FabSwingers.com forum: wasting my time?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I wasting my time being here, should I leave here as I'm getting no meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I wasting my time being here, should I leave here as I'm getting no meets?"

It takes time , don't leave .. Just send out messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I send loads of mails to couples and single ladies and they just get deleted. It's so enoying.

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

Well...if the first contact mail just contains, Hi, how r ye today, or any explicit offer and your submitted intro pic is an image of your dingdong. ..I suppose you may rework your approach. Also many ladies and couples make first acquaintance at social gatherings of the community where they preselected the fish they want to catch...public whinging will not help...just ssying

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

When the world gives you lemons, make lemonade!! I'm not sure what point I'm trying to make here but I think it's great advice!

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

"When the world gives you lemons, make lemonade!! I'm not sure what point I'm trying to make here but I think it's great advice!

...or make pancakes!!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

dont you have a cpls profile with some woman ? thats more than most guys have.

so either stay or leave just dont whinge about it. moaning threads rarely get you a sympathy meet and your constant promotion of a adult cinema hasn't helped your cause either.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"When the world gives you lemons, make lemonade!! I'm not sure what point I'm trying to make here but I think it's great advice!

...or make pancakes!!

or lemon sorbet

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

putting up profiles that maybe the other party in the couples profiles know nothing about does you no favours .. you are you multiple profiles

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

Hanging out with ladies you clearly shouldnt doesnt bode well

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Hanging out with ladies you clearly shouldnt doesnt bode well"

agree with you there bill .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hanging out with ladies you clearly shouldnt doesnt bode well

agree with you there bill . "

Ya whaaaa?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hanging out with ladies you clearly shouldnt doesnt bode well"

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Hanging out with ladies you clearly shouldnt doesnt bode well"

Too bloody right Bill.... utterly shameful....

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Just take a few moments to think about what messages you send and better to have 1 profile and not 3 or 4 . Plus if you leave here the cinema wont be getting free advertisement lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not expert but lots of "ding dongs" pics come accompanied with a Sky remote controls.. I guess ladies like "ding dongs" and Sky tv

Do you have Sky Tv??

I am getting in at the weekend ladies

Come and see me about Sky Tv and nice unhurried massages

I am also thinking of starting a business selling 3" fully functioning Sky Remotes to enhance the size of "ding dongs".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the original question, I'd say you probably are wasting your time yes.

Your profile is kinda infamous at this stage.

If you want to join again then..

1) Take more flattering pics

2) Don't spam about the porn cinema

3) Make sure you actually know the person you share a couples profile with

4) Make sure none can connect your new profile with this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spell words right god pet hate,dick pics get boring u need effort in your profile if u want to be notice

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I really hope no more profiles appear in the near future like a recent one .... public pics displayed with a lady that really should not of been on a site like this....

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"putting up profiles that maybe the other party in the couples profiles know nothing about does you no favours .. you are you multiple profiles "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not your time you're wasting, it's ours.

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I really hope no more profiles appear in the near future like a recent one .... public pics displayed with a lady that really should not of been on a site like this.... "

Would that be the younger lady? The older lady didn't seem to know too much about it either.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I really hope no more profiles appear in the near future like a recent one .... public pics displayed with a lady that really should not of been on a site like this....

Would that be the younger lady? The older lady didn't seem to know too much about it either."

Yes and Im thinking he's taking these pics for intimate viewing only and the ladies are totally unaware hes doing this. Despicable thing to do especially as the younger lady has special needs. I mailed the profile with the younger lady involved and reported the same to admin.

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I really hope no more profiles appear in the near future like a recent one .... public pics displayed with a lady that really should not of been on a site like this....

Would that be the younger lady? The older lady didn't seem to know too much about it either.

Good for you. I blocked and reported that profile too. Clearly she wasn't aware or in a position to agree to be on a site like this.

I've a special needs sister and if any fucker took advantage of her like that the block button would be the least of their worries.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I really hope no more profiles appear in the near future like a recent one .... public pics displayed with a lady that really should not of been on a site like this....

