FabSwingers.com forum: bi men. yes or no

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Recently i have noticed alot of female and couples wont bother in meeting a bi guy. Have been chatting to people and all is good until they take a closer look at my profile and then return a message "oh wait ur bi. Sry not interested".

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a no.

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

Each to their own.

I love bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Happy days. Least i know there is a few out there.lol

Look i respect everyones preference. Just a bit frustrating sometimes.

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

I am sure you will be getting some private messages as well due to the fact that some will not post on the forum for various reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha. I certainly hope so. People might think im canvassing like our politicians but im not

.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With Couples it is definetly harder to find meets unless the male partner is also bi and some women just have no interest if you are bi it's probably why there are so many men on here with straight on their profile but still message other men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Couldnt agree more bud. So many gay straight men here.but personally i think there is no point lying. You are who u are plus you might get tempted in the heat of the moment and end up getting a slap. And not in a nice way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's also the misconstrued pesumotion that a bi or bi curious guy can't understand boundary's and/or respect other people's preferences.

Would a bi or bi curious guy suddenly start shagging your hubby if it wasn't something he was willing or wanted to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bi guys and girls of course!!

And yes I know each to their own but I seen a status recently saying that they wouldn't play with people who play with bi guys!

They were on my friends list and I removed them....

Talk about your lips are moving but all I can hear is shite

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We love bi cpls , more fun to be had , but we also play straight , as we attend a few parties and we would NEVER cross the line , we only play bi if we meeting a cpl who is also bi , but most of our meets have been straight meets so we get to have best of both

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing straight isnt being straight.personally we have nothing against Bi guys,or anyone else's sexual lifestyle,after all,who are we to judge?

We just prefer not to play with Bi or Bi curious guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a

no. "
. I have met couples where the male wads bi.

He loved playing with both M/F.

Some F loved that aspect. Some don't. Each to their own.

We are all adults.

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By *upoftea2Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.

- Wilde, O.

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

I have played bi on a number of occasions . But only in a mmf threeway... One on one is not for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there any couple's looking for a bi guy to play with,I'm in Birr ,sorry to hijack the thread a little bit,just thought I'd advertise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.

- Wilde, O. "

I like that quote

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If there any couple's looking for a bi guy to play with,I'm in Birr ,sorry to hijack the thread a little bit,just thought I'd advertise

Haha. U should be charged an advertising fee.lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.

- Wilde, O. "

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.

B M.B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a no. "

Adore bi guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think it's also the misconstrued pesumotion that a bi or bi curious guy can't understand boundary's and/or respect other people's preferences.

Would a bi or bi curious guy suddenly start shagging your hubby if it wasn't something he was willing or wanted to do?

Lol. Thats the reason i put this up. During a recent meet the male freaked out stood up and shouted "how can i trust u now. U might stick it in me " i laughed and told him he aint my type and if he wouldnt be that lucky. Wished them all the best and left. What got me most was how mad he got. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to move to Ireland

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a no.

Adore bi guys

Im blushing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need to move to Ireland

Dont buddy. Ye get better weather.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a no.

Adore bi guys

Im blushing

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Ah quit blushing, nothing like hot steamy sex with two sexy bi guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.

- Wilde, O.

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.

B M.B

Yeah,now yr just being a show off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a no.

Adore bi guys

Im blushing

Ah quit blushing, nothing like hot steamy sex with two sexy bi guys....

Message me and come on down south. I can arrange it 4 ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.

- Wilde, O.

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.

B M.B

Yeah,now yr just being a show off

Haha. Its true though ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a no.

Adore bi guys

Im blushing

Ah quit blushing, nothing like hot steamy sex with two sexy bi guys....

Message me and come on down south. I can arrange it 4 ya

Message me with details

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a no.

Adore bi guys

Im blushing

Ah quit blushing, nothing like hot steamy sex with two sexy bi guys....

Message me and come on down south. I can arrange it 4 ya

Message me with details

I would but im outside ur age range ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a no.

