FabSwingers.com forum: Crush

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you been chatting to a man and find out he's the person you've had a crush on for a while now... (Feel like a teenager)

He's gorgeous and just here for fun like me, should I play even tho I like him or stay away??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away. You'll get burnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd stay away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go for it what have to got to lose?many people have met long term partners on here

Sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there is a wrong or right decision here, regardless of the outcome, you need to do what feels right to you. Just be true and honest to yourself and others (him)

- Rick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for the hills lovely. You'll get hurt.

Big hugs Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your here for fun....found someone nice to play with....so....enjoy..

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By *oldbabeWoman
over a year ago

dungannon

Try not to confuse lust or desire with love...for me if its just lust or desire id go for it but if you bring love into the mix you could be leaving yourself open to getting hurt.....only you can decide...proceed with caution... do what's right for you..xx

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

No harm meeting for a coffee, that way ull know if there is a spark there or not.

Mr crazy

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By *ongdongsilver99Man
over a year ago

skerries

Ride his fukin brains out.....

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Fuck him!

On a serious note, only you can decide whether or not, you have to ask yourself if you can handle the situation. There's a good chance that you screw with your own head...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd stay away.

You will get hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give him a chance if worth stay with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you met him, then saw he had other recent veris around the same time as you met?! Would you be hurt by that? If you just fancy him go for it, just know where you stand on the fun level.

It's a hard one to call. Who knows, you might have more in common than you think both being on here.

Now i have to go find the very hot Polish guy I'm crushing on, hopefully he's around here too haha. Good luck x

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Have you met him before.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Let the go"

If u have a crush on him I am assuming u know him from vanilla land

There's a few things u have to think about

Do u want some one that close knowing ur diaviant side

If u do meet will it spoil ur relationship with him as it is now

On the other hand ur both here can u see ur self watching him Fuck another lady

There's probably another hundred questions but I think I'd go for coffee talk to him see where he is in life what's he looking for here things like that and if u fancy a Fuck then go for it otherwise block him and get over it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

On a quick straw poll the guys want u to Fuck him the girls say walk away why does that not surprise me

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

We met on fab and are very happy together, which wouldn't have happened if she had followed the advice on here

so what makes you happy on your insides

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By * and jCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Think what will you regret least when your looking back when your on your pension.. then do that..

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Ah Op you only live once..id go for it. Id be always left wondering if i didnt, which is a head melt in itself. It could turn out youre not sexually compatible but like each other as friends which gaining a new friend is always good. If you are compatible then why not

you could end up opening a couples profile here

Use your head and not your heart xx

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By *own a bitMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"When you been chatting to a man and find out he's the person you've had a crush on for a while now... (Feel like a teenager)

He's gorgeous and just here for fun like me, should I play even tho I like him or stay away??

I noticed a lot have told you to not go there, stay away etc. I think you should go for it, be adventurous, see where it takes you. If it doesn't work out to your satisfaction, like lots of things in all our lives, sure you can dust yourself down and move on.........I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you been chatting to a man and find out he's the person you've had a crush on for a while now... (Feel like a teenager)

He's gorgeous and just here for fun like me, should I play even tho I like him or stay away??

Of course you should go for it, just because others here got their fingers burnt, does not mean a jot...

Meet the guy, have some sexy fun, keep a clear head and if you find yourself wanting more and he does not then walk away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have two lives , second one starts when we realise we only have one.

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you been chatting to a man and find out he's the person you've had a crush on for a while now... (Feel like a teenager)

He's gorgeous and just here for fun like me, should I play even tho I like him or stay away??

Sure i think you should go for it but keep in mind this is a sex site not POF or some other dsting site....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder what the alternative is....say nothing and hope to bump into him in real life and both lie about your sexual history???...hope he never figures out why a part of you seems closed off???

.nope..nothing ventured nothing gained...if you approach him and it doesn't work out then at least you tried...never fear emotion...its why we exist!!...

..bonne chance!!!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Go for it ...nothing ventured nothing gained....just don't for get the purpose of this site....n.s.a.sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone...

I think we are both on the same page as in just wanting nsa fun

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