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By *ocvix17 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nutbushcitylimits

Right guys - we had a situation on Kik today were the people we were in cominication with knew us through mutual vinalla friends

We have had this happen before and we both revelled who we were and had good giggle and have continued to swing with trust we both won't spill the beans.

But today's couple split once they saw our pic and never revealed themselves

And blocked us on both fab and kick wtf ! We are not happy campers - or are we overreacting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. They want their privacy so best to respect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your overreacting, so what if they blocked you at least they wont waste your time again and its not like they could tell people that they saw you on a swingers site as people will know that they where also on swingers sites ,, look at the positives not the negatives

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

If they know you or not they wont say anything,they want their privacy and arent going to reveal to others that they might know you.Its a very awkward situation for swingers when they know what they believed were ordinary non swinging people...it can be awkward and not everyone is comfortable with it.

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By *ocvix17 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nutbushcitylimits

Guys - we don't know who they are the saw our pic - it's our privacy that's at risk ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they should have had the mutual respect to send back..They will now have the upper hand knowing your here and not everyone is discrete, they could say they heard such and such were swinging etc..

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By *ocvix17 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nutbushcitylimits


"I think they should have had the mutual respect to send back..They will now have the upper hand knowing your here and not everyone is discrete, they could say they heard such and such were swinging etc.."

That's exactly what we are affaid off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they should have had the mutual respect to send back..They will now have the upper hand knowing your here and not everyone is discrete, they could say they heard such and such were swinging etc..

That's exactly what we are affaid off "

Yes I can't stand that if they sent there pictures and said look let's just leave it have fun . Be much better idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people get too hung up on what society think.

It's a catch 22 situation but you're doing with your partner and not hurting anyone.

Fuck what anyone might think.

We are very discrete and wouldn't advertise that we do it but in a situation like this as long as you've got each other's back then fcuk what anyone says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aha "

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aha

My thoughts exactly "

Knowing me Kaizer Thunderkiss knowing you Ravenousmachine Aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it's unsettling

But if the face pics you shared are G rated , they really have nothing to share with anyone

If they have blocked you instantly form fab & Kik. It sounds like they are nervous about being exposed as much as you are , they could have played along with you both for awhile and gained more xrated pics before jumping out !

Have a bit of fun with people you know trying to guess who it might have been

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I think they should have had the mutual respect to send back..They will now have the upper hand knowing your here and not everyone is discrete, they could say they heard such and such were swinging etc..

That's exactly what we are affaid off "

Relax guys although right now u can't seem to, had they veris if so u can take it they want to keep their private life as private as u do. It is possible they thought to close and hit the button without thinking the reaction ye would have, they like you are here for the same reasons spreading unfounded rumors always bites back if they do u just deny it unless they are prepared to say they to are swinging I know it's nail biting time but breath and see what happen I guess nothing will

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Just sit tight and see what if anything happens next.

Am sure you will probably hear nothing as that's how things usually work around here.

It's a bit frustrating but sadly goes with the lifestyle.

Don't be stressing over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people get too hung up on what society think.

It's a catch 22 situation but you're doing with your partner and not hurting anyone.

Fuck what anyone might think.

We are very discrete and wouldn't advertise that we do it but in a situation like this as long as you've got each other's back then fcuk what anyone says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right guys - we had a situation on Kik today were the people we were in cominication with knew us through mutual vinalla friends

We have had this happen before and we both revelled who we were and had good giggle and have continued to swing with trust we both won't spill the beans.

But today's couple split once they saw our pic and never revealed themselves

And blocked us on both fab and kick wtf ! We are not happy campers - or are we overreacting ? "

Overreacting...

There could be any reason why they spilt.

Embarressd tghat they recogisedvyou, someone close to you ie a family memer, could work.with you, worried that you might spill the beanscif they are.swingers ect ect ect...

List is endless, just forget about it, not worth stressing over

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By *ortyfunMan
over a year ago

east Meath

We have come across a profile that belongs to someone very close to us

We have chosen not to say anything you them about it and avoid any interaction on here with them out of respect for them

(we recognised them from there profile pics)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they should have had the mutual respect to send back..They will now have the upper hand knowing your here and not everyone is discrete, they could say they heard such and such were swinging etc.."

Agree only right they would return a pic.

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By *appyduo09Couple
over a year ago

sligo

It'd always a problem and us being from rural Ireland it's always a big worry

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin

You're right to be very upset. It's placed you in a position where you have little or no idea as to who amongst your vanilla world knows.

It's incredibly disrespectful and damaging to the scene. They should have come clean as to who they are (mutually assured destruction if revealed) or not mentioned that they knew you and just said 'sorry, not for us'. But to put you in fear and leave you up the creek is totally abusive behaviour.

This recently happened a young fit Belfast couple on here and the personal consequences to them were huge. Not least because the other side blabbed to their family in a short period of time. Needless to say Fabs NI is now short one uber hot couple.

Sorry to hear your story, hopefully the thread will force people to think about their actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there's not much you can do about it now to be honest... I doubt they're going to come up to you in the street and say we know you're swingers and if they do..so what? They're doing the exact same thing!!

Such immoral behaviour to enjoy sex lol sure I'm going into the nuns myself next week!!!

Sit tight & try not to worry chances are nothing will come of it xx

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By *ocvix17 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nutbushcitylimits

Thanks a million for all your responses guys . You live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have come across a profile that belongs to someone very close to us

We have chosen not to say anything you them about it and avoid any interaction on here with them out of respect for them

(we recognised them from there profile pics)"

Refreshingly honest and respectful...

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We have just come across a situation where a cpl asked to meet us , they suggested we swap face pics , we did but got nothing back from them , then they mailed us saying they recognised me and they wanted discretion, and so do we ,. We mailed back and said no problem , next they mailed again saying my real name , this has freaked me out as they have seen pics and defo know of me now and we know nothing of them .

Have to say I'm well pissed off now ,they say there are from Dublin , we are in Cork

Mrs crazy

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Ask them straight up for face pic as yr are both here for the same thing Mrs ceazy

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Ask them straight up for face pic as yr are both here for the same thing Mrs ceazy"

That's what more or less what I said , we just feel very uncomfortable now as they only have 1 verification and we don't know how discreet they are, we have met people we know a few times now and never had issues, in fact it worked our great

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it's a risk you take when you send pics to someone you don't know if you know. If youre in this game long enough you will come across someone who knows you eventually. You can't control how other people will react, so you just gotta go with it and hope for the best (either that or give up and leave swinging). Its either a risk worth taking or its not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right guys - we had a situation on Kik today were the people we were in cominication with knew us through mutual vinalla friends

We have had this happen before and we both revelled who we were and had good giggle and have continued to swing with trust we both won't spill the beans.

But today's couple split once they saw our pic and never revealed themselves

And blocked us on both fab and kick wtf ! We are not happy campers - or are we overreacting ? "

Happened to us when we first joined fab. Not a nice feeling!

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