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By *aughtyTippcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nearby

Why do people keep sending random friend requests? We say it in our profile we don't accept them

But yet they still keep popping up

Its annoying to the point of frustration now

Sorry just a little rant

Tina

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Ive no idea and its a bit like those wink thingys,i forget to check them. Dunno why folk send random friend requests if ive not chatted beforehand. It makes no sense to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People just chance their arm I suppose, it is rather annoying tho..

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By *he JiggliesCouple
over a year ago

Athlone

Constantly getting friend request from ppl, just means we will delete and then block. Why would we want to be friend without even a chat. Prob just wanting to see the friends pics

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

If you don't delete a request it prevents that person from sending another.

Today's top tip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't delete a request it prevents that person from sending another.

Today's top tip. "

Good job

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By *he JiggliesCouple
over a year ago

Athlone


"If you don't delete a request it prevents that person from sending another.

Today's top tip. "

Lol didn't no that, handy one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message off some fella apologising to me for messaging first before sending a friend request so maybe some people think that u need to be friends before they chat. But I do agree it is pretty annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't delete a request it prevents that person from sending another.

Today's top tip. "

That's what I do. I currently have 305

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't delete a request it prevents that person from sending another.

Today's top tip.

That's what I do. I currently have 305 "

crazy!! 306

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random friend requests I don't understand. But the winks are just like someone winking in the pub to you, but they don't have any negative effect so I wouldn't worry.

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nearby

I don't mind the winks

But its the requests form ppl that never have and probably never would bother to chat to us.

And yes Mingo we have a bit of a build up on it as we just leave them there

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you bulk delete winks and friend requests like the emails!

just let them build up and one click and they are gone.

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By *aughtyTippcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nearby

Yes u can but it just leaves space for the randomers to request again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them it's usually from unverified users so I'm guessing like the above poster said they think they need to befriend before chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just delete them it's usually from unverified users so I'm guessing like the above poster said they think they need to befriend before chatting"

Only a fifth of mine are from unverified profiles. So that leaves 240 from verified profiles

I must check the ratio from verified couples and singles next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just delete them it's usually from unverified users so I'm guessing like the above poster said they think they need to befriend before chatting

Only a fifth of mine are from unverified profiles. So that leaves 240 from verified profiles

I must check the ratio from verified couples and singles next "

Jesus girl you must be bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just delete them it's usually from unverified users so I'm guessing like the above poster said they think they need to befriend before chatting

Only a fifth of mine are from unverified profiles. So that leaves 240 from verified profiles

I must check the ratio from verified couples and singles next

Jesus girl you must be bored "

It is Monday! Or is it Tuesday

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I just delete them it's usually from unverified users so I'm guessing like the above poster said they think they need to befriend before chatting

Only a fifth of mine are from unverified profiles. So that leaves 240 from verified profiles

I must check the ratio from verified couples and singles next

Jesus girl you must be bored "

Or into ratios

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I just sent a message to a lady n she replied no thanks n I replied no problem happy fabbing n I get blocked .like why do they feel d need to block nice people . Sometimes I just give up.

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I like to have at least 4 friends on here at all times so I feel twice as special as I do in reality

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

It is so annoying & peeves me off when they send friend requests when no words were exchanged & just as bad when 1/2 messages are exchanged & they think it's ok too. They are just looking to perv in private galleries.

I only accept friend request when iv actually met them & who I class as friends.

I don't delete requests either as another fabber mentioned, it stops ppl from resending. I also use block button too as I'm assuming they haven't read my profile either.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"We'll I just sent a message to a lady n she replied no thanks n I replied no problem happy fabbing n I get blocked .like why do they feel d need to block nice people . Sometimes I just give up.

"

take it as a definite no. to me it means that they're not gonna change their mind and to save their time and yours in the future. Because God loves a tryer and all that...

Another top tip. put all your friends pics on private. the see if the number of friend requests reduce. they may be wanting to perv what they can't get at, without being willing to get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just delete them it's usually from unverified users so I'm guessing like the above poster said they think they need to befriend before chatting

Only a fifth of mine are from unverified profiles. So that leaves 240 from verified profiles

I must check the ratio from verified couples and singles next

Jesus girl you must be bored

It is Monday! Or is it Tuesday "

Lol point taken your bored silly too

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

I just leave the requests sitting there.

No manners to even message so why should i bother with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just delete them it's usually from unverified users so I'm guessing like the above poster said they think they need to befriend before chatting

Only a fifth of mine are from unverified profiles. So that leaves 240 from verified profiles

I must check the ratio from verified couples and singles next

Jesus girl you must be bored

It is Monday! Or is it Tuesday

Lol point taken your bored silly too "

Haha just a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'll I just sent a message to a lady n she replied no thanks n I replied no problem happy fabbing n I get blocked .like why do they feel d need to block nice people . Sometimes I just give up.

"

It's easier block someone you have no interest in , rather than having to message no thanks a 100 times.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

We used to have that problem too but since we got rid of our friends only pics it stopped

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It doesn't really bother me, the list just gets longer.

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By *itlad247Man
over a year ago

Dublin/London

Well I can safely say this is a problem I certainly don't have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have made a classic Beginner Mistake: In believing that the TWONKs actually bother to READ/Understand profiles ...

They don't


"Why do people keep sending random friend requests? We say it in our profile we don't accept them

But yet they still keep popping up

Its annoying to the point of frustration now

Sorry just a little rant

Tina "

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