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"Lot politer just to say sorry not for me" 
I hear ya, I've sent a few after chatting for a while and then radio silence.
It gets worrying for a minute then I realise fuck it I have nothing to lose.
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"Lot politer just to say sorry not for me" It is but some dont. Theres no point dwelling on it is there? | |||
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"No but single guys get a hard time and when do as asked u get blocked and women complain" I never question it. The way I look at it, its there loss. Not worth fretting over losing sleep over.. | |||
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"No but single guys get a hard time and when do as asked u get blocked and women complain" Simple, dont give them the picture. If every guy did that then there wouldnt be a problem. | |||
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"No but single guys get a hard time and when do as asked u get blocked and women complain" Look im trying to be as gentle as possible without trying to offend you..but if you send a lady a facepic and they block you, it means theyre not attracted to you. Im a visual lady and openly admit i will not meet someone unless im physically attracted to the person. | |||
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"Why do females ask for photos then block when get them..bit rude" It's called ignorance and very common among the well verified females here  | |||
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"No but single guys get a hard time and when do as asked u get blocked and women complain Look im trying to be as gentle as possible without trying to offend you..but if you send a lady a facepic and they block you, it means theyre not attracted to you. Im a visual lady and openly admit i will not meet someone unless im physically attracted to the person." I would agree, I've sent a face pic many times but been fortunate enough for everyone I've sent the ladies are mad for me and come running. Erm noooo that's not quite right lol most will say thanks but no thanks you're not my type or yey handsome let's chat or I'm blocked. I do hate it when the block button happens when I've sent a face pic as obviously it hurts as I want to be the best looking man they've seen, but in reality if you don't take it personally that you're an ugly fook to them, then just move on. If anyone would like to see my face pic with a twitchy block button finger, just ask | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. " If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself. | |||
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"Maybe some of them feel that since the odds are in their favour, how they act will not matter. I can understand the volume of males and mails. And abuse received. I'd still say it would be best to say no thanks and then block. Maybe if they send a second one. I believe that behaviour such as blocking and not replying can lead to worse things. Guys can feel worse the more it happens. then their behaviour gets worse. I don't condone the abuse some give. " | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself. "You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him. | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself.
You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him. "I don't mean personally towards you. I'm talking in general. If two parties have been messaging and got to the stage of swapping pics it's very ignorant not to even reply after receiving their pic. | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself.
You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him.
I don't mean personally towards you. I'm talking in general. If two parties have been messaging and got to the stage of swapping pics it's very ignorant not to even reply after receiving their pic. "Yes i see your point but theres folk out there who dont reply and a block is the easier way out for them. Its like recieving winks and friend requests...some winks are returned,others not, friend requests are accepted,others are not. Its the chance thats taken sending the facepic and wondering will the other person like me or run for the hills. Its a game of chance and nothing more. | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself.
You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him.
I don't mean personally towards you. I'm talking in general. If two parties have been messaging and got to the stage of swapping pics it's very ignorant not to even reply after receiving their pic.
Yes i see your point but theres folk out there who dont reply and a block is the easier way out for them. Its like recieving winks and friend requests...some winks are returned,others not, friend requests are accepted,others are not. Its the chance thats taken sending the facepic and wondering will the other person like me or run for the hills. Its a game of chance and nothing more. "Not if you have being conversing with the other party....then it deserves an answer out of common decency and good manners. These are really missing on this site by alot of people and especially well verified females who feel they can treat people as they choose. | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself.
You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him.
I don't mean personally towards you. I'm talking in general. If two parties have been messaging and got to the stage of swapping pics it's very ignorant not to even reply after receiving their pic.
Yes i see your point but theres folk out there who dont reply and a block is the easier way out for them. Its like recieving winks and friend requests...some winks are returned,others not, friend requests are accepted,others are not. Its the chance thats taken sending the facepic and wondering will the other person like me or run for the hills. Its a game of chance and nothing more.
Not if you have being conversing with the other party....then it deserves an answer out of common decency and good manners. These are really missing on this site by alot of people and especially well verified females who feel they can treat people as they choose. "Nobody owes anyone anything by conversing though. Thats like assuming a meet is on the cards from a few mails which isnt the case. I understand that the ladies could pull their manners into check and use some reverse psychology and see for themselves how it feels but i doubt thats gonna happen anytime soon. | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself.