Adore bi guys

Im blushing

Ah quit blushing, nothing like hot steamy sex with two sexy bi guys....

Message me and come on down south. I can arrange it 4 ya

Message me with details

I would but im outside ur age range ??"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all ye happy fabbers.

Just wondering whats such a turn off with a bi guy. Even though id be willing to play staright with a couple its still a no.

Adore bi guys

Im blushing

Ah quit blushing, nothing like hot steamy sex with two sexy bi guys....

Message me and come on down south. I can arrange it 4 ya

Message me with details

I would but im outside ur age range ??

No. I tried to message u but it wont allow me. It says im outside ur choosen age range. It feels like im digging a hole here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly think straight men are afraid to meet bi men. It's possibly because they just can't get their head (pardon the pun) around being attracted to other men.

Just my opinion

Mrs B

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

It's not for us but each to their own personal choice, we are far from homophobic, now we meet lots of single guys and to be honest outside of parties its our preferred type of meet, but bi guys that say they can play straight , well I Mr C could never relax in an mmf situation as I would always be waiting for the "accidental" stray hand or worse lol, that said any guy we meet we do have this conversation with them so as to avoid any misunderstanding, when we get a message from a bi guy we actually reply with a "please read the profile " unless its totally illiterate and then they might get told where to go.

Mr C.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps some straight men feel they are so hot that no bi guy could possibly keep his hands to himself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not for us but each to their own personal choice, we are far from homophobic, now we meet lots of single guys and to be honest outside of parties its our preferred type of meet, but bi guys that say they can play straight , well I Mr C could never relax in an mmf situation as I would always be waiting for the "accidental" stray hand or worse lol, that said any guy we meet we do have this conversation with them so as to avoid any misunderstanding, when we get a message from a bi guy we actually reply with a "please read the profile " unless its totally illiterate and then they might get told where to go.

Mr C. "

Its a gud thing i read profiles then. Thats why i never messaged ye. I was tempted mr c

.lol

Like i said at the start of the thread respect everyones do's and dont's.

And Mr c i hope the pre fun conversation doesnt be as awkward as joey and chandlers from friends

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-hq9fXU4mmM

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By *he Lady Likes MenWoman
over a year ago

Funtown

Mr C.

Its a gud thing i read profiles then. Thats why i never messaged ye. I was tempted mr c

.lol

Like i said at the start of the thread respect everyones do's and dont's.

And Mr c i hope the pre fun conversation doesnt be as awkward as joey and chandlers from friends

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-hq9fXU4mmM

We dont really do meet and greets but we would be only too happy to join you in a beer if our paths ever cross.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Mr C.

Its a gud thing i read profiles then. Thats why i never messaged ye. I was tempted mr c

.lol

Like i said at the start of the thread respect everyones do's and dont's.

And Mr c i hope the pre fun conversation doesnt be as awkward as joey and chandlers from friends

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-hq9fXU4mmM

Ah at least a positive intelligent response , fair play lad , should I bump into you the beers are on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps some straight men feel they are so hot that no bi guy could possibly keep his hands to himself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you mention it...Mrs does bring it up a lot.......interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mr C.

Its a gud thing i read profiles then. Thats why i never messaged ye. I was tempted mr c

.lol

Like i said at the start of the thread respect everyones do's and dont's.

And Mr c i hope the pre fun conversation doesnt be as awkward as joey and chandlers from friends

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-hq9fXU4mmM

Ah at least a positive intelligent response , fair play lad , should I bump into you the beers are on me "

No worries bud. I will defo take u up on that drink if we meet. Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps some straight men feel they are so hot that no bi guy could possibly keep his hands to himself.

I actually didnt know what to reply to this

. Lost 4 words for once

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now you mention it...Mrs does bring it up a lot.......interesting "

And is it something mr is keen to try???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mr C.

Its a gud thing i read profiles then. Thats why i never messaged ye. I was tempted mr c

.lol

Like i said at the start of the thread respect everyones do's and dont's.

