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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington

Probably not the place to vent but why would somebody message you telling you they'll pay for a meet. I may be on this site but I'm not looking for cash, if i want to meet you i will, offering money really doesn't make me want to meet you, in fact quite the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea it's happened to us. Just block and ignore

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Probably not the place to vent but why would somebody message you telling you they'll pay for a meet. I may be on this site but I'm not looking for cash, if i want to meet you i will, offering money really doesn't make me want to meet you, in fact quite the opposite "

Just the attitude some have!!

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington

They were blocked when I refused and was called a slut, kinda ironic if you go by the general term of a slut and i refused cash lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just report and block as it's against the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree some just can't accept no

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"They were blocked when I refused and was called a slut, kinda ironic if you go by the general term of a slut and i refused cash lol "

...and guys wonder why it's so difficult to get meets etc!!

Get any more just Block and Delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put up a status about it myself, it must have been the same guy.

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington

Thanks guys, sorry for the vent

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington


"Just put up a status about it myself, it must have been the same guy. "

Must be, hopefully there's only one of them, unfortunately against the rules to name and shame

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Just put up a status about it myself, it must have been the same guy.

Must be, hopefully there's only one of them, unfortunately against the rules to name and shame "

Well because of the likes of this you will probably apply filters on who can/can't contact you!!

Am sure many ladies will advice you to!

Enjoy FAB!

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington


"Just put up a status about it myself, it must have been the same guy.

Must be, hopefully there's only one of them, unfortunately against the rules to name and shame

Well because of the likes of this you will probably apply filters on who can/can't contact you!!

Am sure many ladies will advice you to!

Enjoy FAB!"

Is there a filter to block guys who are looking for escorts

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Is there a filter to block guys who are looking for escorts "

You have to pay for it!!!

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington


"

Is there a filter to block guys who are looking for escorts

You have to pay for it!!! "

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

I get the exact same thing !!!

Even though I have straight on my profile. At least 4 or 5 a week !!!

Though I haven't been called any names yet.

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington

So it's not just females that get it, u should take them up on it lol xx

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Probably not the place to vent but why would somebody message you telling you they'll pay for a meet. I may be on this site but I'm not looking for cash, if i want to meet you i will, offering money really doesn't make me want to meet you, in fact quite the opposite "

Means they can't get any... unless they pay to get some!!

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

Haha :P Quality over quantity Shelly

I'm busy enough with the lovely women on here.

Nothing against bi or gay guys what ever floats peoples boats

if you saw some of the messages I'm not sure you'd say that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report, report, report!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he say how much, where, what time and was it cash, cash is king.cash is hard come by these days.

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington


"Did he say how much, where, what time and was it cash, cash is king.cash is hard come by these days."

Lol can't say I wasn't tempted he seemed like such a charming guy lol

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington


"Report, report, report! "

I have

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's just part of the game. Had a money offer last week, the guy was also stupid enough to have a fake pic up. He was gone in no time after hitting the report button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get offered money what am I doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just put up a status about it myself, it must have been the same guy.

Must be, hopefully there's only one of them, unfortunately against the rules to name and shame "

I'm getting them weekly lately, honestly!! Was offered €50 for a bj last week, to be fair I've done more for less haha, also been offered €30 for my used knickers, plus one time a shop owner in Tipp offered to pay me €250 to just walk around his shop and occasionally flash him?!! True story!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just put up a status about it myself, it must have been the same guy.

Must be, hopefully there's only one of them, unfortunately against the rules to name and shame

I'm getting them weekly lately, honestly!! Was offered €50 for a bj last week, to be fair I've done more for less haha, also been offered €30 for my used knickers, plus one time a shop owner in Tipp offered to pay me €250 to just walk around his shop and occasionally flash him?!! True story!! "

omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently i was chatting to a couple in meath everything arranged to meet.Just about to leave that day rang them to tell them i am on my way at the last minute they said oh by the way its 300 euro to have fun with my partner are you ok with that?I replied with two words:Fuck off!

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington


"Recently i was chatting to a couple in meath everything arranged to meet.Just about to leave that day rang them to tell them i am on my way at the last minute they said oh by the way its 300 euro to have fun with my partner are you ok with that?I replied with two words:Fuck off!"

It seems to go both ways so

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By *otLips 69Woman
over a year ago

Here or There

I was offered a shopping trip to buy expensive underwear to wear for a night with one guy. Then he tried jewellery then cash that money wasn't an object for him I didn't even have to fk him. No way then a guy asked me to wear the same pants for a week taking pics at different times of the day with said pants after he'd pay me for them. I mean really who'd do that turned my stomach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get any offers..... I'm priceless

Oh wait...Maybe I'm worthless

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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Far from worthless yolo you are priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been offered money for a guy to watch us..... I said we'd pay you to watch us hahahahaha exhibitionista!!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Someone asked me to phone them when I said no they offered to buy me credit...dose that count?

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"Just put up a status about it myself, it must have been the same guy.

Must be, hopefully there's only one of them, unfortunately against the rules to name and shame

I'm getting them weekly lately, honestly!! Was offered €50 for a bj last week, to be fair I've done more for less haha, also been offered €30 for my used knickers, plus one time a shop owner in Tipp offered to pay me €250 to just walk around his shop and occasionally flash him?!! True story!! "

Oh is he still at it his first offer was to be a cleaner in his shop. Then he changed to the secret shopper. Black skirt, white blouse and black undies. He didn't want to touch just flashes as I shopped!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting for mutual fun seems a distant pastime these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats shocking thats happened to you.