You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him.
I don't mean personally towards you. I'm talking in general. If two parties have been messaging and got to the stage of swapping pics it's very ignorant not to even reply after receiving their pic.
Yes i see your point but theres folk out there who dont reply and a block is the easier way out for them. Its like recieving winks and friend requests...some winks are returned,others not, friend requests are accepted,others are not. Its the chance thats taken sending the facepic and wondering will the other person like me or run for the hills. Its a game of chance and nothing more.
Not if you have being conversing with the other party....then it deserves an answer out of common decency and good manners. These are really missing on this site by alot of people and especially well verified females who feel they can treat people as they choose.
Nobody owes anyone anything by conversing though. Thats like assuming a meet is on the cards from a few mails which isnt the case. I understand that the ladies could pull their manners into check and use some reverse psychology and see for themselves how it feels but i doubt thats gonna happen anytime soon. "I agree with you about the "ladies" not changing their ways. But this is supposed to be all about having fun for everybody and bad manners is never fun and totally unnecessary. I don't take this place too seriously but can easily see how some men would get frustrated. | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself.
You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him.
I don't mean personally towards you. I'm talking in general. If two parties have been messaging and got to the stage of swapping pics it's very ignorant not to even reply after receiving their pic.
Yes i see your point but theres folk out there who dont reply and a block is the easier way out for them. Its like recieving winks and friend requests...some winks are returned,others not, friend requests are accepted,others are not. Its the chance thats taken sending the facepic and wondering will the other person like me or run for the hills. Its a game of chance and nothing more.
Not if you have being conversing with the other party....then it deserves an answer out of common decency and good manners. These are really missing on this site by alot of people and especially well verified females who feel they can treat people as they choose.
Nobody owes anyone anything by conversing though. Thats like assuming a meet is on the cards from a few mails which isnt the case. I understand that the ladies could pull their manners into check and use some reverse psychology and see for themselves how it feels but i doubt thats gonna happen anytime soon.
I agree with you about the "ladies" not changing their ways. But this is supposed to be all about having fun for everybody and bad manners is never fun and totally unnecessary. I don't take this place too seriously but can easily see how some men would get frustrated. "Theres loads of bad mannered and rude people in the real world too... if i come across them, id avoid them or "blank" them. The same goes on here im afraid, its called blocking instead of blanking though | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself.
You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him.
I don't mean personally towards you. I'm talking in general. If two parties have been messaging and got to the stage of swapping pics it's very ignorant not to even reply after receiving their pic.
Yes i see your point but theres folk out there who dont reply and a block is the easier way out for them. Its like recieving winks and friend requests...some winks are returned,others not, friend requests are accepted,others are not. Its the chance thats taken sending the facepic and wondering will the other person like me or run for the hills. Its a game of chance and nothing more.
Not if you have being conversing with the other party....then it deserves an answer out of common decency and good manners. These are really missing on this site by alot of people and especially well verified females who feel they can treat people as they choose.
Nobody owes anyone anything by conversing though. Thats like assuming a meet is on the cards from a few mails which isnt the case. I understand that the ladies could pull their manners into check and use some reverse psychology and see for themselves how it feels but i doubt thats gonna happen anytime soon.
I agree with you about the "ladies" not changing their ways. But this is supposed to be all about having fun for everybody and bad manners is never fun and totally unnecessary. I don't take this place too seriously but can easily see how some men would get frustrated.
Theres loads of bad mannered and rude people in the real world too... if i come across them, id avoid them or "blank" them. The same goes on here im afraid, its called blocking instead of blanking though"That's not the point. As the OP said...Why do females ASK for a pic and then block or not reply. | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself.
You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him.
I don't mean personally towards you. I'm talking in general. If two parties have been messaging and got to the stage of swapping pics it's very ignorant not to even reply after receiving their pic.
Yes i see your point but theres folk out there who dont reply and a block is the easier way out for them. Its like recieving winks and friend requests...some winks are returned,others not, friend requests are accepted,others are not. Its the chance thats taken sending the facepic and wondering will the other person like me or run for the hills. Its a game of chance and nothing more.
