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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you still get them?

has it ever ruined a meet?

What do you do to help release them?

Do they get less the more meets you have?

Just popped into my head thought it was an interesting subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we no longer have pre meet nerves we will stop swinging..Its all part of the build up but it has never ruined a meet for us but has for people we have met. Many drink too much end up plastered due to nerves which ruins it for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of coffee meets go wrong because of nerves. Not mine - theirs. 2 separate men were so nervous they could hardly speak. Maybe I terrified them lol

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"When we no longer have pre meet nerves we will stop swinging..Its all part of the build up but it has never ruined a meet for us but has for people we have met. Many drink too much end up plastered due to nerves which ruins it for everyone "

exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis all part of the fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when the pre-meet nerves/butterflies go... It's time to quit.

Love the nervous, flirty buildup.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway


"When we no longer have pre meet nerves we will stop swinging..Its all part of the build up but it has never ruined a meet for us but has for people we have met. Many drink too much end up plastered due to nerves which ruins it for everyone "

Yes this is it in a nutshell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we no longer have pre meet nerves we will stop swinging..Its all part of the build up but it has never ruined a meet for us but has for people we have met. Many drink too much end up plastered due to nerves which ruins it for everyone "

Spot on Jilly babe!

Whatever about having 1 or 2 for a bit of dutch courage I've never understood why people at socials and parties get completely tanked....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we no longer have pre meet nerves we will stop swinging..Its all part of the build up but it has never ruined a meet for us but has for people we have met. Many drink too much end up plastered due to nerves which ruins it for everyone "

This exactly!

We're relatively new to swinging and we love the nervous/excited anticipation of meeting new people. We hope it never stops!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

no, still get nervous/excited before meets, not so much social ones but definitely play meets...

when that's gone, like jilly said its time to stop..

I've taken time outs as i was feeling meh about meets, no matter who it was but i'm back feeling bouncy and excited about them again.

oh and my nerves have never ruined it for me no,..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great posts.

I do find it a great mix of nervous energy and sexual tension.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

it varies for me, depending on the situation. anything from butterflies in my stomach to mild nausea to full on chills like i'm freezing cold.

everyone gets a variation on it and you start over thinking the situation.

will they like me?

if i fuck them will i be a good fuck?

is what i'm wearing ok? will the slightest thing put them off me?

Just relax and go with it. and don't worry too much. that's whats worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get them. Usually they go within a few minutes. All part of the excitement

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

Nerves are normal its how you deal with them that is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our very first meet this friday... Nerves dont even cover what im feeling!! Sexually wound up like a spring though cannot wait

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"We have our very first meet this friday... Nerves dont even cover what im feeling!! Sexually wound up like a spring though cannot wait "

hope it goes well

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

Great to be nervious about a meet....thats the fun

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Oh I'm nervous just logging in here!!

Will there be a message or not?? Will there? Will there??

Outright nerve-wrecking!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Do you still get them?"

Yep, if you don't get them you're meeting the wrong people or you got immune


"Has it ever ruined a meet?"

Nope


"What do you do to help release them?"

Putting a good effort into looking at my best, smile and let the excitement get the better of me, let the imagination strive and eventually release it into good steamy sex.

Biting finger nails and drinking too much is not recommendable and also not very sexy, not turning up is an absolute no no


"Do they get less the more meets you have?"

No, again if you don't get them you're meeting the wrong people or you got immune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't get nervous, especially after hours of flirty banter it's usually grand. Id be more nervous at parties tho they can be a bit intimidating as u don't know what to expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have our very first meet this friday... Nerves dont even cover what im feeling!! Sexually wound up like a spring though cannot wait

hope it goes well "

Thanks buddy, vodka and crotchless tights im set up!!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

The day the nervous jitters stop..ill pack this in. I want to be still doing this when im 80, where theres a need for gummy gobbles

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"The day the nervous jitters stop..ill pack this in. I want to be still doing this when im 80, where theres a need for gummy gobbles "

Keep in touch so!!

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

No butterflies no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's natural to get nervous b4 a meet .. something wrong with you if you don't even get butterflies .. like someone previously said we'd also stop meeting if we didn't feel the pre meet jitters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'm nervous just logging in here!!

Will there be a message or not?? Will there? Will there??

Outright nerve-wrecking!! "

it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous before a meet even if its the same person as the wk before..i think its healthy to b nervous

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

Good to be nervious embrace it

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Excitement yes..nerves no....sometimes I wish we could go back to our first meet just to recapture that churning sick feeling in the pit of your stomach and your wondering if this is really a good idea....a the good old days

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"The day the nervous jitters stop..ill pack this in. I want to be still doing this when im 80, where theres a need for gummy gobbles "

OMG this made me chuckle Miss Dirty!!! hahaha Nom Nom Nom Nom

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By *ssalotCouple
over a year ago

dungannon

made me stop meeting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I get more nervous now than before. It's probably because in the past year I've only had meets with people I see regularly and actually haven't had sex with anyone new for ages.

I want to meet (have sex) new people but I'm finding it terribly daunting at the moment. Any tips to get over my nerves to get jiggy with someone new?

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