Would that be the younger lady? The older lady didn't seem to know too much about it either.

Good for you. I blocked and reported that profile too. Clearly she wasn't aware or in a position to agree to be on a site like this.

I've a special needs sister and if any fucker took advantage of her like that the block button would be the least of their worries. "

I cant take the glory in realising this,, one of my friends recognised the girl in the pic. Good for him or I myself and a few others wouldnt know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I wasting my time being here, should I leave here as I'm getting no meets?"

BYE!

Don't let the door hit ya on the arse on yer way out!!!!!

FFS!Boo hoo!!!! "Poor me threads make me sick!"

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I really hope no more profiles appear in the near future like a recent one .... public pics displayed with a lady that really should not of been on a site like this....

Would that be the younger lady? The older lady didn't seem to know too much about it either.

Good for you. I blocked and reported that profile too. Clearly she wasn't aware or in a position to agree to be on a site like this.

I've a special needs sister and if any fucker took advantage of her like that the block button would be the least of their worries. "
I have a special needs daughter which is why I felt so angry over this profile .... the profile I mailed id say the lady was not told of the profile as it soon went unlos

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Spell words right god pet hate,dick pics get boring u need effort in your profile if u want to be notice "

Spell words right. God, pet hate. Dick pics get boring. You need effort in your profile if you want to be noticed.

People in glass houses eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go..your great crack..do you honestly think anyone gives a shite if you stay or go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't go..your great crack..do you honestly think anyone gives a shite if you stay or go..."

I'd be Deva

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked and reported cannot stand people who are such repulsive little men!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Don't go..your great crack..do you honestly think anyone gives a shite if you stay or go..."
I actually hope he goes and stops setting up profiles with either people that have special needs or not.... it seems most are not aware theses pictures are being being used.

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton

"I really hope no more profiles appear in the near future like a recent one .... public pics displayed with a lady that really should not of been on a site like this....

Would that be the younger lady? The older lady didn't seem to know too much about it either.

Good for you. I blocked and reported that profile too. Clearly she wasn't aware or in a position to agree to be on a site like this.

I've a special needs sister and if any fucker took advantage of her like that the block button would be the least of their worries. I have a special needs daughter which is why I felt so angry over this profile .... the profile I mailed id say the lady was not told of the profile as it soon went unlos"

Total disgrace. I've had messages from the guy offering me the older lady if he could watch. Obviously did not come to anything. Guy should be kicked off the site. BTW does he have anything to do with the cinema he keeps trying to promote?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't go..your great crack..do you honestly think anyone gives a shite if you stay or go... I actually hope he goes and stops setting up profiles with either people that have special needs or not.... it seems most are not aware theses pictures are being being used. "

Sick and twisted!!!

What CONSENTING adult who are in the whole health of their mind do as long as nobody gets hurt is ok!! But when the vunerable are taken advantage of it's TOTALLY WRONG AND TWISTED!!!!

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton

Sick and twisted!!!

What CONSENTING adult who are in the whole health of their mind do as long as nobody gets hurt is ok!! But when the vunerable are taken advantage of it's TOTALLY WRONG AND TWISTED!!!! "

With you there Wobbler

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

Many people would judge the actions here on this site immoral. But i think we have a social and moral obligation to protect the more vunerable members of our society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its true what people are saying bout this profile, should be reported to the Garda. no place in any society for people like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus this is disturbing. And so wrong. As a mother to a child with special needs this makes me sick to my stomach. Shameful

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By *he JiggliesCouple
over a year ago

Athlone

"if its true what people are saying bout this profile, should be reported to the Garda. no place in any society for people like this."

We 2nd that, Wat absolutely sick disgusting behaviour. He should be banned for life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is on other sites too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not expert but lots of "ding dongs" pics come accompanied with a Sky remote controls.. I guess ladies like "ding dongs" and Sky tv

Do you have Sky Tv??

I am getting in at the weekend ladies

Come and see me about Sky Tv and nice unhurried massages

I am also thinking of starting a business selling 3" fully functioning Sky Remotes to enhance the size of "ding dongs".