Not if you have being conversing with the other party....then it deserves an answer out of common decency and good manners. These are really missing on this site by alot of people and especially well verified females who feel they can treat people as they choose.
Nobody owes anyone anything by conversing though. Thats like assuming a meet is on the cards from a few mails which isnt the case. I understand that the ladies could pull their manners into check and use some reverse psychology and see for themselves how it feels but i doubt thats gonna happen anytime soon.
I agree with you about the "ladies" not changing their ways. But this is supposed to be all about having fun for everybody and bad manners is never fun and totally unnecessary. I don't take this place too seriously but can easily see how some men would get frustrated.
Theres loads of bad mannered and rude people in the real world too... if i come across them, id avoid them or "blank" them. The same goes on here im afraid, its called blocking instead of blanking though
That's not the point. As the OP said...Why do females ASK for a pic and then block or not reply."Ha ha and i answered him... to see would she be attracted to him. She decided she didnt fancy him so she blocked him. Theres no other reason why other than that. Harsh as it sounds but the boat wasnt floating when she saw him.. | |||
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself.
You might have misunderstood me, i said id not engage with people im not attracted to in private. Ive very few on my block list and i dont block if im not attracted to someone either,ive plenty of friends here that i dont find sexually attractive but that wouldnt stop me from being friendly towards them.The general consensus here is no reply means no interest. In the Ops case, I can only think the reason he was blocked is because the other party wasnt attracted to him.
I don't mean personally towards you. I'm talking in general. If two parties have been messaging and got to the stage of swapping pics it's very ignorant not to even reply after receiving their pic.
Yes i see your point but theres folk out there who dont reply and a block is the easier way out for them. Its like recieving winks and friend requests...some winks are returned,others not, friend requests are accepted,others are not. Its the chance thats taken sending the facepic and wondering will the other person like me or run for the hills. Its a game of chance and nothing more.
Not if you have being conversing with the other party....then it deserves an answer out of common decency and good manners. These are really missing on this site by alot of people and especially well verified females who feel they can treat people as they choose.
Nobody owes anyone anything by conversing though. Thats like assuming a meet is on the cards from a few mails which isnt the case. I understand that the ladies could pull their manners into check and use some reverse psychology and see for themselves how it feels but i doubt thats gonna happen anytime soon.
I agree with you about the "ladies" not changing their ways. But this is supposed to be all about having fun for everybody and bad manners is never fun and totally unnecessary. I don't take this place too seriously but can easily see how some men would get frustrated.
Theres loads of bad mannered and rude people in the real world too... if i come across them, id avoid them or "blank" them. The same goes on here im afraid, its called blocking instead of blanking though
That's not the point. As the OP said...Why do females ASK for a pic and then block or not reply.
Ha ha and i answered him... to see would she be attracted to him. She decided she didnt fancy him so she blocked him. Theres no other reason why other than that. Harsh as it sounds but the boat wasnt floating when she saw him.."Yes and blocking/ not replying is down to ignorance. When she ASKED for the pic and he had the manners to send one then she should have the manners to reply and not treat people like that. | |||
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yes she asked for the pic..yes she decided she didnt fancy him,yes it was rude of her to not reply with no thanks.yes she blocked him, why? She didnt want what she saw. And thats the bottom line of it.  | |||
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"Goodness me Marco youre hard bloody work yes she asked for the pic..yes she decided she didnt fancy him,yes it was rude of her to not reply with no thanks.yes she blocked him, why? She didnt want what she saw. And thats the bottom line of it. " Yes I am hard work because I don't like people that behave that way and others here that condone it too. As you previously said some "ladies" here need to change their ways but won't. And they're the ones that give off about men's behaviour. Most of it stems from this type of ignorance. | |||
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"Goodness me Marco youre hard bloody work yes she asked for the pic..yes she decided she didnt fancy him,yes it was rude of her to not reply with no thanks.yes she blocked him, why? She didnt want what she saw. And thats the bottom line of it.