And Mr c i hope the pre fun conversation doesnt be as awkward as joey and chandlers from friends

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-hq9fXU4mmM

We dont really do meet and greets but we would be only too happy to join you in a beer if our paths ever cross.

Defo. I neef to get myself to a meet and greet soon. Cough cough.not looking 4 any invites here.lol

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel

"Perhaps some straight men feel they are so hot that no bi guy could possibly keep his hands to himself.

I actually didnt know what to reply to this

. Lost 4 words for once

probably more than a tad of truth in this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having the same problem with women or couples not wanting to meet me because I'm bi, but also had one couple that the Mrs wanted to watch me take the cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother us as long as mrs is happy with the guy that's all that counts.. he could be a man u fan for all I care.. then again.. Maybe not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really hard to get a meet up in Belfast

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By *inkyJackieTV/TS
over a year ago

kildare

There is a bit of bi in everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a bit of bi in everyone. "

No, there really isnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a bit of bi in everyone.

No, there really isnt"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a bit of bi in everyone.

No, there really isnt"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a bit of bi in everyone. "

I do not think this is true, yes many think about what is like to be bi or bi-curious, but would never ever dream of engaging sexualy with the same gender..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn't bother us as long as mrs is happy with the guy that's all that counts.. he could be a man u fan for all I care.. then again.. Maybe not lol

Haha. Best thing to ever come out of manchester is the road to liverpool

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is a bit of bi in everyone.

I do not think this is true, yes many think about what is like to be bi or bi-curious, but would never ever dream of engaging sexualy with the same gender.."

I agree 100%. Its not 4 every1.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr C. "

But you had up on your status that you won't meet people who meet bi guys....

It's pretty irrelevant who other people meet...

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Mr C.

But you had up on your status that you won't meet people who meet bi guys....

It's pretty irrelevant who other people meet...

Yes I did, as we have seen of late lots of people are meeting bi guys which is our biggest no no , again I do think we are entitled to personal choice, just as much as the people that like to meet bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr C.

But you had up on your status that you won't meet people who meet bi guys....

It's pretty irrelevant who other people meet...

That's me out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr C.

But you had up on your status that you won't meet people who meet bi guys....

It's pretty irrelevant who other people meet...

Yes it is but you explained it was because you were worried about the occasional stray hand...and you couldn't relax in a mfm situation lol...now of course it's personal choice but what does it matter if straight couples that you meet meet couples with a bi male....

I don't think his hand would be that long...lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr C.

But you had up on your status that you won't meet people who meet bi guys....

It's pretty irrelevant who other people meet...

That's me out then

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr C.

But you had up on your status that you won't meet people who meet bi guys....

It's pretty irrelevant who other people meet...

I don't think his hand would be that long...lmao

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Mr C.

But you had up on your status that you won't meet people who meet bi guys....

It's pretty irrelevant who other people meet...

I don't think his hand would be that long...lmao

At least the op had an intelligent answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't understand is most couples and females who won't meet bi guys 9 times out of 10 the female half is bi what is the difference bar from the sexes...

Cause I'm confused a lady can be bi sexual but yet wouldn't be around a bi sexual guy.. Can someone clear this up for me.???

Maybe you non meeting bi guys people can some it up for me..

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

I prefer bi guys to straight guys.. jus opens up so many more avenues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr C.

But you had up on your status that you won't meet people who meet bi guys....

It's pretty irrelevant who other people meet...

I don't think his hand would be that long...lmao

At least the op had an intelligent answer "

If your reason was intelligent I'd understand it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus, whats everyone dancing around the issue for?? Its obvious...instances of hiv are more prevalent amongst gay/bi sexual men than straight men, hence why some couples or girls may not wish to meet them.

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

Ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus, whats everyone dancing around the issue for?? Its obvious...instances of hiv are more prevalent amongst gay/bi sexual men than straight men, hence why some couples or girls may not wish to meet them. "

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I love bi guys my favourite meets are bi MMF MMmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015."

Honestly Spanish it's pointless trying to educate him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love bi guys my favourite meets are bi MMF MMmmm

Mine too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ireland...

