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Why did you start swinging?

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By *ougarbelfast OP   Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Hi there

I am just curious to see why you started swinging as I am sure lots of people started for different reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're just plain greedy in this house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exploring my sexuality and pushing back my boundries. And....I;m a horny wee fucker

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By *ougarbelfast OP   Woman
over a year ago

belfast

I thought it may of been for other reasons than greed or horniness lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you'll get more reasons when more people come on, just the greedy horny ones got here first.....RAWR!!! lol

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By *ilywhiteWoman
over a year ago

Athy

Out of boredom and because i was very quiet in my teens and had sex wit one lad my hubby til now he he he!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about only having sex with the miss once a month, and no foreplay aloud,does that justify me being here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ya see its like this did u ever hear the story about the old bull and the young bull lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They double teamed the cow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" The old bull n young bull were walking down the field 1 day, and the young bull said "look at all them cows at the bottom of that field, lets run down and we'll ride 1 o em", the old bull said "ive a better idea, lets walk down n ride em all"

lol

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By *picyMan
over a year ago

dublin/kildare

wel sort of fell into this tbh herself wanted 2 c wat it was like wit another women an ask wud i hold her hand an show her i agreed an now we ended up ere both exploring new adventures together its great brings relationship 2 a whole other level i think,

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By *ougarbelfast OP   Woman
over a year ago

belfast

So with that all said so far do you think that now you are swingers it has helped your relationship and that it is a more honest relationship you have with your partner/husband.

I am not sure what I do is considered as swinging as I enjoy the younger guy (but only if I fancy him of course) my husband has no problem with that. But I would never cheat on him I don't have to. And he does not meet with other women. We have had one threesome which I enjoyed (I know that was swinging the threesome with my husband and another young guy that is LOL )

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

we started it because well erm we dont know why, we joined to see what the site was about and over a year later we are still here and loving every min of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

boredem and to explore new things but i think its great that all the couples here have such a good strong relationship where they can enjoy it and nothing comes between them you are lucky cherish each other i hope i can have that some day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this because I just don't believe monogamy is a natural thing. I would prefer to enjoy this lifestyle with a partner but thus far, I haven't found anyone whom is secure enough to be in a relationship with and feel as I do about monogamy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i shall be very honest and say i haven't a clue! I said i would try and see what happens! I do enjoy it and have met some cool people who are brill in the sack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started swinging - purely I felt there was something lacking in the relationship I'd been in for a number of years - It was going nowhere and by sheer luck

I got chatting to a mate on MSN and he said have you checked out this website (not FAB) but another site. I did check it out and enjoyed the banter.

Over time, I split from my partner, enjoyed and experienced some wonderful meets and some not so wonderful - but sure we all learn.

I then settled down with a fabulous sexy lady, married..... but unfortunately she became very ill and hospitalised.

I've backed of a tad from swinging in essence, but periodically need my fix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omitted to say, I married her xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a crush on a fella from work, before we married. it kinda got too much for me to handle and i told brendan how i felt. he was understanding about it and suggested swinning as we been talking about it for a while. i was afraid and we decided to join up at the site here when we google swinging this site came up. now i love it so much and we both are better in our marriage and i relaise that love with brendan is special and i can shag people without love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure swinging has made our relationship more honest. It was always honest don't think swinging would have worked so well for us if it wasn't. For us it's added a new demension to an already great sex life and as Macmally said what you have with your partner is special however awesome the sex is with others plus Waits picked up a few tricks

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By *ougarbelfast OP   Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Well I certainly know that I enjoy meeting the younger guys and knowing that my husband is not going to give me a hard time because I enjoy sex with younger guys is great (he is three years younger than me ). I know to me it means my relationship will never go stale as he can get pretty excited as well knowing that I am having a good time with a younger male.

I still think at my age there are things I and we would like to try sexually in the I hope very near future.

Thank you to you all for your honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started off just looking around casual ad's, after about two years with no luck one reply I got mentioned this site. I find that I can be more honest about what I'm into this way, and learn more about myself in the process, as well as making some good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS I love older women too Cougar, so if you're Interested I'd love to be able to see your profile, I can't, have you blocked me for some reason?

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By *ick0305Man
over a year ago

plymouth

we started because of my sexuality (bi fem) we use to talk dirty to each other whilst making out and decided to live out what we could live with so here we r , loving it, loving it so much we are opening up our own club, and met some fantastic ppl so far andcant wait for all those we r yet to meet , your only here once so enjoy it whilst your body parts still function lol x happy hunting guys xxx

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By *ougarbelfast OP   Woman
over a year ago

belfast


"PS I love older women too Cougar, so if you're Interested I'd love to be able to see your profile, I can't, have you blocked me for some reason?"

Sorry you are too young while I like younger men I have an age limit I won't go below.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS I love older women too Cougar, so if you're Interested I'd love to be able to see your profile, I can't, have you blocked me for some reason?

Sorry you are too young while I like younger men I have an age limit I won't go below.

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Awww that's a shame.

I've seen worse though, was turned because of my age not too long ago by a woman who's looking 21+

Two months off? Seriously?

There's sticking to an age limit and then there's being obsessive lol

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By *ougarbelfast OP   Woman
over a year ago

belfast


"Awww that's a shame.

I've seen worse though, was turned because of my age not too long ago by a woman who's looking 21+

Two months off? Seriously?

There's sticking to an age limit and then there's being obsessive lol"

I don't go below 28 so you are a brave bit off that. Anyway thats not what this thread is supposed to be about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because of being d*unk when my mate brought me home to his then girlfriend

Never looked back since

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over a year ago


"Not sure swinging has made our relationship more honest. It was always honest don't think swinging would have worked so well for us if it wasn't. For us it's added a new demension to an already great sex life and as Macmally said what you have with your partner is special however awesome the sex is with others plus Waits picked up a few tricks "

There's nothing that man doesn't already know

Oh and glad to have been the catalyst

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