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By *oobadtoorude OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Hey all, new enough to the site and haven't posted on the forum yet. Just wondering if meeting social or play without a face pic is common? Had someone wanting me to, but for me I'd have to see if there is some kind of physical attraction before meeting. I get the vibe for some it doesn't matter?

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Have met socially without one. How could you have a play meet without knowing what the other person looks like? That's never gonna happen.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's rather unusual, I did it twice for the extra bit of thrill. One was a great meet, the other one didn't work out but not because of not liking each others face.

Op never do anything you don't feel comfortable with as simple as that. Swapping face pics or coffee meets is how most peeps on here check each other out.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

No i never meet blind. I like feeling secure having a general idea of what the person looks like and those ive met havent had an issue sending a facepic either. Its worked out well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a long time ago wasn't a bad surprise but wouldn't do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a hope in hell would I meet without a face pic. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it's up to you to decide your own rules, if others don't agree,too bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lord no

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

Did it once for the thrill !!!! Got the surprise of my life !!! Great laugh about it but no way I'd ever do it again !!!!

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By *oobadtoorude OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow

I'm all up for coffee meets even though I don't drink coffee. I guess I think a face pic is a nesicary step before it.

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

For socials with a few ppl face-pics don't matter but for 1-1 socials & play with strangers I'd never meet without having exchanged photos & telephone numbers.

I even ask for a pic with a pose (whether it's them giving a thumbs-up or even just with an item, say a can of ) might sound silly but at least I know it's actually the person & not a robbed photo (& yes I've came across ppl who weren't actually d ppl in the original photo & lessons were learned).

Safety & security is paramount so all meetings should be in public until you feel comfortable moving to a more private setup.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I met a girl without face pic long ago

Chatted for bit and clicked and we both thought it would be hot

It mustn't have been because I can't remember the sex

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Ive met for coffee/drinks without face pic. Most just ended with coffee/drink but a few led to more....

I hate my pic being taken and dont think im photogenic so i prefer to meet to guage attraction.

As others said do what your comfortable with. Everyones methods are different and suited individually.

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By *oobadtoorude OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow

I'd usually ask them to stick their finger up their nose for a pic to prove they're real. Its funny and a good ice breaker

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By *own a bitMan
over a year ago

Dublin

a few years ago before I had kik I had a few meets without any face pics being exchanged. (and they weren't social meets) and they worked out well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive met for coffee/drinks without face pic. Most just ended with coffee/drink but a few led to more....

I hate my pic being taken and dont think im photogenic so i prefer to meet to guage attraction.

As others said do what your comfortable with. Everyones methods are different and suited individually. "

I'm exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A previous experience has made me very cautious as I sent a face pic to a couple but then they used my picture in their profile. Maybe my own mistake but wasn't nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i never meet blind. I like feeling secure having a general idea of what the person looks like and those ive met havent had an issue sending a facepic either. Its worked out well for me"

Sure you're gorgeous anyway! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm slow to send face pic but if I'm meeting someone it's a must. Need an idea of what they look like. Past experience has made me nervous

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Have met for coffee without face pics..

Sure its only coffee so pics not important.

And i never go further without a vanilla meet first so if i do get one on one with them at least i know what they look like.

Some of the pics i have been sent have been years old and look little or nothing like the people when i have actually met them.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"No i never meet blind. I like feeling secure having a general idea of what the person looks like and those ive met havent had an issue sending a facepic either. Its worked out well for me

Sure you're gorgeous anyway! Xx "

Gwan ye charmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have removed all face pics from the site which is one reason we meet socially first. We wouldn't expect people to play without seeing us first, however we usually play at parties so it naturally happens without pics.I also think you cannot tell if you are attracted through a pic in any case so a social meet is essential first anyway.

Sam

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

Too old for blind dates...social or play

Debs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to meet without a pic for coffee/drink meet....

Have recently decided though that I will not be supplying my pic on demand to anyone...

Far too many people think single women should jump through hoops...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But......how would you see where you were going??

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