pretty sickening really as we re supposed to be a friendly nation. Whoever said that waa wrong " I actually once new a South African couple who said they found the Irish in general very friendly until they got to know you. Sounds like paradox of sorts but could be truth in it. | |||
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" Lot of arses firmly on the fence when it comes to taking people on here But the fence is so comfy! It's how ur arse fits on it When you have as much padding as I have, anything is comfy. " Nope ... Looked !! Can find this padding | |||
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" Lot of arses firmly on the fence when it comes to taking people on here But the fence is so comfy! It's how ur arse fits on it When you have as much padding as I have, anything is comfy. " Oh JAYUS I'd paddle it for u | |||
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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose " | |||
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"The Irish forum doesn't exactly excell itself. Most interesting Irish post recently was in the 'stories and fantasies' section.... Far too much good morning and that type of shit in here .... Imo Youre right too... theres times where we re an embarassment to others who view the irish forum.Pretty sickening really as we re supposed to be a friendly nation. Whoever said that waa wrong I actually once new a South African couple who said they found the Irish in general very friendly until they got to know you. Sounds like paradox of sorts but could be truth in it." Theres a lot of truth in what youve said. It actually saddens me that folk can treat each other with contempt on here, poke fun at others expense and find it funny. I often pop across to the lounge and its good old fashioned banter and good craic. People give their opinions and no one is slated for it, its a pity that doesnt rub off here. | |||
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"Totally disagree with the regulars hammering newbies on the whole newbies are welcomed. On this thread alone there's 4 infrequent posters none of which have being hammered but I will agree there has being a few newbies resently posting for a reaction We can agree to disagree but on a post like this the more established membersince tend to stay a little calmer. I mean the certainly don't want to re enforce the point at their own cost. Doesn't it pretty much come down to two things. Repetitive posts which personally I don't mind to much but you most certainly cannot deny that the purely sarcastic comments are getting way out hand. Regardless of own opinion on how often it happens, do you think it's necessary and would you let it slide if it was a long standing member ? Lot of arses firmly on the fence when it comes to taking people on here But the fence is so comfy! " I need to upgrade my fence. Cuts the arse off me after half an hour. No choice but to get off it | |||
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"Totally disagree with the regulars hammering newbies on the whole newbies are welcomed. On this thread alone there's 4 infrequent posters none of which have being hammered but I will agree there has being a few newbies resently posting for a reaction We can agree to disagree but on a post like this the more established membersince tend to stay a little calmer. I mean the certainly don't want to re enforce the point at their own cost. Doesn't it pretty much come down to two things. Repetitive posts which personally I don't mind to much but you most certainly cannot deny that the purely sarcastic comments are getting way out hand. Regardless of own opinion on how often it happens, do you think it's necessary and would you let it slide if it was a long standing member ? Lot of arses firmly on the fence when it comes to taking people on here But the fence is so comfy! I need to upgrade my fence. Cuts the arse off me after half an hour. No choice but to get off it " Sometimes it's best suffer the pain | |||
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"Not so many people are posting on the forums... it seems to have taken a drastic downhill in a bad way. " good morning... person above... kiss fuck, ask me arse.. dose my arse look big in these.. same shite, different day. same aul posters all the time. it's been going downhill for at least a year. A lot of newbies and non regular posters are just ignored when they put up a post by some of regulars,which then turns them off posting. So we're just left with a handful of the same people posting all the time.. And it's understandable that there is only so much new material they can come up with.. | |||
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" I often pop across to the lounge and its good old fashioned banter and good craic. People give their opinions and no one is slated for it, its a pity that doesnt rub off here. " Have to somewhat disagree. Just as many threads are removed or closed. And just as much slating and bickering going in, in there. But i think because of the volume of posters and threads its not as noticable. But do like the lounge too. | |||
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"Have to agree letme, I only pop my head in and out now, and I used to be hooked on the forums! But there's just such a negative underlay here at the mo. One thing I already find interesting and I've said it before. There's always a wave of new posters, and they will always complain about not being included by the more regular posters. Then the next wave of newbies comes along and the last lot of newbies are seen as regulars and it's them that get accused and it never goes down well! It's a circle and will always be that way I'm here a long time and would never ignore a good post if it was from a newbie, I will however ignore posters who I deem to be fakes or trolls. I won't waste my time on someone's who sole intent is to waste mine and others time. That's my choice though and there's an awful lot of posters recently who would fall into that bracket for me! So I just don't bother posting much " good woman lolli sums it up to a t | |||