Yes I am hard work because I don't like people that behave that way and others here that condone it too. As you previously said some "ladies" here need to change their ways but won't. And they're the ones that give off about men's behaviour. Most of it stems from this type of ignorance."Any suggestions how to fix the problem? | |||
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"Goodness me Marco youre hard bloody work yes she asked for the pic..yes she decided she didnt fancy him,yes it was rude of her to not reply with no thanks.yes she blocked him, why? She didnt want what she saw. And thats the bottom line of it.
Yes I am hard work because I don't like people that behave that way and others here that condone it too. As you previously said some "ladies" here need to change their ways but won't. And they're the ones that give off about men's behaviour. Most of it stems from this type of ignorance.
Any suggestions how to fix the problem?"Try a magic wand or seeing as the election is coming up ask the local candidate can he/she get it sorted | |||
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"Goodness me Marco youre hard bloody work yes she asked for the pic..yes she decided she didnt fancy him,yes it was rude of her to not reply with no thanks.yes she blocked him, why? She didnt want what she saw. And thats the bottom line of it.
Yes I am hard work because I don't like people that behave that way and others here that condone it too. As you previously said some "ladies" here need to change their ways but won't. And they're the ones that give off about men's behaviour. Most of it stems from this type of ignorance.
Any suggestions how to fix the problem?
Try a magic wand or seeing as the election is coming up ask the local candidate can he/she get it sorted "Both are mythical and unlikely to happen . Ill leave you to ponder further answers to this question. It was a pleasure however, conversing with you tonight. The sleeping fairy is on her way to close my eyes. Goodnight x | |||
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"Goodness me Marco youre hard bloody work yes she asked for the pic..yes she decided she didnt fancy him,yes it was rude of her to not reply with no thanks.yes she blocked him, why? She didnt want what she saw. And thats the bottom line of it.
Yes I am hard work because I don't like people that behave that way and others here that condone it too. As you previously said some "ladies" here need to change their ways but won't. And they're the ones that give off about men's behaviour. Most of it stems from this type of ignorance.
Any suggestions how to fix the problem?
Try a magic wand or seeing as the election is coming up ask the local candidate can he/she get it sorted
Both are mythical and unlikely to happen . Ill leave you to ponder further answers to this question. It was a pleasure however, conversing with you tonight. The sleeping fairy is on her way to close my eyes. Goodnight x"I will do some investigating into this matter and get back to you with my findings
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"Goodness me Marco youre hard bloody work yes she asked for the pic..yes she decided she didnt fancy him,yes it was rude of her to not reply with no thanks.yes she blocked him, why? She didnt want what she saw. And thats the bottom line of it.
Yes I am hard work because I don't like people that behave that way and others here that condone it too. As you previously said some "ladies" here need to change their ways but won't. And they're the ones that give off about men's behaviour. Most of it stems from this type of ignorance.
Any suggestions how to fix the problem?"i thought it would have been obvious really Lady asks for picture Man sends requested picture Lady see's picture and decides he's not for her Solution : Lady responds to picture with a "not for me type reply" THe Man is happy he had a conversation with the lady in question and she decided she isn't attracted to him as stated in the reply . Both parties move on Holding a conversation and requesting a pic then blocking without a reply of any sort is plain and simply Ignornace | |||
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"Goodness me Marco youre hard bloody work yes she asked for the pic..yes she decided she didnt fancy him,yes it was rude of her to not reply with no thanks.yes she blocked him, why? She didnt want what she saw. And thats the bottom line of it.
Yes I am hard work because I don't like people that behave that way and others here that condone it too. As you previously said some "ladies" here need to change their ways but won't. And they're the ones that give off about men's behaviour. Most of it stems from this type of ignorance.