Pmsl

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"if its true what people are saying bout this profile, should be reported to the Garda. no place in any society for people like this."

for once I don't know what's going on I knew he had a cpls profile with an older lady and she was offering him to women and cpls ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes your wasting your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it the OP who has the dodgy profiles?

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

You wont be missed pocket rocket hopefully karma comes around and gets you soon enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spell words right god pet hate,dick pics get boring u need effort in your profile if u want to be notice

Spell words right. God, pet hate. Dick pics get boring. You need effort in your profile if you want to be noticed.

Lol ok you got me there

People in glass houses eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol bet he's sorry he started this tread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many profiles has this guy got

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Hi lushes he had 4 at one stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi lushes he had 4 at one stage

I thought that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uggg wtf am I seeing about pics with a girl with special needs. !!!! I feel like messaging him to get his number etc just so I can pass it on to the Garda !!! Bloody hell , that kind of thing gives this site a bad name !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who works with "special needs"(hate that term btw) and runs courses with families about this exact topic the bottom line is for anyone who is "mentally impaired" or does not have the capacity to understand sexual activity, then it is illegal for them to have sex.

It does happen and no one has been convicted of any such offence in Ireland as of yet.

The op on the other hand does not seem to have an intellectual disability and has the ability to know what is right and what is wrong. What he did/doing is illegal and should be reported to the guards. The recent case of the girl with Down's syndrome who was raped in Dublin while out walking with her mam.

The attackers defence was "I didn't know she had downs syndrom"

Didn't wash with the courts and he got jail.

ANY sexual activity, be it pictures or penetration between the op and the girl in question is illegal.

Just my tuppence worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Uggg wtf am I seeing about pics with a girl with special needs. !!!! I feel like messaging him to get his number etc just so I can pass it on to the Garda !!! Bloody hell , that kind of thing gives this site a bad name ! "
whats the profile name ??

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only see 2 pics of his tiny cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only see 2 pics of his tiny cock "

Count yourself lucky so!

No one wants to see any vulnerable adult been taken advantage of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hes disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly youre not correct about nobody being convicted of such a crime, in this state I personally know of a man , I once knew who perpertrated such a heinous crime ,Im ashamed to say I even knew him.But he did the crime and he didn't do much time 3yrs I think.So Im pretty sure that precedent has been set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly youre not correct about nobody being convicted of such a crime, in this state I personally know of a man , I once knew who perpertrated such a heinous crime ,Im ashamed to say I even knew him.But he did the crime and he didn't do much time 3yrs I think.So Im pretty sure that precedent has been set. "

Think you misunderstood me

Nobody with an intellectual disability has been convicted of having sex with another person with an I.D

However

If you're of sound mind and can make informed decisions (do not have an I.D) and you have any sexual relationship with some who does have an I.D then you are breaking the law.

Like I said

The Indian guy who attacked the girl with down syndrome was convicted

He was of sound mind, she wasn't

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

As a man working with Special Needs kids, and as a father of a son with Downs, I am sickened to the pit of my stomach with what appears to happened earlier. This fooker is a menace to society and should be locked up ...

It would seem that admin will find it difficult to get rid of him with him having multiple accounts .. Even at that, he'll just set up another one.

He's shown his face many a time on here... He should hope I don't run into him some day ...

Please ladies be vigilant... Not that any of u would touch him with a barge pole ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a man working with Special Needs kids, and as a father of a son with Downs, I am sickened to the pit of my stomach with what appears to happened earlier. This fooker is a menace to society and should be locked up ...

It would seem that admin will find it difficult to get rid of him with him having multiple accounts .. Even at that, he'll just set up another one.

He's shown his face many a time on here... He should hope I don't run into him some day ...

Please ladies be vigilant... Not that any of u would touch him with a barge pole ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play , I did misunderstand you, Im sorry , In the case I know he did have full intellectual ability (the attacker), his victim didn't have either full intellectual ability or mobility, can I stop now .Im not feeling well.But I concur with youre points made.

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