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" I often pop across to the lounge and its good old fashioned banter and good craic. People give their opinions and no one is slated for it, its a pity that doesnt rub off here. Have to somewhat disagree. Just as many threads are removed or closed. And just as much slating and bickering going in, in there. But i think because of the volume of posters and threads its not as noticable. But do like the lounge too. " I agree it happens in all rooms and as u say the volume of posters can hide it | |||
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" I often pop across to the lounge and its good old fashioned banter and good craic. People give their opinions and no one is slated for it, its a pity that doesnt rub off here. Have to somewhat disagree. Just as many threads are removed or closed. And just as much slating and bickering going in, in there. But i think because of the volume of posters and threads its not as noticable. But do like the lounge too. I agree it happens in all rooms and as u say the volume of posters can hide it" Yes it has gone very quite in here | |||
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"Hey, will I open up Rosies Bar tonight, I think it's needed lol!!!? " Ha ! sure why not Posie. Have my wine chilled and ill be there | |||
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"Hey, will I open up Rosies Bar tonight, I think it's needed lol!!!? Ha ! sure why not Posie. Have my wine chilled and ill be there " It has changed a lot since you were last in there, there's 3 poles in there now lol!!! | |||
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"Hey, will I open up Rosies Bar tonight, I think it's needed lol!!!? Ha ! sure why not Posie. Have my wine chilled and ill be there It has changed a lot since you were last in there, there's 3 poles in there now lol!!! " An mmmf might be on the cards so! | |||
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"Hey, will I open up Rosies Bar tonight, I think it's needed lol!!!? Ha ! sure why not Posie. Have my wine chilled and ill be there It has changed a lot since you were last in there, there's 3 poles in there now lol!!! An mmmf might be on the cards so! " I'm in ... Or is that another thread ? | |||
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"Not so many people are posting on the forums... it seems to have taken a drastic downhill in a bad way. " | |||
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" I'm here a long time and would never ignore a good post if it was from a newbie, I will however ignore posters who I deem to be fakes or trolls. I won't waste my time on someone's who sole intent is to waste mine and others time. That's my choice though and there's an awful lot of posters recently who would fall into that bracket for me! So I just don't bother posting much " That's pretty much my take on it too. | |||
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"The other forums have a much bigger population, and there's always bickering going on in them so its a bit harsh saying that it's only on here, lots of what goes on here is banter but people take it up wrong, there's also stuff that goes on that's purely for a reaction, mostly put up by fake profiles, the threads that are put up are mostly repetitive but become interesting to some because of the banter and disagreements that go on, if it were all people just saying how great each other was it would be very very boring...as for newbies,which we still are, ya have to get yourself involved, its just like any other part of life, people can't talk to ya if they don't know you exist, most of the new posters I've seen have been welcomed but then vanish and never post again, of course there are certain numpty's that continuously make threads just so they can have an argument and some social interaction, so even tho it's annoying you should be happy that for a small portion of their sad lives you have made them joyus, but I can't see it changing much to be fair...that is all" Also agree 100% | |||
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"I don't post much,but lately I just look see who started a tread or the last poster and not even bother reading it cause I know the way it's going to go " Absolutely. These threads always go the same way. | |||
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"Why would you bother when the trolls are rife and when you stand up for yourself you get banned by admin! I rarely post anymore just can't be arsed!" that too | |||
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"It's been mentioned many times lately about how repetitive it is in here and what's worse it's been mentioned in other rooms how snarky the Irish are in their own forum. Half the problem is the the regular posters, well those who are left, hammer the newbies just for the fun of it. Those new member who given a chance might add far more than those already here. It won't change, its just not in some people to chill the beans and let things flow in a positive way. So what if a question has been asked before. Face pic Friday has been done, good morning has been done and so on. From 6 months ago compared to the past few weeks it's not only unpleasant but tedious listening to the same people moan. I thought that's what your real life was for. *waits for the * BOOM think I will start a thread about biscuits !!! Biscuits are good !!!" There was a thread this morning i think about biscuits Whats everyones view of Pluto be taken out of the class of Plants and became a Dwarf Planet???.. dont think this one has been done hahaha | |||