Any suggestions how to fix the problem?i thought it would have been obvious really
Lady asks for picture
Man sends requested picture
Lady see's picture and decides he's not for her
Solution : Lady responds to picture with a "not for me type reply"
THe Man is happy he had a conversation with the lady in question and she decided she isn't attracted to him as stated in the reply . Both parties move on
Holding a conversation and requesting a pic then blocking without a reply of any sort is plain and simply Ignornace"No shit sherlock!  so how is the problem fixed may i ask? My question was directed to the guy i was chatting to.  The ignorance part was worked out earlier on in the thread. Id like to hear your solution to the problem when youre ready. | |||
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"Why do females ask for photos then block when get them..bit rude" There are plenty of "women" here who look for photos.... then the guy blocks the sender!! | |||
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"If people (yes people) were mature enough not to get offended by rejection then this wouldn't be a problem. So, those of you who are reading this, lets be the change we want to see in the world. If you get a pic and you're not into them, reply telling them you're not interested. if you get a reply with abuse, then block away. if you send a pic and get rejected, be fucking mature about it and don't give abuse. The first step is breaking the cycle. " Perfect Mingo... CHANGE is whats needed from everyone,males,females and couples included.Lets see do these threads peeter out over time to become non- existent cos everyone has made an effort. | |||
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"It was said already in the thread..The world is full of people with different views on what's rude and what's not..This place is no different as you are dealing with other people...I've learnt the hard way to be thick skinned and move on , cause in real life they wouldn't be people I'd like to interact with anyway " | |||
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"Fair enough if someone don't like you but it's rude to block people after receiving a picture " I don't think it's rude at all I think they done you a favour in blocking you or anyone else as if they aren't interested why let it get to you when there is plenty on the site that would be interested in you. | |||
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"The annoyance only comes when you've been chatting, getting on well, having the banter and everything is going brilliant and because you haven't seen if your attracted physically at the start both are a bit let down if the picture isn't what you hoped for. Nobody then knows how to deal with it because both know it's purely rejection based on looks. Nothing else and it's hurtful anyway so blocking probably adds to the hurt. There's no real solution bar people are up front from the start I hate sharing my face pic with strangers but it stops a lot of messing later. " nail on the head and probably my biggest fear !!! Thankfully face pics haven't seen a rejection yet !! But it's bound to happen on a site where women can pick from the cream of the crop !!! Just have to deal with it and try not let it bother you | |||
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"The annoyance only comes when you've been chatting, getting on well, having the banter and everything is going brilliant and because you haven't seen if your attracted physically at the start both are a bit let down if the picture isn't what you hoped for. Nobody then knows how to deal with it because both know it's purely rejection based on looks. Nothing else and it's hurtful anyway so blocking probably adds to the hurt. There's no real solution bar people are up front from the start I hate sharing my face pic with strangers but it stops a lot of messing later. " well said | |||
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"op, that's life on here, just move on, next time you are asked for a picture, ask then to send first. equality is a two-way street," them, lol, | |||
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"Lot politer just to say sorry not for me" Some guys just see that as an opening to sending endless mails. Just take it on the chin and move on. | |||
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"op, that's life on here, just move on, next time you are asked for a picture, ask then to send first. equality is a two-way street," Yip i agree. Pointless wondering about these things. Who knows why individuals act as they do. | |||
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"As unbelievable as it may sound this also happened to the Manbeast recently!! A couple courted yours truly for a day, requested access to Kaizer's friends pics and such was the intensity of the beauty that they saw that they immediately blocked Their loss, Kaizers gain "It must be terrible being so godly good looking that it intimidates the mere mortals. Such a burden. Life is difficult.  | |||
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"As unbelievable as it may sound this also happened to the Manbeast recently!! A couple courted yours truly for a day, requested access to Kaizer's friends pics and such was the intensity of the beauty that they saw that they immediately blocked Their loss, Kaizers gain It must be terrible being so godly good looking that it intimidates the mere mortals. Such a burden. Life is difficult.
