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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok a little survey for this wet cold Tuesday Which do you prefer in a prospective sexual partner Brains or Beauty ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty attracts, brains keeps ya interested, so both really

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Miss carr today is Monday

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By *he JiggliesCouple
over a year ago

Athlone

Taught it was Monday

Need both really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss carr today is Monday "

does having one stop you having the other?

I'm pretty sure what's needed most is a sense of humour and a beer, stupidity and uglyness can be overcome by laughter and a shed load of alcohol.

')

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 29/02/16 14:55:31]"

Lol I'm blonde what can I say ok it's a wet Monday afternoon same question though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Attraction starts with the face.

For me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on the ball today Miss Car!! Brains or beauty? we all have both. I see beauty in the darkest of places as well as the ones that shine. So I'd have to say intelligence over stupidity. I don't see stupidity as an attractive trait.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Both..i need physical attraction as well as intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 29/02/16 14:55:31]

Lol I'm blonde what can I say ok it's a wet Monday afternoon same question though "

Luckily you are a beauty x

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Both for us too, but mainly it the personalities that attract us first

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brains...Unless he's called Brains. I can't see his beauty when we're doing the dawg.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Beauty attracts, brains keeps ya interested, so both really"

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

It would have to be a 50/50 split for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but its the physical attraction that starts it off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I can narrow it down to something as simple as one or the other. Especially since beauty can be fairly objective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me brains first beauty next! But as they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 29/02/16 14:55:31]

Lol I'm blonde what can I say ok it's a wet Monday afternoon same question though

Luckily you are a beauty x"

Ha ha Shurrup I'm allowed it's been a hectic weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brains because Kaizer has sufficient beauty for both

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Of course we all prefer both, but if I've to pick it's clearly brains. You can always use a paper bag or close your eyes if one is ugly while stupidity will always stare in your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course we all prefer both, but if I've to pick it's clearly brains. You can always use a paper bag or close your eyes if one is ugly while stupidity will always stare in your face. "

Or you could just fuck them and ask them not to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol hunter too true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course we all prefer both, but if I've to pick it's clearly brains. You can always use a paper bag or close your eyes if one is ugly while stupidity will always stare in your face. "

DH, you've done that. Come on, tell the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course we all prefer both, but if I've to pick it's clearly brains. You can always use a paper bag or close your eyes if one is ugly while stupidity will always stare in your face.

Or you could just fuck them and ask them not to speak "

There is hope for me yet girls

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Of course we all prefer both, but if I've to pick it's clearly brains. You can always use a paper bag or close your eyes if one is ugly while stupidity will always stare in your face.

DH, you've done that. Come on, tell the truth!"

Yes, I had men that weren't the most handsome but a great fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely beauty for me as she won't have time to do the cryptic crossword

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course we all prefer both, but if I've to pick it's clearly brains. You can always use a paper bag or close your eyes if one is ugly while stupidity will always stare in your face.

DH, you've done that. Come on, tell the truth!

Yes, I had men that weren't the most handsome but a great fuck! "

I'd say the same with a couple of women over the years... Can't beat a great fuck

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Of course we all prefer both, but if I've to pick it's clearly brains. You can always use a paper bag or close your eyes if one is ugly while stupidity will always stare in your face.

Or you could just fuck them and ask them not to speak "

Na, that won't work, stupidity is clever and will find many ways of expressing itself not only speech

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its just sex then beauty.. I do believe do the intelligence does attract attention.

For a long term partner the of course looks don't really count as they fade

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

A nice combo of both.. although if I'm being honest, I find ditsyness to be kind of cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely brains...

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

I greedy beauty and brains. They are not mutually exclusive by the way lol.

look at me I have both in spades

I've hooked up with women purely based on looks. Beauty and attractiveness are not always the same thing.

Sometimes I look at two women side by side One more physically attractive than the other but there is just something about the way the other woman moves that screams sexuality

that has turned me on.

I cant really put up with a lack of intelligence its a big turn off for me. It just feels wrong somehow to fuck someone that is way below your intelligence level almost as if your taking advantage of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I greedy beauty and brains. They are not mutually exclusive by the way lol.

look at me I have both in spades

I've hooked up with women purely based on looks. Beauty and attractiveness are not always the same thing.

Sometimes I look at two women side by side One more physically attractive than the other but there is just something about the way the other woman moves that screams sexuality

that has turned me on.

I cant really put up with a lack of intelligence its a big turn off for me. It just feels wrong somehow to fuck someone that is way below your intelligence level almost as if your taking advantage of them."

Dude... You put wayyyyy too much thought into that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I greedy beauty and brains. They are not mutually exclusive by the way lol.

look at me I have both in spades

I've hooked up with women purely based on looks. Beauty and attractiveness are not always the same thing.

