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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all

As some of you already know I'm a single full-time dad. Iv had my son Sunday to Friday going to creche then preschool for 3 and

A half years. Now all of a sudden his mother wants him to go to school in another town

If there is any legal people out there that can give me advice or tell me what rights I have I'd be greatful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See a solicitor

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

If u have him full time I'd be telling her to fuck off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She is the child's mother iv been told mothersg et their way

80% of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have him full time then you decide. You shouldn't be made change by a judge (if it came to that). Is she wanting to take custody

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are yous saying legally iv the right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are yous saying legally iv the right ?"

Seriously chief, are you really asking that question on a swingers site? Come on man, use your head, contact a solicitor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See a solicitor"

Best advice lad. But you do have rights. But see a solicitor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u have him full time I'd be telling her to fuck off "

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

if you have court ordered custody then id say its your decision if you have joint custody then she has a say too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not 100% maybe 95% sure but yeah. If you had your son for the 3 years full time it will be hard for her to decide on his schooling.

I'm 95% sure you would be grand.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Go to the family law courts in dolphin house in dublin 2 and ask to speak to someone. Theyre very helpful and will advise you what the best route is to take.Sounds to me like shes suiting herself and not whats best for your son. Best of luck Op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u have him full time I'd be telling her to fuck off "

Which is exactly what her solicitor wants you to do.

There are so many factors, you married? You on the birth cert?

Get to a solicitor and don't seek advice from someone who doesn't have a legal obligation to advise you

You should close this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have legal guardianship or were married to the mother of your child , then you have a lot of rights and are considered equal to the mother in the eyes of the law . If you don't have guardianship then the mother more or less has all the rights . But. , and this is a big but , if you have been the child's main caretaker and have done nothing wrong as such , I can't see why a judge would give her custody. . But yes you need to see a good Soliciter , and if you go to Soliciter who doesn't support you 100% find another one . I had a very bad experience with a crap Soliciter who seemed to take my exs side over mine !!! Thankfully I'm not backward about coming forward and told the judge what was really going on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See a solicitor pal they are the only people that can advise you 100% correctly on this

Best of luck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u have him full time I'd be telling her to fuck off

Which is exactly what her solicitor wants you to do.

There are so many factors, you married? You on the birth cert?

Get to a solicitor and don't seek advice from someone who doesn't have a legal obligation to advise you

You should close this thread

Why should he close the thread? Everyone asks for advice on a variety of subjects, and are entitled to, sometimes people know what to do but are just sounding off, scared perhaps like this man maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Citizens advice centres can put you in touch with solicitors

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"If you have legal guardianship or were married to the mother of your child , then you have a lot of rights and are considered equal to the mother in the eyes of the law . If you don't have guardianship then the mother more or less has all the rights . But. , and this is a big but , if you have been the child's main caretaker and have done nothing wrong as such , I can't see why a judge would give her custody. . But yes you need to see a good Soliciter , and if you go to Soliciter who doesn't support you 100% find another one . I had a very bad experience with a crap Soliciter who seemed to take my exs side over mine !!! Thankfully I'm not backward about coming forward and told the judge what was really going on . "

Custody? Nothing was mentioned about her going for custody?

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