Half of all new cases of HIV in Ireland in the first half of this year have been among gay and bisexual men while the age of contraction of the disease continues to decline, new figures have revealed.

So again , your statement is wrong, only half of males presenting with HIV are gay/bisexual not more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015.

Honestly Spanish it's pointless trying to educate him...

I know , but it just pisses me off when people make silly statements, it is obvious that many do not want to meet singles and couples who play with bis due to fear and false information..

Pisses me off me even more when they use the wandering hands bs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015."

Actually he's correct. The number for heterosexual men is 21,300.

He was referring to men. You included women in your number.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree with ur statement. Alot of people afraid to admit they wouldnt play with bi/ gay lads soley because of thoughts of catching hiv. People still living in the past. But stats dont lie.figures prove hiv is more common in hetrosexual men. Scary fact

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love bi guys my favourite meets are bi MMF MMmmm

Mine too....

Pm me and i can arrange this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015.

Actually he's correct. The number for heterosexual men is 21,300.

He was referring to men. You included women in your number. "

Not sure.where you got your figures from?

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By *r8 kisserMan
over a year ago

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yea I just seem to get msgs from gay men, nothing from females or couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015.

Honestly Spanish it's pointless trying to educate him...

I know , but it just pisses me off when people make silly statements, it is obvious that many do not want to meet singles and couples who play with bis due to fear and false information..

Pisses me off me even more when they use the wandering hands bs

Believe me it boils my piss and I've no time for it...

Derogatory comments regarding bit men is completely uncalled for...

If anything bi men are so much more respectful towards other men because of that exact same reason of boundaries....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been having sex with bisexual males and females for years, seriously have not met one yet who is not dilligent about their sexual health...

HIV and sexualy transmitted diseases are rife amongst hetrosexuals and in particular those over 50...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure this is true. What's your source?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ireland...

So again , your statement is wrong, only half of males presenting with HIV are gay/bisexual not more..."

I had a quick look at the numbers too.

From what I found for the first six months of 2015 the numbers were actually 95 for men who have sex with men and 38 for heterosexuals.

But frankly I don't give a shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not sure this is true. What's your source?"

I should have said kinda agree. I base it on talking to people. Its sad some people have such a dim view on how just because a guy is or has been sexually active with another male they automaticaly have contracted hiv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure this is true. What's your source?

Oh I agree absolutely but I meant the source for your stats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ireland...

So again , your statement is wrong, only half of males presenting with HIV are gay/bisexual not more...

I had a quick look at the numbers too.

From what I found for the first six months of the year the numbers were actually 95 for men who have sex with men and 38 for heterosexuals.

But frankly I don't give a shit

Funny though how straight guys and women accuse bis of lying ect...

I had the misfortune of meeting a couple on another site once, now she was super hot

He claimed he could only have sex without a condom on the grounds he was hung like an elephants trunk...* snigger *...

Now no way was I going there, but I was not giving her up, popped in a tampax and told them I had my period, popped in a dental dam and enjoyed her whilst he sat fuming watching 70s porn

Moral of the story, hetros play fast and loose with their sexual health and in my experience bisexuals are more careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ireland...

So again , your statement is wrong, only half of males presenting with HIV are gay/bisexual not more...

I had a quick look at the numbers too.

From what I found for the first six months of the year the numbers were actually 95 for men who have sex with men and 38 for heterosexuals.

But frankly I don't give a shit

Funny though how straight guys and women accuse bis of lying ect...

I had the misfortune of meeting a couple on another site once, now she was super hot

He claimed he could only have sex without a condom on the grounds he was hung like an elephants trunk...* snigger *...

Now no way was I going there, but I was not giving her up, popped in a tampax and told them I had my period, popped in a dental dam and enjoyed her whilst he sat fuming watching 70s porn

Moral of the story, hetros play fast and loose with their sexual health and in my experience bisexuals are more careful."

I'm not disagreeing with the sentiment, just the figures

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over a year ago

"Ireland...