It has happened to me to with a female and you think really are you on the right site.

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By *iscreet corkMan
over a year ago

CORK

Guys like that ruins it for the genuine guy that is looking for a respectful meet if its not hard enough to gain trust in the first place.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

They give us guys a bad name , I've had a few ladies cum on to me n then they drop d clanger d guys usually help me out , how much 100 euro r sum 150 , so women r as much to blame as guys . So there is women out there that give u ladies a bad name but most r ok

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I thought all my birthdays came at once but again I knew it was to good to b true , IDE have to buy pressies for her expensive ones . Where do these ladies think they are .

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Meeting for mutual fun seems a distant pastime these days

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Ahhh.. the good old days!! They were great.

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

no . I would take you up on that

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By *edserMan
over a year ago

drogheda


"We have been offered money for a guy to watch us..... I said we'd pay you to watch us hahahahaha exhibitionista!!"

I'd be glad to watch ye guys anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not the place to vent but why would somebody message you telling you they'll pay for a meet. I may be on this site but I'm not looking for cash, if i want to meet you i will, offering money really doesn't make me want to meet you, in fact quite the opposite "

Oh deffo report and block all the way .. some gobshites are confused as to what swinging is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got a mail from a young lad offering me a blowjob & he'd swallow, all for only €30!! 1st time I've been solicited on Fab!!

Needless to say, deleted and blocked..

I wouldn't mind but I got all excited when I saw I had a mail

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By *ubshelly OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portarlington


"Just got a mail from a young lad offering me a blowjob & he'd swallow, all for only €30!! 1st time I've been solicited on Fab!!

Needless to say, deleted and blocked..

I wouldn't mind but I got all excited when I saw I had a mail"

Haha made me spit out my tea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got a mail from a young lad offering me a blowjob & he'd swallow, all for only €30!! 1st time I've been solicited on Fab!!

Needless to say, deleted and blocked..

I wouldn't mind but I got all excited when I saw I had a mail"

That's crazy...terrible...what was his username...

..so I can block...block I say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got a mail from a young lad offering me a blowjob & he'd swallow, all for only €30!! 1st time I've been solicited on Fab!!

Needless to say, deleted and blocked..

I wouldn't mind but I got all excited when I saw I had a mail

Haha made me spit out my tea lol"

Did you think he was too dear or too cheap!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got a mail from a young lad offering me a blowjob & he'd swallow, all for only €30!! 1st time I've been solicited on Fab!!

Needless to say, deleted and blocked..

I wouldn't mind but I got all excited when I saw I had a mail

That's crazy...terrible...what was his username...

..so I can block...block I say... "

Ah shite, I deleted the mail but it was "luca" something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus..i was jokin...

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I was offered a shopping trip to buy expensive underwear to wear for a night with one guy. Then he tried jewellery then cash that money wasn't an object for him I didn't even have to fk him. No way then a guy asked me to wear the same pants for a week taking pics at different times of the day with said pants after he'd pay me for them. I mean really who'd do that turned my stomach. "

Think I had your shopping trip guy to. ..have to say I was tempted! LolI'd happily spend any mans money for him

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm open to offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same offer, cash for bj, cash for used knickers, cash to let him lick my pussy, and even more cash for sex. He was blocked instantly cheeky little shit

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By *imdm101Man
over a year ago

Galway

I haven't had any cash offers yet? am I doing something wrong? Does my profile need adjusting? Should I open a new "Sigh. Should I just quit now as no cash offers received" topic?

I will pay (in cash, of course) to anyone can provide me with answers to the above. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a person say several times at the last second they couldn't meet and then gave me a link to there escort site.

I backed away quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand guys who offers money. Cause if you count diner, clubbing and drinks or hottel - cash don't sound that off.

I know - everything cost these days but not our wifes. You just come over drop few mails, say few compliments and you get to fuck somebodys wife. On the way out you say Thank You. Before meet that wife clean the house and changed the sheets and prepped something to snack and make herself look stunning.

And then she gets fucked. Well good for you honey, don't you like it? You should feel appreciated, look what a big load you got in your throat, you see how badly he wanted you? Oh you wanted more? maybe a spin with a jet sky or flowers or other tips? Nhee, that would be not nice, only whores take back. After all you should be happy that you got fucked in a first place ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand guys who offers money. Cause if you count diner, clubbing and drinks or hottel - cash don't sound that off.

I know - everything cost these days but not our wifes. You just come over drop few mails, say few compliments and you get to fuck somebodys wife. On the way out you say Thank You. Before meet that wife clean the house and changed the sheets and prepped something to snack and make herself look stunning.

And then she gets fucked. Well good for you honey, don't you like it? You should feel appreciated, look what a big load you got in your throat, you see how badly he wanted you? Oh you wanted more? maybe a spin with a jet sky or flowers or other tips? Nhee, that would be not nice, only whores take back. After all you should be happy that you got fucked in a first place ...

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Totally agree. Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not saying that we want your money, just wanted to point out some other angles ...

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Would never arrive at someones home empty handed.

And that dont matter if its for a cuppa and a chat or a play date.

If someone invites you into their home its the least you can do in my opinion.

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