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Bringing up topic of swinging with the other half

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To those that have made the step recently or in the past.......how the hell did you bring up the suggestion of swinging.....or was it just the case that you could sense it's something your other half wouldn't be adverse to and was as simple as saying 'how do you fancy a chinese tonight'

really intrigued to hear people's stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met on pof and told her straight away what I wanted and what was into, and here we are now...

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

Met my partner on this. When we decided to be an "official" couple we both agreed we still wanted a bit of fab in our life. So we were both lucky we were on the same page and didn't have to have "that talk"

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Met my partner on this. When we decided to be an "official" couple we both agreed we still wanted a bit of fab in our life. So we were both lucky we were on the same page and didn't have to have "that talk""

I'm currently going through a similar process.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"Met my partner on this. When we decided to be an "official" couple we both agreed we still wanted a bit of fab in our life. So we were both lucky we were on the same page and didn't have to have "that talk"

I'm currently going through a similar process. "

No talking YOU till I get my lunch you owe me!!! Lol

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Met my partner on this. When we decided to be an "official" couple we both agreed we still wanted a bit of fab in our life. So we were both lucky we were on the same page and didn't have to have "that talk"

I'm currently going through a similar process.

No talking YOU till I get my lunch you owe me!!! Lol"

you'll get your lunch when i'm good and ready! and maybe a smacked bottom to boot!

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By *llen n SebbCouple
over a year ago

Walkinstown

Ellen met Sebb at his place of work. We both laid out what we were into from the start.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"Met my partner on this. When we decided to be an "official" couple we both agreed we still wanted a bit of fab in our life. So we were both lucky we were on the same page and didn't have to have "that talk"

I'm currently going through a similar process.

No talking YOU till I get my lunch you owe me!!! Lol

you'll get your lunch when i'm good and ready! and maybe a smacked bottom to boot! "

Ahh feck off slappy slapperson. I WANT MY CHEESECAKE!!!!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Met my partner on this. When we decided to be an "official" couple we both agreed we still wanted a bit of fab in our life. So we were both lucky we were on the same page and didn't have to have "that talk"

I'm currently going through a similar process.

No talking YOU till I get my lunch you owe me!!! Lol

you'll get your lunch when i'm good and ready! and maybe a smacked bottom to boot!

Ahh feck off slappy slapperson. I WANT MY CHEESECAKE!!!!"

jeeez.... you'll get it, OK????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet dragged into the lifestyle kicking n screaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And no more kicking from mrs sweet ? Just the odd scream ?? Lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sweet dragged into the lifestyle kicking n screaming."

I'd say there wasn't much dragging

We met on here so didn't need to have that convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And no more kicking from mrs sweet ? Just the odd scream ?? Lol lol "

When sweet sees my last post I will be screaming as she kicks my head in haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LONG STORY SHORT

Mr B mentioned swinging quite a bit over the years, in a joking kinda way. So 18 months ago I told him I was fed up listening to him talk about it n if he wasn't going to do something about to just drop it. And the rest is history

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork

I think it's one of those kinda things where u already know the answer but still think u can change it. If ur anyway cautious of bringing it up its probably on your intuition alone so stick with ur gut!!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"To those that have made the step recently or in the past.......how the hell did you bring up the suggestion of swinging.....or was it just the case that you could sense it's something your other half wouldn't be adverse to and was as simple as saying 'how do you fancy a chinese tonight'

really intrigued to hear people's stories "

Well you could start by telling her you're here looking for an 'fb'....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone mention chease cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be pleasingly surprised she might already be on here and have 120 verifications that would make your nite ,

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"Did someone mention chease cake"

I sure did! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting responses to say the least!!

To be honest I used to think 'what the f are those guys at'....but as you get older (well in my case anyway) you realise it's just about enjoying yourself and ignoring the whole conventional relationship bs! You've only got the one life so you may as well fecking live it!!

Cheers for the responses though lads and ladies ....my opening post to the forums looked like it had bombed big time there for a while!!!

Happy fabbing as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting responses to say the least!!

To be honest I used to think 'what the f are those guys at'....but as you get older (well in my case anyway) you realise it's just about enjoying yourself and ignoring the whole conventional relationship bs! You've only got the one life so you may as well fecking live it!!

Cheers for the responses though lads and ladies ....my opening post to the forums looked like it had bombed big time there for a while!!!

Happy fabbing as they say "

Enjoy your life indeed, just make sure that if you have a girlfriend to tell her what you want so that if she doesn't want it then she can go enjoy her life also...

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"I think it's one of those kinda things where u already know the answer but still think u can change it. If ur anyway cautious of bringing it up its probably on your intuition alone so stick with ur gut!!"

I agree with this to some extent. If you're with a new partner you just can't know for sure but if you're with a partner for a significant period of time I think your gut instinct will be right.

This is just from personal experience.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Spent 5 years having the conversation...it was time to stop talking and start doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spoke with my wife about it for several years. She didn't want to and got increasingly irritated with the subject.

So I went solo. She doesn't ask, I don't tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent Marty a pic of me on a swing in a bar in New York, got the conversation going and here we r

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After telling Mr about a 3sum I'd had a few years back and him having a total meltdown he realized he loved the idea of it . plenty of bedtime talking later we took the plunge and here we are

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