Sometimes I look at two women side by side One more physically attractive than the other but there is just something about the way the other woman moves that screams sexuality

that has turned me on.

I cant really put up with a lack of intelligence its a big turn off for me. It just feels wrong somehow to fuck someone that is way below your intelligence level almost as if your taking advantage of them.

Dude... You put wayyyyy too much thought into that "

Dude....where's my car!

Thats my intelligent entry into this conversation so I am clearly all good looks!

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

As a few ppl said already, if it's just sex then beauty but for repeats & someone I'd be interested in seeing then brains. Both would be too good to be true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both is nice

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By *oldenFingersMan
over a year ago

Fairview

A nice mix of both if it's going.

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By *exyman1965Man
over a year ago

Lucan

Having brains definitely helps lease you might have a laugh with them and for beauty nice meeting someone with good body and nice smile big turn on.

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By *itlad247Man
over a year ago

Dublin/London

"Beauty and attractiveness are not always the same thing." I agree with this part all right, I don't think think stupidity makes someone unattractive I find nastiness a far uglier trait. Not everyone is blessed with intelligence but as long as they're not wilfully ignorant then I won't hold it against them. Certainly not if its just about sex anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely intelligence. I never really find people repulsively ugly. Everyone has something good going on wether it be within their looks or personality or indeed intelligence. Although sometimes the most intelligent people can be arrogant pricks which in my mind makes the not so attractive

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk


""Beauty and attractiveness are not always the same thing." I agree with this part all right, I don't think think stupidity makes someone unattractive I find nastiness a far uglier trait. Not everyone is blessed with intelligence but as long as they're not wilfully ignorant then I won't hold it against them. Certainly not if its just about sex anyway "

Stupidity and lower intelligence are not the same thing. I know intelligent people that behave stupidly all the time.

Its not that lower intelligence is unattractive in itself. I am saying it can be somewhat of a moral issue.

But I suppose that depends on were your moral lines lay.

As for willfully ignorant and nastiness they are never good characteristics to have for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty probably , because I have yet to meet a stupid woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty probably , because I have yet to meet a stupid woman."

Very smooth lol

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk


"Beauty probably , because I have yet to meet a stupid woman."

Great answer

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By *ittleman300Man
over a year ago

tralee

A combination of both would be nice

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Why settle for anything less than both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most times physical attraction sparks my interest. But that interest can disappear if there's no brains to hold it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me gotta be a girl with smarts about her - I love a heated debate about something obscure and the sex after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many can handle both together. Lost count of my intelligence being insulted.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

brains every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"brains every time"

It helps if they're a smidgen sexy too tho lol

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"brains every time

It helps if they're a smidgen sexy too tho lol "

Sure does but we have met people and thought "not for us " but their Intelligence would turn things, not for everyone we know but it works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence every time - in my fantasy world if I was given a choice of a threesome weekend in Vegas with Mariah Carey (notoriously stupid) and Paris Hilton (bordering on retarded) or a single night in Bray with Mayim Bialik ( IQ rumoured to be somewhere north of 155) I'd be travelling for my night out on the Dart.

Mr Samalan

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By *andyman.snrMan
over a year ago

leixlip

brains every time for me

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

Definitely need a physical attraction first, and then rest may or may not follow after meeting socially...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brains, every time. All the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always said as you get older there looks will always fade, you need someone that can keep your mind excited not just your private areas

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

An attractive face .....yes ... but beauty is only skin deep .... but ultimately I love intelligent articulate men .

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny


"Of course we all prefer both, but if I've to pick it's clearly brains. You can always use a paper bag or close your eyes if one is ugly while stupidity will always stare in your face. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't one have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here it has to be looks first as few ppl engage in conversation (not criticising just simple observation). Though i do know people who wont entertain having a relationship with people who havent been to university (they are confusing qualifications with brains....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical beauty is transient but a beautiful mind is eternal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty attracts, brains keeps ya interested, so both really"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is a must. But you could be the hottest man going but if theres nothing upstairs good luck. Intelligence is attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physical beauty is transient but a beautiful mind is eternal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brains is a big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there has to be some attraction which for the first part is obviously physical, the added bonus of functioning neurons just fuels the attraction for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me there has to be some attraction which for the first part is obviously physical, the added bonus of functioning neurons just fuels the attraction for me x"

I've just realised I used "for me " twice... I am deathly hung over..apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok a little survey for this wet cold Tuesday Which do you prefer in a prospective sexual partner Brains or Beauty ? "

Both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

beauty is the work of art of mother nature.

brains is the wicked spark behind the eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both!"

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