So again , your statement is wrong, only half of males presenting with HIV are gay/bisexual not more...

I had a quick look at the numbers too.

From what I found for the first six months of the year the numbers were actually 95 for men who have sex with men and 38 for heterosexuals.

But frankly I don't give a shit

Funny though how straight guys and women accuse bis of lying ect...

I had the misfortune of meeting a couple on another site once, now she was super hot

He claimed he could only have sex without a condom on the grounds he was hung like an elephants trunk...* snigger *...

Now no way was I going there, but I was not giving her up, popped in a tampax and told them I had my period, popped in a dental dam and enjoyed her whilst he sat fuming watching 70s porn

Moral of the story, hetros play fast and loose with their sexual health and in my experience bisexuals are more careful.

I'm not disagreeing with the sentiment, just the figures

Ah no , I was just musing about the silly misconceptions on swing sites about bis and their sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just find it disappointing that bi men are being generalised as being all into anal sex, protected or not or don't respect boundaries. Not everyone feels some attraction to the same sex but some level of respect is all that's being asked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ireland...

So again , your statement is wrong, only half of males presenting with HIV are gay/bisexual not more...

I had a quick look at the numbers too.

From what I found for the first six months of the year the numbers were actually 95 for men who have sex with men and 38 for heterosexuals.

But frankly I don't give a shit

Funny though how straight guys and women accuse bis of lying ect...

I had the misfortune of meeting a couple on another site once, now she was super hot

He claimed he could only have sex without a condom on the grounds he was hung like an elephants trunk...* snigger *...

Now no way was I going there, but I was not giving her up, popped in a tampax and told them I had my period, popped in a dental dam and enjoyed her whilst he sat fuming watching 70s porn

Moral of the story, hetros play fast and loose with their sexual health and in my experience bisexuals are more careful.

I'm not disagreeing with the sentiment, just the figures

Ah no , I was just musing about the silly misconceptions on swing sites about bis and their sexual health

I know, the scientist in me made me hunt down the facts and figures for myself

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Mr C.

But you had up on your status that you won't meet people who meet bi guys....

It's pretty irrelevant who other people meet...

I don't think his hand would be that long...lmao

At least the op had an intelligent answer

If your reason was intelligent I'd understand it...

Bites the tongue and reaches for the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems it's not enough to have preferences on this site,they now have to be dissected and scrutinized by others.

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over a year ago

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015."

Theres no point in quoting actual numbers to me...what matters is the proportions. There are far more straight men in the uk than gay/bi so obviously there will be slightly more carrying it. However, PER CAPITA it is far higher amongst gay/bi men

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I'm not into lads myself so I don't care if you're all bi, straight or metrosexual

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

As I read this thread it's very disturbing to me. It's really NO ONES BUSINESS what preferences or WHY someone may feel the way they do. It's sex ffs and we ALL have a choice as to who we want to fuck on here. So to sit in judgement as to why someone would or would not want to have sex is outrageous to me.

BUT I do love the fact that there is a discussion about sti's. Cause look people at the end of the day sti's/hiv don't give a shit if you're straight, bi, gay,blue or purple. This is a topic that should be discussed more on here. Being safe and staying safe.

Just my 2cents. Feel free to attack. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I read this thread it's very disturbing to me. It's really NO ONES BUSINESS what preferences or WHY someone may feel the way they do. It's sex ffs and we ALL have a choice as to who we want to fuck on here. So to sit in judgement as to why someone would or would not want to have sex is outrageous to me.

Just my 2cents. Feel free to attack. X"

I feel like ive started a war ??.

Not my intention. Just was curious as to why the issue.

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over a year ago

Just my 2cents. Feel free to attack. X

I feel like ive started a war ??.

Not my intention. Just was curious as to why the issue. "

And it was a fair question, for which ive offered my suggested reason. Some may agree, some may disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In matters of taste, there should be no disputes.

One thing that can be certain , Sti`s don’t discriminate

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over a year ago

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015.