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"The Irish forum doesn't exactly excell itself. Most interesting Irish post recently was in the 'stories and fantasies' section.... Far too much good morning and that type of shit in here .... Imo Youre right too... theres times where we re an embarassment to others who view the irish forum.Pretty sickening really as we re supposed to be a friendly nation. Whoever said that waa wrong I actually once new a South African couple who said they found the Irish in general very friendly until they got to know you. Sounds like paradox of sorts but could be truth in it." I lived in cape town and the ex wife is south african.. they are a strange breed but the good ones are great people.. | |||
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"We've eased off on posting merely due to the fact we have lost interest in the forums ....we enjoy a little banter but some don't get our type of humor .....swings in round about .... Apples" Your absence and the absence of some of the regulars maybe are a sign that it truly is going downhill fast | |||
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"We've eased off on posting merely due to the fact we have lost interest in the forums ....we enjoy a little banter but some don't get our type of humor .....swings in round about .... Apples Your absence and the absence of some of the regulars maybe are a sign that it truly is going downhill fast " | |||
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"It's been mentioned many times lately about how repetitive it is in here and what's worse it's been mentioned in other rooms how snarky the Irish are in their own forum. Half the problem is the the regular posters, well those who are left, hammer the newbies just for the fun of it. Those new member who given a chance might add far more than those already here. It won't change, its just not in some people to chill the beans and let things flow in a positive way. So what if a question has been asked before. Face pic Friday has been done, good morning has been done and so on. From 6 months ago compared to the past few weeks it's not only unpleasant but tedious listening to the same people moan. I thought that's what your real life was for. *waits for the *" Bang on the nail ! | |||
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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose " In a nutshell - Absolutely ! | |||
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"It's been mentioned many times lately about how repetitive it is in here and what's worse it's been mentioned in other rooms how snarky the Irish are in their own forum. Half the problem is the the regular posters, well those who are left, hammer the newbies just for the fun of it. Those new member who given a chance might add far more than those already here. It won't change, its just not in some people to chill the beans and let things flow in a positive way. So what if a question has been asked before. Face pic Friday has been done, good morning has been done and so on. From 6 months ago compared to the past few weeks it's not only unpleasant but tedious listening to the same people moan. I thought that's what your real life was for. *waits for the *" I have to agree! Most of the time I pop in and have a look at the forums I find myself rolling my eyes at all the snide comments and bitching on every second post! It seems worse than ever, some people really have nothing better to do than be nasty just for kicks... I would have thought that there would be better things to do on a swing site but each to their own I guess | |||
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"We don't post too often. It seems sometimes the forums are full of attention seeking men and those with teenage mentality. Haven't really come across anything mature or interesting to discuss." Let's not be too sexist here.... that quote almost borders on what your complaining about. I had a post up and it was full of bitching attention seekers...and not a man in sight. | |||
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"Forum Threads.. Much like a night out at the cinema.. People come to watch the film , enjoy it and make the odd oooh and ahhh of appreciation. Some sit at the back and talk persistently, even after been asked to stop, they go on to deny they talked, often blaming their accusers... Idiots shout..Popcorn I want popcorn.. The popcorn sellers arrive to feed them... Late arrivers, slide in , distracting others with their needless attention seeking as they search for seats...." Spanish! Go on, let's hear the uncut and uncensored version | |||
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"We don't post too often. It seems sometimes the forums are full of attention seeking men and those with teenage mentality. Haven't really come across anything mature or interesting to discuss. Let's not be too sexist here.... that quote almost borders on what your complaining about. I had a post up and it was full of bitching attention seekers...and not a man in sight. " It borders nothing even near it. People can bitch if there's something worth bitching about. It's the type of topics that get posted up for discussion. You'd nearly think the place was full of 13 year olds. You only need to check some of the topics only recently posted, most by men and some by women yes. I guess it's what the forums have become. To each their own, we just don't post much partly because of the nonsense that gets discussed. | |||
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"We don't post too often. It seems sometimes the forums are full of attention seeking men and those with teenage mentality. Haven't really come across anything mature or interesting to discuss. Let's not be too sexist here.... that quote almost borders on what your complaining about. I had a post up and it was full of bitching attention seekers...and not a man in sight. It borders nothing even near it. People can bitch if there's something worth bitching about. It's the type of topics that get posted up for discussion. You'd nearly think the place was full of 13 year olds. You only need to check some of the topics only recently posted, most by men and some by women yes. I guess it's what the forums have become. To each their own, we just don't post much partly because of the nonsense that gets discussed." Waiting on others to post interesting and mature threads when u could post them ur selves is probably the way to go | |||