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"Ye can call me ignorant so... cos if im not attracted to someone i wont engage with them in private. Theres a huge issue here when ladies respond with a no thanks reply they recieve further mails asking why whats wrong, prolonging a conversation thats going nowhere.A few will say ok no problem but you can blame the pushy of the male species for not accepting the no thanks reply. If all guys had the "next please" attitude, no man would complain. If they don't accept the no thanks message then block them. But not replying is extremely ignorant and show's total disregard for the person who you asked for a pic. Treat others the way you like to be treated yourself. " | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them" Ah are you for real???  what does " any oul thing" mean?? Youve a cheek saying that honest to God.The same could be said for any oul fella here,the pervy twisted kind. Youre very unfair towards the women on this site i have to say and for someone who has met you id argue with people in your favour!. Go the chemist and get some vitamin b 12...they improve mood. Stop being an angry asshole..it doesnt suit you  | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them" fooking hell your a little ray of sunshine aint ya. Who pissed in your cornflakes. | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them" Did someone turn you down? | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them Did someone turn you down? " Wasn't me | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them" Now that's what I call a rant | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them Now that's what I call a rant "Not at all...just offering a solution to the desperate men out there who continually moan about this | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them Now that's what I call a rant
Not at all...just offering a solution to the desperate men out there who continually moan about this"My advice to these whiners is always the same. Go to the kitchen, open the press, get a glass and pour yourself a big measure of Man The Fuck Up | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them Now that's what I call a rant
Not at all...just offering a solution to the desperate men out there who continually moan about this
My advice to these whiners is always the same. Go to the kitchen, open the press, get a glass and pour yourself a big measure of Man The Fuck Up"I think my solution is more practical | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them Now that's what I call a rant
Not at all...just offering a solution to the desperate men out there who continually moan about this
My advice to these whiners is always the same. Go to the kitchen, open the press, get a glass and pour yourself a big measure of Man The Fuck Up
I think my solution is more practical"I reckon the cycle will go on and on with picky women..i dont fucking blame them either B if youre an example of a man. A very poor one at that | |||
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"Look men, theres a simple solution to this. If ye all werent so fucking desperate and messaging any ol thing on here that looked like the back of a bus and showering her with ridiculous praise about how 'stunning' she is, then these women wouldnt develop this superiority complex yer all alluding to. If ye all decided just to be a bit more picky and discerning then maybe it wouldnt keep happening. Believe me, their attitude would change if the supply of cock suddenly started to dry up for them Now that's what I call a rant
Forget about woman. Get a big pile of earth worms. It's the latest craze !
Not at all...just offering a solution to the desperate men out there who continually moan about this
My advice to these whiners is always the same. Go to the kitchen, open the press, get a glass and pour yourself a big measure of Man The Fuck Up
I think my solution is more practical" | |||
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"This whole problem of women misbehaving and they are in large numbers ,is simply down the ratio of 30 /1 or there abouts , This is only one example their misbehaviour . Due to this imbalance they feel they can simply do what they want without impunity, and you know what? they can , so for as long as they can they will continue to do so.This has happened to me many times, and worse still on more than one occasion the woman agreed to swap pics , then blocked or simply refused to carry out their 50% of the bargain.One solution to this might be from the website itself . If you could only swap face pics , not send one way, so both people put their face pics up for swapping and when they are in the system both get a face pic in return , if their is a problem with the face pic, like its of a dog or a cat . then a simple report to admin, they get warned , they do it again they get UNLOS.problem solved" Ok So what happens for example if it's your sister or cousin or neighbour and you've no way out of the swap?? And I'm actually feeling quite intimidated by your tone of argument. | |||
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"I give up , beam me up scotty, Im intimidating people here, quick beam me up" Just worrying when being called a mis behaiving women I'm not a child lol it's an adult site. | |||
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"I give up , beam me up scotty, Im intimidating people here, quick beam me up Just worrying when being called a mis behaiving women I'm not a child lol it's an adult site. " So do you think his idea is a good one or not? | |||
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"I give up , beam me up scotty, Im intimidating people here, quick beam me up Just worrying when being called a mis behaiving women I'm not a child lol it's an adult site. So do you think his idea is a good one or not?" I think it would land a lot of married men in trouble and discretion would be out the window. But if two agree and there's an option to have the site fascilitate a swap it might save some drama. Just dangerous in some circumstances. Still could use fake pics | |||
