FabSwingers.com forum: All By Myself!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm starting to feel like I'm all on my lonesome up here at the top of the north coast.....

Anyone who interests me seems to be at least an hour and half drive away.....

Most of the guys close to me seem to be married (no, no in my book) or just can't string a sentence together...

Sometimes I feel like I'm being too picky....

Any advice?!

Or will I just have to sift my way through the neanderthals in hopes of finding a smart, funny, charming man full of sex appeal?

Sorry for being a Monday Morning Borebag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience, it's the same regardless of where you live. Men hugely outnumber women here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't dumb down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't dumb down. "

Sometimes I feel like I am from another world when guys message me.... I sometimes wonder if they even know the alphabet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't dumb down.

Sometimes I feel like I am from another world when guys message me.... I sometimes wonder if they even know the alphabet....

The gems are there, dotted amongst the stones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relocate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Relocate

Got a spare room?

Feel like I'm fighting a losing battle up here!!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Don't dumb down.

Sometimes I feel like I am from another world when guys message me.... I sometimes wonder if they even know the alphabet....

I know, it does my head in too.

"ne1 no f ders neting in de sex cinema tonit?"

grinds my fucking gears.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I no ryt..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relocate

Got a spare room?

Feel like I'm fighting a losing battle up here!!

"
I have a spare room

if you ask nicely only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't dumb down.

Sometimes I feel like I am from another world when guys message me.... I sometimes wonder if they even know the alphabet....

I know, it does my head in too.

"ne1 no f ders neting in de sex cinema tonit?"

grinds my fucking gears."

At least they can spell "sex cinema"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Relocate

Got a spare room?

Feel like I'm fighting a losing battle up here!!

I have a spare room

if you ask nicely only

Is Limerick where it's happening?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relocate

Got a spare room?

Feel like I'm fighting a losing battle up here!!

I have a spare room

if you ask nicely only

Is Limerick where it's happening?!

"
actually Clare

but no i would say more action in cork or Dublin but it seems to be same everywhere, nice people always far away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Damn..... might get a caravan and become the travelling fab gypsy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spoken to some lovely donegal men, and I know a fantastic man in Derry too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've spoken to some lovely donegal men, and I know a fantastic man in Derry too.

Derry i don't mind so much....

But my luck is usually they don't accomm.... or they won't/dont drive half way to meet me for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've spoken to some lovely donegal men, and I know a fantastic man in Derry too.

Derry i don't mind so much....

But my luck is usually they don't accomm.... or they won't/dont drive half way to meet me for a social

Well as a Single guy i can tell you i can accommodate and i would also drive all the way or halfway or get a hotel somewhere that suits! I work, I Have a daughter and live a busy enough life but i can always make time no excuse!

So unless the guy is married or have girlfriend, etc they mighy not want to be flexible or cant! Also from a guy point of view if i dont think the girl is worth the hassle i wont do it! I only do it if its there handy easy and involve minimal effort!

Sorry that last bit sounds so wrong but is just straight talking and in a way how many guys think... Yes there are exception to the rule but they are a tiny tiny minority! "I dont sugar coat stuff after all im not willy wonka"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've spoken to some lovely donegal men, and I know a fantastic man in Derry too.

Derry i don't mind so much....

But my luck is usually they don't accomm.... or they won't/dont drive half way to meet me for a social

I understand your view point...

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

itme.. no need to relocate its the same down this end of the country...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

The other man's grass is always greener or in this case the other ladies

They are there u just have to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cj what would u know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn..... might get a caravan and become the travelling fab gypsy

I have a spare room youre very welcome anytime , Im half way between you and Dublin , you could set up base camp in my gaff and do sorties on the big smoke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient and watch the forums you. may see someone you're attracted to and then message them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cork is just as bad tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cork is just as bad tbh "

youre welcome to come up to Monaghan and all.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cork is just as bad tbh "

Move to Dublin, seems like half of cork are up here already

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"cj what would u know

U told me

There's loads of great dudes up that end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww poor you, 7 weeks here and you haven't found the charming, smart, sexy guys, just neanderthals.

Meanwhile, let's meet a few that will do the job (going on your verifications, February looks to me like you had quite a bit of fun, or at least they did). I wouldn't call you a picky girl

Alex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha I just looked at the profile. 9 meets in 7 weeks. I have 9 since I joined.....two years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can hear Celine dion in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow people are getting a bit rude and judgemental. 2 of the people she met have given multi verifications, and at least one is from when she was on here before.

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By *rossflow daveMan
over a year ago

Mullingar

"Wow people are getting a bit rude and judgemental. 2 of the people she met have given multi verifications, and at least one is from when she was on here before. "

That's true but she still isn't doing to bad !

If I or any other single guy posted the same thread we would get torn to shreds !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow people are getting a bit rude and judgemental. 2 of the people she met have given multi verifications, and at least one is from when she was on here before. "

I wasn't judging her. I was judging myself. Must have more sex is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow people are getting a bit rude and judgemental. 2 of the people she met have given multi verifications, and at least one is from when she was on here before.

I wasn't judging her. I was judging myself. Must have more sex is all "

What's stopping you?

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

"I'm starting to feel like I'm all on my lonesome up here at the top of the north coast.....

Anyone who interests me seems to be at least an hour and half drive away.....

Most of the guys close to me seem to be married (no, no in my book) or just can't string a sentence together...

lol welcome to fab

Sometimes I feel like I'm being too picky....

Any advice?!

Or will I just have to sift my way through the neanderthals in hopes of finding a smart, funny, charming man full of sex appeal?

Sorry for being a Monday Morning Borebag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow people are getting a bit rude and judgemental. 2 of the people she met have given multi verifications, and at least one is from when she was on here before.

That's true but she still isn't doing to bad !

If I or any other single guy posted the same thread we would get torn to shreds !!

Exactly...

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

It's the same everywhere you're not alone, we promise. Never compromise just be patient. Let's face it there's a fair amount of eejits on here and that's not just single males but there are a few gems out there too that make it fun again it just takes some time to find them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow people are getting a bit rude and judgemental. 2 of the people she met have given multi verifications, and at least one is from when she was on here before.

That's true but she still isn't doing to bad !

If I or any other single guy posted the same thread we would get torn to shreds !!

Why do people always say this in threads? It's not the OP's fault that a guy would get "torn to shreds" for posting similar.

Just cos you think she's not doing too badly, doesn't mean she feels like that or that she's not entitled to a moan.

Good luck OP, hope things pick up for you...if all else fails then move to Dublin...Fabbers in abundance here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not doing too badly just had another meet today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not doing too badly just had another meet today

Shhhh... She has the right to moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone's entitled to a moan now and then...

Also true however: "if you pay peanuts, you tend to get monkeys"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha my old boss used to say that all the time very very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm starting to feel like I'm all on my lonesome up here at the top of the north coast.....

Anyone who interests me seems to be at least an hour and half drive away.....

Most of the guys close to me seem to be married (no, no in my book) or just can't string a sentence together...

Sometimes I feel like I'm being too picky....

Any advice?!

Or will I just have to sift my way through the neanderthals in hopes of finding a smart, funny, charming man full of sex appeal?

Sorry for being a Monday Morning Borebag!

Hi. Just incorporate a meet into a day trip or weekend away. Start exploring Ireland. It's a beautiful place.

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