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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose " Completely agree | |||
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"Not too long in the forums here, but yes I've noticed the repetiveness aswell. Especially if ya post something. Even had people pm me with snide comments but couldn't be bothered to stoop as low as em. Ignore it & drive on. Have had those mails and they are usually from cowards who are afraid to engage on a thread having said that I try reply to them in public as that's were I express my opinion " I'd do the same! | |||
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"Ok. There seems to be a general view so far that the Irish forums is crap, bit childish and a little hostile. So, how does it change? Some want a different class of threads. I'm interested in that. Would like to see more new and varied topics. People just need to post more, rather than just reading. " Its peoples attitudes towards each other that needs to change. Disagreeing with another's opinion is taken way to personally here.If they stop and think before they type,the manner in which an opinion is expresssed can make a huge difference.Its great when new folk appear.But they disappear shortly afterwards cos someone asked a question thats been asked before and the " know alls" are ready to pounce. People forget that they were new here once too.With fresh people joining the topics of the more regular users, new opinions are given and new topics discussed. A domino effect of sorts. | |||
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"Ok. There seems to be a general view so far that the Irish forums is crap, bit childish and a little hostile. So, how does it change? Some want a different class of threads. I'm interested in that. Would like to see more new and varied topics. People just need to post more, rather than just reading. Its peoples attitudes towards each other that needs to change. Disagreeing with another's opinion is taken way to personally here.If they stop and think before they type,the manner in which an opinion is expresssed can make a huge difference.Its great when new folk appear.But they disappear shortly afterwards cos someone asked a question thats been asked before and the " know alls" are ready to pounce. People forget that they were new here once too.With fresh people joining the topics of the more regular users, new opinions are given and new topics discussed. A domino effect of sorts. " Maybe some people should practice what they preach | |||
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"Ok. There seems to be a general view so far that the Irish forums is crap, bit childish and a little hostile. So, how does it change? Some want a different class of threads. I'm interested in that. Would like to see more new and varied topics. People just need to post more, rather than just reading. Its peoples attitudes towards each other that needs to change. Disagreeing with another's opinion is taken way to personally here.If they stop and think before they type,the manner in which an opinion is expresssed can make a huge difference.Its great when new folk appear.But they disappear shortly afterwards cos someone asked a question thats been asked before and the " know alls" are ready to pounce. People forget that they were new here once too.With fresh people joining the topics of the more regular users, new opinions are given and new topics discussed. A domino effect of sorts. Maybe some people should practice what they preach " Where am i preaching in that comment i made? I merely pointed out what i see as regards to other posters here.Take or leave my opinion, its of no difference to me. | |||
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"Well u ain't practicing it either " Well longdinger...if i made comments like you have done,for shock value purposes and to purely irritate other users here,id be friendless very quick. I did point this out to you on the fuck a fiancee thread | |||
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"Well u ain't practicing it either Well longdinger...if i made comments like you have done,for shock value purposes and to purely irritate other users here,id be friendless very quick. I did point this out to you on the fuck a fiancee thread " Lmfao | |||
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"I have only recently ventured on to the forums so obviously can't speak for what it used to be like. Admittedly, along with threads, I have noticed that there may not be a lot of variety in terms of posters but again with no reference to previous times I didn't think much of it to be honest; felt a bit more like a close community that way I thought, in a good way obviously! However, I'd be lying if I said some arguments and interactions haven't put me off posting more but I do realise that those are a minority, even in a more concentrated place like a sub forum; as mentioned it tends to be the same culprit(s) each time. So I understand if some wish to shy away or even stay away. It does get tiresome but like the site in general if you wade through the melters there's reason to stay and there's certainly more than enough fun and welcoming folk on the forum as it is in my opinion to make a newbie, at least, hang about. I know it's hard to ignore something that maybe ticks you off but it really is the best option. If people have the control to ignore stupid messages, try and exercise that will when it comes to posts; starve a fire of oxygen, don't give those content to 'troll' the attention they need. Ultimately if some are put off more by the lack of worthwhile discussion, don't shy away yourselves, that won't change the topics. Don't wait for someone else to post something and then moan if it doesn't interest you. Take it upon yourself to liven the discussions." Out of a cloud comes a bright light well said and I hope u enjoy the forums for what they should be a bit of craic | |||