Look okay I honestly get your point, but in the UK and Ireland some of those figures include hetros/bis/gays ect who are originaly from outside both jurisdictions..

The overall figures include HIV contracted via needles whilst taking drugs..

My point was that HIV is not solely a problem within the LGBT community, it effects hetros and the misconceptions amongst swingers on the subject is astounding...

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over a year ago

"BUT I do love the fact that there is a discussion about sti's. Cause look people at the end of the day sti's/hiv don't give a shit if you're straight, bi, gay,blue or purple. This is a topic that should be discussed more on here. Being safe and staying safe.

Just my 2cents. Feel free to attack. X"

Spot on cherry... I'm still really disturbed about the profile I saw last week "BAREBACK PREFERRED" ... and then to hear from a fellow fabber that it is commmon enough..... jesus H....

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

The reports of the Health Protection Surveillance Centre show a break down into female and male as well as into the different risk groups

http://www.hpsc.ie/A-Z/HIVSTIs/HIVandAIDS/SurveillanceReports/

It's a fact that men having sex with men form the highest risk group. This doesn't mean that every bisexual man is diseases riddled but unfortunately some people can't see the forest for the trees and stigmatise that particular group. Just as an example how do you know that the straight guy you're meeting next isn't just back from a bareback sex holiday in one of the well known sex tourist destinations?

By the end of the day we all have to accept other people's preferences no matter what their decisions are based on and the only thing you can do is practising consequently safe sex and go for regular check ups.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

You could equally argue that uncircumcised guys have a higher hiv risk etc etc horses for courses.

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over a year ago

At the end of the day yes everyone has their own personal preferences and can choose who to meet for whatever reasons...

But as Dog pointed out regarding holiday fick look at all the singles who go out and don't use any protection at all....

At least the married ones are afraid of bringing a sti home and use protection...

Unprotected sex it's frowned upon and rightly so...

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

At least the married ones are afraid of bringing a sti home and use protection...

Have to disagree with you there. I think it's safe to say plenty of married ppl don't think of safe sex or worry about sti's, just the same as singles. The only smart thing to do is protect yourself and never be so silly as to trust the other person is doing the same (meaning assuming that bc you always play safe the other person always plays safe too). Being married is not bullet proof

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over a year ago

At least the married ones are afraid of bringing a sti home and use protection...

I'm just speaking from personal experiences....

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over a year ago

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015.

Look okay I honestly get your point, but in the UK and Ireland some of those figures include hetros/bis/gays ect who are originaly from outside both jurisdictions..

The overall figures include HIV contracted via needles whilst taking drugs..

My point was that HIV is not solely a problem within the LGBT community, it effects hetros and the misconceptions amongst swingers on the subject is astounding..."

You didnt need to make that point...nobody argued that in the first place. You just created a straw man argument so you could then go and disagree with it

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Puerto Rico, Gran Canaria

You only have to look at the amount of peoples pics on here how many bi and hetro people are having unprotected anal and vaginal sex.

Now some couples say that pics of unprotected sex are themselves but single guys and women also show pics of unprotected sex on their profiles as well. So who are you to believe maybe they have used other peoples pics not their own.

Remember HIV is for life not just for a week.

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over a year ago

Now I am only giving percentages of HIV in males in the UK, but I will find them for Ireland..

However your statement does match the figures on HIV amongst males...

Around 44,980 gay and bisexual men and around 54,000 heterosexuals were estimated to be living with HIV in the UK by the end of 2015.

Look okay I honestly get your point, but in the UK and Ireland some of those figures include hetros/bis/gays ect who are originaly from outside both jurisdictions..

The overall figures include HIV contracted via needles whilst taking drugs..

My point was that HIV is not solely a problem within the LGBT community, it effects hetros and the misconceptions amongst swingers on the subject is astounding...

You didnt need to make that point...nobody argued that in the first place. You just created a straw man argument so you could then go and disagree with it"

It was a discussion around misconceptions about bisexuals and their sexual health....

However, I am so happy these days, I simply could not be arsed discussing your latest rant with you..

Happy swinging