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"how many types of being rude do I have go into, the men don't have all the awards for it here on this site and yes Kim is right its not only a woman thing . It would be quite uncomfortable to swap pics with youre cousin or youre boss.But the fact remains certain types of misbehaviour is common to only one gender or the other, ie the sin of sending unwarrented cock pics well its obviously a man thing , and yes its yucky.But so is a lot of other female misbehaviour and that is what I think the OP wants to talk about .Ohh thanks for the kiss earlier in the pint kiss or thingy thread , just for that now Im having a pint please , before scotty beams me up." I'll buy ya the pint stop using the misbehaviour term please it's like being back in school | |||
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"OK I will try, but Id say you like going to St Trinians doo's all the same and you'd misbehave at them lol and there might be a bit of spanking and the odd cane about , to put corrections on youse naughty girls, lol" Wrong again I'm the one doing the correcting just remember everyone is different here | |||
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"The annoyance only comes when you've been chatting, getting on well, having the banter and everything is going brilliant and because you haven't seen if your attracted physically at the start both are a bit let down if the picture isn't what you hoped for. Nobody then knows how to deal with it because both know it's purely rejection based on looks. Nothing else and it's hurtful anyway so blocking probably adds to the hurt. There's no real solution bar people are up front from the start I hate sharing my face pic with strangers but it stops a lot of messing later. " Have to agree.and it is awkward if that happens but best to simply say tactfully that you're not interested. ..personally I prefer to meet for a coffee and see if they're is chemistry rather than exchanging face pics. .that way if there is. .Great. .If not, you had coffee with a like minded person ,no biggie, you may even make a friend, who knows. But guys please stop with the"women have their pick etc"...I don't know I really believe that .it gets trotted out regularly, i think it's simply a case of you reap what you sow,get out there to the m&s ,socials etc, chat in the forums and talk to someone as you would in real life....This is meant to be a fun way to meet similar minded people...not be a place to be nasty or bitchy Mrs S | |||
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"The annoyance only comes when you've been chatting, getting on well, having the banter and everything is going brilliant and because you haven't seen if your attracted physically at the start both are a bit let down if the picture isn't what you hoped for. Nobody then knows how to deal with it because both know it's purely rejection based on looks. Nothing else and it's hurtful anyway so blocking probably adds to the hurt. There's no real solution bar people are up front from the start I hate sharing my face pic with strangers but it stops a lot of messing later. Have to agree.and it is awkward if that happens but best to simply say tactfully that you're not interested. ..personally I prefer to meet for a coffee and see if they're is chemistry rather than exchanging face pics. .that way if there is. .Great. .If not, you had coffee with a like minded person ,no biggie, you may even make a friend, who knows. But guys please stop with the"women have their pick etc"...I don't know I really believe that .it gets trotted out regularly, i think it's simply a case of you reap what you sow,get out there to the m&s ,socials etc, chat in the forums and talk to someone as you would in real life....This is meant to be a fun way to meet similar minded people...not be a place to be nasty or bitchy Mrs S" Same. I never ask for face pics, I dont have any on this site either. I will be as picky as i damned well please and I will take as long as I need to chat to a guy before deciding to meet him for a coffee. Dodged a bullet with a certain guy on this thread. The attitude he has towards women is just mind boggling. | |||
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"The annoyance only comes when you've been chatting, getting on well, having the banter and everything is going brilliant and because you haven't seen if your attracted physically at the start both are a bit let down if the picture isn't what you hoped for. Nobody then knows how to deal with it because both know it's purely rejection based on looks. Nothing else and it's hurtful anyway so blocking probably adds to the hurt. There's no real solution bar people are up front from the start I hate sharing my face pic with strangers but it stops a lot of messing later. Have to agree.and it is awkward if that happens but best to simply say tactfully that you're not interested. ..personally I prefer to meet for a coffee and see if they're is chemistry rather than exchanging face pics. .that way if there is. .Great. .If not, you had coffee with a like minded person ,no biggie, you may even make a friend, who knows. But guys please stop with the"women have their pick etc"...I don't know I really believe that .it gets trotted out regularly, i think it's simply a case of you reap what you sow,get out there to the m&s ,socials etc, chat in the forums and talk to someone as you would in real life....This is meant to be a fun way to meet similar minded people...not be a place to be nasty or bitchy Mrs S Same. I never ask for face pics, I dont have any on this site either. I will be as picky as i damned well please and I will take as long as I need to chat to a guy before deciding to meet him for a coffee. Dodged a bullet with a certain guy on this thread. The attitude he has towards women is just mind boggling. " I only said in the "Good in bed, what does it for you" thread, that I like my women "submissive and slutty" And boy, do I. | |||
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"Why do females ask for photos then block when get them..bit rude" It's because they don't fancy you, and they are embarrassed to say. Blocking is easier. | |||
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