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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose " have to agree there a certain 2 and every bleeding tread there at it its childish and people are just sick of them now | |||
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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose have to agree there a certain 2 and every bleeding tread there at it its childish and people are just sick of them now" So why not simply ignore them?? If two people were bickering near you in a bar, would you stop you drinking there?.. Why not just skip over their posts?.. | |||
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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose have to agree there a certain 2 and every bleeding tread there at it its childish and people are just sick of them now So why not simply ignore them?? If two people were bickering near you in a bar, would you stop you drinking there?.. Why not just skip over their posts?.." I do ignore them I nvr engage just sick at looking at there digs at each other on most threads | |||
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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose have to agree there a certain 2 and every bleeding tread there at it its childish and people are just sick of them now So why not simply ignore them?? If two people were bickering near you in a bar, would you stop you drinking there?.. Why not just skip over their posts?.. I do ignore them I nvr engage just sick at looking at there digs at each other on most threads" I do get your point honestly, but simply ignore them, I used to knock myself out twisting with some here, now I just skip over their posts.. Out of respect for other forum users and myself of course Happy fabbing | |||
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"Would ye blame people staying away with the bullshit that goes on here? Smart comments,snide remarks and one upmanship are common place here lately. The funny part about it is i bet theyd not behave like this in the real world. Its a sad way to get their kicks i suppose have to agree there a certain 2 and every bleeding tread there at it its childish and people are just sick of them now So why not simply ignore them?? If two people were bickering near you in a bar, would you stop you drinking there?.. Why not just skip over their posts?.. I do ignore them I nvr engage just sick at looking at there digs at each other on most threads I do get your point honestly, but simply ignore them, I used to knock myself out twisting with some here, now I just skip over their posts.. Out of respect for other forum users and myself of course Happy fabbing " haha that's what ill do | |||
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"It's been mentioned many times lately about how repetitive it is in here and what's worse it's been mentioned in other rooms how snarky the Irish are in their own forum. Half the problem is the the regular posters, well those who are left, hammer the newbies just for the fun of it. Those new member who given a chance might add far more than those already here. It won't change, its just not in some people to chill the beans and let things flow in a positive way. So what if a question has been asked before. Face pic Friday has been done, good morning has been done and so on. From 6 months ago compared to the past few weeks it's not only unpleasant but tedious listening to the same people moan. I thought that's what your real life was for. *waits for the * BOOM think I will start a thread about biscuits !!! Biscuits are good !!!" Did you know that a plane full of biscuits had to be flown into this country two weeks ago as we were seriously running short. True story. | |||
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" Did you know that a plane full of biscuits had to be flown into this country two weeks ago as we were seriously running short. True story." I hope they distributed the cargo evenly, 'Cos we all know what happens when they put the McVities at the back! | |||
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"It's been mentioned many times lately about how repetitive it is in here and what's worse it's been mentioned in other rooms how snarky the Irish are in their own forum. Half the problem is the the regular posters, well those who are left, hammer the newbies just for the fun of it. Those new member who given a chance might add far more than those already here. It won't change, its just not in some people to chill the beans and let things flow in a positive way. So what if a question has been asked before. Face pic Friday has been done, good morning has been done and so on. From 6 months ago compared to the past few weeks it's not only unpleasant but tedious listening to the same people moan. I thought that's what your real life was for. *waits for the * BOOM think I will start a thread about biscuits !!! Biscuits are good !!! Did you know that a plane full of biscuits had to be flown into this country two weeks ago as we were seriously running short. True story." Not the fig rolls!!!!!! | |||
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"The other forums have a much bigger population, all" I am puzzled which forum stats are you looking at ??? The Scottish and Welsh forums have less than half the posts per month that the Irish forum has . | |||
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